If this place isn't bitchy, then I will be worried whether this is a gay forum. The unique thing about being gay is,,,they are both haters and lovers. If you are still struggling with gay scene, than you need help, I mean serious psychological help. Otherwise, take whatever you came across here with a container of salt and mingle like it is. Who knows, among those hardcore whiners and haters, one may turn out to be your unexpected future lover. If you love honey, be prepared to be sting by the bees here. Rest assured, it won't kill you either because we ain't dangerous.