Guest Blank Posted February 5, 2019 Report Share Posted February 5, 2019 On 2/4/2019 at 6:38 AM, Steve5380 said: It would be interesting to see why they don't last more than a few weeks, months, one year. They must have found something they like if they got together in the first place. Did they expect monogamy? Maybe sex was not so bad but they got tired of it after a while? How long would they last if monogamy, "fidelity" is not an issue? Maybe their relationships would last if they agree to an open one? Many issues from what I heard. Can be due to monetary where his bf doesn't pay or pay very minimally for food, gifts and holidays. Some are lifestyle mismatch, different perspective/views/goals, some find their bf too demanding or no opinions, or with anger/temperament issues. I've heard a lot more and they can be petty issues at first which snowball into bigger problems. Their sex lives seem perfectly fine where some can do it 4-5times a day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zackling Posted February 5, 2019 Report Share Posted February 5, 2019 shallow & superficial. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest roll eyes Posted February 5, 2019 Report Share Posted February 5, 2019 We all know most gays look for the following to get attached. Body Looks Money Age I'm interested to know what do we look for after getting attached? In other words, what is needed to hold the relationship together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seungjun Posted February 6, 2019 Report Share Posted February 6, 2019 I have encountered many 2/10s - 5/10s looking to land 8/10s or 9/10s like hoping to win 4D or Toto like that. Sometimes I want to tell them can you be a bit realistic not? Obviously you can never find someone if your criteria is so sky high. It's the same as not working and wishing everyday to win lottery and then complain why other people so rich but nobody let me win Toto. Samezuka 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 6, 2019 Report Share Posted February 6, 2019 9 hours ago, Guest roll eyes said: We all know most gays look for the following to get attached. Body Looks Money Age I'm interested to know what do we look for after getting attached? In other words, what is needed to hold the relationship together. U forgot the most important 5. Big Cock 2 hours ago, Seungjun said: I have encountered many 2/10s - 5/10s looking to land 8/10s or 9/10s like hoping to win 4D or Toto like that. Sometimes I want to tell them can you be a bit realistic not? Obviously you can never find someone if your criteria is so sky high. It's the same as not working and wishing everyday to win lottery and then complain why other people so rich but nobody let me win Toto. 竹门对竹门 木门对木门 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted February 6, 2019 Report Share Posted February 6, 2019 10 hours ago, Guest roll eyes said: We all know most gays look for the following to get attached. Body Looks Money Age I'm interested to know what do we look for after getting attached? In other words, what is needed to hold the relationship together. For me the list is: looks cock body money age Hundreds and thousands of things are needed to hold rs together but nothing is guaranteed in life - except your death. So long there is no legal binding between gay couples, breakup is easy without a need to engage a lawyer or setting up wedding dinners to announce your marriage like straight couples do. This is a very unfair life for gays. Well, we need to have a better and more open gov to pass this bill or else everything will stay stagnant like this for the next 1000years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shavedboy Posted February 6, 2019 Report Share Posted February 6, 2019 All i can offer is myself im not rich. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 6, 2019 Report Share Posted February 6, 2019 2 hours ago, Shavedboy said: All i can offer is myself im not rich. That's fine, if you are spiritually rich. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 6, 2019 Report Share Posted February 6, 2019 19 hours ago, Guest roll eyes said: We all know most gays look for the following to get attached. Body Looks Money Age I'm interested to know what do we look for after getting attached? In other words, what is needed to hold the relationship together. Your list is fine for human robots. You forgot about the feelings. What if someone earns our gratitude, and this transforms into love? Where does this leave body, looks, money, age? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Asshole Posted February 6, 2019 Report Share Posted February 6, 2019 1 hour ago, Steve5380 said: Your list is fine for human robots. You forgot about the feelings. What if someone earns our gratitude, and this transforms into love? Where does this leave body, looks, money, age? Sorry to burst your bubble. Most of the "Singaporeans" version of "love" is WHAT DO I GET??? Thats why one will find most Singaporean couples (straight, gay or otherwise) are often miserable as its centred around WHAT DO I GET?