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So it occurred to me as I am catching up on this forum, I had always shared my fun and pleasurable experiences. Rarely have I ever shared about the not so good experiences and I am sure many of you had your share of horror or "ugh!" moments. From guys who did not douche properly, to b.o., and other encounters, we all had those moments where we go "WTF?" Feel free to chip in. I will start with 2 recent encounters I had in Singapore back in November. I was chatting with this guy in his early 40s, back and forth on Grindr, and he insisted on meeting. While he is not exactly my type per se, I agreed to meet with him. Instead of meeting directly at my hotel, I picked a nearby joint. We met at the appointed time. He worked nearby and was dressed in your typical office attire. Shirt and pants. I made polite conversation trying to get to know him on a friendly basis, but he kept hinting about wanting to have sex. While I was a bit tad horny that morning, it was something I could hold off by distracting myself with work and reserve for the evening. Nonetheless, his persistence wore me down, (ok, he used a little bit of flattery, which I fell for) and I figured WTF, let's have a quicky since I have the next 2 hours free. I brought him to my room, and quickly we both stripped to our underwear. (He wore Renoma briefs). He gave me these gentle pecks on the lips and cheeks, which felt weird like he is kissing a grandparent or a child. I am into the passionate tongue twisting type of kiss that sucks the breathe out of you, and that was the first sign of how unremarkable of things to come. He then moved on to my nips which he suckled like I am some cow. None of that gentle bites, and little tease with the tongue. Nope. Just sucking like a baby on his mama's tit. After getting his fill on my nips, he moved down, and used his hands to play with the outline of my dick which got me hard through my jock. For a while, he seemed content to be just squeezing my dick but keeping it hard. No mouth action of any sort, as if he was squeezing a banana for fun. Frustrated, I pushed him against the mattress and got on top of him, and decided to take charge. I kissed him and tried to get his mouth open up, but the lips remained firmly sealed, so i moved to his neck and played his nips etc. I managed to get both our underwear off at some point, and we were both hard. As he laid on the bed, I climbed forward so that my crotch is on to his face to indicate I wanted a blow job. He smiled politely, and just grabbed it instead and gave a half ass hand job, which I could do it myself. It was at that point that I decided that this is not going to work. He is not going to blow me, much less get fucked by me, and so I stopped him. I basically told him point blank what I thought. It is not working out. I think we have different expectations of what sex is, and I think it is better that we stop and part on friendly terms. He apologized and got dress and left. After that, he pretty much blocked me on Grindr much to my relief. I don't know what he was expecting when he hinted about having sex. We probably miscommunicated somewhere along the meeting at the coffee shop. With the second guy, the circumstances were more or less similar. Again, he was someone I had chatted with for a while on Grindr, and asked to meet up. So i agreed. I was working out of the hotel that afternoon, and so I told him to just meet me at the hotel's restaurant on the third floor. He showed up on time, and I escorted him to my room after we made some polite conversation. I admit to that I have a problem, maybe it has to do with me hating to reject people outright. I always feel a little guilty for doing so, especially with guys who are not my type. But I also remind myself about karma every time I do so. We got to my room, stripped. This guy was an improvement from the previous guy. The foreplay was ok, BUT when I get down ready to rim him, he stopped me as he did not douche. WTF? How is it you arrange to meet up with someone to hook up and did not douche before hand? Unfortunately the hotel toilet has no bidet. and so there was no way to continue playing. I am not into side fun, to me side fun is foreplay. I have stated before i am traditional when it comes to sex, meaning good old fashion fucking is involved. Anyway, we stopped. I was a little annoyed and I ask him to leave. He apologized profusely and asked if we could reschedule to another day when he would be more prepped. I felt bad, but I told him honestly no. Perhaps I was too quick to judge. To me sex is not that complicated. If you are approaching and coming to me, be prepared. I made it clear in my Grindr profile what I am into and enjoy. If we agree to meet, it's not really to chit chat and be friends. That takes time to evolve and build. It's Grindr, not Facebook. A number of the other guys I met and hooked up were all prepared. With one guy, we even got together three times.

Had an awesome exhibition moment at sunplaza park on Monday night around 10pm. To the guy who helped while I jerked off naked and the foreign worker who watched, hope you had a nice time.

