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Hi all! I am quite new to this scene. Been straight all my life and had gave a BJ once 4 years back. I am married with 1 kid, chi/32/174/75. I think I am considered a top and also enjoy giving BJ. I would like to seek like minded individual to explore further. May be able to host later in orchard area noon time and tomorrow as well. Discreet and safe please. Do pm me!

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Hello everyone, I'm very happy! I have achieved Grand Master(14/14) today. New Year of 2024 n I got it. I'm not sure how it works but I got it. THANK YOU,GM. Hahaha..... Ps, kindly post this at the right folder if it shouldn't be here. Thank u again n M proud to be BW member. Woohoooo!!!!!!!!🫡😁😁😂😂

Bugis has one.

Have been away for some time, end of 2023 has been a tough time. Spent too much time controlling, scheduling and ensuring everything I do is planned out and everything came crashing down. In hindsight, since life came crashing down, I managed to re-learn how to enjoy the simple things. Taking my own time to walk slowly instead of looking at a watch rushing to get from place to place or accomplish tasks like doing groceries or hitting a specific timing to finish gym and ensuring I go to bed early. Learned to look at things from another angle of things and doing lots of self reflecting and self development. Sometimes being too obsessed with leashing myself too tightly with rules might not bring me where I want to be. Life is chill now and happy where I am and where I look forward to going. 2024 seems to be starting well. Hope it stays that way and hope everyone else is going good this year too. :)

I had very sensitive nipples and precum alot when someone played or sucked my nipples. I was experiencing my first time as a btm with this guy I met. He was topping me face to face with me laying on my back. While topping me, he was also playing with my nipples and occasionally sucking it with his mouth. All this time my cock was left untouched. While he was thrusting me and playing with my nipples, I can feel that I'm cuming. The feeling was shiok, I autocum and he let my own cum flow into my asshole and he continue to fuck me using my cum as lub. I can feel the warmness of my cum inside my own ass while he was fucking me. The feeling was really nice.

Field report: Vsited Joya Onsen for the first time the 8th of January 3-5:45pm between my Monday grind~ it was spacious, however, the furnishings gave off a cheap public pool vibes. Cold pool was not too cold. Suana and hot pool wasnt exactly hot. But the overall atmosphere was still relaxing which did it's purpose. For that , I have absolutely no complain as the entry charge is really cheap (paid $30 online but could be even cheaper than a typical gym membership if u purchase regular pass). The onsen was relatively empty which added to the peaceful ambiance. Some nice erections spotted occasionally and guys were relatively friendly- a couple of them stroked my dick in the sauna. As for the food-quality of the seems mediocre at best. will I be back again? well, yes if I swing by the ulu vicinity but likely not a special trip down... unless my friends Jio me.

