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1. Dump your boyfriend because he deserves it. He is not worthy of a person like you. You are Too Good for him NOW. 2. Go out and party. Fxxk around. Now you can choose and pick who you want. You deserve it. After all, you spent 3 miserable years beating yourself into shape and getting all hunky dory. 3. At '35', you still got another 10 more years till you are '45' to decide if you should settle down. I think the above are 'WORDS' you would like to HEAR from 'strangers' who have no idea what they are saying right? YOUR LIFE, YOUR CHOICE. Just make sure you don't wake up years later and realised that you WERE lucky to have a bf that accepts you for who you are, WHICH you GAVE UP. So you have grown from being a person with 'personality' to someone who is a brainless himbo. I bet your bf must be suffering from your disgusted look of him being fat, old and ugly. (since you "do not have the heart to tell him that") Go figure.

True love is hard to find in this circle. Body and Looks governs in this circle. But these are not permanent. Unless ur heart has changed, else i feel that it is really fortunate for u to meet such bf.

To my opinion, 10 years ago he dated you because you say he like your character, despite your outlook wasn't appealing to many others last time. This kind of man is hard to find nowadays, as many go for body and lust once they had enough will change a new bf and new fun. Both of you age 44yo and just because now he wasn't as attactive as you are and you decided to leave. Well it's your life and it's your choice. To me, i wanted someone to care for me and each other. Just don't regret when you make your choice and many years down the road, you came to realise that your "ex" is still the best. Best wishes.

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Skinny guys are easier to get raped. If you are muscular, then it's not so easy.

It is admirable that you put in effort for self improvement. Love or hate it, we are in the AJ world. I perfectly understand your "ugly duckling transformed to a swan" issue. I've lived through that. Despite what others say about intergrity, honour, committment, etc. what the heck, just go and do what you feel. You only live for once. All these work outs and sacrifices need pay off. What's the use of looking good if there is no one to look at you?

10 years ago, I was chunky. Not fat but chubby. I had a nice friendly round moon face. Met my boyfriend who loved to me to death despite telling me that he was not 100% into me because he was not attracted to me. NO idea why he dated me - he says it's my personality. After 3 years of hard work in the gym and diet, my friends won’t recognize me now. My face became angular – with nice cheekbones. I have a glow on my face. And to top it all, nice pecs, v-shape back, perfect delts, biceps, triceps, and shoulders and a 6 pack. Before this, the goodlooking guys at the gym would not look at me. Most people who approached me were pretty average. Now, the goodlooking guys talk to me and ask me out. I’m now 44 by the way but could pass of as 35. So many guys ask me out anywhere I go. It is out of control. It's like I went from a being a regular at Shogun to becoming the $!^*|-type. My boyfriend on the other hand became fat and is also 44 (but looks 55); I do not have the heart to tell him that I am not attracted to him. I do love him – unfortunately – I also do want to sleep with all these guys. I never had sex with the model-types! What to do? Open relationship?