Oh god, I've waited for someone to ask this for the longest time, and I've also kept this in for an inhumane amount of time, so here goes. Prepare tissues, because you're going to laugh your ass off and meet your maker for 5 minutes. Also because it's so chaotic, you might just cry and wonder why you bothered reading this. Once met a dude here who carried the tiniest of a micropenis. No hate to people with tiny dicks, we work with what we have, but my distaste for this person is skin-deep. This was many years ago, we had met on a different platform and chatted briefly, before deciding to meet that night itself for drinks. At first glance, he seemed pleasant. Very cute, and eloquent. A little effeminate, which was fine for me, but there were occasional moments of him touching my legs with his and him randomly squeezing my thighs in public. I took no issue to all that, given it was at night and people were mostly passing by. Conversations were mostly getting to know one another but he was incredibly secretive and refused to divulge any further information than necessary while probing the most about me. Turns out, he's in HR and as expected of any HR folks with power trip issues, wanted to remain in control of the conversation. He put on this air of class and elegance, and you could tell he was assessing and judging me like a corporate talent, but it was all moot with his occasional bad breath that he refused to wash down with just a single sip of water, instead letting his latte breath remain. The clock struck midnight and suddenly the conversation turned naughty. We wanted to get frisky, but he lived 30 minutes away from the meet-up spot, I arrived at our agreed venue by Grab. Naturally, the most reasonable thing to do was to head back to his place, then following a midnight rendezvous, I'll Grab home. Still physically attractive enough for me to do stuff with him. There we were in his car, thinking we were heading to his place. 10 minutes into the drive, he said, "Eh, isn't this the road to my place?" I said, "Yeah, we're headed to your place, aren't we?" Then he responded, "No no, let's go to your place." Mind you, we were at a flyover. There were no visible stopping points for him to pull over, or I would have absolutely requested that and Grabbed the fuck home. I tried to reason with him that it was easier to head to his place, as I live with my family, and my then-brother's girlfriend was living under the same roof with us full-time. It was no longer easy for me to sneak guys back home for action. Imagine this, two tall dues seated in a fucking Malaysian Mini Cooper aka Kelisa, having a moment of bickering about whose house to go, while the dude absolutely went back and forth the flyover and the roundabout for a good 10-15 minutes, just going "No no, your place," "Like I said, I can't host tonight." At one point, he went full-on effeminate with me and whimpered like a girl to beg me to go back to my place. "NOOOOOOOOO, I DOWANNNNNNN," in his highest pitch while squeezing the absolute living lights out of my thighs as he held his steering with one hand. You would think this was the worst. Think again. I'll gladly own up to my mistake and say I was being none the wiser. I was in my mid-20s, hormones (still) raging, and was a bigger subscriber to the sunk cost fallacy. At this point, with his incessant pleading, I relented and took him back to my place. OH THE HORRORS. There we were, having shifted our routes and now headed for mine. We had approximately 20 minutes to reach my place, leaving room for us to touch each other in the car to set ourselves up for the moment in my room. I started teasing his clothed nipples with my hands, and he was obviously liking it. But just as we were finally off to a good start, the moment came to an abrupt end because he was not having any of the buildup. 5 minutes into the teasing, dude decided to unbuckle his pants with one hand, and mind you, while the white street lights were clearly shining right into every driver's car, instructed me to touch his dick. "Ahh... ahh... touch my dick," He deftly unbuckled and unzipped his pants with one hand while moving a little with his legs as he had his right foot on the pedal. Kids, adults, whatever, don't do this. Bad move, deathwish, call it whatever you want, oh, many horrible choices were made that night. He then grabbed my hand and shoves it right inside his pants. First thought, ooooh, this is pretty tiny, but maybe he isn't fully erect. Let's keep going. I played with his dick, stroking and teasing him in any way possible, then moving to toy with his groins. As his dick got harder, so did my excitement wane. Clearly, he wasn't packing, but that's okay. Then came the other part where he was absolutely not pre-cumming at all, which okay... I'm picky with this, I like guys who pre-cums massively. We were now close to my home, and he started getting cold feet. He looked at me, went "Hmm... I don't know leh. Is this a good idea?" All the while refusing to let me out the car without any action. "Okay... I know a few areas near my place that are quiet, we can test the waters there," I bring him to two spots. The first beneath a bridge that while quiet and secluded, did arouse suspicion if any other vehicles were to pass the area, as the