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I considered myself lucky not to be in the era where I will be pressured to get married. And I realised that I am gay at 17 and only accepted myself as gay at 27. So, i instinctively chose not to marry. As the eldest in the family, I do feel that my family and relatives do hope that I bring a girl back, and as in any Asian family, during CNY or wedding dinners, etc. I will be questioned why am I still single and why I did not bring someone back to meet the parents. I would tell give them the excuse, that I won't married for marriage's sake. I can understand that when we come to a certain age, we will be given direct or indirect pressure to marry. I chose to ignore these pressure and to do what I felt is the best options for me. I used to condemn those married gays who have extra marital affairs, and after fucking enough married gays and talking to them later, I begin to understand why they chose to marry. some marred out of family /societal pressure, some married because they really want a family, some of them married to have a cover to hide their gayness. some married to get inheritances, etc Then there are some, like my married friend, blur blur and do the right thing by getting married and only after married, realises that he also like men and wants a male partner as a confidant and enjoys sex with men. Whatever their reasons, we will not be able to understand their happiness or pain as a married gay and how complicated their lives can be. My married friend told me that he knows he is risking his marriage but he felt lonely without having someone he can talk to that understands him and can share his stories to. I will always keeps reminding him not to throw caution to the air as his world would collapse should his family finds out. So he chose to just go sauna for his fun and when he needs to talk, he will call me up for coffee. Then, there are those who would be married and yet goes around having fun or orgies with men but keeps telling people they are discreet, etc. Who are we to judge them. As men, most men are horny, you either fuck a woman or a man, or for some married gays, they need someone to fuck them, where their wife are unable to do. So live and let live. It's their life and they will have to clear their own shit and reap their own karma, good or bad.

Just trying my luck here, and hope this works. You knew me through this forum. We chatted for almost a month before you disappeared into thin air. I understand where you are coming from that perhaps you needed to clear your chats due to the issues you are facing. Tried to text you on tele thereafter but no replies. Perhaps you have deleted your account due to that. If you are here and read this, I really hope you are safe and nobody got hurt. I am still hoping we can reconnect again. A few details about you: you live in Kembangan, you drive, you love trailing, you are 29 (30 this year), you love my cats and felt very cheered up seeing my cat photos, and the last time I heard from you was during New Year’s Eve (31 December 2023). Sincerely would want to be a listening ear and a true friend for you. Your tele heading is E**m Eh**, and your ID is hidden. Do reach me on tele at yisfun89. Or you can send me a short email at itisme1989@icloud.com if you are no more using tele. I am still hoping for the best for you 🙏

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It's been a long time since I last swam at a public pool on weekends. Decided to try this morning at KBSC, and got the shock of my life. The pool was super busy... like a zoo/tourist attraction. I thought by going early I would be able to have a proper swim, and boy was I so wrong. It was already thronging with kids and their parents/guardians. The adult pool was divided in three and got kids swimming the breadth and presumably learning how tread water. No lap swimming. Many many elder folks as well. Since when do they cut the pool up by the breadths? It was a nightmare - the first and last time I am going to KBSC on a weekend morning. I got desperate and went to do my laps at the learning pool while it was still relatively empty. But it was so shallow each time I do a stroke, my fingers hit the floor. Finally pushed through my 20 laps, quickly got out, and was leaving when this time I saw 12 or so teenagers seated together waiting for some course to start. Plastic folders were being distributed. Have we reached a point where we are trying to do too much at a swimming pool, that everyone is cheek by jowl at the risk of kicking each other's faces in the water? Made a dash for the showers, and the final straw as I was leaving was this SportSg notice saying... we have to change in the cubicle in the men's shower cos of decency issues. Which man is offended by a dangling cock in a men's shower room? It's not like I am playing with my kkj! Duh!

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Hi all, 44 chn, 181 ,87kg, local Chinese here. Hope to Seek regular straight acting Top buddies [bi, married r welcome] to hang out with. For meals, coffee etc. Prefer someone 40 and above - Matured, intelligent, discreet and must be straight acting. Private message me to get connected.

That is my experience, yes. Not to say that there aren't any slim young guys there, but it is more likely those guys do not mind, or are actively seeking, chubbier, older men. I am a slightly overweight, older man, and I have had fun with younger, slimmer men in Heaven. Yup, they took me to heaven and back, as did I to them.

I do feel bad for men who have to remain closeted under the guise of a hetero-marriage to pass off as straight. There is undeniable pressure in Singapore to be part of the heterosexual norm. So, unsurprisingly, many gay men choose to remain closeted and marry. The problem is that the gay man choose not to be honest with himself and his wife. All of the heartaches and consequences that ensued are preventable.

