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Hi guys. I'd like to share my story. I used to frequent sauna in my mid 20s and am in my mid 30s now. I have stopped going to sauna for 2 years. I slowly got to learn that sauna is a place with really really bad qi (the Chinese call it 磁场/ people in the west call it "vibration"). I used to have a good career with good pay but things started to go south for some reason. I ended up not doing well and am now making ends meet. It wasn't until I learn that years of going to sauna and having fun with strangers have slowly reduced my store of good luck (or good karma) that I realized I wasted so many years of my life. When good luck runs out, bad things will kick in. The Chinese believe in the saying that 一衰衰三年, literally: once swei (bad luck) will swei for three years - it means bad luck can prolong for a long while and it's not a one-off thing. Even if we are doing well now, somehow bad things will happen - like strains in relationship, problem with superior etc. And we can pass off the bad chi after going to sauna to our family/friends too - energy is contagious. And when you make out with a guy in sauna who's going through bad luck himself, his bad luck/energy will be transferred to you as well. If you are going through good luck, you won't be affected much, but your good luck will be reduced. Once good luck ends, bad things really will kick in. Back to my story. I first went there when I was 25. It was out of curiosity. I never allowed anyone to touch me, as a part of me was telling myself that, well, I'm just curious. I remembered someone touched me in a steam room, but I pushed his hand right away. He then responded, "Oh, you are a newbie." I was. But then the more often I went, the more I felt lustful. I went to almost all saunas out there. From initially not allowing strangers to touch me, I slowly had the guts to touch them. As time went on, each sauna visit made me somehow a little bolder. It's called reinforcement in psychology. But unknowingly, it was like a drug. I got addicted. In hindsight, I realised my life slowly went downhill in terms of career success and financial achievement. Things spiraled as well. I went to sleazy massage places. And I had B2B massage as well. This just increased my lust and addiction. Can you see how scary it was? The negative spiral can go on and on and eventually ruin your life. Worse still, take away your life. You never know what kind of viruses you could get. I know people say, "Well, play safe, and that's fine." But the vibration/bad energy/swei energy will stick with you for a long while, and there's no way to shield yourself from it even though you play safe. Energy can be transferred, remember? It's physics. To anyone out there, particularly young people in 20s, please please please learn from my mistake. Don't let the best 10 years of your life be wasted and ruined in saunas. This is the most important 10 years of your life, and it can set the pace for your life for the next 30 years. Make it the best ones. Remember, you have a family who love you. PS: if anyone of you can read Mandarin, here's the story of how a guy's family and life went seriously messy after years of fooling around doing may crazy things to fulfill his desire : http://www.shengmiao.cn/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=68464

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1. Most of the guys here have pointed to medical / government resources. I won't repeat their recommendation here. 2. If you still feel the need to "talk" with a human, can consider Action for Aids (AFA) Anonymous Testing. They have Counsellors who you can speak to face to face and get a hiv test. Book an appointment with them at https://afa.org.sg/what-we-do/hiv-sti-testing-and-linkage-to-care/anonymous-testing-service-ats/ From AFA website : https://afa.org.sg/what-we-do/hiv-sti-testing-and-linkage-to-care/anonymous-testing-service-ats/ 3. Can also consider medical clinics to talk to a LGBT friendly medical doctor. https://www.pulse-clinic.com.sg/

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In general, People can get HIV through: vaginal/frontal and anal sex without a condom sharing drug injecting equipment sharing sex toys mother-to-child transmission during pregnancy coming into contact with contaminated blood. Most activities pose no risk of getting or passing on HIV. HIV cannot be passed on by: kissing hugging shaking hands sharing space with someone sharing a toilet sharing household items such as cups, plates, cutlery, or bed linen any other general social contact. For transmission to occur, the HIV in these fluids must get into the bloodstream of an HIV-negative person through a mucous membrane (found in the rectum, vagina, mouth, or tip of the penis), through open cuts or sores, or by direct injection (from a needle or syringe). So, to answer your question, if there was no blood nor semen involved, transmission is unlikely to have taken place. For more info, check these out: https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv/about-hiv/how-hiv-transmitted https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics/overview/about-hiv-and-aids/how-is-hiv-transmitted Stay safe and stay calm. If unsure go for a medical checkup. Take care, and season's greetings. Cheers

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It really comes across as perspective or POV thing. If I take a guy I like to a nice restaurant, on me, it's not that I am a sugar daddy. It's because I want to create a situation where I can get to know the guy better. Consider the time and money spent on the restaurant an investment. I would pick a quieter restaurant where we can have a leisurely conversation without being rushed or have to speak up due to the noise level. So it is not about money, it is about being able to spend quality time. Having said that, I'm not a sugar daddy, but I am far more advanced in my career given my years of working and age, I am compensated accordingly. Sure, I may have relatively expensive tastes, but by no means, it translate to I will take care of your financially until you turn 30. As I've shared before, I am ok helping out a little financially here and there, but I am in no position to fund another person's life. To give some perspective, a client/friend of mine who is very wealthy is in his 60s. Twice-divorce, and has a 20-something year old girlfriend. He pays for her apartment in the city, and some pocket money which allows her to maintain a certain lifestyle that most 20-something women would be envious of. She "works" mostly on her music and her social media. I was sent demo tracks of her "singing", but the whole white girl doing Christian rap/pop thing is definitely not her genre but I was too polite to tell my client/friend who was so excited about it. Furthermore, she is too old to break into the scene to be honest being in her mid-20s I think. Pop stars are manufactured when they hit their tweens. To me, this client/friend meet my definition of a "sugar daddy." So if you believe you have what it takes, go hang out at private clubs or yatch clubs, or where rich men gather. Ask friends who work in private banking to invite you to their parties and events. You will find sugar daddies at those places.

