When u reach 50. Are u running out of time + What would you expect when you reached 50 (compiled)

[benedict5856]

1 hour ago, LeanMature said:

 

True, it is easier to keep fit than to keep young.  You can be super fit at 60 but look is hard to maintain without spending a fortune. 

 

But I don't agreed that 50 is a senior citizen yet.  Maybe senior citizen in the sauna only. 

 

 

its senior citizen in the gay world.

 

Condemned liao. Double chopped, double confirmed.

 

Life becomes meaningless..... everyday DIY.

 

So, try very hard to look young, or wait to rot....

 

earn more money, spend on ownself, make ownself happy....

Even if got 6 abs, the age number starts with number 5 will be like body odour, bad breath, fart smell, youngsters will discreetly disappear before your eyes.

 

who will stay?

Money boy.

Guy who like old ppl.

young but not handsome ppl.

one who believe in true love (if it existed)

 

Sad truth...... for most gays. not all but most.

[LeanMature]

1 hour ago, benedict5856 said:

 

 

its senior citizen in the gay world.

 

Condemned liao. Double chopped, double confirmed.

 

Life becomes meaningless..... everyday DIY.

 

So, try very hard to look young, or wait to rot....

 

earn more money, spend on ownself, make ownself happy....

Even if got 6 abs, the age number starts with number 5 will be like body odour, bad breath, fart smell, youngsters will discreetly disappear before your eyes.

 

who will stay?

Money boy.

Guy who like old ppl.

young but not handsome ppl.

one who believe in true love (if it existed)

 

Sad truth...... for most gays. not all but most.

 

Why sad ?  Still have 4 types of ppl who are interested. 

And who said number start with 5 has body odour, bad breath and fart smell ?  

[Guest Little Bear Uncle]

26 minutes ago, LeanMature said:

 

Why sad ?  Still have 4 types of ppl who are interested. 

And who said number start with 5 has body odour, bad breath and fart smell ?  

He's just a bitter sad fatty,

The proverbial boss scold man, man kick dog, dog bite cat, 

people despise him, he find old men to despise in revenge, no matter what.

[Guest Fart]

1 hour ago, LeanMature said:

 

Why sad ?  Still have 4 types of ppl who are interested. 

And who said number start with 5 has body odour, bad breath and fart smell ?  

Hygiene has no age limit.  Yesterday, a young guy sat next to me and ...oh my goodness....he smells like shit.  He wear black T-shirt and black is the most smelly fabric when a person perspire.  Than he yawned, and smell like big fart.  I cannot tahan, so I stood up and look for another empty seat away from him.  

[Guest Sexless]

3 hours ago, benedict5856 said:

Life becomes meaningless..... everyday DIY.

 

Condemned? Probably.  Meaningless?  a big NO!!!

[benedict5856]

9 hours ago, LeanMature said:

 

Why sad ?  Still have 4 types of ppl who are interested. 

And who said number start with 5 has body odour, bad breath and fart smell ?  

 

hahahaaaa..... what i mean, it is like u are having BO, BB, etc.

 

Usually we would stay a distance from those who are having body odour, etc. Its not their fault, but we will automatically keep a distance away.

Same like someone who is 50..... youngster will also step away discreetly.....

[Steve5380]

1 hour ago, benedict5856 said:

 

hahahaaaa..... what i mean, it is like u are having BO, BB, etc.

 

Usually we would stay a distance from those who are having body odour, etc. Its not their fault, but we will automatically keep a distance away.

Same like someone who is 50..... youngster will also step away discreetly.....

 

When you were 50....  didn't you have still a loving grandma that you liked to hug and kiss, or a grandpa that you liked to hug?

Many old people are careful with hygiene and use deodorants because they cannot relay anymore on their own sense of smell.

[Guest Tony Chen]

50 just means it’s a different lifestyle , things are slower , you learn to appreciate different things, new things. In general you have no mood or energy for nonsense and for most , making “new friends”. You can be 50 and look or feel 40, or 60. It’s your move. 

