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June 1997 until now so 27 years and counting... I put in lots of effort because for many years, he was the type who could break up and move on anytime, so I was the one always salvaging the relationship. But now we are much older, we quarrel much less (almost completely stopped quarreling as a matter of fact). His bad point is he is very quick to lose his temper and his strong point is he is very faithful (doesn't fool around). I'm the complete opposite: always giving in to him but fool around a lot outside (many temporary FWBs and he knew it). At the end of the day, I loved him too much to let him go. We started out flip-flopping but because he has a big dick (bigger than mine) and it was painful being fucked by him, he only ever fucked me 2 or 3 times. Anyway he was more bottom and I was more top so I ended up fucking him for 2 years before we stopped having sex altogether because I got tired of his body and I was too unfaithful and got my fun outside. Of course he has his needs so I would just help him masturbate e.g. kiss him or lick his nipples while he jerks off. Over the years he has sacrificed a lot for me e.g. once I lost a lot of money playing shares, he gave me his ATM card and said, "Take everything." I told him then I would look after him the rest of his life and he said, "I believe you will make it." Happily I'm now financially secure and I'm keeping my promise to look after him. We go for holidays together a few times a year and he doesn't have to work any more.

You'd think that after going through the same experience a few times, it just stops bothering you eventually, but it apparently doesn't. Just going to share an experience I had on BW that's been turning me inside out but I won't mention names, because that would already be considered doxxing. I've always been pretty low profile on BW, at one point, I was also on hiatus. So by the time I decided to become active here again, I didn't know anyone anymore (all the old regulars that I've seen or known are gone). I updated my profile and DP, shortly, I got a message from a guy on BW, and we hit off, started chatting. We also exchanged contacts, chatted outside of BW. Eventually, we met up, walked and talked and engaged in clean and simple fun (non-anal). He also frequently showered me with compliments, although whether if it was just lust talking, I don't know but it felt nice. My self-esteem was at an all time low back then, I was a lot more shy than I was today, so a lot of his actions left a significant impact on me. I got busier and my life took a turn for a better, we talked and met lesser. I was soon on another hiatus from both BW and him. I returned again some time last year after going through some downs from real life, tried my luck and decided to DM him, I'm surprised that he replied and he still remembered who I was, and was also open about meeting again. He updated me about his life during the past few years, he also got his own place, which was nice so that we could meet privately. He learned about my gym progress and goals, and also offered to be my gym buddy (we shared the same gym). But of course, the happiness was short-lived. In time, I started to develop actual feelings from the reconnections, and made the decision to confess. This was accelerated by the fact that he was also gradually replying less to my texts for some reason (the messages were also becoming one-two word based). It was a do or die, I decided to meet him in person, told him that I wanted to talk about something. He heard me out, then I spilled. The silence seconds after was deafening and awkward, I soon realized that an irrevocable mistake was made. I apologized, but I also told him to give an answer, and that I would be alright even if the outcome was a negative one. He said he would let me know, and bade me goodbye. I got a long message later that night, an apology and a rejection. Maybe it was the thought of commitment, or the confession that scared him, or it was both. I don't know, because he never elaborated, he wished me luck and told me that we would not meeting anymore, nor would we be staying FWB (or even just friends) or being gym buddies. I still occasionally see him in the gym we frequent, but he pretty much reacts and looks at me like a total stranger, I may as well have never existed. He's still pretty active in BW, but he never responds to DMs anymore. I'm still feeling a mix of confusion, frustration, sadness and regret. I had a lot of unanswered questions, and still constantly think about the whole situation every now and then. Saying 'just move on' is really easy, but actually committing to it is the hard part. My endgame is just to pen my thoughts, to give myself the closure and move on. It also might be good to take a hiatus, and possibly a permanent one from BW at this point. If anyone wants to leave positive or negative comments, I'll okay with either. Thank you for reading.

Dunno your photo got upload to 晚报 or Stomp or not?

there was once, i freeball and forgot to zip... all the way from home to Orchard 😂

Don’t know yet , past two night is totally dark

The pools are cool temperature wise, and the water is filtered, as they keep it competition ready. Also, it's covered, so no sun.

