tjan_troy Posted May 12, 2019 Report Share Posted May 12, 2019 Hi Forum, I am thinking about starting a group outing for SINGLES; if you are looking out for someone special, to make friends and widen your social circle. To make it work, I am thinking of creating different interest groups. Such as 1) Movies 2) Foodies 3) Gym / Workout Fanatics, etc. If you are keen, let's get it rolling. Wei17 and neuwave 1 1 IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moonchild Posted May 12, 2019 Report Share Posted May 12, 2019 im keen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tyler Posted May 13, 2019 Report Share Posted May 13, 2019 I'm keen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zackling Posted May 13, 2019 Report Share Posted May 13, 2019 (edited) I am a chef, we can start a supper club at someone's place and i don't mind making friends myself. i am a 41 158 95 chn hairy guy bi chub discreet & divorced. the proposed 1. Movie club & 2.Foodies club, I am so keen on it Edited May 15, 2019 by Zackling son4dads and chubst8guy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidster Posted May 13, 2019 Report Share Posted May 13, 2019 HMU Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Task-changer05 Posted May 13, 2019 Report Share Posted May 13, 2019 Hmu too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yyq90 Posted May 14, 2019 Report Share Posted May 14, 2019 HMU TOO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 14, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 14, 2019 Great. Please list the activities you would like to participate. I will try organising for various groups. IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zackling Posted May 14, 2019 Report Share Posted May 14, 2019 1. movies 2. Foodies 3. cooking Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackie1981lee Posted May 14, 2019 Report Share Posted May 14, 2019 Dun mind joining to make new friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Task-changer05 Posted May 15, 2019 Report Share Posted May 15, 2019 Hiking/trekking Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoodMan654 Posted May 15, 2019 Report Share Posted May 15, 2019 1 hour ago, Task-changer05 said: Hiking/trekking i like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Task-changer05 Posted May 15, 2019 Report Share Posted May 15, 2019 20 minutes ago, GoodMan654 said: i like. Me too.. Night walk is fun too, exploring.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vera. Posted May 15, 2019 Report Share Posted May 15, 2019 yos me 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted May 15, 2019 Report Share Posted May 15, 2019 i'm attached already, not so nice to join right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 16, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 16, 2019 Hey guys. Thanks for responding and for your ideas. They are very good. I think due to the lack of size of the group, as we are a new group, maybe the best way to start is to gather and have a meal together. Get to know each other. Hopefully it will grow with time. We can have a game, do some sports, other interactive activities etc. Since we come from different parts of Singapore, may I suggest that the first meeting place at central Clarke Quay. Central but not too crowded. Date: Sunday 26 May or 2 Jun (Your Vote is required) Time: 2pm Location: Clarke Quay Food Venue: TBC To be discussed on LINE. Line Group created. PM me your LINE ID to add you in. Thanks! moonchild 1 IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan 28 Posted May 16, 2019 Report Share Posted May 16, 2019 Movies Food ( Buffet / HK food / etc) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Task-changer05 Posted May 16, 2019 Report Share Posted May 16, 2019 My comment is not being racist. Just wondering, any race are welcome? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 16, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 16, 2019 (edited) Some like potatoes, some like rice, others may like noodles or kway teow. This is not CDAC nor American Club. It's open to all who would like to widen their social network to forge possible meaningful friendships for a start. This is an inclusive group, regardless of race, language or religion, or sexual identity. Albeit mostly are singles, with an urge to merge, I strongly advise that participants be open minded and be graceful to socialise with your fellow commarades. However, it will be up to your ability to mingle, be tactful and respectful others who may be different or may not be "your type". Please don't stalk or hog on your crush. This is a group gathering, not a speed dating stinct. It's up to the individual who may want to connect personally with each other privately. My advice is to keep the synegy of the group dynamics above your own personal interest during the gathering. Anti-social behaviors such as constantly talking about self, putting someone down, being overly loud (unless everyone is equally loud), should be of caution and mindful about. In a setting of strangers coming together, there bound to be introverts and extroverts. Be nice. Be considerate. Let's come together with a common purpose and identity. Let's get the group going on LINE, and let the dynamics take its course. I try to moderate and take charge of situations that may arise. So, in a nutshell, only nice people are welcomed. *Disclaimer: Attending such a function is not a gurantee that you will find a soul mate. (Especially at an instant.) But as the group grows you bound to make some meaningful friends with the same vibe and interests. Extremely closetted individuals should practice caution that a group of (gay) guys hanging out together will always draw unwarranted attention. I would advice your participation when a sizable number of homophobic gays/bis could form a sub-group. At mean time, you are still welcomed to join the forum/thread. Please becareful however, of spammers, marketeers, agents of any kind with a business intent, or someone who may be lurking out to cheat or cause any form of harm. Please keep me posted if you suspect any indecent activities - which does not include consensual sex between /among adults in their private arrangment. HAHAHA... Have fun and be safe. Edited May 16, 2019 by tjan_troy IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Task-changer05 Posted May 17, 2019 Report Share Posted May 17, 2019 I have yet to received any line invites for group. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skyguy Posted May 18, 2019 Report Share Posted May 18, 2019 I'm keen. Msg u my Line ID Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 19, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 19, 2019 (edited) Hey guys, please be patient as I am doing this at my free time. Will add you upon request. However due to security and safety for all participants, I am still figuring how we can authenticate genuine interested guys vs guys sent from WAAPD for instance, who have an agenda to create havoc and disrupt friendly activities for the gay community. They can actually come on a pretext of interest and stir trouble. It could also be the gay community sabotaging themselves by getting personal and feeling emo about trival things. Whatever the things may be, let's get together. Cheers! Please PM me if I have missed adding you. Edited May 19, 2019 by tjan_troy IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 19, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 19, 2019 On 5/13/2019 at 6:17 AM, moonchild said: im keen On 5/13/2019 at 3:35 PM, Guest Tyler said: I'm keen On 5/13/2019 at 3:37 PM, Zackling said: I am a chef, we can start a supper club at someone's place and i don't mind making friends myself. i am a 41 158 95 chn hairy guy bi chub discreet & divorced. the proposed 1. Movie club & 2.Foodies club, I am so keen on it On 5/13/2019 at 6:13 PM, kidster said: HMU On 5/14/2019 at 1:22 PM, Yyq90 said: HMU TOO On 5/15/2019 at 6:03 AM, jackie1981lee said: Dun mind joining to make new friends. On 5/15/2019 at 9:06 PM, GoodMan654 said: i like. On 5/16/2019 at 12:03 AM, vera. said: yos me 2 On 5/16/2019 at 2:38 PM, Dan 28 said: Movies Food ( Buffet / HK food / etc) Hi All, please PM me your LINE ID if you are not in the group yet. Cheers! IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 19, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 19, 2019 On 5/17/2019 at 11:54 PM, Task-changer05 said: I have yet to received any line invites for group. Added. Right? IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 19, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 19, 2019 On 5/18/2019 at 10:00 AM, skyguy said: I'm keen. Msg u my Line ID Done. IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted May 19, 2019 Report Share Posted May 19, 2019 3 hours ago, tjan_troy said: Hi All, please PM me your LINE ID if you are not in the group yet. Cheers! Johntan-sg. Gym, badmintion, movies, yoga, pilates, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 19, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 19, 2019 2 hours ago, Balestier said: Johntan-sg. Gym, badmintion, movies, yoga, pilates, Done. IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackite Posted May 19, 2019 Report Share Posted May 19, 2019 Ktv, jb trip , traveling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 19, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 19, 2019 (edited) Hi All. Here is a (introductory) video of myself (singing) and promoting what this group is about. It is about a group of (single) guys who is interested in widening their social network. To create opportunities for them to know more singles out there. Many of the gay apps today only help instant gratification rather than real people with a longer term needs. I hope we can generate sufficient interest from the community to help guys get hitched. See you on LINE. Edited May 19, 2019 by tjan_troy Yaoi and Red_martian 2 IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 19, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 19, 2019 (edited) On 5/16/2019 at 12:12 AM, Guest Blank said: i'm attached already, not so nice to join right? For those who are already attached. We can form another sub-group. Cheers! Edited May 19, 2019 by tjan_troy IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoodMan654 Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 u sing so well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 Im keen. How to sign up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 20, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 22 minutes ago, GoodMan654 said: u sing so well. Thanks. But not really. 21 minutes ago, onlylonely said: Im keen. How to sign up? What’s your Line ID? IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
omoboy Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 hi I'm interested! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 20, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 20 minutes ago, omoboy said: hi I'm interested! PM your Line ID. IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 20, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 Please note that future guys who would like to join the group for meeting up would require to go through a 2-step verification. A video authentication and a facepic to allow group members to identify you. If you are not ready for that, then I suggest you can remain here in BW. I can’t help people who don’t wanna help themselves. For certain, I am not going to entertain secrecy individuals just to kapoh and see who is in the group without showing who they are. If you are not comfortable to even do a simple video chat, my doubts are high that you would be comfortable to meet other guys in person when the outing is established. By the way, it takes extra time and energy to provide a free friendship and dating service for the community. Don’t pull a fast one and try to create havoc. Cheers! moonchild and auscent 2 IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kratos Posted May 20, 2019 Report Share Posted May 20, 2019 6 hours ago, tjan_troy said: Please note that future guys who would like to join the group for meeting up would require to go through a 2-step verification. A video authentication and a facepic to allow group members to identify you. If you are not ready for that, then I suggest you can remain here in BW. I can’t help people who don’t wanna help themselves. For certain, I am not going to entertain secrecy individuals just to kapoh and see who is in the group without showing who they are. If you are not comfortable to even do a simple video chat, my doubts are high that you would be comfortable to meet other guys in person when the outing is established. By the way, it takes extra time and energy to provide a free friendship