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I was at the gym this morning when I was using one of the machines to work my calves. Situated directly across the calf machine were the leg press machines. There was this older guy doing leg presses and every time he is in a rest position, I am looking directly at one of his balls that popped out from his loose briefs under his shorts.

Looks like FF is the new Cali gym.

Definitely can. Once I was doing leg press. My dick head popped out of my high split shorts (lining removed) when my legs was in bend position. I quickly push the weight back up and shift my dick up right position. Luckily, there was no other machine or equipment opposite. But there's a mirror in front. There were only 3 other guys in the gym. Hope they didn't see it through the mirror reflection.

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No, but I was tempted to give him my waxer's contact information to get his hairy balls taken care of.

Normally after 1030pm the light is close and the show begin..mostly beside the basketball 🏀, or center of the park

Any uncles above 65yrs at Chinatown area? 25 slim chinese bottom here

Anyone in woodlands I can fetch you in my car now Need to unload

Sometimes I switch my IG to public 😏hopefully someone would take a look

To the macho guy at Ten-Men Club yesterday evening, we had an aggressive 45 minutes fucking session with different styles! You are so sexually experienced, making me to cum 3 times. I really enjoyed your rough fingering, finger poking, butt slapping. Later, he mobilised two friends into the room to gang bang me like gangsters ... you three invite to your house on weekend but I am still considering ... worse of all, I forget to give you all my mobile phone number to continue our lusting sessions

Hey guys. I will be in KL on March 29 to 31. Keen to meet up? Open for anything. Cheers!

Not sure where to post this but as I was having a layover at Bangkok, Marriott hotel sauna was super cruisy. Couldn’t find any info on hotel cruising in Bangkok here so thought someone might benefit from this info. Played with a fit local in the sauna and onsen, spoke to him and he confirmed that this hotel is like the equivalent to KL’s Hilton. The 48 hours I was there, I’ve had fun with 6 tourists and 1 local! Will definitely return!

at the first place shl not do at public area

Anyone traveling to KL and staying at a hotel with a sauna? Would love to go as a guest and hang out naked. PM me - 33yo Chinese 180cm 75kg gym fit

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26 172 67 fit chn seeking driver for fun

Just getting near tall guys make me high n dizzy with pheromones 🫠

Home sweet home...