Juru RNR Recently, I visited the newly built toilets at Juru RNR, which were officially opened for public use. The toilet is designed entirely out of bricks and the toilet cubicles still have flaws as the partitions can still pull out some holes to act as glory holes or peepholes. I’m sure it won’t be long before there’s a peephole for us, given to be that we are so naughty. Ha ha! The left side is designed as the women's toilet, and the middle is the children's changing room and OKU toilet. On the right is the men's room. After the renovation, the toilet is much cleaner than before and feels larger. The first thing that catches your eye when entering the men's room is the dressing table on the right. Going further in, there are standing urinals on the left and all the toilet cubicles on the right. There are still cruisers around, some regulars. I reached there around 1 to 3 pm and I saw at least 7 to 8 people lingering outside the toilets as some benches were provided outside the toilets. I met a guy who kept staring at me and eye blinking on me . He seemed cool and we moved into the toilet cubicle. The toilet cubicle was clean but there was a ceiling fan installed in the toilet ceiling which was actually nice and not hot. We started the foreplay as usual, kissing here, kissing there, touching here, stroking there, grabbing the dick, and finally, he got down on his knees, blew me up, and sucked me until I was dry. I ejaculated all my cum into his mouth and really enjoyed seeing the pleasure on his face. After everything was done we left the toilets and I probably had seen a few more people cruising there. So, I was horny that day and it was the perfect time to move on to U2 after I left Juru RNR. Then, I went to U2 and played 2-3 rounds. Ha ha! Hope the above informations do help!

It really sucks when there are misaligned expectations between both parties. Been there too. But remember what you did was very courageous. And as hard as it is to believe now, time will heal all wounds. Work on yourself during your hiatus and hope to see you back stronger. Hugs ok

Curious if any non chubby Chi or Malay lads are near or here?

After a long hiatus, finally saw him again… and he has become cuter.. is that even possible?? 🥹

Later around 11+?

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Anyone now?

27 172 67 fit chn here any fit guys for fun?

Loving the touch of my almost-forever practically baby-like smooth skin

Anyone into dick rubbing against each other with brief on?

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Had my first session with ET. Some background. I read his advert which describes " Wellness Touch Therapy has been described as feeling like there are rising waves that then crash down, building and building with ever growing intensity and delight. As this energy builds up, it is held deliciously before being allowed to disperse and spreads over the entire body. " and also some of the reviews here on ET performing edging on them. I was intrigued as I have been exploring orgasms without ejaculations and was able to achieve it very occasaionally in my solo sessions. The description in his advert is what I experience when I achieve orgasms multiple times. It builds and go higher with every orgasm. Prior to the session ET asked me what was my objective and I told him about me reading his ad and the reviews on edging and told him about myself and I wanted more than edging which is to achieve multiple orgasms. ET replied he will try his best. Was early for the session and ET was nice to accommodate. The session was as per the others have reviewed on his place, his understanding, his attention to details. I am not sure if my massage session was the same as the others. Based on the reviews I guess it was slightly different. I found that ET has the ability to tailor the session to the objectives of his customers. For my session, he started with unblocking the meridians so I can channel the sexual energies through the whole body. His strokes are intently done to achieve what my objectives are. After unblocking the meridians he proceeded to bring me to orgasms. All in I think I had 5 or 6 orgasms in the 60 min session. Every orgasm more intense than the previous one. At no point in time I had the urge of ejaculation which is very different from my own solo sessions. My own sessions I can usually only achieve 2 or 3 orgasms without the urge to cum. I think this was because his massage started with strokes to helped to unblock the meridians and channel the sexual energies to the other parts of the body. Also after every orgasm, he rested me for a while before going for the next one. All in all had a wonderful session. Kudos to ET to help me achieve beyond what I have expected for the session. I thought my expectations were already high. He has profound indepth knowledge on and is very skillful especially in lingam and I think tantric massage. Needless to say another session booked.

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Hi there " Welcome on board to the Blowing Wind forum"♥♥♥"

I am replying based on what I have read, based on my own experiences (which allowed me to understand gay men better) and using my own logic. Please do not take it personally as we do not know each other. Your article is about me, me, me. I do not read anything about your understanding of the other party. Now there is nothing wrong about us wanting something for ourselves as it's very human nature. But what you want for yourself is obviously not what he wants for himself. If I put myself in his shoes, I would not want to have anything to do with you anymore. And there is really no why. Once a certain action is taken ie confession, it triggers a reaction and there is no turning back. He has to take an action and he chose ending it all. But it's all very common in the game of dating or having fun in this gay circle. To me what happened to you is something that happens all the time, to many of us. Then you have to ask yourself, are u still the same you through these years? If so, why would you expect anything different? Remember the famous quote, Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

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Sharing my experience on body breath, since there is not much sharing of it here when I went earlier. 1) The entrance is from the outside of the building, do not enter the building. Haha I spent some time locating the entrance in the cold. 2) Just pay to enter, they did not check my id or hair. Even though I m wearing a cap. 3) Not much guys in there when I entered before 6pm but guys started pouring in after 6.30pm, and the place was soon jammed packed. The place was still packed when I left at 9 plus. 4) Quality of guys is pretty good. Mostly lean fit and muscular, with few skinny and stocky guys into the mix 5) Very tourist crowd feel. Got 5 guys there and none was local. Or maybe it's just my luck. 6) The 'rooms' got dirty very easily. No proper place to throw used tissues and you can see them all over the mattress. Did not see anyone doing any clean up or removing the thrash too. Better to bring guys home towards the end if you have your own room.