and dating service for the community. Don’t pull a fast one and try to create havoc. Cheers! Do they PM you their video or they have to post it here on the forum? I would suggest PM and you can share it within your Line group chat. Some people even if they are out, aren’t so comfortable/extrovert with a public video of themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 21, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 21, 2019 (edited) 11 hours ago, kratos said: Do they PM you their video or they have to post it here on the forum? I would suggest PM and you can share it within your Line group chat. Some people even if they are out, aren’t so comfortable/extrovert with a public video of themselves. They PM me the video, or do a face to face chat on LINE. A recent photo of themselves be posted in notes with a brief introduction of themselves, (if their LINE profile does not show their face.) They are free to express themselves. Those who don't, would be added to the non-verified group who prefers to be anonymous. They can contact each other among themselves too. 2 different groups to cater to 2 different mentality of folks. Of course, there are those who are just selfish and curious, who just wanna see who's in it without showing who they are will eventually leave, because they can see no one except those as anonymous as they are. If you want a relationship. Learn the following: - be considerate - be sociable - don't be too high strung - don't bomb the chat group with your post (which leads to the next) - don't be desperate - have a picture - verify yourself and be sincere about it - it is not all about you - don't make it the fault of someone else just because you aren't able to co-exist with someone else - learn to live and let live - be constructive - just because it doesn't serve your purpose, it does not give you the licence to be destructive - put the interest of others before yourself - I don't know if it is a good idea to meet guys with plastic bags over their heads, so I would strongly suggest that you have a recent photo that reflects your true state, and authenticate that the picture is you through a video chat / or a video introduction sent to the admin(s). Since the group is small, I take on this responsibility, in future as the group grows, I will sub-out this role to someone who is mature and non-bias. If you can't do simple things listed above, I doubt you are ready to meet other guys. I doubt you are ready to enter a relationship. Because in a relationship, it's not all about you. It's about making small compromises and suit everyone in it. Cheers! Edited May 21, 2019 by tjan_troy IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 23, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 23, 2019 Hi guys. Thanks for your pm and participation. Currently we have 14 guys on board. We have Chinese and Malay, guys in 20s and guys almost or over 50s. I had a conversation with a friend yesterday and kinda agree and concluded that this group is really important to reach out to those who are seniors and lonely without a support group. The young guys have it easy. Date opportunities aren’t lacking. I would like to sincerely reach out to the older guys here who see the importance of support and friendship as one ages, and those of a minority race. We are here to make friends and mingle, getting hitched is not the main concern. But if you find someone who clicks and become your special someone, than by all means. Different people have different needs. But friends are hard to come by. I hope to create a platform whereby there’s mutual respect, consideration and trust established. Unexpected friendships, having a good time doing things together, baking, cooking, dining, outing, and sports. Cheers! yuquidam 1 IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 23, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 23, 2019 Welcome to the Friendship Club (Guys Only) Red_martian, Yaoi, Gardien76 and 1 other 4 IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted May 23, 2019 Report Share Posted May 23, 2019 This is one of the most inspiring threads in BW! Frenship circles are the pillar to any community! tjan_troy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 23, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 23, 2019 3 hours ago, auscent said: This is one of the most inspiring threads in BW! Frenship circles are the pillar to any community! Thank you! Are you in it?? IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 23, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 23, 2019 We are meeting! Date: 29 May 2019 Time: 7-10pm Place: Along Orchard Road Purpose: Make new friends (who are single) and mingle Let me know if you wanna participate. IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Navyblue Posted May 23, 2019 Report Share Posted May 23, 2019 Sounds good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Singroc Posted May 24, 2019 Report Share Posted May 24, 2019 12 hours ago, auscent said: This is one of the most inspiring threads in BW! Frenship circles are the pillar to any community! Yes agree. Well done tjan_troy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 24, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 24, 2019 15 hours ago, Singroc said: Yes agree. Well done tjan_troy Thank you! IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tantrumboy Posted May 26, 2019 Report Share Posted May 26, 2019 Can I join! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 27, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 27, 2019 17 hours ago, Guest Tantrumboy said: Can I join! What is your Line ID? This group is open to friendly guys who would show their face and verify their identity before turning up. IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kratos Posted May 27, 2019 Report Share Posted May 27, 2019 Is this for dating and singles only? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjan_troy Posted May 27, 2019 Author Report Share Posted May 27, 2019 18 minutes ago, kratos said: Is this for dating and singles only? For singles only at this point in time. Dating happens among themselves after meeting up. I only create opportunities for (single) people to meet. IG: homspasg LINE ID: homspasg Website: troy.sg/homspasg Twitter: tjantroy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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