What are the chances getting seen by ppl that u know when entering gay sauna

[cutejack]

19 hours ago, horhorfun said:

My father used to say,guys should not have sex with each other,my father said that guys should fight with each other

Yr father is right.  Sword fight he means. Pls listen to him. 

[Guest Guest]

22 hours ago, horhorfun said:

My father used to say,guys should not have sex with each other,my father said that guys should fight with each other

Scarly you see your dad in the gay sauna ... 😱😱

[horhorfun]

28 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

Scarly you see your dad in the gay sauna ... 😱😱

Lol no,he wont cause he dont like gay

And he got scolded me before for that

[HUNGRYBTMS]

if your friends  eats Bak kut teh...sure you get seen easily

[Guest whteva]

so risky

[yhtang]

9 minutes ago, Guest whteva said:

so risky

 

The title of this thread is "What are the chances getting seen by ppl that u know when entering gay sauna"

I agree with @Guest whteva that there is a risk - a probability - that one might be seen entering a gay sauna by people one knows.  The more people one knows, the higher the probability of being seen by someone known to oneself of entering a gay sauna.  It is a mere matter of statistics. 

 

How the other party knows that location is a gay sauna, and why the other party happens to be in the vicinity of the gay sauna could a point to raise if the discovery of one entering a gay sauna arises. 

 

To reduce the risk to nil, the answer would be to not enter a gay sauna totally.  But that may not be a suitable or palatable option for some people. 

 

If you wants some fun, you shall have to accept the associated risk.

 

 

[singalion]

Can someone elaborate whether the risk is the same as winning the main price at toto?

[Balestier]

2 minutes ago, singalion said:

Can someone elaborate whether the risk is the same as winning the main price at toto?

If the huge circle of friends are mostly AJ, for sure 100% will see one

[Balestier]

4 minutes ago, singalion said:

Can someone elaborate whether the risk is the same as winning the main price at toto?

But if U are a closet then maybe buy lottery better. Rather strike first prize

[mate69]

Im thinking...could this so-called fear be really all just in your mind, and you are overthinking it?

[yhtang]

2 hours ago, mate69 said:

Im thinking...could this so-called fear be really all just in your mind, and you are overthinking it?

 

The fear of someone you know seeing you entering a gay sauna is real.  In Asia, being seen indulging in homosexual activities is not as accepted as in Western Countries.

 

While the fear is real, the probability of being seen by someone you know is probably not that high.  However, I do not have the statistics. 

 

Empirically speaking, I have been to many saunas many times and I have not been seen doing so by anyone I know. 

[doncoin]

Whatever the chances of being spotted by someone you know when you enter the sauna is something you have zero control over. Whatever the "someone" thinks upon seeing you entering the doors is beyond your ability to control the narrative. At best, the narrative spin is you got laid by several guys while this someone sits at home alone eating a tub of ice cream. At worst, he or she knows you are gay, and is probably going to get laid by several guys while he or she sits at home alone eating two tubs of ice cream. 

 

The important thing is you had sex. He or she didn't.

[Guest Reality]

7 hours ago, doncoin said:

Whatever the chances of being spotted by someone you know when you enter the sauna is something you have zero control over. Whatever the "someone" thinks upon seeing you entering the doors is beyond your ability to control the narrative. At best, the narrative spin is you got laid by several guys while this someone sits at home alone eating a tub of ice cream. At worst, he or she knows you are gay, and is probably going to get laid by several guys while he or she sits at home alone eating two tubs of ice cream. 

 

The important thing is you had sex. He or she didn't.

You know, sex is great but in a world full of saunas and apps, having sex is not the massive achievement you seem to think it is 

[singalion]

20 hours ago, doncoin said:

Whatever the chances of being spotted by someone you know when you enter the sauna is something you have zero control over. Whatever the "someone" thinks upon seeing you entering the doors is beyond your ability to control the narrative. At best, the narrative spin is you got laid by several guys while this someone sits at home alone eating a tub of ice cream. At worst, he or she knows you are gay, and is probably going to get laid by several guys while he or she sits at home alone eating two tubs of ice cream. 

 

The important thing is you had sex. He or she didn't.

 

Actually, the privacy laws (while still not perfect in Singapore) have increased.

 

If people start ridiculing you with abusive things, then now you can react against it.

 

Since 377A has been repealed there is also no real thread of blackmailing or threatening any homosexual any longer.

 

Let's take the worst case scenarios:

You see your colleague in the sauna. So what? He might have suspected it long time ago, also might have seen your profile on one of the dating apps.

 

You see your former class mate in the sauna. And? You really think he will gonna trouble you?

 

What is actually this fear of seeing someone you know at the sauna?

 

 

 

[auscent]

It is human reflex to get worried. Dont forget we can be empowered too. We have the right to enjoy ourselves without worrying abt approval of others.

[aelwaien]

If you're going to enter the sauna with a cap/sunglasses/mask, you're going to stir up more rouse instead of trying to blend in/lay low.

[doncoin]

16 hours ago, Guest Reality said:

You know, sex is great but in a world full of saunas and apps, having sex is not the massive achievement you seem to think it is 

 

I agree. I think there are more important things in life than just sex. However, if one is to spend the time and money going to a sauna, I am sure, you expect a return on investment somehow, than going home alone dissatisfied, and having to wank off alone. I think of having sex as part of self-care. 

 

People have sex all the time. and there is really nothing shocking about it. Someone you know seeing you walking into a sauna is no different than seeing you walking into a brothel if you are straight. 

 

 

 

Edited February 2, 2024 by doncoin

[yhtang]

14 hours ago, aelwaien said:

If you're going to enter the sauna with a cap/sunglasses/mask, you're going to stir up more rouse instead of trying to blend in/lay low.

 

If you're heading to the sauna with a cap/sunglasses/mask, especially at night, you're going to stir up more rouse instead of trying to blend in/lay low. 😆

[AskMeNot]

No need to worry. Maybe you meet your boss in the sauna, you guys had good sex and next thing you know, you are promoted to become his assistant. 😂

[QinWei]

Usu this will occur in fairytales or kdrama

3 hours ago, AskMeNot said:

No need to worry. Maybe you meet your boss in the sauna, you guys had good sex and next thing you know, you are promoted to become his assistant. 😂

 

[yhtang]

3 hours ago, QinWei said:

Usu this will occur in fairytales or kdrama

 

 

And porn, don't forget this scenario for porn!

But if the roles were reversed, and you are spotted by your subordinate, would you have the power to promote him?  😁

[imm]

7 hours ago, AskMeNot said:

No need to worry. Maybe you meet your boss in the sauna, you guys had good sex and next thing you know, you are promoted to become his assistant. 😂

This is funny! Loved it 😁