guy's engines were still running. I then brought him to a residential area, which as the saying goes, the most dangerous place can sometimes be the safest. To our sides were cars, all empty and locked as it was 1AM midnight. Ahead of us, a collection of thick foliages and dense shrub that provided the most cover. And with the back of his car facing the road, it was unlikely any one would notice people in the car, not unless we moved too much and caused the car the tremble in the slightest. The houses in the area were gated with full-on walls too. My turn to be served, albeit unplesantly. He declined my seat all the way down without warning, with me absolutely falling to my back in a fucking slapstick comedy-esque fasion. We tried kissing, but his bad breath put me off. He then lifts my shirt, and starts sucking my nipples. Ooooh, at least he's got some mad tongue skills was what came to mind. We kept at it for 10 minutes, before my paranoia kicked in. "Okay, you know what, I don't feel safe here. Let's just head back to my room." I was hard, I wanted to end what was started and I'll make an exception this round. Again kids, poor judgment. Don't. Just don't. I brought him to my place, told him to park his car a few houses down from mine. As we reached my doorstep, I instructed him to go straight to my room without any noise, no turning on the lights, nothing, just wait for me in my room. I deftly unlocked the door, create an opening for him to head up, then locked my doors and made my way to my room. I head into my room, and in the fucking dark, and I had not have of the context above beforehand, I would have absolutely thought I conjured some weird Slender Man shit and summoned a dark entity into my room in the wee hours of the morning. There he stood, in the dark, without any warning, completely naked. Dude had decided to strip and made himself comfortable in my own fucking room, and lied down on my bed without my consent. But it's whatever at this point. I desperately wanted to get this over with, cum, clean up then head to bed. I stripped, and got into bed with him and decided to get intimate. I don't even know where to start, because his body languages were absolutely everywhere. He wants to cuddle for a headstart, but shifts to placing my hands to jerk him off, he takes my hands off his dick, pins me on my own bed and sucks, nibbles, occasionally biting too hard on my nipples, then he grabs my chest like it's some squeeze toy. Bro, it isn't. "Ahhh, ahhh, touch my dick, touch my dick," while absolutely squeezing the shit outta my pecs. So I grabbed his dick. My mind obviously tracing off elsewhere, clearly not wanting to experience this moment psychologically nor emotionally. And in the spur of moment, having lost any form of inhibitions and allowing my intrusive thoughts to overcome me, I, while stroking his dick, very casually asked, "If this the biggest your dick gets when it's fully erect?" Ho boy. The way he recoils from being on me and looked at me dead in the eyes in dark, "What do you mean by that?" I had to cover it up with some white lie, but we both knew what it meant and he absolutely lost his confidence by this point. I simply told him I'm ready to come and told him to come with me so we can end the night. We jerked ourselves off, more pec grabbing from him toward me, which I'm already done with at this point. He came, and even with cumming, this dude absolutely failed his job. Not only was his cum absolutely diluted and watery which probably indicated health issues (he has men's health issues, trust me, again no discrimination), but the dude decided he needed to stain my bed sheet with a single droplet of his cum shot. There goes my newly cleaned bedsheets. The rest is history, we both cleaned up. I walked him outta my house, and we never spoke again, that is until several years back in Blowing Winds. I'll keep the second part of the story short. One day, while posting on the MY thread about meeting up, I received a PM from a user who asked if I was keen grab a meal together. I liked the idea of doing something different and concurred. Met up at the restaurant, was early to the venue, the person who walked in left my jaws dropping because lo and behold, it was him. By this point, he had no recollection of our encounter, I suppose he mentally blocked it off. Old habits die hard, he was still as inquisitive and nosy as ever. Expects a ton of information out of me, refuses to divulge his. By this point, having had a foreknowledge of him and through the power of Google/LinkedIn, I knew where he worked and reminded myself to never apply to his organization. Last part about him that made me dislike him oh so bad. He'll gladly help yourself to your food without your consent. What a massive turnoff. Dude assumed we were having a connection, but he had no idea I had beef (no pun intended) with him taking a few pieces of my beef off my beef tepenyaki 😪. Thank god I managed to split our bill and he didn't suggest sharing the cost. Got home, he left me a DM in my inbox saying he would like to do this again. Pointedly told him I wasn't keen. The end. Don't PM me asking for his name, I'm not revealing his handle. What I will say is dude is a massive fraud, what more with him publicly telling people he's cute.

