Just reading the BW thread - "Will U Bow Down To Family Pressure To Get Married With A Girl" and saw the post by chelseasian @ http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=19062&view=findpost&p=179609 You see the right corner, there is a "Green 1" (as at 11/10/2010 10:58), click on the number, you can see that Mandrake has given chelseasian a positive reputation. Click on chelseasian's nick/avatar, you can see that he has a positive reputation shown in his profile page. Thanks for using the reputation system constructively ! Cheers !