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I have now experienced this twice in my life. Situation: You have a good friend who you seem on a semi regular basis. Quite friendly, happy go lucky, enjoyable times. There's just one problem: they're straight. Yes, you know this unnatural affliction will one day morph into this unfortunate illness called "marriage" which will engulf them. Then that day comes-- you get the wedding invitation. You think to yourself, "well, we're close, I should go, how exciting for them, I am going to be happy for them and help them celebrate their big day." You attend the ceremony, dress up all nice, bring ang bao, take pictures, put up with the usual shenanigans and small talk with whoever you get lumped at a table with. And then, it happens: Married Disappearing Syndrome, or "MDS" for short, kicks in. The friend you once had now disappears out of your life as fast as the suitcases are back in the closet from their honeymoon. Their communication skills suffer first. No messages, no word, no catch ups, no closeness anymore. Any attempt to try and catch up with them even on the usual social media are greeted with non-committal replies and generalities, as of they have become zombified and have lost all use of their calendar and time management skills. This syndrome eventually morphs into pregnancy, fatness, and inability to leave the house for periods longer than a few hours at a time. Medical professionals are still searching for a cure for MDS and are currently seeking volunteers to share their experiences as part of a research study. Please detail your history in dealing with those afflicted by MDS below.

it talks about just cos there are many wrong activities, so do we keep curbing them? eg men raping women (u have seen the news) does it mean we must curb all hetero activities the reason why gays keep having multiple partners is cos they CANNOT get married and settle down w just one!