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I bring this up because to me it is a root cause of why FT even features. FT was coined by the government because they believed that Singapore needed to grow to 6.5 million. Where they get this critical mass figure, I don't know. But their basic thinking is: In order to prosper, we need to be a global city (Make the pie bigger) Therefore we need to increase population size To increase population size, you not only need people in the lower paying jobs, but also higher paying jobs. For the lower paying jobs, no problem, Singaporeans are already used to them as maids, labourers etc. But in order for the population to accept immigrants that they may potentially view as competing with them for jobs and resources, the coin the term "Foreign Talent". This is to convey the idea that these people are somehow needed for our growth. But do we all agree that the pie needs to be grown at all? Must ape the size of HK in order to compete with HK? Can we not go our own way rather than copy someone else and always be first at being second? Now that there is so much dissatisfaction, Singaporeans must revisit the fundamental question. Will they be happy with a bigger slice of a smaller pie? Or do they want a smaller slice of a bigger pie? My personal opinion is that I would go for the former. I would rather have less satistical GDP, but less immigration, especially from the FT sector. In the end the bigger pie benefits mostly the glowing statistics of our government planners. But it does not necessarily mean a better life for Singaporeans. This is why I eagerly anticipate a change in the political climate where a diversity of views is truly debated and decided on by the population. Rather than a handful of government bureaucrats making these decisions for us, then telling us it is for our own good. The time is near, I am patient.

The essence of gay love is SPERM. It 'rushes' through your brains when you see a hot guy. Your heart rate goes up and you pupil dilates, your dick tingles and you brain stop thinking. Men will usually be governed by their dicks. Of course I am talking about the other essence. That said, about 99% of men are driven by it. The other 1% most probably are impotent. There is no such thing as gay love, love is love, it's neutral regardless of race, gender or sexual orientation. I believe you are asking; What are gay men looking for? If that is the question you are asking, I would say, it differs from person to person; On one end, there are men who are looking for Sex, on the extreme opposite end, there are men who would only want love. The rest will just fall between the 2 extreme. And there are those who wants the best of everything, they want both sex and love.

The best job in the world is any job that you can find which you would be enjoying. The passion has to be there, your objectives are being met and of course you wake up smiling and looking forward to start the day fresh and to work It can be any job

Be careful what you wish for - my ex-classmate from secondary school is now a CEO with his own company - he has a few cars, his own house with a pool yet he works harder than anyone else in his company - he works 7 days a week, 12 hours a day on average because his business is everything to him and I look at him like, woah, respect for the pool and the flashy cars man, but can you relax for an evening so us old friends can just sit down and chill over a teh-si and catch up? The last time I caught up with him, he was on the run, putting together this amazing project and I was fascinated to see him in action but we only really talked when we were in his car, stuck in traffic! Aiyoh ... so please don't imagine that being a big boss = loads of free time.

and this is blowing wind, not temasek review or yahoo singapore or online citizen. please take your politics elsewhere, i rather read what turns me on abt man and gays than whoever is trying to spread political messages here. and PE and GE is over, get a grip of your cock and shoot your sperm if you are that repressed.

Now hold on a minute - what have you got against Malaysians who have chosen to work in Singapore? There are thousands of Malaysians who do work in Singapore. The government has not released official figures but it is estimated to be between 500,000 to 600,000 Malaysians working in Singapore - including approximately 150,000 who commute in from Johor. You have just insulted all the Malaysian diaspora in Singapore as well - I am appalled at what you've said. My dad is one of these Malaysians who have chosen to live in Singapore. You should be flattered that Malaysians like Singapore and think it's a nice place - rather than start building up walls, creating this 'us' vs 'them' mindset. Like, do you even have friends who are Malaysian? What have you got against Malaysians? A quick geography lesson here: Malaysia is a big country, it is not uncommon for someone from Sarawak to move to KL for university or from Pahang to Penang for a job. Most Malaysians don't feel this need, "If I was born in Ipoh, I must live and work in Ipoh all my life or else I am considered a quitter who has abandoned my Ipoh roots." No, they think nothing about taking up a job in KL or Singapore if the right opportunity comes along. Isabella Loh is the CEO of Singapore zoo - not that I condone her actions in the Halloween case - but let me ask you this: if there were any other management experts in Singapore with a keen understanding of how to run a zoo successfully, would Mandai zoo have chosen to employ a Malaysian over a more credible local Singaporean candidate? And someone who is a CEO of a major tourist attraction in Singapore and heading up a division within Shell Singapore - by most standards, she's a remarkably capable person who has achieved loads, far more than you ever will in this lifetime. And if she is a loser by your standards, then goodness me, what does that make you - by your standards? Are you the CEO of an international conglomerate owning several blue chip MNCs? Be careful who you call a loser - because people will start comparing you to this 'loser' and you don't wanna go down that road. I judge Ms Loh by what she has achieved, not by her nationality or where she was born.

I like how it's automatically assumed that the guy on the receiving end is the "bottom".

I thought so too! Dun worry, you're not the only one!

Maybe not so much in case of real mutual love... And age gap is a relative notion: 10 years gap is considerable when you are 20, but not so important when you are 50... I'm 10 years older than my bf, and we have been in love for 10 years now. Good luck to all of you

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