Singapore (2019 article) Feeling isolated, stressed and depressed, more LGBTQ individuals seek mental health support BY EVELINE GAN Published July 20, 2019 Updated July 20, 2019 Four years after reading about a teenager who allegedly hung himself in 2015, the tragedy continues to weigh heavily on the mind of a 48-year-old gay man. Online users have said that the teenager in Singapore experienced homophobic bullying on social media before his death, though that has not been verified. Talvin (not his real name), who works in the music industry, told TODAY: “I don’t even know this boy personally, but I was (and am still) very affected by his death.” Talvin does not want to be identified because he is afraid there may be repercussions for his work. He is well-acquainted with discrimination against lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) people and the emotional toll it can take on individuals and their families. Over the last 30 years, he has experienced intense periods of rage and bouts of depression due to work and relationship issues. He also had suicidal thoughts. Hate speech affects LGBT people, too “I’ve always felt like I’m a one-man army," he said. Last year, for the first time in his life, he sought help from a professional counsellor. An acquaintance in his workplace suggested counselling after pointing out his increasingly destructive behaviour — he was drinking too much and got overly emotional while interacting with others. INCREASED AWARENESS Talvin is among the increasing number of LGBTQ individuals in Singapore seeking mental health support in recent years. Experts attributed it to an increased awareness of mental health and LGBTQ-related issues, along with greater access to support services. At Oogachaga, a non-profit community-based organisation that works with LGBTQ individuals, demand for counselling services has doubled in the past five years. Last year, Oogachaga’s counsellors handled a total of 2,012 counselling sessions, up from 974 sessions in 2013. Pink Dot plans social media campaign to cast spotlight on discrimination They included professional face-to-face counselling as well as counselling sessions conducted via phone, WhatsApp and email. Sexuality, gender identity, relationship and mental health issues make up the bulk of the cases seen by its counsellors. Think Psychological Services, which offers counselling services for LGBTQ-related issues among its other psychological services, has seen an estimated 50 per cent increase in the number of LGBTQ clients in the last three years. It now sees around 10 to 12 cases every month. Think’s clinical psychologist Vyda S Chai said that many seek help to work through the coming-out process, and relationship and infidelity issues. “There have also been numerous cases grappling with oppression, discrimination and social issues related to their LGBTQ identity,” she said. MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEMS Research has shown that LGBTQ people face a higher risk of having mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, substance abuse, suicide and self-harm than heterosexuals. For instance, gay and bisexual youth are four times more likely to have attempted suicide in the past year than their straight classmates, based on a 2015 report by the United States’ Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. While not all LGBTQ individuals have the same struggles, experts told TODAY that stress from discriminatory experiences are a recurring theme among those seeking mental health support. A 2012 study here done by Oogachaga found that three in five LGBTQ respondents surveyed reported some form of discrimination as a result of their sexual orientation and/or gender identity. Dr Adrian Wang, consultant psychiatrist at Gleneagles Medical Centre, said the patients he sees from the LGBTQ group generally have similar mental health issues, such as anxiety attacks, depression and work stress, as the straight population. However, discrimination, the lack of acceptance and support network can compound mental health issues. Dr Wang sees three to four LGBTQ patients every month. “Being gay does not make one biologically predisposed to mental health disorders. Rather, it is because some of them face discrimination and acceptance issues at their workplace or at home,” Dr Wang said. “One of the most depressing things LGBTQ people face is when they are not accepted by their own family members,” he added. Oogachaga’s executive director Leow Yangfa, a registered social worker, said that discriminatory experiences can occur at various life stages, and can affect LGBTQ people from all walks of life. They may include homophobic slurs in school or religious community, family members disapproving same-sex relationships, social isolation of an elderly or disabled LGBTQ person or racism faced by LGBTQ people from ethnic minority