I don't see 101 things here... Well, hope these helps: 1. Put on a fashion show with all the fabulous outfits you have in your closet. 2. Watch a rerun of "RuPaul's Drag Race" and practice your best runway walk. 3. Choreograph a dance routine to your favorite pop song. 4. Have a photoshoot in your living room, complete with dramatic poses and fierce looks. 5. Write a steamy romance novel starring yourself and your celebrity crush. 6. Treat yourself to a DIY spa day with face masks, bubble baths, and mani-pedis. 7. Try out some new makeup looks and experiment with bold colors. 8. Put on your favorite music and have a dance party for one. 9. Try out a new recipe and make yourself a fancy dinner. 10. Have a movie marathon of all your favorite queer films. 11. Write a letter to your future self, detailing all the exciting adventures you want to have. 12. Have a virtual happy hour with your friends and catch up over some cocktails. 13. Put together a killer playlist of all your favorite empowerment anthems. 14. Create a vision board of all your goals and dreams. 15. Take a long, relaxing bath and indulge in some self-care. 16. Practice your best flirtatious pick-up lines in the mirror. 17. Organize a virtual game night with your friends and play some hilarious party games. 18. Have a karaoke competition with yourself and belt out your favorite show tunes. 19. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself and hang it up where you can see it every day. 20. Write a list of all the things you're grateful for and reflect on the abundance in your life. 21. Have a deep conversation with your pet and tell them all your secrets. 22. Take a long nap and dream about all the amazing things you want to do in the future. 23. Practice your best runway walk in the rain, with an imaginary crowd cheering you on. 24. Write a heartfelt letter to a LGBTQ+ icon who inspires you. 25. Have a solo dance party in your living room, complete with dramatic dips and spins. 26. Watch an LGBTQ+ documentary and educate yourself on queer history and culture. 27. Bake a rainbow cake and indulge in some sugary goodness. 28. Create a Pinterest board of all your dream vacation destinations and start planning your next adventure. 29. Treat yourself to a fancy cocktail and enjoy a cozy night in. 30. Spend some time journaling about your hopes and dreams for the future. 31. Put on your favorite empowering anthem and have a solo dance party. 32. Create a vision board of all the amazing things you want to accomplish in the future. 33. Write a love letter to your future self and remind yourself of how amazing you are. 34. Connect with your friends through a virtual game night and have a ton of fun. 35. Binge-watch your favorite LGBT movies and shows. 36. Treat yourself to a fancy dinner and a glass of wine. 37. Have a movie marathon of all your favorite queer films. 38. Spend some time pampering yourself with a DIY spa day at home. 39. Practice your best runway walk in front of the mirror. 40. Have a virtual happy hour with your friends and catch up over some cocktails. 41. Create a playlist of all your favorite empowering anthems. 42. Put together a vision board of all your goals and dreams. 43. Write a letter to your future self, detailing all the exciting adventures you want to have. 44. Organize a virtual game night with your friends and play some hilarious party games. 45. Have a karaoke competition with yourself and belt out your favorite show tunes. 46. Write a list of all the things you love about yourself and hang it up where you can see it every day. 47. Take some time to reflect on all the things you're grateful for in life. 48. Spend some quality time with your pet and tell them all your secrets. 49. Have a solo dance party in your living room, complete with dramatic dips and spins. 50. Indulge in some sugary treats and bake a rainbow cake. 51. Create a Pinterest board of all your dream vacation destinations and start planning your next adventure. 52. Spend some time journaling about your hopes and dreams for the future. 53. Rehearse your best flirtatious pick-up lines in front of the mirror. 54. Watch an LGBTQ+ documentary and educate yourself on queer history and culture. 55. Treat yourself to a fancy cocktail and enjoy a cozy night in. 56. Put on your favorite empowering anthem and have a solo dance party. 57. Create a vision board of all the amazing things you want to accomplish in the future. 58. Write a love letter to your future self and remind yourself of how amazing you are. 59. Connect with your friends through a virtual game night and have a ton of fun. 60. Binge-watch your favorite LGBT movies and shows. 61. Practice your best runway walk in front of the mirror. 62. Spend some time pampering yourself with a DIY spa day at home. 63. Watch a rerun of "RuPaul's Drag Race" and practice your best runway walk. 64. Treat yourself to a fancy dinner and a glass of wine. 65. Create a playlist of all your favorite empowering anthems. 66. Put together a vision board of all your goals and dreams. 67. Write a letter to your future self, detailing all the exciting adventures you want to have. 68. Organize a virtual game night with your friends and play some hilarious party games. 69. Have a karaoke competition with yourself and belt out your favorite show tunes. 70. Write a list of all the things you love about yourself and hang it up where you can see it every day. 71. Take some time to reflect on all the things you're grateful for in life. 72. Spend some quality time with your pet and tell them all your secrets. 73. Have a solo dance party in your living room, complete with dramatic dips and spins. 74. Indulge in some sugary treats and bake a rainbow cake. 75. Create a Pinterest board of all your dream vacation destinations and start planning your next adventure. 76. Spend some time journaling about your hopes and dreams for the future. 77. Rehearse your best flirtatious pick-up lines in front of the mirror. 78. Watch an LGBTQ+ documentary and educate yourself on queer history and culture. 79. Treat yourself to a fancy cocktail and enjoy a cozy night in. 80. Put on your favorite empowering anthem and have a solo dance party. 81. Create a vision board of all the amazing things you want to accomplish in the future. 82. Write a love letter to your future self and remind yourself of how amazing you are. 83. Connect with your friends through a virtual game night and have a ton of fun. 84. Binge-watch your favorite LGBT movies and shows. 85. Practice your best runway walk in front of the mirror. 86. Spend some time pampering yourself with a DIY spa day at home. 87. Watch a rerun of "RuPaul's Drag Race" and practice your best runway walk. 88. Treat yourself to a fancy dinner and a glass of wine. 89. Create a playlist of all your favorite empowering anthems. 90. Put together a vision board of all your goals and dreams. 91. Write a letter to your future self, detailing all the exciting adventures you want to have. 92. Organize a virtual game night with your friends and play some hilarious party games. 93. Have a karaoke competition with yourself and belt out your favorite show tunes. 94. Write a list of all the things you love about yourself and hang it up where you can see it every day. 95. Take some time to reflect on all the things you're grateful for in life. 96. Spend some quality time with your pet and tell them all your secrets. 97. Have a solo dance party in your living room, complete with dramatic dips and spins. 98. Indulge in some sugary treats and bake a rainbow cake. 99. Create a vision board of all your dream vacation destinations and start planning your next adventure. 100. Spend some time journaling about your hopes and dreams for the future. 101. Rehearse your best flirtatious pick-up lines in front of the mirror.

