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Thought of sharing my own experience, though it wasn't so much of 'missed connection' but more of a 'reversed missed connection' (i.e., I was "found" without posting in the Missed Connection thread). Before I begin, those who knew me here would know I do not use the Chat Function in this forum, and it was always written in my profile, as well as in the 'signature' of every of my posts. For those who always use the Chat Function, you would also know that there would be a pop-up text line (for about 2-3 seconds) showing part of the new chat message, provided you were also online at the same time. [this had some relevance to the events that followed...] Here goes... quite a while back, I saw a new, attractive fit guy in the gym (never seen him before) and I kind of mentioned (mostly complimentary words) him here somewhere, but not in the Missed Connection thread - as he didn't seem like a guy who would be here in this forum. This fit guy (let's call him "hunter" hereon, haha) noticed it and realised he was the one I mentioned, he then started to "hunt me down" with that bit of photo in my profile picture - which was quite 'impossible' eh, haha. The 'hunting' process took quite a few months (or more) since we did not always see each other that often... Finally, one fine day, our lockers were closed by and I happened to mention him again. This was when he pieced 'the missing linking' together and I was "found", haha. The next day, while browsing this forum at work, suddenly the chat pop-up a short text line on top "Thanks for all your kind words...", before it disappeared 2-3 seconds later. Obviously I was in total shocked as this would only mean he was "hunter", since I didn't talk about anyone else, and that whole day I was flustered with anxiety - was it really him? When I finally had some free time, I PMed him to verify the details - and indeed it was "hunter". It was amazing how things turned out without much expectations. We did meet eventually and we still communicate through PM quite regularly. We talked about everything and anything - though mostly involving health and fitness, but there were also other topics such as travel, hobbies, work, etc. Looking back, it was really fate that brought us together, since there were quite a few possible twists and we would be missed: (1) if I had not mentioned him, he would not have noticed it and all the above would not have happened; (2) if our lockers were never closed by, there would not be any chance for "hunter" to 'find' me; (3) if I was not online to see that pop-up text, I would not even read his messages and we would miss each other. I think this friendship that evolved along the way without expectations was one of the best thing in my life, such connections are hard to come by (even better than some of the people I met from here in the past) and I hope there are more of such connections - be it for me or the rest of you here looking for that missed connection. Cheers and Happy CNY! 🍊🍊

today was simply great ☺️ had a good time with a cute malaysian guy and it started slow and sensual then got hot and heavy and ended with euphoria and energetic ejaculation what a way to end 2024 and ring in 2025 snake year 😆🥰 Happy New Year! 😊

I'll be exhibiting at a discreet location where I will be edging/sounding myself. Anyone who finds me can either cum on me or make me cum. If I'm made to cum, it will be collected in a cup to mark the amount of cum produced that day. This will go on for a specified amount of time for that day.

Managing two occupations on the same day is difficult. I've tried it once, and it wears you out quickly. Here's why. You spent the morning working in one place and then hurried to finish it so you could work in a different locations, with different culture and supervisor. Every day, you were thrown into one saucepan and before you realised you were half cooked, you ended up in a different pot. Your earnings from two jobs might still be the same if you hold on to one full time job. Claiming to make "extra income" from doing two jobs is a fallacy; this is only feasible if you work two jobs and don't sleep at all or if you sideline without quitting your full-time job. After I quit working two jobs, I was able to devote all of my time and energy to one job, reporting to only one employer and receiving full-time benefits. Some people, on the other hand, can be in different situations. For example, they might need to work two jobs to make up the difference in their savings because their first job did not pay enough to cover their basic survival expenses. If at all possible, steer clear of the situations and put your health first.

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Hmm... i believe magical worm can grow and transform into a snake 😄 when the right moment comes. @radiusulnar @bluerunner

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Gentle reminder: Do NOT throw your used tissue into the urinal. Used tissues go to the bin or flash them down the toilet bowl.

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Yes, your popping 6 pack no need to use measuring scale to validate. 😂

No offence... leadership is one word. Anyway, here's mine to ensure the chain does not break: 😄 Leadership renewal

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frankly when it comes to the human heart ie. relationships it's a minefield; pure and simple. for gays, most would think it's either looks, body or wealth. the truth lies somewhere further from these perceptions and closer to what many would not have thought of or believed. personally, i tried using simplicity as a factor ie. not revealing that i have quite some zeroes and playing down my physical assets. it worked for a bit, a little while then the interest fades from the other party. this would go on for a few others which lead me to conclude like a hetero; they were looking for possibly security or maybe even just a 'sugar-daddy' type of relationship. however there was one that came close; he was the ideal gay date/companion/bf. he had the looks, was financially independent and his body was honed from his hours away from work in the gym. the best of all was his intellect; we could converse on and on for many hours on just about everything and anything that came along. so where did it went south or went the way of spiltsville? the love wasn't there. it's a great friendship but as a relationship it's unsustainable. for gays, a monogamous type similar to a hetero is quite a rarity. Most were in an 'open' relationship and there's instances where this could work out. a relationship is ultimately a commitment of love towards two like-minded individuals; and part of this equation includes sex or love-making and intimacy. To summarise; a relationship is started by attraction to each other and powered along the way by L.O.V.E; be it a gay or heterosexual. Other factors are just simply icing on the cake that takes two to bake. of course, those are just my opinion(s) and my own personal experiences meant as food for thought; not to act. Happy CNY! ☺️