 

[Rice60640]

If you are still alive at 50 then you have to live life at 50. Everyday is the same. You still have things you want and people that you want and want you. Age is a number. If you are lazy and don’t want to do anything then you can be like that at any age. Don’t let your age define you. Live you life to the fullest at any age. Don’t need to try to look young or anything too. Be yourself. Love yourself. 

[derryfawne]

On 6/23/2019 at 3:44 PM, Guest Try and see said:

Paul Rudd, the actor who played Ant-Man in the MCU, turned 50 this year, and he still looks like this:

 

 

In fact, a lot of his fans can't believe that he's 50!

 

So don't accept the fatalistic belief that turning 50 means "one foot in the grave." It's how you take care of yourself.

 

Whether 15, or 50, you'll still need to save, eat healthily, exercise, and keep your mind active.

 

He was so cute in Clueless (still is too)

[benedict5856]

On 6/29/2019 at 3:50 AM, Steve5380 said:

 

When you were 50....  didn't you have still a loving grandma that you liked to hug and kiss, or a grandpa that you liked to hug?

Many old people are careful with hygiene and use deodorants because they cannot relay anymore on their own sense of smell.

 

Kiss and hug our grandparents?!

 

Again, u making a statement which is totally very Ang Mo.

basically u don't understand Asian cultural at all. 

When u wanna comment, think what we think, not u think.

 

U barely see any huggings here in Singapore. barely and rarely.

[Steve5380]

9 hours ago, benedict5856 said:

 

Kiss and hug our grandparents?!

 

Again, u making a statement which is totally very Ang Mo.

basically u don't understand Asian cultural at all. 

When u wanna comment, think what we think, not u think.

 

U barely see any huggings here in Singapore. barely and rarely.

 

You keep bashing my posts and accusing me of being an Ang Moh.  I am thankful that I don't think like you do!

 

How can you defend as "cultural"  the lack of a habit that is known as health promoting?  Get informed:

 

https://www.healthline.com/health/hugging-benefits#1

 

 

 

[Guest 50 is no big deal really]

I was at the peak of my career at 50 Nd stayed that way until I retired at 57. I am now 62 and having a great time doi g basically nothing... Meaning nothing structured and I must do each day. Of I feel like sleeping in, I do that. If I wnat to travel I just pick up my bag and go. At 50, I was still fucking like daily when in town. Now at 62, it gets harder to keep it hard for long so sex is down to may be once a week but still as intense and shiok when I cum. 

So 50 or not, life is still as beautiful. It is what you make of it. Tell yourself you want to be a happy person and be kind to others and you will find you can lead a happy life. 

[axefactor]

Learn to age gracefully and be realistic of your expectations. That will take the pain off growing old. I'm glad that at my age, I'm still attractive to some people as I exercise a lot . Sure, i may not have a drop dead bod or face but at least I know that I'm preserving myself well and I am very confident about how I look. And those who label you an uncle cos you have hit a certain age? Good luck to them as they are the ones who will accept ageing the hardest.  

[benedict5856]

17 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

 

You keep bashing my posts and accusing me of being an Ang Moh.  I am thankful that I don't think like you do!

 

How can you defend as "cultural"  the lack of a habit that is known as health promoting?  Get informed:

 

https://www.healthline.com/health/hugging-benefits#1

 

 

 

 

u simply don't get it. No one cares about the benefit of hugging. During CNY, when we gather together with our relatives, we only shake hands, not hugging.

Bcas Chinese basically don't hug.

U know why u don't understand? bcas u are not a chinese.

[Guest Asian uncle]

3 hours ago, benedict5856 said:

 

u simply don't get it. No one cares about the benefit of hugging. During CNY, when we gather together with our relatives, we only shake hands, not hugging.

Bcas Chinese basically don't hug.

U know why u don't understand? bcas u are not a chinese.

Hugging is nothing western. We Asians hug too when we want to comfort someone. The comforting effects is soothing for both the givers and receivers and it's nothing sexual.