Yes surely it could. I have LP's that are 60years old that I've inherited from my late relative, and I had it professionally cleaned, and it plays well.. of course some clicks and pops are to be expected. At the moment I'm getting my LP cleaner serviced... should have it back by end of the month and I'll begin to clean some of my collection. Cheers 🥂 Mike

Trying my luck here once again. Kindly drop me a DM with your intro if keen Me: -28 chn stocky meaty (1995) -Civil servant -Financially independent -Shy/quiet but will open up once I’m comfortable with you -looking for someone understanding due to my nature of job, might not have time together but I’ll try to give us together time whenever I can -generally replies fast -Hobbies include baking, cooking, digital art, nanoblocks, collecting vinyl records -Love language: quality time, physical touch, gifts -Enjoys intimacy > sex, but still OK with sex -Top, ok with side. Anal not a must -Stays east side You: -Age 27-35 chinese -Financially independent -Understanding, loyal, not clingy -Puts initiative in chats etc

Cos they find it damn hot, especially if the stranger is their "type" that's one reason And also, they like/want to be told/commanded/ordered to swallow by the top as part of being a submissive btm (a lot of btms like this, apparently)

seeking deep suck tmr at woodlands/adm area.. know a few safe places.. can't host.. if ur ok with public will be best.. 34 chn thai mix here

I am 31/188/78 fit manly discreet married looking for only bottom married men for discreet sex

Briefs for days. Literally.

https://whereby.com/drifit-shirt-kinks poly undergrad Fetish for drifit shirt, ill play and cum on the shirt and also wear the shirt u like

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Anyone here or nearby for light fun? Pm

Has anyone done a review on magic touch? Do they do he?

No need to Yuck someone else's Yum. to each their own. many like it fresh - what you're describing is quite different (though there are rare people who actually do do that or even pay for used stuff) - it's up to them. for a bunch of LGBTIQA+ people who get judged all the time - why are we also judging each other in a thread no one is forced to come read 💦💦🙏🏼 be well, and Happy New Year

Anyone looking to suck?

Sounds interesting, just not too sure what can I actually exchange away or what do I actually want to exchange it for. Not too sure if there are apps of some kind designed for this. like you post something up for exchange and others can just post offers for you to select.

So far for me its very safe at night and kinda big area,

But what do you say after you give him a good fuck atas pokok (=up the tree)? "Hati-hati, jangan jatuh, air mani licin"? (=careful, don't fall, cum is slippery)

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I always have a surplus of shoes, underwear, bags, shirts, and shorts that I frequently throw or donate on a monthly basis (because I'm a shopaholic). I've never tried exchanging them before, but hey, I'm open to new experiences. If you have specific pre-loved treasures that u r seeking, just give a shout. Who knows, you might just find your next favorite pair of lightly worn underpants! P.s. While I don't mind giving away some of my used Treasures, I do not want travel to someone just to give the stuffs away as it makes me feel like Santa Claus whom I'm not a big fan of. I won't mind exchanging or giving stuffs over a friendship meal/drinks, workout or sth ..

Hi all! I am married with 1 kid, chi/32/174/75. I think I am considered a top and also enjoy giving BJ. I would like to seek like minded individual to explore further. Always fantasy to have a shower sex. Discreet and safe fun please. Will be able to host at hotel supreme later and tomorrow! Feel free to pm me.

Any sucker late night? Looking to unload

Somehow feeling quite relaxed and particularly romantic today 😊 Also gives rise to the dilemma. Is it ok to let my hair down and enjoy life while I still can? Thoughts?

Just now I heard this fantastic song:

Interesting

Marsiling/woodlands for light fun and sg video watching!

Actually I had been known to be deliver of corny jokes. I was half teasing and half joking and I could even think of my married friend being deflowered during a rainy thunderstorm or in another scenario I turned and smoked a cigarette, while my friend clutched the bedsheets and deliver, 我是你的人了，你要对我好. corny enough?