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Nowadays I reduced wanking a lot. Release it when in action with another guy. Delayed gratification doubles the pleasure.

Congrats sexy. Wow 20+ years, you two are one exemplary couple for our gay community. I am sure both of you have put in lots of effort to make this relationship work. It is not easy especially in the area of ensuring that the tool and hole are not tired of each other, enjoying the familarity of each other. kudos to you, sexy.

any bi married with similar body stay Eastin Penang ?

Ok. Just worried an erection will attract unwanted attention or unwanted stares, especially a strong one.

I would like to thank to a guy who rim my sweaty ass as after my run in my tight and stringers on. I was there on 27dec night I went in topless and venture deep in where I bump into him. We make eye contact he wearing nice curve high split fbt short with nice thong and pair with ippt singlet. Great kisser clean breath he asked if he could him my ass I said that I was top but love to get rim. He love to rim sweaty asshole as he rim I sniff my poppers. Once he done I returned the favour I sniff his thong floss great raunchy scent and wet my cock. I pull down his thong and sniff it he order me to fuck him. Which I did by the way to the guy in fbt short u leave your thong and is with me. Dm me if u read this love another session in proper room or u want your thong back.

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Thanks. It’s a little bit difficult to talk and negotiate about price when you’re in the midst of a HE…. No doubt a useful strategy for the masseur

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Haha me too , we go tgt

Hi guys. I'd like to share my story. I used to frequent sauna in my mid 20s and am in my mid 30s now. I have stopped going to sauna for 2 years. I slowly got to learn that sauna is a place with really really bad qi (the Chinese call it 磁场/ people in the west call it "vibration"). I used to have a good career with good pay but things started to go south for some reason. I ended up not doing well and am now making ends meet. It wasn't until I learn that years of going to sauna and having fun with strangers have slowly reduced my store of good luck (or good karma) that I realized I wasted so many years of my life. When good luck runs out, bad things will kick in. The Chinese believe in the saying that 一衰衰三年, literally: once swei (bad luck) will swei for three years - it means bad luck can prolong for a long while and it's not a one-off thing. Even if we are doing well now, somehow bad things will happen - like strains in relationship, problem with superior etc. And we can pass off the bad chi after going to sauna to our family/friends too - energy is contagious. And when you make out with a guy in sauna who's going through bad luck himself, his bad luck/energy will be transferred to you as well. If you are going through good luck, you won't be affected much, but your good luck will be reduced. Once good luck ends, bad things really will kick in. Back to my story. I first went there when I was 25. It was out of curiosity. I never allowed anyone to touch me, as a part of me was telling myself that, well, I'm just curious. I remembered someone touched me in a steam room, but I pushed his hand right away. He then responded, "Oh, you are a newbie." I was. But then the more often I went, the more I felt lustful. I went to almost all saunas out there. From initially not allowing strangers to touch me, I slowly had the guts to touch them. As time went on, each sauna visit made me somehow a little bolder. It's called reinforcement in psychology. But unknowingly, it was like a drug. I got addicted. In hindsight, I realised my life slowly went downhill in terms of career success and financial achievement. Things spiraled as well. I went to sleazy massage places. And I had B2B massage as well. This just increased my lust and addiction. Can you see how scary it was? The negative spiral can go on and on and eventually ruin your life. Worse still, take away your life. You never know what kind of viruses you could get. I know people say, "Well, play safe, and that's fine." But the vibration/bad energy/swei energy will stick with you for a long while, and there's no way to shield yourself from it even though you play safe. Energy can be transferred, remember? It's physics. To anyone out there, particularly young people in 20s, please please please learn from my mistake. Don't let the best 10 years of your life be wasted and ruined in saunas. This is the most important 10 years of your life, and it can set the pace for your life for the next 30 years. Make it the best ones. Remember, you have a family who love you. PS: if anyone of you can read Mandarin, here's the story of how a guy's family and life went seriously messy after years of fooling around doing may crazy things to fulfill his desire : http://www.shengmiao.cn/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=68464