[Guest Asian uncle]

10 hours ago, axefactor said:

Learn to age gracefully and be realistic of your expectations. That will take the pain off growing old. I'm glad that at my age, I'm still attractive to some people as I exercise a lot . Sure, i may not have a drop dead bod or face but at least I know that I'm preserving myself well and I am very confident about how I look. And those who label you an uncle cos you have hit a certain age? Good luck to them as they are the ones who will accept ageing the hardest.  

Finally someone with good example to shut them up.

[Steve5380]

11 hours ago, benedict5856 said:

 

u simply don't get it. No one cares about the benefit of hugging. During CNY, when we gather together with our relatives, we only shake hands, not hugging.

Bcas Chinese basically don't hug.

U know why u don't understand? bcas u are not a chinese.

 

But... but... I'm sure that, without being American, you will understand Americans when they hug,  because it is explained in the article I posted 

[Dan 28]

On 7/1/2019 at 11:44 PM, derryfawne said:

 

He was so cute in Clueless (still is too)

Watch him and Michelle Pfeiffer in ‘I could never be your woman ‘ ......anyhow , Michelle Pfeiffer has been paired 3 times with younger actors who loved her in the movies ...with Zac Efron in ‘New Year’s Eve ‘ too 

[LeanMature]

On 7/3/2019 at 10:08 AM, axefactor said:

Learn to age gracefully and be realistic of your expectations. That will take the pain off growing old. I'm glad that at my age, I'm still attractive to some people as I exercise a lot . Sure, i may not have a drop dead bod or face but at least I know that I'm preserving myself well and I am very confident about how I look. And those who label you an uncle cos you have hit a certain age? Good luck to them as they are the ones who will accept ageing the hardest.  

 

Assuming if you are 50, you should still have at least 10 years of shelf life.  It will be harder to maintain after 60 though. I mean one can still stay healthy at 60 but physically alot less attractive. 

[Steve5380]

23 minutes ago, LeanMature said:

 

Assuming if you are 50, you should still have at least 10 years of shelf life.  It will be harder to maintain after 60 though. I mean one can still stay healthy at 60 but physically alot less attractive. 

 

A lot less attractive?  I was 62 when I started my  (sex) tourism to Asia in Pattaya, and there I made my only payment ever for sex.  More than ten years of tourism followed where all the good sex I had was for free.   Some think that we Ang-Mohs are fortunate, even have good karma (!)   Could this be true, or could people in their 60s and 70s still retain some attractiveness?  

[LeanMature]

21 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

A lot less attractive?  I was 62 when I started my  (sex) tourism to Asia in Pattaya, and there I made my only payment ever for sex.  More than ten years of tourism followed where all the good sex I had was for free.   Some think that we Ang-Mohs are fortunate, even have good karma (!)   Could this be true, or could people in their 60s and 70s still retain some attractiveness?  

 

Then you should be even more attractive at 50 than now, I suppose.

[Steve5380]

Just now, LeanMature said:

 

Then you should be even more attractive at 50 than now, I suppose.

 

Yes, I was more attractive at 50,  but I have a better attitude now.  This also counts 

 

[LeanMature]

5 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

Yes, I was more attractive at 50,  but I have a better attitude now.  This also counts 

 

 

Better attitude and lower expectation, probably.  

[Guest Fit Uncle]

4 hours ago, LeanMature said:

 

Better attitude and lower expectation, probably.  

We fit uncles stand out from the crowd and do get "molested" too.

But our attitude is more understanding, we don't smack their cheeky hands away like some youngsters do. We give free hugs, all they have to do is ask nicely.

At our age, we lower our expectations and don't think that we're Adonis, just be glad that we're still appreciated.

[lohwpr]

I am not blessed with good look and body.

For all my life, v few are keen to hook up with me; which I accepted this as norm. 

 When I turned 50, for some reason, I am a sought-after product now..... I am getting more heads turned and engagements. ppl just want to know me, talk to me and hopefully more. 

So turning 50 is not all that bad after all. 

But turning 50 does make me change my lifestyle to be healthier..( want to live longer mah )......

[Guest Guest]

2 hours ago, lohwpr said:

I am not blessed with good look and body.

For all my life, v few are keen to hook up with me; which I accepted this as norm. 