Nice! Spreading cum on bod too

For me I love my nipples being sucked by my usual masseur. He will suck one side and then use his fingers to fondle the other one. After doing that for some time he will slowly head down to give a bj. Shiok!

ikr. miss the area so much, turning into white chicken alr.

Nil

Sure...what time

It's been a long time since I last swam at a public pool on weekends. Decided to try this morning at KBSC, and got the shock of my life. The pool was super busy... like a zoo/tourist attraction. I thought by going early I would be able to have a proper swim, and boy was I so wrong. It was already thronging with kids and their parents/guardians. The adult pool was divided in three and got kids swimming the breadth and presumably learning how tread water. No lap swimming. Many many elder folks as well. Since when do they cut the pool up by the breadths? It was a nightmare - the first and last time I am going to KBSC on a weekend morning. I got desperate and went to do my laps at the learning pool while it was still relatively empty. But it was so shallow each time I do a stroke, my fingers hit the floor. Finally pushed through my 20 laps, quickly got out, and was leaving when this time I saw 12 or so teenagers seated together waiting for some course to start. Plastic folders were being distributed. Have we reached a point where we are trying to do too much at a swimming pool, that everyone is cheek by jowl at the risk of kicking each other's faces in the water? Made a dash for the showers, and the final straw as I was leaving was this SportSg notice saying... we have to change in the cubicle in the men's shower cos of decency issues. Which man is offended by a dangling cock in a men's shower room? It's not like I am playing with my kkj! Duh!

I considered myself lucky not to be in the era where I will be pressured to get married. And I realised that I am gay at 17 and only accepted myself as gay at 27. So, i instinctively chose not to marry. As the eldest in the family, I do feel that my family and relatives do hope that I bring a girl back, and as in any Asian family, during CNY or wedding dinners, etc. I will be questioned why am I still single and why I did not bring someone back to meet the parents. I would tell give them the excuse, that I won't married for marriage's sake. I can understand that when we come to a certain age, we will be given direct or indirect pressure to marry. I chose to ignore these pressure and to do what I felt is the best options for me. I used to condemn those married gays who have extra marital affairs, and after fucking enough married gays and talking to them later, I begin to understand why they chose to marry. some marred out of family /societal pressure, some married because they really want a family, some of them married to have a cover to hide their gayness. some married to get inheritances, etc Then there are some, like my married friend, blur blur and do the right thing by getting married and only after married, realises that he also like men and wants a male partner as a confidant and enjoys sex with men. Whatever their reasons, we will not be able to understand their happiness or pain as a married gay and how complicated their lives can be. My married friend told me that he knows he is risking his marriage but he felt lonely without having someone he can talk to that understands him and can share his stories to. I will always keeps reminding him not to throw caution to the air as his world would collapse should his family finds out. So he chose to just go sauna for his fun and when he needs to talk, he will call me up for coffee. Then, there are those who would be married and yet goes around having fun or orgies with men but keeps telling people they are discreet, etc. Who are we to judge them. As men, most men are horny, you either fuck a woman or a man, or for some married gays, they need someone to fuck them, where their wife are unable to do. So live and let live. It's their life and they will have to clear their own shit and reap their own karma, good or bad.

Looking for a regular mate hit me up😜

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anyone to meet home alone 40 chi fat and chub 100 plus kg pm or tele @gabrielgabbygab

Understand GM. Pulling yr leg, not in-between your legs ok. Later u turn me into bottom..ouchhh. Thanks for the explanation BTW.. haha

Of course, not lah. The topic is my sexcapade with married men and I only need to write till that. We did have a short period of notti sex but my friend will always feel "imbalance" when he can't help himself and ended up getting fucked by me. He will tell me that he is not bottom, and don't like and don't want to turn to bottom. But whenever we meet, he cannot help himself and after I hit all his sensitive areas, he will eventually end up getting fucked. We did not become close or bf because I do not believe in breaking up a family and I will always try to educate my married friend not to fall in love with guys he likes and that he should think about his family. Initially, he told me that he wants to have a relationship with a guy and yet maintain his family. Over the years he tried and once he found someone, but that guy was very controlling and eventually that guy threatens to out his relationship to his wife, he woke up and managed to call off that relationship. Nowadays he only goes for fun and not thinking of having a relationship with another guy. I feel that for any gays, sometimes we will meet guys we like, and we will want to have something sexual with them because there will be some kind of sexual tension. After we are able to have the sex and get sex out of the way, we can then become better friends. That's what happens to me and my married friend, we had been there and done it and now we can talk anything from the sun to the earth and or share anything sexual, without feeling any sexual tension. Of course, I also have gay friends that even though we do not have sex, we can still talk and discuss anything under the sun. Which is why I mentioned that my married friend will message me once in a while for coffee and we will chat anything or just listen to him sharing his sexcapades.

pavillion bukit bintang anyone?