ngl this story was pretty attention grabbing and i sat through the whole wall of text thinking lord may this person never find me 😂

You're correct. I do miss the early branding campaigns of 2(X)ist in the 90s. The boxes with the black and white photography of the male torso.

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A short period of time in my life seeing this dentist who meet me in toilet somewhere, hand me the small cup you use to rinse with mouthwash when u go for ur dental check up, then we jerk off into it in the stalls, go out, swap, and drink it in front of each other. My regular little dose of male-based protein for a few months.

I gave a blowjob for the first time in my life last night. That was... exciting!

Omg, the first type of guys, I encountered so many times, even in sauna. Their kissing and licking skills are just so damn bad I feel pity for them. Sometimes I just don't understand what sex is for them when they're so reserved and didn't wanna do anything, or do everything so badly. Tsk Tsk.

was enjoy public sex yesterday. Thanks for the 5 stranger non stop me fuck and cum on my body.

34/173/73 Bi married white here, love to suck

Hey guys 👋 This is not a hate post. Or am I writing to break anyone’s rice bowl. I wanted to share my recent experience with a home-based massage as it was quite unusual. For context, I’ve only had one other home-based massage before, though I’ve tried massages overseas (JB, Bangkok, Vietnam, China) and a couple in Singapore. I’ll leave it to you to decide if this place is worth trying. Firstly, this was an in-call session, which I usually prefer since I don’t live alone. However, it was strange that he didn’t have a proper massage bed—he used his own bed instead. The condition of the place wasn’t great and looked like it had seen better days. Now, a disclaimer: I don’t have any issues with individuals on the spectrum. In fact, many individuals in the LGBTQ+ community have ADHD (I suspect I do), autism, or some combi of the two. This masseur is clearly autistic; he appears not to have social ques? And the experience felt extremely uncomfortable for me. He kept making comments like, “You’re so good looking,” “Can you be my boyfriend?”, “Can I come to your place for home-cooked food?” etc. Looking back, I take some responsibility for not leaving when I saw the condition of the place. But I genuinely wanted a massage—the prices (listed on Carousell) were extremely affordable, and there were a few good reviews, though I’m not sure if those were entirely genuine (after checking, it could be multiple accounts created by him) or written out of compassion. Also, IMHO the massage also wasn't that great. But in his defense, he mentions that he does more Sensual Massage VS "Tui Na" (which I preferred). It was definitely not a relaxing experience for me. If you’re considering trying it, proceed with caution.

today afternoon saw a skinny guy at cw, wearing black speedo, hv a nice shaved dick 😍 know his name is chris

I'm thirsty. Anyone serving? Can host. East. Anyone wants to get a sucK?

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今天是不是自己好脸路上遇到的帅哥都和自己对视😝

The writing is clear, engaging, and vividly written with alot of emotions and details, that it's easy for the reader to visualise what had transpired. Gosh,....it sure sounds like like a he-devil and the ex boyfriend from hell... I must say there appears to be a touch of humour too - pardon me if it wasn't intended. I let out a few laughs eg.. the staining of your fresh bedsheets with a single drop of cum.. hahahahahaha. and the helping of himself to your beef tepenyaki. hahahaha. And publicly telling people that he's cute You go boy, good writing job I hope your writing has allowed you to release the pent up emotions Makes one contemplate if it can be any worse. Hang in there; the next chapter will be much better!

In the end it is a matter of the price. Honestly, I didn't travel to KL by bus for the past 10 or more years. ha ha. But travelled by bus to other parts of Malaysia. To KL it is just too time consuming. It is better to plan in advance and take a cheaper flight. Buses are better for remote areas in Malaysia, Melaka, Pahang, Negeri Sembilan etc. However, as I do not know the reason why you prefer the bus, still some advice: In bad cases, (the major problem is that Friday is the off day in Johor) and highways are quite blocked) your bus trip might turn to 12 hours (6 - 8 hours seems common to KL). The worst is when Tuas or Causeway has lots of traffic also. Same can happen before KL, when traffic slows down again, like Friday afternoons, evenings when nearly the whole of Malaysia travels to Bukit Bintang by car... I had returns that took 2 - 3 hours just to cross the immigration at both sides. My worst was 8 hours alone from the Malaysian immigration to Tuas. During weekdays Mo - Thurs there is less congestion at the immigration and the highways are smoother. The busstrip may arrive in about 6 hours to KL. I have good experience with Transtar and Luxury Coach. they mostly have a person on board from the bus company next to the driver and free wifi on the bus. (The pricier ones at Transtar come with a tv screen). Luxury Coach is more the seat width and wifi during the trip. They seem a bit pricier, but they never failed me. On times when traffic is bad on the Malaysian highway, they skip the stop at the Malaysia Pong Yeng Food court but will make a short stop at one of the highway resting places (where you can buy something to eat also). You can book quite conveniently with easybook https://www.easybook.com There are also pictures of the buses and you can select your departure point/ arrival point, what is convenient for you. Last advice: for a bus to KL bring a long sleeve shirt or sweat shirt as during the trip the bus might get very cold from the aircon.

anyone heading tpy for swim?