Stupidest convo to have on 初一 morning with a friend and fellow bottom who initiated complaints about his 'dry spell', but then got distracted by how I de-prioritize meetups with men who are "too economical" in their communication. Examples such as those one-or-two word texts that go "seek", "u btm", "when free" and so on - and mostly even without punctuation. Friend is like: "You should know what - men are like that. The whole point is to hook up cos they see you are their type and want to fuk, and not to chat. No need to take it so personally." Me: "I'm not taking it personally at all. I know full well it's all down to if we fit each-other's criteria. So maybe their criteria is a young-looking & smooth bottom, but maybe MY criteria is a guy who is a bit more clever, or shows he likes me enough to put in a bit more effort to woo me. A man who doesn't bother is just proving he doesn't fit MY criteria and I can happily decide to move on. Exactly like you said: nothing personal!" Friend: "But then no guy wants to bother with you then how?" Me: "Hur hur, I don't know about you but I don't have this problem. So far out of every 2 or 3 guys, sure got one who appreciates me the 'correct' way. My problem is I am so busy working 2+ jobs that usually I have to tell them to book me weeks if not months ahead. And if they cancel last-minute, that's fine too: maybe I can have a well-deserved nap. If I can afford to be choosy, also means I can choose nobody lor. Who is gonna stop me?" Finally some silence when said friend can tell from my voice that I am getting irritated. I just cannot with people who seem to forget there is more to life than just sex, or who think acting desperate is a bottom's virtue.

You are at the age where you see things in a certain perspective. I have a friend whom I just met on CNY eve. He is 51, his wife just passed away this month. He has a son who is 21 and ignores his messages. He now lives in a 5 room flat alone. He said he is scared of the quiet at night so he plays the Buddhist chant and sleeps on the sofa at night. When you reach a certain age, you start to see things differently. Everyone has their own path in life, and it has nothing to do with looks and wealth.

蛇年快乐 祝贺大家在蛇年里: 蛇来运转 蛇采飞扬 智慧如蛇通万事 灵活似蛇应百变 新年快乐!!! 🍊🍊

Heartbeat any helping hand or mouth around?

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That’s great progress and lots of discipline! I just want to highlight something about body comp measurement machines (same advice I have given to friends). That is, these aren’t very accurate and even if you do the same machine everytime, the trend might not be an informative as one perceive it to be, due to the relatively large random error. Especially for beginners, using this metric can be sometimes detrimental to perceiving ones’s actual progress. Instead, I would just advise them to keep track of daily weight and use their mirror. We all workout because, to some large extent, we want to look good. So if we get to a point where we can be happy with our fitness progress, the bf% doesn’t really matter. Conversely speaking, how would knowing the bf% info change your behaviour that’s different from what you see in the mirror? Regardless, keep up the good work!

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Beautiful, @QinWei. If i didn't get plenty of emotions listening to the music of Richard Wagner, I would get some lbb-s as well.

Happy Lunar New Year

Edging for the past 3 hours

Wow. This will make me think twice going there for first time experience. Haha.

Buy new red underwear. 😁

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i never spring clean. i wait until CNY then spring clean all the fortune away. ahaha

