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Dear Forum Owner / Moderators, Through the years, BW has indeed become quite an insitution, and for this I thank and congratulate you. The fact is that BW has almost become the defacto gay forum in Sg, and has grown beyond the stated aims of a place for "mature gay men". I do think that now the majority of members / users are less than 35 years old? My question are: Does BW intend to adapt to the need of users that find their way to BW, or does BW intend to cater to a defined target audience? Do you have any plans for the future of BW? Thanks, SP

Some users ass pix really makes me feel virginal looks nicer and turning me straight. I really have to read some posting trying not to look at the users pix. Shouldn't offensive user pix be ban in forum.

Seems like no one's coming over

If you investigate deeper, its just a hoax. There was no cockroaches in Keybox. He created this hoax as a revenge against Keybox, because he had a conflict with the management there when he was employed by them. Met him before and he told me himself. The real person is one who likes to use money and power to get the guys he desires. Even I wasn't spared. Unfortunately he needs to look at himself in the mirror and try harder. Nasty petty and vindictive. Thats all I can say.

You literally can't ban them totally to eradicate however inconveniences they may have caused here. Because given sufficient time, they can return here but under a different profile. Remember last year, there was one famous member who rattled too much, was flamed by others, accused Keybox of the cockroach incident, and was eventually banned by the mods for two weeks ? He is still active here, but under another profile . But I should not reveal who he is.

I cant believe it. Been away for more than a week and nobody even ask abt me. GM been away for a few days and already a thread is up asking where he is....

Scruff has been banned indefinitely by me. All his posts and all topics started by him will be hidden too. He admit to being a troll and trolls are not welcome here. Have a nice day.

I have removed Scruff's pic because of readers's request via various threads and ALSO I personally find it disgusting. Scruff, you admit you are an internet troll and trolls exist just to create troubles. Exist peacefully amongst us or the next time you will be banned. Indefinitely. Don't forget to be happy.

hope the administrator ban all these so-called massage boy posting their 'sex' business here to con people

Most people associate top as being dominant and controlling. But I find that the reverse can be extremely turn on too. One of my bottom ever tied me on bed when I was asleep at night. And in the morning, he woke up by playing with my cock and my nipples. Then he rode on my dick until I was about to cum. And then he stood up, got a small cup and made me cum into the cup. He repeated that for 4 times and collected all my cum in the cup. It was about half of the cup in the end. Afterwards he drank half of the cum in the cup and gave that slutty mouth watered look, and then forced the remaining cum into my mouth. I was completely turned off by then so I tried to spit out as much as possible. But still swallowed some of the cum because he pressed on my ball and the pain made me opened my throat. Didn't stop at that, he took some of the cum on my face which I couldn't swallow and use it to lubricate my arse and finger me. That was somehow so erotic that I got hard when being fingered. It was such a humiliating moment but I got excited in the end.

Joke: That’s me before ....? Whilst enjoying a drink with a buddy one night, this guy decides to try his luck with an attractive young girl sitting alone by the bar. To his surprise, she asks him to join her for a drink and eventually asks him if he'd like to come back to her place. The pair jump into a taxi and go back to her place. Later, the young man pulls out a cigarette from his jeans and searches for his lighter. Unable to find it, he asks the girl if she has one at hand. "There might be some matches in the top drawer," she replies. Opening the drawer of the bedside table, he finds a box of matches sitting neatly on top of a framed picture of another man. Naturally, the guy begins to worry. "Is this your husband?" he inquires nervously. "No, silly," she replies, snuggling up to him. "Your boyfriend then?" "No, don't be silly," she says, nibbling away at his ear. "Well, who is he then?" demands the bewildered fellow. Calmly, the girl takes a match, strikes it across the side of her face and replies, "That's me before the operation."

Joke: Intimate Life After hearing a couple's complaints that their intimate life wasn't what it used to be, the sex counsellor suggested they vary their position. "For example," he suggested, "you might try the wheelbarrow. Lift her legs from behind and off you go." The eager husband was all for trying this new idea as soon as they got home. "Well, okay," the hesitant wife agreed, "but on two conditions. First, if it hurts you have to stop right away, and second..." she continued, "you have to promise we won't go past my parents' house."

Ok I get it... it's the context that needs to be established. So, I am going to break it down here Context In much of North America, Europe and Australia and New Zealand, discrimination in any way is not seen as acceptable. On this basis, many in the gay community and gay rights movement have argued that gays and lesbians should not be discriminated against. This, I have gathered, is slightly different in Singapore where for example, some discrimination seem to be tolerated and even accepted by pockets of that community, on the basis of tradition, culture and stability (Again, not saying that's everyone, just a general thing and I get that). So, back to the Western World of the author above, the context is one where gay men will not accept discrimination against gay men. They will shout this loud and clear and say that it's not acceptable. And yet, at the same time, these same people will be the ones who think it's ok to discriminate by saying "No blacks, no asians" based on stereotyping. So, what the author is really pointing to is that as gay man, you can't fight against discrimination from the straight world if you yourself discriminate against other minority groups (in this case blacks, asians etc.). He is not telling people not to worry about the str8 world. From years of looking at BW for example... this is less the case in the BW Community (though it does happen in other ways). For example, I don't see BW profiles of postings that say "No Chinese" or "No Indians please, no offence" or "No Malays" and even "No Ang Mohs please". Posters on BW are more sensible than that and less 'prejudiced' in many ways and are more likely to say "I prefer Chn" or even "I prefer UC" haha. This is not the case in many Western gay communities where there are countless profiles that seem to think it's ok to be prejudiced based on stereotypes (this is different to preference). If you can't tell the difference... really, I strongly recommend the racial sexism sux website. Minorities in Communities Another part of the story that provides the context for the above article is the how minorities exist within communities. Let me just say, from experience, and from research, that it is very hard for minority communities when they read things that say "No (insert minority group)" which outright rejects them without any interest in getting to know them. This is nothing short of discrimination. Confident Individuals within Minority Communities Having been involved in this area for many years, I have come across many confident individuals within the Chinese gay community in the Western World who would say "Who cares... I know who I am and it doesn't affect me. This is a superficial thing. I won't let it bother me." That's really fantastic and great for these people. However, I'd like to think that as part of a supportive community, we should also think about the younger, less experienced members of our communities. What must it be like if you are not sure about your sexuality in small town America, where you think everyone's str8 and you are hiding it all as a teenager and you come across the one person on say Grindr for the first time, and it says NO ASIAN, and you are Asian... so not only do you feel ostracised by the wider community - you get the message that even the gays hate you... where do you go? Trust me.. I am not being dramatic... I have seen it. The Article once again So... back to the article. This is written by a gay man asking gay society and community (particularly in the Western world) to not discriminate its own members. That's the focus of the article... it's not saying don't worry about the str8 world. It's saying... YES, we know that the str8 world discriminates - there's HEAPS of others writing about that - but let's look at what WE ourselves are doing - we shouldn't discriminate too. As for it being superficial - yes, it may seem so for those who are confident and are in a majority group - but when you are a minority in community - the whole tone changes. Case in point, I know many confident young Singaporeans who would not worry about this while in Singapore but when they go overseas and are told to "go home and no asians" - they too get terribly upset and offended. Lastly - there is a difference between preference and prejudice... but that's a whole different story. Ok I am going to stop now... my head hurts

Well, if you're stupid, you deserve to be scolded.

There is only one local film that showcased an erected cock, with the guy stroking it.