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Last year, one of my married friend finally settled his case with his ex-wife who caught him having an affair with a gay boyfriend. It was a bad divorce, the wife got half the money from the proceed of his house and almost much of his other half of his proceed from the sale for other payments and he still has to pay alimonies. He told me that his wife had instigated his children not to get in touch with him. When he told me about his failed marriage, I can sense much hate for his ex-wife. He is lucky to have his current bf that had been with him for many years, they even have a company together. I wonder how many married gays had been found out for having gay affair and had a bad divorce and how you overcome it?

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Latest climate projections mapped out by the Centre for Climate Research Singapore: By 2100, Singapore could possibly face very hot days, where daily maximum temperatures exceed 35 degrees Celsius, for up to 351 days in a year… By then majority of us will be gone and this site will probably rename as “Blowing Hot Wind”…

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3) AK Man Spa https://www.akmanspa.com/ I saw someone posted this name in the previous post and checked this site out. Looking at the website, most of them are muscular, which got me curious to try out. In fact, I tried 2 of them, one is "Glen" and the other is "Wayne". For those who are really into muscular dudes, you may want to try them out. I chose 90 mins for both masseurs (I guess I should have chosen 2 hours ) Again, the venue of the massage is discreet, so once you have reached outside the address, you will need to inform the masseur via line that you've reached. I was brought in by the masseurs and of course, the standard ritual (shower, then lie down), then masseur of course will do the normal massage for some 30-45 mins. Both started with dry pressing, followed by oil. The only disadvantage of going during winter is that the massage oil would turn cold very quickly once the masseur applied them on your body. I was shivering but the only good point is that the oil part was faster. For Glen, his is more on the "follow-SOP" kind- would do dry-press, oil, followed by B2B massage, where it started off to proceed to the deed. As we did not request for the exact kind of ending I wanted, but still ended I was the happy one. NB: Glenn was quite chatty fella as well (when he was serving me). For Wayne, after the back massage, he proceeded with the service without the B2B massage. I did the full service with him and was the happy one. Of course, tips were required for both services. Ambience: 7/10 (they made some effort to do up the interior. The only minus point is no heater ) Skills:9/10 for both Glenn and Wayne Service: 9/10

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While some don't go to any sauna due to specific reasons (discreet, scared to walk around nude, pretend to be very atas,...) don't believe what you hear... I met to many guys telling me they are in monogamous relationships in such places or overseas... 😂 Some guys tell you they never go to sauna at all, but then you see them there or at a gay bar someone says hello to them and tells that they met at the sauna.... It is same with those monogamous relationships but the in KL you see one of the couple on grindr.... lol

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Reception already inside..still can go in from the previous enrance.. and there's another entry beside mother earth restaurant inside main lobby of d'arena..

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When I was in KakiKu last time, the owner/manager had a word with some people who were "playing" in the jacuzzi. He indicated that, if they want to play, they should do so in some place not quite so noticeable. The steam room, on the other hand, is pretty active because it is darker and the steam somewhat hides the activities going on in that room. Yes, guilty as charged. Been there, done that.

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Sorry to hear about your brother. Hope he had since recovered from the incident. I usually don't judge about other's action. Each of these people will have to answer for their action. As I had spoken to a couple of married men and from a reliable source, I know there are many married gay men that are on Telegram (see personals in BW) that hookup with other married gay men for fun and with what I was told, these gay married men leads very complicated lives and have orgies amongst themselves, etc. The reason I asked the question is because I think many married gays have different life's path and maybe some of these married gays, found a way to have a good married life and also have a gay boyfriend. Or how they overcome being in the center of the storm and how his ex-wife, kids, both families reacted to his exposure for having an affair with other gay men.

Above all, be aware of being caught up in a materialistic lifestyle

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Date: 5th Jan 2024 (Fri)-Today Time: 12.30pm to 1.45pm Place: Upper Serangoon Shopping Centre / Opposite the Flat void deck Hi, To the guy in blue tee. We met at level 2 and the toilet. You even smile at me twice. After that, you went to level 3 to have your lunch. I left and was stuck at the opposite flat void deck where we met again. You smile at me again and I smile back. Wanted to say "HI" to you but you seem rushing and hop into your car. If you saw this message, do message me. Would like to know you 🙂 Regards

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Hi, I'm 34/177/83 stocky Top Chinese. Looking for long term relation who shares common interests like enjoying food, travel around, go café just to sit down enjoy the aircon and to go swimming or even hiking. Straight acting. Willing to accompany each other. anyone can just message me

Next schedule running we join Rock The Naked Truth's Shirtless Run 2024 on 6:30am Saturday 6/1/2024 meeting point location is at HomeTeamNS Bedok Reservoir, 900 Bedok North Rd, Singapore 479994. Anyone interested PM me. Running distance is around 5km. Come and join our all gay running group where there is no race or age or nationality restriction. My line id is yoyowiz Note: This is a registered paid run and topless for guys is mandatory. Come join us if you have already registered for this shirtless run

Krubb, like many other saunas, do not market itself publicly as a gay sex centre or a fuck joint. Men sex happens in there. Whether it happens to you or not, that would be another question altogether.