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SS Reflexology Abu Sities I recently went to SS Reflexology Abu Sities again due to soreness and not feeling well, hoping to receive treatment for physical relief. This time, I again tried another masseur recommended by BW members besides my regular masseur. So I booked a 3 hour treatment via Whatapps and was given a list of masseuse numbers to choose from. Then I chose the popular ones that members have been recommending. When the masseuse picked me up at the spa counter to wash my feet, I was surprised that the masseuse was actually elderly and I believe he could be my grandpa (no discrimination, just personal preference). I would be guilty and feel bad if HE happened during treatment. So, at that moment, I cleared my mind and went for treatment, even though many members said he did offer HE. Therefore, treatment begins with dry compression techniques. The pressure was very good and I could tell he was an experienced masseuse. Now that I've cleared my mind of just enjoying the treatment, I just close my eyes and enjoy. As the massage started going on I felt the techniques he was using were repetitive which made the massage almost boring. The pressure was nice but boring. As he massaged me, his body always leaned toward my hands until I could feel him bulging against my hands. So I could feel his dick being average sized and not awake. He kept pushing against my hand and then I touched him lightly and he enjoyed it. Okay, so I think that's a green light to what members have mentioned. He started teasing me, massaging my ass, towards the ass crack, and even rubbing oil in my asshole to moisten it and then slowly pump it with his fingers. I was like what, seriously! I would feel bad if I continued and I persist of not doing anything to him. He then moved further towards my balls while facing down and reached my penis. It felt so good and I became harden at that moment. So the treatment continued with my face up and he covered my eyes with a towel and continued massaging my legs. The process of the legs covered my balls and penis. I was completely horny at that moment, but still refrained from touching him. So, he decided to masturbate me by applying lots of oil on my penis. The pressure of his spasms made my penis wet and totally made me feel so good, I came! Yes, I came! He then cleaned me up and we continued the massage. Overall, I would say the massage pressure was good, but the technical skills used were repetitive which made the massage process boring. Maybe I think he's elderly, so I feel guilty if I touch him or even do something to him. I didn't touch him, but he eventually made me cum. Another mystery masseurs unlocked that provided HE/HJ. Pressure : 10/10 Skills : 6/10 Sensual : 6/10 HJ : 8/10 Will I repeat with him? : Maybe, Depends!

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SS Reflexology Abu Sities Back to SS Reflexology Abu Sities for a massage today and I decided to try a different masseur instead of my regular one. So, I went with a Thai masseur recommended by many members or review in the Telegram GFKL group. As usual, the masseur picked me up from the counter to wash my feet with a foot scrub, which was fantastic. We had some conversation while washing our feet and found him to be very friendly and spoke very good English. After washing my feet, I was escorted to the treatment room and I was delighted that I had a private room located beside the stairs with no curtain partition in between. This room is absolutely private and comfortable. The massage started with dry massage followed by oil application and the pressure was good. Massuer was very friendly and had a brief conversation. He constantly checks pressure and comfort levels. As for technique, I personally find it a bit boring since the massage strokes are pretty much the same, but the pressure and accuracy to points on the body compensate as a whole. As for the sensual part, his teasing skills were so good that I couldn't control and behave. The running hands over the ass crack, caressing the holes, the balls and towards my tools was driving me crazy. I was horny like crazy and completely lost in myself, I had no idea he was doing so much more than my normal regular masseur. He sat on my ass and gave me a long stroke as I could feel him fully embracing and hugging me, his hands caressing my nipples. This feeling is so crazy! Well then I couldn't control myself and my hands started exploring his tool and doing him a favor with a good blowjob. He was enjoying it and I could hear his soft moans. My tongue played with the head of his tool, driving him completely crazy. Then the massage went to the front, he massaged me so sensually, I didn't expect him to go further. He blew me up! Yes, he gave me a blowjob! I was like...ahhhh, he was stroking my tool and it made me cum. Long shots and heavy flowing loads until his tissue wasn't enough to wipe off. I could see how pleased he was with myself. I am also very satisfied. The massage continued, the massage pressure was still good and he was still teasing me which made me want a second round. He kissed me while massaging my neck and shoulders, kissing my cheeks and forehead carefully. Then he sat me up and held me from behind, caressing my nipples with his hands and rolling his lips and beard over my neck and ears. I'm crazy at that moment and I could felt like having sex with a boyfriend. If it wasn't a massage center, I think we both would have had completely satisfying sex. The massage was over, I think he forgot to wipe all the massage oil off me, and then he did some body stretches. He ended the massage and asked for my contact details in exchange. He bid me farewell professionally. I had a wonderful session and felt completely rejuvenated. Massage Skills : 7/10 Pressure : 10/10 Sensual : 10/10 HJ/BJ/HE : 10/10

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I think I know roughly who the masseur you mentioned in your review is. I did check with SS Abu Sities that they have only two Sabah male therapists, they are 46 and 47. And Thailand, I think it's 42, there's one that hasn't been found yet. I'm going to try 46 and 47 to review and see if it's true!

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An updated list of Male Therapists available at SS Foot Reflexology (as of 21 November 2022): Perak Road No. 56 = AOI Abu Siti Lane (George Town) No. 22 = Koko No. 39 = Jame No. 40 = Bel No. 41 = K No. 48 = Nu No. 51 = Lim No. 77 = Elvin No. 86 = Saw I didn't try all male therapists from SS (Abu Siti Lane) yet... Anyone who has already encountered any one of them, maybe you can share here for others references?

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