Guest Jek Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 I’m wondering why most guys here wanf to have fun but can’t host? If can host, what is the other alternative? Some want to have fun outside park and toilet but to me it is a disgusting place. Why like that a? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jek Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 I mean if can’t host, what is the alternative? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TopChinese Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 Hotel 81? Sauna? Raffles City Toilet? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest abc Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 If TS can't host also, please do not lament @ this forum. It reflects badly on you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peterjty Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 20 minutes ago, Guest abc said: If TS can't host also, please do not lament @ this forum. It reflects badly on you. LOL YES Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post LeanMature Posted February 12, 2019 Popular Post Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 Work permit holders cannot host because landlord said no guests allowed. Local boys cannot host because staying with parents. So only old uncles staying alone can host but no one interested. tyan, thad, yuquidam and 12 others 4 11 Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 13 minutes ago, LeanMature said: Work permit holders cannot host because landlord said no guests allowed. Local boys cannot host because staying with parents. So only old uncles staying alone can host but no one interested. Unfortunately market is not in equilibrium. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post fly360 Posted February 12, 2019 Popular Post Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 Before moving out of my parents home, I always thought I would like lotsa fun when I move out. Now that I have my own place, the irony is that there's so much to do at work and at home, I just wanna relax by myself and not invite people over as much as I had wished. bodybuildMLY, yuquidam, Strange Fruit and 10 others 11 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 15 minutes ago, fly360 said: Before moving out of my parents home, I always thought I would like lotsa fun when I move out. Now that I have my own place, the irony is that there's so much to do at work and at home, I just wanna relax by myself and not invite people over as much as I had wished. Exactly. This is the reality of home-owners and those who stay by themselves. Cydon 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 There are also some weirdos hence i dont always invite them home. May appear ok online after some chat but this guy ruffled through my pants on the floor the moment i went to bathroom to get tissue. Feetlover3532 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 17 hours ago, Guest Jek said: I’m wondering why most guys here wanf to have fun but can’t host? If can host, what is the other alternative? Some want to have fun outside park and toilet but to me it is a disgusting place. Why like that a? What is wrong with going together to a gay sauna? These are places that facilitate gay sex. If you are concerned about being seen or trolled by people there, go at hours when they are nearly empty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilfgene Posted February 12, 2019 Report Share Posted February 12, 2019 25 minutes ago, Steve5380 said: What is wrong with going together to a gay sauna? These are places that facilitate gay sex. If you are concerned about being seen or trolled by people there, go at hours when they are nearly empty. As if you are unaware of certain people treating sex with you as an act of self-depredation, if not destruction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted February 13, 2019 Report Share Posted February 13, 2019 12 hours ago, auscent said: There are also some weirdos hence i dont always invite them home. May appear ok online after some chat but this guy ruffled through my pants on the floor the moment i went to bathroom to get tissue. Who is this guy ? From this forum? Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted February 13, 2019 Report Share Posted February 13, 2019 13 hours ago, fly360 said: Before moving out of my parents home, I always thought I would like lotsa fun when I move out. Now that I have my own place, the irony is that there's so much to do at work and at home, I just wanna relax by myself and not invite people over as much as I had wished. You can invite someone in the massage exchange thread over to give you a massage to soothe tired muscles. Lol Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
am9 Posted February 13, 2019 Report Share Posted February 13, 2019 8 hours ago, Steve5380 said: What is wrong with going together to a gay sauna? These are places that facilitate gay sex. If you are concerned about being seen or trolled by people there, go at hours when they are nearly empty. True. In Singapore, rental is so expensive. Even an hourly paid hotel need 30 bucks. Sauna then is cheaper. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Rice60640 Posted February 13, 2019 Popular Post Report Share Posted February 13, 2019 When you have your own place you tend to be more careful about who you invite over because, invariably, the other person will have your location and could 1. Stalk you, 2. Come over uninvited, 3. Decide not to leave, 4. Leave nasty notes on your property, 5. Actual person don’t match picture, etc. etc. The risk factor is too high. Best to meet in public first and then maybe invite over or go in opposite directions. inamoto, Ice006, Steve5380 and 4 others 6 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jiriki Posted February 14, 2019 Report Share Posted February 14, 2019 I think a lot of people can host, just a question of whether they want to anot. Not unless they are sharing a room with someone else, sometimes it’s just whether they want to risk taking somebody back home to their room. Of course if it’s strangers then, all the more people will be risk averse. stock-top 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bottom Posted February 14, 2019 Report Share Posted February 14, 2019 10 minutes ago, jiriki said: I think a lot of people can host, just a question of whether they want to anot. Not unless they are sharing a room with someone else, sometimes it’s just whether they want to risk taking somebody back home to their room. Of course if it’s strangers then, all the more people will be risk averse. so far i have invited 2 guys to my place in the middle of the night when the rest of my family members were sleeping...thanks God they are ok guys and have not misbehave...only condition was i told them not to grunt loud when fucking...haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 14, 2019 Report Share Posted February 14, 2019 Most people are selfish. Only wanna take but not give. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstringuy26 Posted February 14, 2019 Report Share Posted February 14, 2019 Better be careful then sorry? If you know the guy than it's OK but if it's stranger and he don't even has a face profile then better meet outside first! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jiriki Posted February 14, 2019 Report Share Posted February 14, 2019 1 hour ago, gstringuy26 said: Better be careful then sorry? If you know the guy than it's OK but if it's stranger and he don't even has a face profile then better meet outside first! Some people would just question the necessity of meeting outside somewhere first lol. But they don’t question why they don’t want to host in the first place O.o Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted February 15, 2019 Report Share Posted February 15, 2019 15 hours ago, gstringuy26 said: Better be careful then sorry? If you know the guy than it's OK but if it's stranger and he don't even has a face profile then better meet outside first! 14 hours ago, jiriki said: Some people would just question the necessity of meeting outside somewhere first lol. But they don’t question why they don’t want to host in the first place O.o Two things you can do if you are risk adverse. Locked up the bedroom, have fun in the living room or bathroom. Second, installed cctv for added security. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest encounters Posted February 15, 2019 Report Share Posted February 15, 2019 On 2/12/2019 at 8:21 PM, auscent said: There are also some weirdos hence i dont always invite them home. May appear ok online after some chat but this guy ruffled through my pants on the floor the moment i went to bathroom to get tissue. But that's a bit like inviting a guy to your hotel when overseas. I always ask them to shower first if they want after the fun. I mean not to shower yourself and leave them alone in the room. Never leave strangers alone .... Those very pushy or asking you to take a shower while you just had before they arrive or looking for any other reason to get you do something (asking drink) will cause my suspicion. In most cases I even put my wallet away... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest encounters Posted February 15, 2019 Report Share Posted February 15, 2019 11 minutes ago, LeanMature said: Two things you can do if you are risk adverse. Locked up the bedroom, have fun in the living room or bathroom. Second, installed cctv for added security. Sorry with the amended PDPA you are not permitted to record anyone without his prior permission. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted February 15, 2019 Report Share Posted February 15, 2019 9 minutes ago, Guest encounters said: Sorry with the amended PDPA you are not permitted to record anyone without his prior permission. No one can stop you if you want to install cctv in your own home. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZeeQ Posted February 15, 2019 Report Share Posted February 15, 2019 Can host but doesn't mean I wanna turn my abode into a sex den either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest encounters Posted February 15, 2019 Report Share Posted February 15, 2019 3 hours ago, ZeeQ said: Can host but doesn't mean I wanna turn my abode into a sex den either. Sorry I fail to understand the link.... Nobody asked you to meet 5 guys in one whole day.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyo74 Posted February 16, 2019 Report Share Posted February 16, 2019 I have also invited guys to my home too. I have personal room although the house belong to my family. I also have let guys stay overnight at my house too. Its very enjoyable to cuddle up with those slim or lean fit body that i like. My rules is fun without sex and i always told them clearly what i want and expected before i bring them to my home. Feetlover3532 and D.C. Comical 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benedict5856 Posted February 20, 2019 Report Share Posted February 20, 2019 bring ppl home is easy. But to chase away weirdo, act pitiful, thief, is hard ZeeQ, Feetlover3532, fresh7up and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suckmegood Posted February 20, 2019 Report Share Posted February 20, 2019 Heard of the saying... 引狼入室 请神容易送神难 Not hard to understand why people are wary of inviting strangers over. Ultimately, you really don’t know who that person is... Cydon, ZeeQ and fab 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluemature Posted February 22, 2019 Report Share Posted February 22, 2019 On 2/20/2019 at 5:22 PM, benedict5856 said: bring ppl home is easy. But to chase away weirdo, act pitiful, thief, is hard Agreed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 22, 2019 Report Share Posted February 22, 2019 On 2/20/2019 at 5:40 PM, suckmegood said: Heard of the saying... 引狼入室 请神容易送神难 Not hard to understand why people are wary of inviting strangers over. Ultimately, you really don’t know who that person is... 瘟神 In particular. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennethchung Posted May 27, 2019 Report Share Posted May 27, 2019 because not everyone can buy their own property? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ric Posted June 17, 2019 Report Share Posted June 17, 2019 Is there any couple interested in 3p with probably a female watcher. I can take aj and bj. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted June 17, 2019 Report Share Posted June 17, 2019 (edited) if you only want to hit it with those under 35 (and many do), then yes, they may have a problem hosting. Edited June 17, 2019 by lean n mean LeanMature 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 17, 2019 Report Share Posted June 17, 2019 Hosting also worry about neighbors seeing so many guys coming and going at your place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 6 hours ago, Guest Guest said: Hosting also worry about neighbors seeing so many guys coming and going at your place. I guess that is one main deterrent for guys in Singapore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 On 2/12/2019 at 8:21 PM, auscent said: There are also some weirdos hence i dont always invite them home. May appear ok online after some chat but this guy ruffled through my pants on the floor the moment i went to bathroom to get tissue. You are contradicting yourself here. You ultimately still did invite this weirdo who ruffled through your pants on the floor the moment you went to bathroom to get tissue. Unless you are talking about leaving your pants on some public toilet pants when you went to the bathroom to get your tissue. Then you really deserved to have your pants getting ruffled through. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 16 hours ago, lean n mean said: if you only want to hit it with those under 35 (and many do), then yes, they may have a problem hosting. Even then, people also consider distance. If too far, also not keen. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dllm Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 8 hours ago, Guest Guest said: Hosting also worry about neighbors seeing so many guys coming and going at your place. Would like to host too but worried about other person background. Rather risky. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HydroNaut Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 On 2/13/2019 at 11:08 AM, Rice60640 said: When you have your own place you tend to be more careful about who you invite over because, invariably, the other person will have your location and could 1. Stalk you, 2. Come over uninvited, 3. Decide not to leave, 4. Leave nasty notes on your property, 5. Actual person don’t match picture, etc. etc. The risk factor is too high. Best to meet in public first and then maybe invite over or go in opposite directions. Yes... precisely what happened. After I organised one group session at my place. 4 guys always messaged me everyday asking if got any session everyday. I cannot blame them... my place is solely mine as i stay alone and I normally offer a drink buffet(whisky, cocktail, mocktail etc..) cum snack session before the start. I also personally provide all the necessary lube and condoms and even have wall projection of porn on the wall facing my bed. But the headache coming from the mess i need to clean after the whole thing. Garyl and mate69 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benedict5856 Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 I can host any time, any day.... But sadly, there is not enough cute chubs around.... So my wish never come true till now..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HydroNaut Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 9 minutes ago, benedict5856 said: I can host any time, any day.... But sadly, there is not enough cute chubs around.... So my wish never come true till now..... Wah, if you organised... you might need a house big as football field. Lol....just joking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 24 minutes ago, HydroNaut said: Wah, if you organised... you might need a house big as football field. Lol....just joking. If he organize, NEA may come in due to the stench. Singapore pig farms is supposed to be a thing of the past now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benedict5856 Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 49 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: If he organize, NEA may come in due to the stench. Singapore pig farms is supposed to be a thing of the past now. Oh.... so u are saying those chubs smelled like pig? So u still stalking me ah..... Jiayou..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benedict5856 Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 1 hour ago, HydroNaut said: Wah, if you organised... you might need a house big as football field. Lol....just joking. Oh please lah. A chubby guy occupy the same seat as a skinny guy in the MRT or bus seats. Don't be so mean to them. They are not born to poke fun at. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Thomas Didymuz Toh Posted June 18, 2019 Report Share Posted June 18, 2019 Few times that I tried to host people at my place. i get rejected. sometimes, people are so fussy and hard to please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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LeanMature Posted June 19, 2019 Report Share Posted June 19, 2019 18 hours ago, HydroNaut said: Yes... precisely what happened. After I organised one group session at my place. 4 guys always messaged me everyday asking if got any session everyday. I cannot blame them... my place is solely mine as i stay alone and I normally offer a drink buffet(whisky, cocktail, mocktail etc..) cum snack session before the start. I also personally provide all the necessary lube and condoms and even have wall projection of porn on the wall facing my bed. But the headache coming from the mess i need to clean after the whole thing. How many guys came for the group session ? Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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