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Of course, not lah. The topic is my sexcapade with married men and I only need to write till that. We did have a short period of notti sex but my friend will always feel "imbalance" when he can't help himself and ended up getting fucked by me. He will tell me that he is not bottom, and don't like and don't want to turn to bottom. But whenever we meet, he cannot help himself and after I hit all his sensitive areas, he will eventually end up getting fucked. We did not become close or bf because I do not believe in breaking up a family and I will always try to educate my married friend not to fall in love with guys he likes and that he should think about his family. Initially, he told me that he wants to have a relationship with a guy and yet maintain his family. Over the years he tried and once he found someone, but that guy was very controlling and eventually that guy threatens to out his relationship to his wife, he woke up and managed to call off that relationship. Nowadays he only goes for fun and not thinking of having a relationship with another guy. I feel that for any gays, sometimes we will meet guys we like, and we will want to have something sexual with them because there will be some kind of sexual tension. After we are able to have the sex and get sex out of the way, we can then become better friends. That's what happens to me and my married friend, we had been there and done it and now we can talk anything from the sun to the earth and or share anything sexual, without feeling any sexual tension. Of course, I also have gay friends that even though we do not have sex, we can still talk and discuss anything under the sun. Which is why I mentioned that my married friend will message me once in a while for coffee and we will chat anything or just listen to him sharing his sexcapades.

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I met this manly mature guy in the sauna back in the old OneSeven. He saw me walking around and our eyes met and we went into the room together. He asked me in his Mando accent if I am top or bottom. I told him top. Then he told me he also top. But instead of go out of the room, he told me we can just hug and do other things. So I agreed and started giving him a my special tongue service. He was moaning and squirming and had to tell me to stop as he cannot take it. We took a short break and I turned him facedown and "attacked" his back, all the way from his neck to his ass. A few times, he reminded me that he don't want to get fucked by placing his hands at his ass. I brushed his hands away and tells him not to worry, but in my mind, I was already aiming for his ass. hahaha. I know I am a bad man, but he don't know yet. From his moaning, I can feel he is already getting high, I keeps on attacking his ass and eventually, i managed to part it and dart my tongue into his hole. Apparently, he had cleaned his hole really well. There wasn't any smell and when my tongue dart into his hole, he was letting out moans. As I was licking and nibbling on his neck, my dick was position just along the groove of his butt while my hard wet dick was resting just outside his moist relaxed hole. I slowly inched and played my dick outside his asshole but i will assured him that I will not enter his hole, but because his ass was well licked by me it was slippery and if I were to forced my dick, it could actually goes in. So I told him that I will wear the condom in cause I might accidentally slipped in. I can feel that he is a virgin because his asshole was really tight and it took me quite a while to make him relax and I can feel that he actually enjoyed the licking and the dick sliding just outside his hole. It took a while, but with my tongue service on his back and neck and all over his body, he was already moaning, so I slowly entered him because he was already high but with every little movement of my condom cock into his hole, I will stopped while I distract him by attacking his neck, his ears, with my tongue and his hole with my dick, at the same time, one of my hand will be playing with his nipples. I can sensed that he had gave up struggling and had surrendered because he knows that he is fucked after meeting me. On and off, I will breath into his ears and tell him to relax and I will stop inching my cock into his ass, if he feels it's painful. Eventually, I don't know how long, I managed to entered him and he did not pushed me away or stopped me. It was then, I turned him over into missionary style and slowly piston my dick, by then I only hear him moan and breath heavily. After turning him over, I would use one hand to jerk him while the other hand will be fiddling with his nipple. He was already leaking with precum and within the next few minutes, he was breathing heavily and moaning and saying that he is cumming. I took the signal and starts to fuck faster and coaxing myself to cum together with him. He exploded with many quirts as I cummed into the condom inside him. We cleaned up and I was panting, resting next to him. Then he told me that it was his first time getting fucked. I told him; "I know" and I told him, the ”你是我的人了， 以后我会负责的." We rested and started small talk and I asked him, why is he here in the sauna, when he is already married. He asked, How I know, I told him, I can tell, from talking to him. We remained friends after all these years. He still love his wife and occasionally he will asked me out for coffee and coffee talk as he don't have many gay friends.

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