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garyl Posted February 6, 2019 Report Share Posted February 6, 2019 (edited) 21 hours ago, Guest roll eyes said: We all know most gays look for the following to get attached. Body Looks Money Age I'm interested to know what do we look for after getting attached? In other words, what is needed to hold the relationship together. For me, Age- compatibility looks- 16 hrs of day for my eyes. Body- 8hrs for my bird. Money - last.. we can work for it, if sensible..no need to be rich.. Xxx.yrs.. flies by very quickly.. up and down and in between.. still think its the right sequence.. Edited February 6, 2019 by Garyl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supernova Posted February 7, 2019 Report Share Posted February 7, 2019 15 hours ago, Garyl said: For me, Age- compatibility looks- 16 hrs of day for my eyes. Body- 8hrs for my bird. Money - last.. we can work for it, if sensible..no need to be rich.. Xxx.yrs.. flies by very quickly.. up and down and in between.. still think its the right sequence.. Age meaning same age as you or a younger meat? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tommy vietnam Posted February 7, 2019 Report Share Posted February 7, 2019 (edited) Why you choose high standards boyfriend while you don't have any. Love yourself and enjoy your life. Edited February 7, 2019 by Tommy vietnam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Samezuka Posted February 7, 2019 Report Share Posted February 7, 2019 On 2/6/2019 at 10:07 AM, Seungjun said: I have encountered many 2/10s - 5/10s looking to land 8/10s or 9/10s like hoping to win 4D or Toto like that. Sometimes I want to tell them can you be a bit realistic not? Obviously you can never find someone if your criteria is so sky high. It's the same as not working and wishing everyday to win lottery and then complain why other people so rich but nobody let me win Toto. I personally know people like that. Used to hang out with group of toxic queens, and there were those ugly and obese criticizing about how ugly/fat that person we tried to matchmake is. These people dont realize how unrealistic they were and worse, their personality horrible as hell. Sowing discord, drama etc you name it, they've done it. There were also other bitchy types who pretended to be nice, but bitch about how ugly or obese you are to the rest of the clique behind that persons back. I then figured if this person can do that to X, one day I might just become the next target once they run out of people to bitch about. *Gays are generally THAT superficial and bitchy.* Am glad i maintained being relatively fit and got attached to a humble sporty partner. Some of these queens i mentioned now looked twice as heavy and haggard. Karma i guess lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 7, 2019 Report Share Posted February 7, 2019 12 minutes ago, Samezuka said: I personally know people like that. Used to hang out with group of toxic queens, and there were those ugly and obese criticizing about how ugly/fat that person we tried to matchmake is. These people dont realize how unrealistic they were and worse, their personality horrible as hell. Sowing discord, drama etc you name it, they've done it. There were also other bitchy types who pretended to be nice, but bitch about how ugly or obese you are to the rest of the clique behind that persons back. I then figured if this person can do that to X, one day I might just become the next target once they run out of people to bitch about. *Gays are generally THAT superficial and bitchy.* Am glad i maintained being relatively fit and got attached to a humble sporty partner. Some of these queens i mentioned now looked twice as heavy and haggard. Karma i guess lol. Your post confirms how much more productive it is to be in solitude, or with a low-key partner, than in a group of toxic queens. While the toxic queens degenerate over time, in solitude we can take care of ourselves so that as we get older there are no dramatic changes but only some new wrinkles here and there and some less weight we can lift in the gym. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Stop Fooling yourself Posted February 11, 2019 Report Share Posted February 11, 2019 People should start accepting the truth: everyone goes for the better looking well packaged stuff. Rich people will only buy landed property and good healthy looking people will look for the same. No use fooling yourself that somewhere out there a hunk will lower his expectations unless you fool yourself further that friends with money interest are your true love indeed. It was very sad to have met an old classmate, who is physically an outright Grindr / Tumbir reject, introduce a Latino beefcake gigolo as his friend at a social event. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted February 11, 2019 Report Share Posted February 11, 2019 On 2/6/2019 at 1:48 PM, Guest Blank said: For me the list is: looks cock body money age Hundreds and thousands of things are needed to hold rs together but nothing is guaranteed in life - except your death. So long there is no legal binding between gay couples, breakup is easy without a need to engage a lawyer or setting up wedding dinners to announce your marriage like straight couples do. This is a very unfair life for gays. Well, we need to have a better and more open gov to pass this bill or else everything will stay stagnant like this for the next 1000years. Emigrate if you can. Live your life free in another country. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wei Ren Posted October 28, 2019 Report Share Posted October 28, 2019 Just a personal preference. Who doesn't want a good-looking and fit boyfriend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lol Posted October 28, 2019 Report Share Posted October 28, 2019 Managed to experience one from this forum, he has a profile here. Ugly, average body and bad teeth, yet still expect a fit model boy to hook up with! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fatty Posted October 28, 2019 Report Share Posted October 28, 2019 On 2/11/2019 at 4:30 PM, Guest Stop Fooling yourself said: People should start accepting the truth: everyone goes for the better looking well packaged stuff. Rich people will only buy landed property and good healthy looking people will look for the same. No use fooling yourself that somewhere out there a hunk will lower his expectations unless you fool yourself further that friends with money interest are your true love indeed. It was very sad to have met an old classmate, who is physically an outright Grindr / Tumbir reject, introduce a Latino beefcake gigolo as his friend at a social event. Did you ask him how much he paid for the gigolo? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Two face Posted October 28, 2019 Report Share Posted October 28, 2019 There is this local boy who is rumored to be HIV+ but still very popular on twitter because of his boyish looks and fit build. The comments are mostly from horny gay men who post nice and positive about him. I bet if you take away his looks and body there will not be any followers or comments at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest W D Posted December 17, 2023 Report Share Posted December 17, 2023 Sadly but true even though they don't look good themselves Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 Don't get attached to the wrong one..if not is worse than 100 levels of hell. Be warned. Stay single is best. ALWAYS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 On 1/20/2019 at 3:07 AM, Guest Lol said: They set requirement so high but they themselves aren’t any better. they expect their boyfriend to be charming,tall,cute/handsome face etc I mean come on No problem. This has a natural resolution. The higher the requirements, the higher the probability that they will live alone. And living alone is not so bad. yhtang 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 On 10/29/2019 at 7:41 AM, Guest Two face said: There is this local boy who is rumored to be HIV+ but still very popular on twitter because of his boyish looks and fit build. The comments are mostly from horny gay men who post nice and positive about him. I bet if you take away his looks and body there will not be any followers or comments at all. Don't be sour. I am sure his viral load will be low. Gays look for kkj size and bods. That's a fact Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 13 minutes ago, Steve5380 said: No problem. This has a natural resolution. The higher the requirements, the higher the probability that they will live alone. And living alone is not so bad. That's how they can have fun every night, if they want Steve5380 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 1 hour ago, mate69 said: Don't get attached to the wrong one..if not is worse than 100 levels of hell. Be warned. Stay single is best. ALWAYS Don't get too emotional attached. Protect yrself mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 As per the title of this thread, that’s why so many break-ups or extra marital affair. mate69 and Balestier 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest I was a Model b/4 Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 Not everyone is looking for model with pouty lips, porcelain skin, chiselled jaws, dyed hair covering forehead, non-muscled straight jacket k-pop kind of stuff. There are many people who look for their daddy resemblances type, hollywood hero material, spartans in the making, the plumber next door, the hawker guy who don't wear shirt, the teacher who knows everything, the camp captain who treats their men like shit, the Ah Beng who constantly boast about the size of his cock, the swimming pool guard with the darkest tann & tight shorts, the freeballing boss in office. The thing people look for, is the less gay-ish the better, not necessarily good looking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beerguy Posted December 20, 2023 Report Share Posted December 20, 2023 Not really. Boyfriend NO Need to look like a model but ONS MUST look like a model😊 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 20, 2023 Report Share Posted December 20, 2023 52 minutes ago, Beerguy said: Not really. Boyfriend NO Need to look like a model but ONS MUST look like a model😊 Boyfriend or ONS, first thing people will look at the appearance, even don't like model but if look ugly then everything also no need to proceed further. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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