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In my 20s, (80s) I met a man who changed my life. I was working as a sales assistant in a shop, and he was the boss of a nearby agency. He would chat with me, invite me out for food and drinks, and even celebrated my 24th birthday, always covering the expenses. Eventually, I became his assistant at the agency. We lived together in his house, enjoyed delicious meals, and attended numerous parties and events. He treated me well until he grew tired of me. One day, a stranger called his house and told me he was seeing others behind my back. I was shocked. When I confronted him, he lied, claiming someone was trying to break us up. His lies unraveled when he gave me an STD. I was furious. He took me to a doctor, and it was my first time getting treated for an STD. I felt scared and ashamed. I eventually forgave him after I recovered. Back then, I was young and naive. I didn’t understand what love was; I just appreciated his kindness, as I never received special treatment at home. I finally broke up with him after he started verbally abusing me when he was drunk, saying very nasty things. We were together for about a year until, after a heated argument, he physically abused me with an object over my head. I realized then that this was not the life I wanted for myself. I decided to leave him. He was devastated. He asked me to talk and threatened to out me. I lied, telling him I had informed my parents about his abuse and that he forced me to be gay. He was shocked and sadden and left me alone after that. I realized I never really loved him; I only loved the fun and care he provided. I’m glad that chapter is behind me. I still do get people interested in me in my 30s but I by then, I had learned my lessons and knows better. There is always a price to pay.

I guess I shall go straight to the point and ask if anyone want to meet up for coffee this week? My intention here is to make friends and see how the connections work out before letting things flow naturally No point putting my introduction here, rather introduce myself formally on the coffee meet up. But brief intro is that i’m 29 this year, read and collect books, bulking up and always spontaneous for last min plans. Hmu

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After being single recently, decided to open up myself by joining friends to outing and activities. It was all good as it has been a while. Mahjong, Karaoke, Charity, Bowling, Cycling and to name a few. On the National Day weekend, I hosted a BBQ gathering at my place whereby it was with a few close friends. At the end of the BBQ, this best friend of mine offered help to clean up. Without thinking too much, I just let him to help as all the while he has been a friend who treated me very well. One of the reason will be we both can clicked well. After cleaning up the bbq pit and bringing up the stuff back to my unit, my friend said he want to cool down a bit b4 leaving. So, I just let him to help himself while I finished up the packing and head to shower. While I was having shower, he came in n joined and the rest of the story (u guys she know). I had my room door closed while showering and this is not the 1st time. We had been very good friends for few years and he is the one who treated me very good. On the next morning, we woke up and had breakfast mentioning whatever happened stays during that time. It has been a month now and we both react as usual. At times, I felt like we were kinda like sexting. Anyone here has the same encounter and how you react?

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I chanced upon a touching video of Princess of Wales, Catherine as she announced that her chemotherapy regime has finally ended. As she looked back and has a new appreciation and perspective of life and that simple things in life can be taken for granted. She is blessed to have strong support from her loved ones and her love of her life being the rock amidst her personal turmoil. Hope that in our own ways, we all can be good support for the people around us and find our own support in times of need. For anyone who is going through a tough time, hopefully we can find light at the end of the tunnel and get out of the woods safe.

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I was inspired by @GachiMuchi's story and it reminded me of a period in my time when I had this older guy. To some degree perhaps it is a rite of passage, a form of pederasty. It was around the last 6 months of my NS when I met this guy at the SAFRA town club at Wheelock Place. I had gone to used the gym there as I had plans to meet my friends at Olio Dome after. During my workout I noticed this older guy checking me out, and when I used the spa facilities later he followed, and we striked up a conversation. Long story short, after meeting my friends, he picked me up in his BMW then and we drove to his apartment along Holland Road. He was a nice guy, closeted. Family ran one of the big tour agencies and he is in family business. We somewhat built up a routine, where he would pick me up from camp some weekday evenings as I could book out, and we'd drive to his place, and I'd spend the night there, and he drove me back the next morning. We'd go to nice restaurants, etc. and never once did I foot the bill. We went shopping, but it just felt weird having someone to pay for me, and so I never asked him to get me anything. He was a sweet guy, and looking back, I also felt that he was a lonely guy. I think partly because he was closeted, and being in the family business, he had to maintain the facade. We parted ways when I was getting ready to move overseas for uni. but as a farewell, I bought him a meal and a Ericsson phone (this was the circa 97-98 when Ericsson phones were the rage). We lost touch and I have not seen him in over 25 years.

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Anyone abstaining from sex? I only started recently but it seems to make me more romantic. Ofcourse it also makes me hate my life someother times. I want to know if there is a connection between sex and general mood of guys. By sex I mean penetrative sex!