backgrounds, Mr Leow said. They could also be in a workplace environment where people are transphobic, meaning there are negative attitudes, dislike or prejudice against transgender or transsexual people. Transgender individuals, in particular, tend to experience even higher levels of stress and poorer mental health. Ms June Chua, who founded transgender shelter The T Project in 2014 with her late sister, said: “If you are gay or lesbian, you can choose to ‘come out’ to selected groups of people, and not others. But for transgender people, the physical aspect and changes of transitioning makes it impossible for them to choose, which can be very stressful.” BATTLING STIGMA AND ISOLATION Ironically, some of the most hurtful and discriminatory slurs targeted at Talvin came from the gay community. “One time, someone invited me to ‘gay night’ at a club. When his friend saw me, he whispered loudly, ‘Eh, why you bring Indian here?’ “I’ve also been accused of ‘straight-acting’ by gay men. It’s really depressing,” he said. Straight-acting is a term used to describe a person who does not look like or behave in a way that is considered typical of gay individuals. “My straight friends and bosses from my previous companies don’t seem bothered by (my sexual orientation). My experience is the reverse — the LGBT people I’ve met have been quite nasty to me,” Talvin disclosed. At home, Talvin continues to experience stigma and isolation. His 70-year-old mother is unable to accept his sexual orientation. Once, she insisted that he read a news article of a man who was allegedly beaten to death at Orchard Towers for offering oral sex to his attackers. “I don’t understand why my mum did that. Did she really think I was the type to do that?” he said. “My mum has also grumbled to people about never being able to have a daughter-in-law or grandchildren. She doesn’t realise that her words have hurt me a lot and definitely played a part in me being a darker, colder person. MORE AVENUES OF SUPPORT Even as LGBTQ individuals battle stigma and discrimination, more support services are opening up to cater to the LGBTQ group. Ms Chua said that mental health and social support services for LGBTQ individuals are now more readily available than before, although there is room for improvement. The T Project started offering counselling services by professional counsellors, at a fee, at its Alicia Community Centre in Kovan earlier this year. It is supporting 12 people at the moment. “Back then, if you were a transgender person, there was no support service, but now, there are services like The T Project and an increasing number of other online support platforms,” Ms Chua said, adding that the online platforms are usually informal support groups. Ms Chai from Think Psychological Services encourages LGBTQ individuals grappling with mental health issues to reach out and get support. Her advice: When seeking support from professionals, it is important to ensure that they are qualified and hold a current professional registration. If they feel that the professional is not well-equipped to support them, they should seek a second opinion. On the other end, more social workers, counsellors, psychologists and other social service professionals have signed up for Oogachaga’s professional training workshops, which impart appropriate skills and information to help professionals better connect with LGBTQ clients. From an average of 50 to 80 participants a year when it first started in 2008, Oogachaga’s professional workshops has seen around 100 to 120 participants yearly in the last five years. However, there may be still some way to go in equipping mental health and social service professionals with skills to support people from sexual minorities here. Mr Leow said: “In our experience working with LGBTQ individuals, couples and families for over 20 years, some of them reported that they feel uncomfortable or are not adequately supported by these professionals.” In a study here published in the International Social Work journal in 2015, three-quarters of the 89 registered social workers surveyed said that they did not have adequate skills to attend to LGBT issues. Nine in 10 felt they did not have enough training. Dr Wang said that, technically speaking, no special training is required for mental healthcare professionals to support LGBTQ individuals. “We are all humans. You just need to be a non-bigoted, non-discriminatory person to treat anyone with mental health issues,” he said. Although Talvin does not think his issues can be easily resolved, he intends to continue with his counselling sessions. “Talking to a counsellor has been very helpful. I think I got lucky — my counsellor is not judgmental at all despite me sharing with her my darkest thoughts,” he said. Kindly click HERE for full article and various hyperlinks to other content in relation to the topic.