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There are many service providers. Try First Coach. One of the best. Search online for location, and buy online.

Actually I had expected that by now you're of an age that you learn to handle such situations. Unless you are dead horny ... but best is to reject from the start instead of keeping people in a belief that it will work out. I know that ugly situation of having someone in your hotel room and then need to tell him that it probably will not work with him. You should change your stance on this and just learn a good approach to nicely reject the guy. I mostly just direct the conversation to something else, weather, work, food... and then just admit "it wouldn't work between us". Most guys are very understanding, when you nicely reject. If the guy is acceptable in looks and it is nothing physical, then maybe just let him suck you and jerk him off. In most cases guys just wanna cum. For the rejection I would just use some words that the profile pictures don't match the reality or that I expected something different. It also works to tell the guy: "We can try but I probably won't get hard at all". 99.9% of the guys understand this.

Wow, didn’t know the stadium toilet is so happening.

Welcome! it's a long journey. Be patient and don't stop learning. Consistency is the name of the game. Have fun!

Sought to entice an intrigued but indecisive Tamil daddy into finally meeting up by filming myself take an 8-inch, transparent dildo to the base and showing that it came out spotlessly clean, only to regret leaving the professional cameras at my mom's house because my phone's grainy capture makes my smooth, hairless skin look patchy 😭

Anyone at jewel now?

Oh yes I have a couple of those too

better for you to contact him via whatsapp directly.

Hi all recently did this challenge just sharing here so that anyone keen can do it as well. Was tasked to only wear a tshirt that is long enough to cover my below then take lift to last floor of hdb block go to the stairs strip remove my cage. Edge myself by stroking 30 times (not allowed to cum at any point) at each floor. By the time reach the first floor if didnt cum task completed wear back cage if cum at any point walk back home naked.

Attended my first HIIT class today, very effective session, burnt lots of calorie!

YCK stadium shower stalls are high enough to have understall fun. Have yet to try though cuz idk what time I should go there to cruise/exhibit. and I'm not sure if/what time they will chase people out to close the stadium. but overall quite a good spot imo

Love to see guy seeking to release. I do like to suck DM me if nearby

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I usually just doing rowing as cardio since it's feel more like full body workout haha. It's really hard to see if the movement is correct or not through text. But I would say that it's better to play conservatively (lower weight, high repetition) to find a good form before increasing the weight. I'm a novice myself though haha

Unfamiliar number randomly calling me up from Xilin Inner Mongolia got me like "HELLO HELLO WHICH OF MY ANCESTORS IS THIS"

With that ass, you can attract and conquer any cocks.

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Anyone going to Katong pool for a swim tonight?

Supposed to be grey but sweat soaked after gym

I only cum in mouth whoever suck me. There was a time this guy refuses to let me cum in mouth later although it was agreed earlier on so I push his head and force cum in his mouth. He was angry but I just pant up and go. I kept my promise at least.

Me too. every time I masturbate, I always use my fingers to gather all of it and lick it. when cum I try to wipe with my hands and lick also. For other guys depends, some guys have bitter cum but generally I like to eat cum. One guy I met cum in food and ask me to eat also. quite hot

In Penang for massage. Strictly by appointment only. Date: 20th (Friday) 9am to 9pm, 21th (Sat) 9am to 9pm, 22th (Sun), 9am to 9pm.

Yishun anyone?

you can come to Fusionopolis branch… there are few guys on weekends who tan in thong

Chev hse (raffles place) toilet also quite happening. Once I dropped by the toilet on lvl 2 on my way to work, saw that the handicap cubicle was occupied. Decided to "check" it out, I gently went to the cubicle beside, lower my head and peek over. Was rewarded with an erotic sight! There were 2 guys inside, one was lying on the toilet seat cover with legs up in the air, the other in business wear was fucking him slowly, and covering the bottom's mouth. Could faintly hear the bottom's "umph.. umph.." coinciding with the top's every thrust. Didn't want to spoilt the fun for them, I quietly left the cubicle, jerked off at the urinal outside to that image fresh in my head.