 When I turned 50, for some reason, I am a sought-after product now..... I am getting more heads turned and engagements. ppl just want to know me, talk to me and hopefully more. 

So turning 50 is not all that bad after all. 

But turning 50 does make me change my lifestyle to be healthier..( want to live longer mah )......

 

Hello lohwpr, I am turning 50 next year. So you are a much "sought-after product" now is because you are fitter, have a nicer body? How about your dress sense? Did you change your fashion style? In other words, what makes you more attractive now? Can share?

 

[mate69]

after your money ba

[lohwpr]

23 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

 

Hello lohwpr, I am turning 50 next year. So you are a much "sought-after product" now is because you are fitter, have a nicer body? How about your dress sense? Did you change your fashion style? In other words, what makes you more attractive now? Can share?

 

 

Well I grew a moustache which is similar to Tony Stark ( not that I look like him, far from it actually ). 

I exercise, do intermittent fasting ( Some may have read my IF experience in this forum) and lost 12 kg to date. 

 

I am wearing size L confidently instead of XL T shirt. Jeans/Pants 1 size down to 36.....Look fresher. Sun glasses and all that ( a typical example of an old man trying to act young )

and most importantly, some guys has a thing for daddy or daddy look a like . 

 

when I turned 50, I am officially a daddy. 

Edited July 7, 2019 by lohwpr

[lohwpr]

16 hours ago, mate69 said:

after your money ba

 

Could be. No way to tell until they ask for things or money from me. 

 

So far, thank goodness, non of that yet 

[Guest Kiasi]

My aunt going to be 90 soon, and still very Kiasi. Everyday eat same plain fish  - steamed, no salt, no flavouring. 

[fab]

1 hour ago, Guest Kiasi said:

My aunt going to be 90 soon, and still very Kiasi. Everyday eat same plain fish  - steamed, no salt, no flavouring. 

 

Show her http://bfy.tw/OSpK

 

[Guest Enjoy]

Tell her to eat whatever she wants as she won't have much time left to enjoy all the good food. At that age no need to watch what she eats anymore... Just enjoy life. 

[auri]

2 hours ago, lohwpr said:

 

Well I grew a moustache which is similar to Tony Stark ( not that I look like him, far from it actually ). 

I exercise, do intermittent fasting ( Some may have read my IF experience in this forum) and lost 12 kg to date. 

 

I am wearing size L confidently instead of XL T shirt. Jeans/Pants 1 size down to 36.....Look fresher. Sun glasses and all that ( a typical example of an old man trying to act young )

and most importantly, some guys has a thing for daddy or daddy look a like . 

 

when I turned 50, I am officially a daddy. 

 

I suspect it is more to do with the weight loss and other cosmetic changes, rather than your age per se, that has caused your 桃花 to bloom

[lohwpr]

8 minutes ago, auri said:

 

I suspect it is more to do with the weight loss and other cosmetic changes, rather than your age per se, that has caused your 桃花 to bloom

 

The 桃花 started with my moustache but before my weight lost. 

Some are 胡子控。。。

They like older moustache man with stomach....

Edited July 7, 2019 by lohwpr

[Guest Tree]

On ‎7‎/‎2‎/‎2019 at 11:16 PM, Guest 50 is no big deal really said:

I was at the peak of my career at 50 Nd stayed that way until I retired at 57. I am now 62 and having a great time doi g basically nothing... Meaning nothing structured and I must do each day. Of I feel like sleeping in, I do that. If I wnat to travel I just pick up my bag and go. At 50, I was still fucking like daily when in town. Now at 62, it gets harder to keep it hard for long so sex is down to may be once a week but still as intense and shiok when I cum. 

So 50 or not, life is still as beautiful. It is what you make of it. Tell yourself you want to be a happy person and be kind to others and you will find you can lead a happy life. 

 

Care to share why you decided to retired at the age of 57 (not older or younger)? Why this particular age?

 

[Guest No big deal really]

No particular reason. It was the right time to step down to give way to up and Coming capable direct report. If I stayed on forever they will never get a chance to move up. The business was also at its best performance so the right time to leave and be remembered and missed. More money was of course good that I figured I had enough to retire comfortably if I don't simply spend so time to say goodbye to working life. I have been having a great time since leaving and now busy socialising here with all the good looking people.... 