To be clear, a sauna is the closest space in Singapore where gay men can behave or misbehave without being judged. It is a safe space where everyone can be themselves, free to explore their sexuality and pursue their pleasures. Outside of that space, it is a world where a gay person is expected to conform to societal norms. Not every gay man growing up in Singapore has the privilege to be who they are and those who are older, do not have that safe space to be who they are or explore their sexuality when they are younger. It is not surprising, that many of these men, conform to the demands of society, get married, have children, and do what is expected of them. When the sauna scene came, they became spaces where these men could be free to explore their sexuality. The sauna is this place of escape for an hour or two or three. The sauna is a place for adults. As mentioned before, it is a place where gay/bi men in Singapore, can be free to explore their sexuality. Morals have nothing to do with it. You are right that "anything goes" and there is consent between adults for that to happen. Furthermore, you are an adult entering into a place where sex between men happens and is the norm. It is not church/temple/mosque/synagogue. So gasping and clutching your pearls and stating that people lack morality shows a lack of awareness. I think your expectations of a sauna are misplaced. You are projecting your expectations of yourself on other people. You may have been raised with proper manners but that does not mean everyone has that kind of upbringing. If the lack of manners is such an issue for you, don't go to the saunas. Your other option is to confront the person or persons who have been "inconsiderate and unkind" and tell them to be mindful of their manners. I do not think the lack of interest in you is a lack of respect for you. You are confusing the two. A lack of respect for you means regardless of the size of your penis, people don't give a shit about you. You are treated as invisible. A lack of interest in you is more of the journey with this guy ends when I realized he has a small dick. We are not going any further. The question is are you a top or a bottom? If you are the latter, a small penis is less of an issue. If you are a top, then you have to be creative with what you have. There are strap-ons, and other sleeves you can wear over your penis to satisfy your sexual partners. Google. It is interesting how you have expressed disgust at the old man who touched you and you "slapped his filthy hand away" but when other men engaged in similar actions, you did not express disgust, but frustration for their lack of respect due to your penis size. Apparently, their hands were not filthy unless they were old. Furthermore, you had said, "anything goes, so there is total freedom to be a sexual predator" and that includes you too since you have guys approached you and touched you. That makes you just as predatory as everyone else in the sauna according to you. The sauna is there for every gay man (closeted or otherwise) to have a safe space to explore their sexuality. It is not catered to just you and your expectations. I am sure everyone has their issues with the saunas or the rejections they experienced from other people, but they form part of the experience. You take the good with the bad. So you can take your #hardtruths and learn to deal with them instead of whining like a little bitch. #hardtruths.

It's quite near my place. Anyone wants to try together?

This was some years back. Had a straight curious friend who I did it to. Has a nice character and I'm quite fond of him even now. We chatted n agreed beforehand, safe words n such. So on the day, I restrained him spread eagle in bed, n just sucked n played with his nips till he cummed. As planned, I swallowed and kept sucking n sucking until he screamed he's going to pee. He wanted to hold back, but I made a muffled "Just pee!" and went back to sucking his head furiously, he just helplessly thrashed about n peed in spurts, made lots of strange sounds, groans n begging n I just kept sucking n swallowing non stop. This carried on quite a bit, i forgot how long, until he was just moaning weakly. I was a bit concerned did i overdo but he was breathing ok. I sucked on his dickhead in sharp pulses every every few seconds, his whole body will jerk with each pulse. I really enjoyed the control over his body until I slowed to a stop. He was completely spent. After dunno how long, I released his shrunk dick from my mouth, n gave him a slow, long cuddle. He reciprocated, looked relieved, breathed slowly and smiled with barely opened eyes like a happy boy. We kept in touch but dont text much nowadays already. I'll still send him xmas/new year greetings. Sometimes he'd reply, mostly he doesn't. But still, one of my most memorable experiences.

just get a few guys, take turns to fuck u till u autocum. no autocum cannot stop the session.