Secret toilet 8pm to 11pm

anyone heading over at 9+pm secret toilet?

I Missed my ex ...

Ya I always asked my friend to apply option on my back as it's harder to reach

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did you help him to put his two balls safely back into his shorts?

No action review?

I thought bangkok have one call Barefeet Naturist Resort.

I did and nip play is even better now

Yeah of course but sad reality is that no one is interested in someone’s personality inside the gay sauna. It’s all about sex and no one wants to play with someone’s personality.

That will never happen. Looks is everything in the gay community. A handsome and muscled guy with small dick would still be marketable compared to someone with huge dick but old, fat/skinny, sissy and bald guy.

Life. What do I think of it? What do I want out of it? How do I want to live it? What motivates me to live? What truly drives me to succeed? Without knowing what life is and how I want it to be, life gets stagnant. Worse, everything I do will be circle in the sand that goes round and round. I am not allowing the light inside me to become brighter. It is a disservice should I not let Life to grow to its full potential. My light has to guide me. My intuition should be the legs to walk me. My gratitude will be the golden key that opens all opportunities. I have to take awareness seriously. It is to realize on the consciousness towards my existence leading to a man’s search for meaning. Every day, I am faced with the never ending battle between what I feel and what I know. There is a persistent stubborn voice of reason trying to fix what is not meant to be. There is constant struggle against a heart that won’t let go. When I keep thinking I already know and I feel that I am continually right, I will learn nothing in life. It is this mindset that dooms me to failure. This is where, unconsciously, I am letting life to go round and round in circle. At the end of the day, I will try to sleep and shut it off. I want a good quality sleep because physically, mentally and emotionally I am tired. Little that I realize that sleep, even when it feels good, does not help me. It is my soul that is tired. When I put my soul first as priority, everything changes. Often, I am reminded that life is beautifully simple. It is the way I think – how my mind functions - that makes Life hard. It is the way I destructively expose myself with the outside world that stops peace from coming into me. I have been asked, ‘have you noticed how peaceful your life has been since you stopped dealing with certain individuals’? Such a question should reveal the state of my being. It is to remind me the weight that puts me down and what stops me from living. Through all the years, I have been told that I changed a lot. Truth is, experiences shaped me where I shall say that a lot changed me. Life becomes more meaningful when I can realize the simple fact that I will never get the same moment twice. I have to treasure what I have. I need to enjoy what is in my hands. Once they slipped through my fingers, I will lose them forever. When I recognize their importance that everything changes. I should not allow my mind gets in the way of seeing things as they truly are. It is important that I see the good in everything in order for me to be happy with life. Should I am constantly doubting, I will never be happy with the little things. It is the little thing that matters the most. It is from the little thing that life grows. It is the little thing that slowly unfolds itself. It is the little thing that is actually creating the big world. In the bigger picture, these little things are not little at all. Life needs me to be patient. It is a journey, not a competition. I need to know - sometimes I have to go through the worst to get to the best. It is in knowing that I become free. I need to have faith that everything comes to me in the right moment. I have to know that I cannot fix what is not meant to be. I have to learn about my limitation to let go. Not everything is related to me and I am too tiny for the bigger equation. What is meant for me can never pass me by. I have to trust the process. In that process, I need to accompany it with joy. I should not let myself to feel bad about my mistakes. Everyone has a chapter and everyone has a story. Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s trouble. When I focus on today, I grow. When I live in my past, I am back to the sand in the circle. Yes, I have to learn to be a good person. But, I do not have to waste time to prove it. A good person learns not to interfere with anything outside of him but to let divinity do its work. When I practice my religious views on myself, it is called faith. But, when I practice my religious views on others, it is called oppression. In life, each stage brings its own set of experiences and lessons to learn. In life, I should not be judging others. Each soul has its own divine intelligence. Each soul has its godly purity and innocence. Each soul has his/her free will. Some things just need to be left alone. It will do me good should I attract only what I want by being what I want. I have to love people in my life even with those who dislike me. Holding on to indifference only hurts me, not them. It will be the most hated person who will be my best teacher. Whatever light I have, my shadow reflects it too. Here is the hard truth – I cannot change things by loving them harder. When I am rejected, accept. When I am unloved, let go. I should not stress myself too much because no matter how bad the situation is, it will change. Yes, I need to create the time to appreciate the things in my life. Nothing will work unless I do. To appreciate is an inside job. It gives power when I appreciate where I am now in my journey and how far I have come. Gratitude only attracts more blessings. I am not rich by what I possess but by what I can do without. I must not get myself stuck with old thoughts, with stagnation. When I keep pushing myself, someday everything will make perfect sense. I have to live in my presence. I need to learn to be present and enjoy all moments. I have to give myself enough respect to walk away from anything that does not serve my higher purpose. I am a writer of my own story. I should not worry about other people’s opinions of me. I am born not to impress them and that is not why I am here. So for now, I need to laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears and keep reminding myself that everything happens for a reason. I should not skip the struggle for that is where character is built. The act of over thinking steals peace away. It destroys joy and happiness. I need to clean and erase the past. True happiness is to enjoy the present. True peace is to live life without anxiety. What I feed my mind today becomes my future. I need to train my mind to be calm in every situation. Do not trouble troubles unless troubles trouble me. Not to be the sand that keeps circling back, I have to live my life wisely and fruitfully. I should not waste time thinking about what I could have done differently. Instead, I should keep my eyes on the road ahead and just do it differently now. I need to learn to select my thoughts just the same way I select my clothes every day. When I want to take charge in my life, I have to work on the mind. Just as I care for my body, nurturing my mind is essential for overall well being. I am the only person responsible for my life, my happiness and my peace. No one else can make me feel fulfilled. I am always responsible for how I choose to act. Facing my fears is necessary for my growth. The more I avoid my fears, the more I am stuck with the circle in the sand. The greatest act of self love is to no longer allowing myself lying on the sand. I have to wash it away. I am not my past. I am the sum of my choices and actions in the present moment. No matter what knocks me down in life, I have to get back up and keep going. After all, the most important task to keep me away from circling back is to keep cleaning and erasing. Great blessings are a result of great perseverance. I will not be a light by imagining figures of light but by entering the darkness where it begins. When I am free from the circle, I shall become the person I should have been a long time ago. I should have been the free soul who is living in abundance every single day. I am not the person who fakes with ‘I am okay’ but I am truly okay. I am the confident person who eats alone in crowded hawker center, food court or in a restaurant. Life is not only about fixing anything that is broken. It is about remembering the wholeness that has always been inside of me. I have to know what kind of life I really want and then learn to say no to everything that is not. I have to be done circling back round and round in life.

