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ignore it. don't embarasse him. he'll come out to you when he's ready. until then, just be the cool openminded uncle.

Recently, I went to a gay sauna (which I won't name to protect its privacy) with a friend (let's call him Jay) who has "Yin Yang Eyes" (can see spirits which most of us can't). He has been learning Taoism since childhood because both his father and grandfather were famous Taoist priests. However, he is now working as a IT Engineer instead of Taoist priest because his younger brother had succeeded his father. In simple words, he comes from a family of professional Taoist priests. It was the the first time he ever visited a gay sauna, and this was what happened and what he told me. We went into the steam room to relax because the sauna was not crowded in the day time. We were chatting for 10 minutes or so, then Jay wasn't behaving normally. He was mumbling at the wall. At first, I thought he was talking to me. After awhile, I thought it was strange and asked him what he's doing. He told me to get out first and wait for him near the lockers. I did as told. After about 20 minutes, Jay came out and told me to leave the place immediately. He said he'd tell me the reason after getting out. After leaving the sauna, he told me that he saw a few ghosts inside the steam room. They were gay ghosts who were cruising inside the sauna like we human beings were doing! Even after dying, certain gay ghosts did not reincarnate but became ghosts who stay on Earth. They couldn't kick the habit of cruising, so they went to such places to cruise at other gay ghosts. Sometimes, when we human ejaculate, these ghosts also derive life forces from our sperm which increase their energy level. If these ghosts suck a lot of life forces from a human being, that persons' life forces would be dramatically affected, and that means he may live a shorter lifespan, become less energetic or even become unlucky. Some older gay ghosts could suck life forces from us even if we don't ejaculate by sucking our dicks. Our life forces could be sucked out from our dick this way, even if we don't ejaculate. This is amazing! Jay explains that if we visit such places often and a lot of our life forces are sucked out by these dick-sucking ghosts, we could feel very tired the next day, even if we didn't have any sex. The reason is because our life forces had been sucked dry. He told me that he already noticed a few ghosts when he first entered the sauna but did not tell me so that I wouldn't be scared. The reason why he stayed for so long in the steam room was because he was talking with a very violent spirit who just died inside that sauna. His spirit was trapped inside the sauna and he wants to find a 'replacement'. For certain ghosts who die of mishap, they need to find a 'replacement' or another person to die and become a ghost to haunt the same place in order to reincarnate. These replacement-hunting ghosts are most commonly found in roads where drivers had died tragically in traffic accidents. However, they can also be found in other places where people had died tragically and are haunting the place because they can't reincarnate. After Jay told me about these stories, I recalled that another friend who visited another sauna told me before that he saw ghosts there. I guess I believe what they are saying since they didn't know each other but told me the same thing. So I asked Jay what I could do to avoid being harmed or sucked by the gay ghosts. He told me to wear his amulet (fu) on my neck. These ghosts like to kill their prey by suffocating them. Sometimes, these ghosts try to suffocate their victims who are asleep by pressing on their chests. The victims who die would seem to have died of heart attack, but the real reason is "Ghost Suffocation". So, wearing a powerful protective amulet over our chest can protect us from such suffocation. Second, the funny thing is he also recommended covering our dick area with a amulet. He told me that he could draw an amulet on my underwear which does the trick. But I told him it would look too funny in sauna. He said that if I don't protect my dick using an amulet, there is no way to prevent my life forces from being sucked. The other option is to tattoo amulet on the dick. I think none of his solutions is acceptable, so I told him I would try not to stay overnight in sauna instead.

The terms and definitions vary when used by caucasians and asians. For example, there's otter (slim hairy man) but I've hardly heard anyone used the term in Asia. And everyone has their own individual yardstick so it's all very confusing. I've been woofed and described in numerous ways - little bear, small g-man, cub, etc - but what really matters is you like what you see and rock each other's world

For robin, if he is very good, i guessed he has the right to charge high. Nowadays, cheap doesn't mean it is good. As customers if we don't have the budget, then either go for a cheaper one or save longer to go to him. I realised it is quite difficult to find really good masseurs. Frankly speaking I really don't trust those who charge to cheaply. Likewise, I also don't think those charging high are tat good. For example, spas, they charged high but do you think the staff are good? Not really. Most of hte time, they will employ cute goodlking guys to attract us. SOme of us when massage by goodlking guys, even if he is subpar, you are already mentally convinced to say good things about him. Well, to each his own. THat's why alot of us here said before, massage is very personal. Funny thing is when a certain masseur disappear for so long, all start to ask for him. When he is around, less people bother to even visit him. Think about it, some of those long lost masseurs were working full time as masseurs and can't really survive and had to look for a full time job. Plus now with all the china boys and some charging at such ridiculous rates, those good ones, most likely will also disappear soon. Anyway, this is life.