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in uni, my female housemate's malaysian boyfriend came over for a short visit and stayed with her. i could hear them having sex through the wall of my bedroom. it would drive me crazy becasue he was so handsmoe. one day when both of them were out i took their used condoms from their wastepaper basket and played with his cum, and swallowed it after a while. not really thinking properly back then... later moved in with a dominant white guy and that was humiliating on another level lol

First experience was playing around in trevvy. Chatted up a few man and was chatted up by a man in his 40s. I was still in ns at that point. I didn't really know what I want but I know I wanted to try anal. I didn't want romance, I just wanted the sexual experience so I lied. I told him I've fingered and toyed myself before even though I haven't hoping that he would fck me. Which he did. We exchanged numbers and I met up at his place. Once we met, he offered me a drink and led me to his room. I was so nervous. He undressed me and even though I said I didn't want romance, I automatically kissed him. We made out for a while before he began to suck me off while still toying with my nipples. This was the first time anyone had ever sucked me. It was exhilarating. He then laid me down on his bed and I was nervous because I lied about ever playing with my ass. He lubed me up well and tried to put it in but it was difficult. He whispered in my ear and told me to relax. He really did take his time. He told me to breathe in and in a slow but swift motion, he was in and that's when I entered a whole new world of both pain and pleasure. I even managed to cum hands free but that was probably because he fucked hard while saying that I lied to him. He said he knew I was a virgin from the start and he liked it. We met up a few more times after that but I ultimately stopped meeting him because I felt bad and started dating girls. I'm still trying to find him because he was my first. Haha. But oh well, now I'm married and I'm still wanting to be slut on the side. All because he made me feel like one.

No need to be disappointed. Buddhism teach us not to be affected by anything.😁

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Disappointment has acquired a permanent spot in my mind lately! People either want to use or be used. Everyone wants you to see only the persona they project but want to know the real you. Doesn't seem fair now, does it?

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Trying to look for a workout buddy to do some jogging and static exercises around tampines/bedok area maybe once or twice a week

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Finally tasted some man meat after a hiatus. Sucked him for god knows how long and couldn’t get enough. Felt so so good to taste a man’s cock on my tongue and feel his cock shape with my throat. His indulgent moans, sighs, and, especially, gasps, as I deepthroated him tightly told me I still have it in me as a decent cocksucker. Told him to come in my mouth — I tasted his vanilla cum as he shot his load. Then I milked his cockhead with my mouth and throat tightly till he had spasms and squirmed and begged me to stop.

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Damn that's crazy man. Getting a HDB for a single is already hard enough. You only buy at 35 and have to wait 4 years to get it constructed. By then you are already 39. And he had to surrender it. Must have sucks.

I enjoy side fun so much. It gave me different and better satisfaction than anal. With anal, you might get pleasure but also pain, especially doing it with top who doesn't observe and listen. And most likely ends with both cum and get all wasted, full stop. Whereas being a Side, doing lite, it's much more enjoyable. Kissing, touching, hugging, cuddling, nipping, frotting, rimming, licking sucking balls and cxck, fingering. All these could be electrifying in certain moments. So much pleasure and connection. You can do it whole night non-stop. Cum then continue lite until rock hard and cum again. Endless pleasure and it's relatively safer fun.

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@Forbidden Vulpes I am sorry to hear what you are going through. It is tough and I am glad you took the courage to open up and share how you feel here. While the solutions you are looking for may not be right here, it does help having an outlet to express some of the internal turmoil you are going through and there are people whom you have never met in person who will be empathetic and support your journey. What you are going through now is tough and no doubt they have impacted your life. However, if you look back, they have made you a much stronger person than you think. With every challenge thrown in your way, you have managed to deal with them. Some days you overcome them, other days they overwhelm you. You cannot stop or control what others say or think or behave, however, you can control yourself. Emotional pain can be a pool we wallow in or draw strength from. It is up to us to choose how we can take those past experiences, good and bad, to shape our present and future. With therapy from a professional, you will equip yourself with the skills to do so, and lead a more satisfactory life.

I also think that traditional therapy offers very little help for the money, if anything at all. What I did find helpful long ago was a "men's group", a group of men, me included, assembled with a therapist, discussing our problems. I had blamed much of my problems on the early death of my father when I was a baby. But hearing the stories of other men who felt so abused by their fathers, removed any feeling of victimization I had from that. Instead, I started to feel proud of being a good father to my son in spite of never having had a father myself. This taught me that we only see one side of the coin...

Pls get some help in terms of therapy. It’s a good sign that you have recognised where the issue lies but we all need help always when we can’t find solution or need someone to guide us. Therapy may help

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