Thinking of stopping to post content on twitter...hm...

When? Sunny afternoon though

Anyone will be in T4 tonight? Will be arriving in sg around 9.30pm

https://t.me/+Uxj4NhHQKDdjZWE1

Yck pool anyone?

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@chunchun that is all I would say in a public forum.

Shower, soak, steam, bake (dry sauna) are all part and parcel of relaxation facilities available at KakiKu, Yes, the dark room is not the same as the basement. The dark room is not so dark, and is connected somewhat to the steam room. The basement is quite dark, but there is just about enough light not to bump into walls, etc., but I do "accidentally" bump into bodies and penises when I am there... 😁

Anyone is still up? Literally and figuratively? 😆 39/175/77 bimarried visitor from indo here.. anyone around funan? Discreet. Manly. Tall. HMU.

Married malay mix here, looking for exploration buddy who is purely into pleasure and the exhilaration. Not into heavy stuff, just some light stuff. Maybe some piss play if want to. Pref married buds as well.

Hope to meet married or bi guys for fun

100am

39 190 90c married btm . Seeking regular married top who can hold conversation. Seems chemistry and feeling . Looks and weight not impt .

The second night was.. alright. I got to know that Lazy Sunday was almost fully booked for the night. Seems like good news right? Hmm… However, I almost had the entire room at Siam Stadium from that day The first new occupant at Lazy Sunday for my room was a young solo backpacker from Sweden. Tall, nice to look at bloke on his first time travel within Southeast Asia. I initiated a friendly conversation and my gaydar was not ticking. Concluding he was straight, I felt it was morally right for me to let him know the hidden secrets of the hostel and to “prepare” him for the night. He was so adorable as the first thing he said was, “this was NOT in the Google Reviews!” As the night approach and I had to leave for dinner, i told him to have his blinds down through and avoid eye-contact as much as he could as well as having early showers. 😂. Even at this time, there were only two other people that checked in. I came back pretty late that night and probably missed most of the actions that happened. The lights were already switched off and most of them were back in their capsules (or are they?). After my shower and back in my room, I noticed the corner capsule had his night light on and headed over. There was another guy on top of him and they were in the zone. Other occupants were also glancing over but I kept it easy that night. No actions just glancing. That night was not the best in terms of sleep and comfort. There was an occupant who was inconsiderately loud as he climbed down the ladder every 20-mins in the middle of the night. It was just unnecessarily loud and annoying. The other occupants would also leave the room back and forth (to the toilets) which could also hinder your sleep. The next morning, I checked up on the Swedish guy and invited him over for breakfast and we shared a Cinnabon together. He was bothered by the noise and would hear small chatter occasionally. He went over to Siam Stadium afterwards as I recommended that to him should he require a peaceful sleep. Overall, though both hostels host families and female occupants, you’d find people in just towels along the corridor to the toilets. To each its own, both are good in their own element. The crowds are mostly locals spending the night after work and then heading off early the next day. As someone who is very indecisive, I opted of just booking two hostels at the same time. I recommend them both! I would definitely stay over again if I am ever in Bangkok. It is such a budget friendly alternative for my impulsive trips and more reasons for me to come to Bangkok regularly. I’ll look forward to hear from the rest of you and your own experiences at these two hostels! Please feel free to drop a DM if you have any further doubts or can jio me for your future BKK trips 🤪😝

dudes w smol dicks are cute, haha like seeing them.

I’m super drained for cumming thrice first day and twice the second day at Hilton. Nice respectful crowd, very good looking foreigners and locals. Not easy to have a spotter at the shower door while you cramped yourself hiding behind the tiny wall while I fuck you, that was risky but fun. Text me if you’re here. The gym goer with a tight hole and good blowing skills (in the toilet), text me too if you’re here. The cute local playing footsie with me in the jacuzzi then steam before being interrupted and you grabbed my ass while I was pissing at the urinal, nice chat and sorry I’m not a bot and I never asked about your role. Text me if you’re here Sorry I had to reject a few silver foxes because I was looking for something else. Anyone else staying in KL hotels, I’d be happy to join you guys for some discreet fun in the future

Banging weights when working out.