https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/politics/new-face-spotted-with-pap-mps-in-nee-soon-grc-ahead-of-ge2025 An intellectual property (IP) lawyer was on Jan 26 spotted interacting with residents alongside Nee Soon GRC MPs from the ruling People’s Action Party (PAP). Ms Deryne Sim, 40, was seen with Law and Home Affairs Minister K. Shanmugam, as well as MPs Louis Ng, Carrie Tan, Derrick Goh, and Muhammad Faishal Ibrahim, who is Minister of State for Home Affairs and National Development. They were at an event to launch Chinese New Year (CNY) celebrations in Yishun town. Speaking to the media on the sidelines of the event, Mr Shanmugam said Ms Sim has been “helping him with walkabouts” and is an in-house legal counsel who has also done some non-governmental organisation work. He did not confirm if she would stand for the ruling party in the general election due by November. Ms Sim confirmed to reporters that she is a PAP member. She specialises in media and entertainment as an IP lawyer. She has been a volunteer at the Chong Pang PAP branch, which Mr Shanmugam chairs, for more than a year, and helps out at Meet-the-People Sessions by using her legal background to assist residents. Yes, I would also like to receive SPH Media Group's SPH Media Limited, its related corporations and affiliates as well as their agents and authorised service providers. marketing and promotions. She has also helped with various events lately, such as Chong Pang’s Edusave Awards ceremony and the distribution of red packets to seniors in the constituency, she added. When asked how she got involved in the party, she said: “I met minister (Mr Shanmugam) at an event, and he said ‘come and see how it’s being run and the issues that people face’. “So I took up that invite, and I stuck on as a volunteer after that.” Based on her profile on professional network LinkedIn, Ms Sim holds a law degree from the National University of Singapore and has worked as a legal counsel with various organisations, such as Sony Pictures Entertainment, since 2010. She was previously a committee member of the LGBTQ+ activist group Pink Dot. She is also the executive director of Same But Different, a group that offers legal resources to help the LGBTQ community here. At the event, Mr Shanmugam was also asked how he is preparing for the general election and if he would still anchor the PAP team in Nee Soon GRC. In response, Mr Shanmugam said it will be up to Prime Minister Lawrence Wong to decide as the party’s secretary-general. “I have been serving here for many years, and you can see how the people react to me and how I react to the people,” he said. “I enjoy the constituency… I’ve been here for 36 years, but I will serve where I am asked.” Law and Home Affairs Minister K. Shanmugam with a resident at an event to launch Chinese New Year celebrations in Yishun town on Jan 26.ST PHOTO: JASON QUAH Mr Shanmugam has helmed the Chong Pang ward since 1988, when he was first elected. Anticipation around the general election and its prospective date went up a notch after the Electoral Boundaries Review Committee was formed on Jan 22. The committee’s report will trigger a redrawing of Singapore’s electoral constituencies, a necessary step before the polls can happen. Political observers told The Straits Times after the announcement that they expect the Republic to head to the polls around May. When asked if his team was ramping up preparations, Mr Shanmugam said: “Our focus is still primarily groundwork, and my belief is that if you focus on the ground, then the other things take care of themselves. “But the branch every week is very busy.” He added that the MPs are out and about during festivities such as CNY, which starts on Jan 29. “But that’s not it alone. We need to deal with and solve the problems on the ground, both the national-level problems and also the ground-level problems.” Mr Shanmugam said the work has been under way over the five years since the last general election in 2020. “It’s like muscles, and if you continuously work, then the muscles are active. If not, at the last minute, you are scrambling. We are not scrambling,” he added. Mr Shanmugam and Ms Sim were speaking to reporters on the sidelines of Springtime Splendour@Nee Soon, a group representation constituency-wide series of celebrations organised by the People’s Association to mark the beginning of CNY.

Lbb wishing all u bW members,

hi, chi chub here. Is forest52 open today? How the crowd nowadays

As above usually missionary

Anybody planning to go yunomori today?

Tpy (near braddell mrt)

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If anyone needs a Jo bud, I am in the CBD…message me. Cauc 45 married.

Hi all, I'm local chi, turning 32 this year, 182, 104 Side, Bear Build (Big chest and biceps), Handsome-Boyish looking, been told I look way younger than my actual age. Looking for someone to cuddle with this evening. Someone around my age, smaller size than me.

Interesting...can i try it

Hellos, decided to give this a shot :] 27 175 78, looking for friends and perhaps something more long-term if it goes well. Prefer someone around my age or below 35. Have a thing for abang sados, not so much into twinks (sorry 😐) Some hobbies would include gaming and anime. From time to time, I'll be learning new things (roller-skating and swimming as of now). Drop me a message if this vibes with you

Hi I do drive naked after my Sunday 5km jog I will strip off my running attire and I will take a shower before when home. I will dry up and just put on my stringers and take a slow drive by the coastal route to my place.

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Recently started on my HRT (mtf), in my fourth week. 41,169,99, looking for friends or more.

Used to have a fantasy of being a bottom for a group of foreign constructions workers. Managed to get that box checked out

recently very into g-strings/thongs that are very exposing. mesh or minimal coverage etc. feels so sexy in them

Just wondering if there is anywhere in sg can jog nude these days. I remember Queenstown stadium used to open 24/7 and no cameras. I recall it was around 2am on a weekday. The lights were off and there were 2 other guys one running topless. I was running topless at 1st. I thought since only 3 guys, I took the courage to remove my skimpy shorts and jog nude to finish my last 2 rounds and did my cool down nude after the run. The 2 guys wasn't bother by my nudism. It felt liberating jogging nude. I doubt can do it anymore, as there are security everywhere these days.

Always nude when I’m at the balcony working out on weekends. But I noticed this attracted some ajs in my condo to snoop around my block downstairs to steal views on me😅 u want to watch let you watch oh

Hello, 1 thing I noted is your high level of dependency, quote, "sigh, but im caught right in between of losing him or myself. either way i'll need to lose one of us." One other thing is, if you let him keep this up, how are you going to lose him or you? You're sensitive. It's not a bad thing, but in this case it's not a good thing either. The issue is not whether to let him cam or not to let him cam, the issue is whether or not you are fine with him camming. He's stated he won't stop camming, despite your disapproval. If you want to stay, you have to choose to feel okay with him camming. That's the best solution right there. If you can't take it, monitor his cam sessions. Freaky, but it's not much different from the vibe you're channelling. Either those, or break up, but you'll lose yourself. Why suffer unnecessarily? Be cool about it, don't give a shit unless he starts cheating in the flesh. Think of camming as watching pxxn. Be glad he isn't sleeping around with other guys. Also, it's not shameless to go back to your friends once you're single. I've dated, broke up, gone back to my friends. Friends who do not accept you, no matter what, are not as worthy.