[LeanMature]

14 hours ago, lohwpr said:

 

The 桃花 started with my moustache but before my weight lost. 

Some are 胡子控。。。

They like older moustache man with stomach....

 

To each his own, I have a soft spot for muscular older man, without stomach. 

[gsky]

 

 Japanese grandfather, 84, shows age is no barrier to being hip

 

When ‘Silver’ Tetsuya’s grandson asked him if he’d dress with a little more daring, the retired school principal happily obliged. Both fell about laughing

 

Now, after 20 fashion shoots featuring looks from labels such as Dolce & Gabbana, Alyx and Loewe, he has 100,000 Instagram followers

 

https://www.scmp.com/lifestyle/fashion-beauty/article/3017680/instagram-star-and-fashion-celebrity-japanese-grandfather

 

 

 

Edited July 9, 2019 by gsky

[raind]

Generalizing is not right regardless of whether it’s about behaviour, colour, religion and, for that matter, age. 

[Guest Guest]

I guess so as life expectancy  now is much lower compare ro the last 30 years.

[Guest Sauna closing time]

I remember when I was at the Heaven sauna in Bangkok. I went late and there was hardly anybody left. Like they said, the nearer to closing time, the more desperate we get. The last 2 already went into a room before I realized the time, less than one hour left.

 

I was showering and expected to leave empty handed. The staff were already starting to do cleaning up. To avoid him, I hung my towel outside and went into the steam room only to find that they had already turned off the steam and turned on the light. Anyway there's still residual steam. I was applying some body lotion when he came in with a running water hose. When he saw me still inside, he still sprayed the other side and go through the motion of sweeping the floor.

 

He looked at me, I looked at him. 

"Sorry, no man all go. I wash wash okay?"

He literally swept by my side and I raised my legs onto the bench to avoid him. That knocked my lotion onto the floor, right onto his broom.

I rushed to catch it before his broom dirtied it. He rushed to pick it up and we knocked onto each other and I slipped. He caught me and we had skin contact.

I don't understand fully his gibberish English and Thai. But his gesturing pointing to his cock and saying, ".....no man...all go..." I understood his body language that I'm running out of time and he's the last chance. 

 

He cupped my buttocks towards the bench and I perked up my butts while bracing my hands onto the bench. He fingered me while he stepped out of his wet shorts with his hard cock nodding angrily and furiously red. 

I pushed away his cock, "no no, no condom no"

He confidently pulled out a condom from his shorts pocket and gave me a cheeky slap on my butts, "last last condom"

From my showering and the wet residual steam as lube, he easily penetrated me. He smelt of dirty sweat, his fingers looked dirty as he caressed me. He's totally not my type. But with less than 45 minutes left, I'm running out of time. Beggars can't be choosers. He could had sensed my desperation and followed me hoping to get lucky. 

Me the business executive with my expensive rejuvenating skin lotion, now being crunched into a corner of the bench with my legs waving in the air. He the janitor holding up my legs pressing them apart as he huffed and puffed and expertly wiggled his tool in and out of my private part of shame. 

 

It was less than 10 minutes when I recognized his shallow and fast huffing breaths of ejaculation as he seeded me with only a thin condom layer as barrier. I groaned as his rough callous hand jerked me. I pushed it away and self serviced. I don't think I could cum with him since I started to feel disgusted looking at his dirty hands with dirt buried in his nails. 

 

He squeezed my balls and bit my nipples to stimulate me. I pushed his head down to my pubes and he understood to swallow me whole with his expert tongue polishing my glan while his callous fingers now replaced his cock in my private. Within a minute I released into his warm cavity. 

 

He spit it out and picked up the water hose to spray it away. Then he aimed the water between my legs and washed me with his dirty fingers reaching inside me. I reached down to push him away only to slip down because the running water on the bench was extra slippery. I grabbed the bench but still ended up on the floor rolling in his spit, my cum, his leaking condom and those grimy dirt that he was sweeping just now.

