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this Article is titled: <Difference btw Grindr & Tinder> i have never used Tinder before & after faithfully using it for a month... i am so happy i deleted the App this week =) Using TINDER is like trying to find love in a bookstore, but in the kids section. GRINDR, on the other hand is an R-Rated version & has a more sinister side to its execution. Let me explain, you see, using Tinder involves you giving others access to your Facebook, thus you instantly have access to someone's social network and now you can see who are the mutual friends both of you have. Better still, if you really like the person, now that you have their (official name used at their) Facebook Feed, & now you can “do research” before engaging in a conversation, how cool is that !!! TINDER is both non-intimidating but also forces every user to be vulnerable because you are putting yourself out in the public domain... The mechanics of Tinder is a Fair-Game compared to the nastiness of GRINDR which encourages a block-if -i -don't -like -you Culture GRINDR brings out the dirty side in all of us, while most users parade with a facade that they are "Genuinely looking for friends", but deep down, a majority of users all seek out the same thing, which is “having a one on one Action time spent with strangers”. Clearly, GRINDR is no different from (Adultery website) Ashley Madison, but the reason for its popularity is…with the free account, you are guaranteed for the rest of your life, there will no longer be a dull moment coz GRINDR puts you on standby 24/7 & enables plenty of opportunities for your sexual fantasies to come true. GRINDR has always been positioned as a hub to get hookup, engage in promiscuous activity, & all conversations that come under the umbrella of this app boils down to this equation: Based on that statement, GRINDR is good in bringing out the primitive side of us that seeks out physical intimacy with people, but done in a sexual way, & done discreetly with a stranger. With that understanding, now you see why most of the chatter on GRINDR tends to be dirty, cause most negotiations that go on, gravitates about “which party in this conversation can better satisfy the other person based on their sexual prowess”. ***pls don't get off ur chair & get angry with me... the above paragraph are merely assumptions & general observations... pls don't get personal, Thx Am i contradicting myself here? Yes i am. Why? Some of the best friends i have gotten to know in 2017 are not from "Forum Sites" but from Grindr, so as you can see, the 2 paragraphs above actually prove the Effectiveness of Grindr, but my point here is... for me personally... Tinder is a waste of time for me if i want to find a BF/friends using their platform... ( *i am not following this post, Thx )