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Hello people sorry I overlooked this thread! Do drop your tele handle and I’ll add u guys to form a frot channel. Purely to meet and frot 😝

Hi, Duck here. 35/164/54kg Indo Status : never in relationship Location : Jakarta Role : never have sex, so I don't know. but fantasizing doing both. skin and features : brown with facial hair and smooth body, cut. Body shape : lean muscle Bod smoke and alcohol : No hobby : animating, gardening and cooking Interest : animation, tech, gaming, movie Fav movie : BB mountain, Wall-E, anything Ghibli Fav food : fruits, pizza, sea food, rendang, and durian (I have durian tree) Fav activity : hiking, camping and snorkeling Sports : Calisthenics. I was doing run, but stopped due to risk of joint ache. Skills : animating, acting and massage (I think this is family inherit skill) Languages : Bahasa, English, Korean and Chinese (basic, can't read and write) The world is getting old resources are limited but creativity unlimited. hoping to make relationship and sustainable living. like : nerds, introvert, skinny, muscle, bushy, facial hair, glasses. dislike : fat, sissy, drama queen, bad breath, smoke.

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wah lan .. imagine a guy doing outdoor exercise in a dark ulu fitnese corner wearing light tights with cockring underneath. after that caught watching some pussy porn by another bro haha. later ended up frot bulge to bulge by accident helping each other doing some exercise.

Visiting KL 2nd-6th September , staying in Bandar Utama...into light fun, sexy underwear (jockstrap/thongs), spanking, edging. 39 165 67 hairy Caucasian

Would love to try rubbing each other dicks with underwear on

Yeah same here. It's like looking for a needle in the haystack. Still hoping to find the right partner for this after many years

Btm laying on his back with his legs spread wide apart, hole positioned to receive my engorged penis, ready to be inseminated. I will place my hands firmly on his hips to steady his small lithe boy body as I go full throttle on his pleasure hole, the sound of his insides rearranged, our sex juices mixing in him and building up with every pump, my bare crotch slamming into his battered ass cheeks as we fulfil our man-boy union. The helpless cries of a btm boy delirious from anal stimulation, my animalistic grunts as sex beast takes over, occasionally punctuated by a victorious roar when the delicate folds of his anal canal, lubricated by a perfect balance of lube, my precum and his anal juices, rub and stimulate the most sensitive nerves on my penile glans. As I slow down to long steady strokes, I will free his body from my grip and flex my bod as I maintain our penile-anal connection, my veiny cock plugged in to his sex orifice like an alien predator devouring and relishing his prey from inside out. I will aim to awe my btm boy with my hulking mass of male physique glistening with sweat from my sexual labour as my raw penis slowly relishes the delicate folds of his anal canal. Simultaneously slaking his thirst to get his anus stimulated by man, and growing his desire to feel my member in his mouth again while feeling my muscles. With slow fucking, if I’m not approaching orgasm, I would at times squeeze my kegels while my cock is penetrated deep in the btm boy. My engorged cock expands by a little momentarily, breaking up the btms moaning with a little yelp of surprised pleasure, and pumping in a little more precum from my nuts to take us a little further closer to anal sexual heaven. When I pull out and momentarily free us of that intense penile anal connection, btm’s hungry mouth will gravitate automatically towards my throbbing cock, still wet from a cocktail of our sex juices mixed up in his hole. Suck, worship and repeat. That’s how I like to fuck.

I used to feel that way. It's only after a while then I realise that I feel lonely. I just wan to constantly talk to someone and it feels good that someone is talking to me and giving me the attention that I want. You wanna tell him everything about you, what is happening around you and you wanna know what is going on with his life. I would love it if they become my boy friend or even best friend but if you think about it, even if it happens, things might not go well because you are overly attached and clingy just by seeing the way things are now. I still feel that way once in awhile, but when I do, I just delete the app and stop thinking about all these. It's a habit that you have formed to keep waiting for replies which made you so depressed when he doesn't reply you when he's online or just don't reply for just after an hour or so. Delete the app, go out with your friends, watch some drama, do whatever you want, just keep yourself occupied. Since you are no longer on the app, you won't be waiting for anyone to reply you! Hope things will get better for you.

Managed to try on Alvin's Thai massage last night and it was really a new massage experience for me. I must say it was not the best massage I have ever tried but the his massage techniques totally different from all the massage I had before. The stretching and gentle palm walk on my limbs was so beautiful and really relaxing. If u have never try any Thai massage before can look for him. Alvin is nice very DTE guy, even got the small xmas gift from him (cookies) after the session. Thanks Alvin will look for you again when I have a place.

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