 

He helped me up and used the hose to spray me down like his routine cleaning as a janitor. Except that he sensed my body language that I detested him and his dirt. I pushed his hose away to go out to shower but he still grabbed me, slapped my butts again and pushed me to bend over at the bench like when he was in the beginning going to fuck me. When he slipped a finger into me and used that to push me, I surrendered and braced myself again on the bench, bend over and let him wash my private from behind. He wiggled his dirty slimy hose around me, in and out around my legs playing with my body. 

 

Then the final humiliation, he impaled me with the thin knobbed neck of my expensive body lotion. The soft hard plastic served well as a dildo and I couldn't deny it while wiggling my butts to enjoy the stimulation. I looked back and see into his now sneering eyes. I saw his throbbing cock just waiting to make me an offer that I can't refuse once I'm stimulated to the point of no return. 

 

I looked back in horror as he withdrew the slimy lotion bottle and waved his red angry cock at me. He pressed it against my pucker hole and watched if I'm going to push it away in disgust. Stimulated beyond the point of no return and now desperate again, I had not the will power to resist. My cock was throbbing, my nipples were throbbing. Battling against the will of my pucker hole, I instead widened my stance and bend lower to perk up my ass in surrender. 

 

Our eyes locked in anticipation as his male member impaled me slowly. I felt every inch of it's sliminess and heat as it deliberately inched slowly into me. When it reached rock bottom, he held it there holding me captive and gave the sides of my butts two meaty slaps that echoed loud in the hollow room. I don't have to understand Thai to know he was saying something like "who's the boss now, huh, you slut?" Those slaps and his haughty eyes said it all. I lowered my eyes in subservient to the janitor. 

 

But all that noise suddenly attracted someone to push open the door. I don't know who that older man was, maybe co-worker or likely his supervisor as they seem to quarrel about something about me. All the while I was still captively impaled. He didn't want to let go of me and I was hoping that he don't. But probably the supervisor was more rigid about company policy of not screwing the customer and separation of work during office hours and private pleasures on your own time. Most of all, he's probably straight and this was a disgusting sight to him, two full grown men locked in mating copulation. He forced us apart and the cock popped out with a small gush of the water that he had hosed into me. His eyes glared at me in disbelief of disgust at that water drooling down my legs.

 

I kept my head down and so embarrassed that I don't want to have to face him. But there's no sand for me to bury my head in shame. I could only run out to the roof top showers, did a quick clean of all that greenish grey slime on my body then rushed down to dress up and go. Only to remember that I had left that new bottle of expensive body lotion in the steam room. I rushed back upstairs into the steam room and it's not there. I came out and looked for him. Found him sweeping at a corner and the bottle was stuffed into the waist band of his shorts. 

 

I pointed at the bottle and he took it out to gesture at groin level what he have done to me with this bottle. I moved closer to grab the bottle and he held onto it talking Thai English gibberish at me, " no time ...fuck fuck okay.." 

He pulled my trousers and I couldn't help myself but let him pull it down. I braced myself against the wall and he pushed me to bend lower and perk up my butts. He still fingered me to check my wetness and OMG still used the bottle to impale me to hold me captive there while he's dropping his shorts. He's pulling out the bottle but too late, the supervisor heard us and was there with an angry face. While they were still quarreling, he impaled me with his maleness right before the supervisor. But with one mighty push, the supervisor again separated us, wagging his no no no finger at me. As he grabbed the bottle from him, he suddenly let it slipped as he hurriedly wiped something off his fingers on his shorts with disgust on his face.

 

I grabbed the bottle and felt the slime. Hence I realized that he realised he'd seen the disgusting acts where that slime came from. No matter what, that slime was my slime and I gathered my trousers from around my feet and left.

 

 

[raind]

On 7/3/2019 at 4:13 PM, benedict5856 said:

 

u simply don't get it. No one cares about the benefit of hugging. During CNY, when we gather together with our relatives, we only shake hands, not hugging.

Bcas Chinese basically don't hug.

U know why u don't understand? bcas u are not a chinese.

