Aiyo, u r giving yrself too much credit. if U r what u said "gay written all over me ; My voice disclosed my identity, my action speaks volume", then u r one of those who behave more 'girly' than a typical female. Have u even consider the alternative, they stare at you because u look and act like a FREAK! ""Was at NTUC queuing up to pay for my item when the opposition cashier decided to open up her counter and called out to me: "Miss, you can pay here!!" *Sigh* "" There is nothing to *sigh*. U probably, dress like one, walk like one, talk like one and u sigh when people call u "Miss"?