 

I am 100% Chinese and Singaporean and I made it a point to hug my mum Everyday, even in public. And when the moment is appropriate I would even give her a peck on her cheek. And I am thankful I did so cos she is no longer around.  Miss her much!

 

but yeah, I would agree if you say some are still not very comfortable with showing affections by hugging. 

[Guest Mary]

those were the good old days where i could jerkoff [almost] daily. sometimes, it could be twice or 3 times a day. and sex was good too.

those were the good old days where my testerone level perked my body and mind. it never failed to get, or do, for more.

those were the days of me in my 20s, 30s and early 40s.

while i still maintain a regular exercise and still eating wisely, sex has taken a change. for one, i sure lose in who-shoot-the-farthest competition. geez, the last time i jerkoff, it was only dripping 

these days, watching p--ns to make me horny failed too. often, i dozed off even before watching the guy cummed.

... and i just love just to hug and kiss.

those were the good old days where i could jerkoff [almost] daily. sometimes, it could be twice or 3 times a day. and sex was good too.

those were the good old days where my testerone level perked my body and mind. it never failed to get, or do, for more.

those were the days of me in my 20s, 30s and early 40s.

while i still maintain a regular exercise and still eating wisely, sex has taken a change. for one, i sure lose in who-shoot-the-farthest competition. geez, the last time i jerkoff, it was only dripping 

these days, watching p--ns to make me horny failed too. often, i dozed off even before watching the guy cummed.

... and i just love just to hug and kiss.

[Think Of Others]

51 minutes ago, Guest Mary said:

Those were the good old days where i could jerkoff [almost] daily. sometimes, it could be twice or 3 times a day. and sex was good too.

those were the good old days where my testerone level perked my body and mind. it never failed to get, or do, for more.

those were the days of me in my 20s, 30s and early 40s.

while i still maintain a regular exercise and still eating wisely, sex has taken a change. for one, i sure lose in who-shoot-the-farthest competition. geez, the last time i jerkoff, it was only dripping 

these days, watching p--ns to make me horny failed too. often, i dozed off even before watching the guy cummed.

... and i just love just to hug and kiss.

I think a sizeable number of guys may face those problems you have described too. You are not alone. Don't be disheartened. 

 

Hugs!!!

[abgsam001]

6 hours ago, Think Of Others said:

I think a sizeable number of guys may face those problems you have described too. You are not alone. Don't be disheartened. 

 

Hugs!!!

Yeah. Its fine and ok.

[Guest Uncle]

On 10/30/2019 at 11:02 PM, raind said:

 

I am 100% Chinese and Singaporean and I made it a point to hug my mum Everyday, even in public. And when the moment is appropriate I would even give her a peck on her cheek. And I am thankful I did so cos she is no longer around.  Miss her much!

 

but yeah, I would agree if you say some are still not very comfortable with showing affections by hugging. 

I'm 50 and way fitter than the average Joe any age, although no 6 pax. I'm almost bald. Need reading glasses. Not given into designer brands anymore. Happy with plain Ts and Chinos. Occasionally, I go massage for a good happy ending. If a cute guy wanted to suck my fat hairy cock, that would be a bonus. Sex is no longer top priority. Cruising is the same old shit repeating itself. It's fucking, sucking, rimming, licking, or one of those tricks, which would be done then swiftly forgotten. But hey, most important: keep healthy, whatever that means. Getting sick or injured sucks, especially if you have single and living alone. Money is good to have but having enough would be good. Friends...Hmmm they come and go. Don't count on them or you'll be disappointed.

[Guest Picky]

19 minutes ago, Guest Uncle said:

I'm 50 and way fitter than the average Joe any age, although no 6 pax. I'm almost bald. Need reading glasses. Not given into designer brands anymore. Happy with plain Ts and Chinos. Occasionally, I go massage for a good happy ending. If a cute guy wanted to suck my fat hairy cock, that would be a bonus. Sex is no longer top priority. Cruising is the same old shit repeating itself. It's fucking, sucking, rimming, licking, or one of those tricks, which would be done then swiftly forgotten. But hey, most important: keep healthy, whatever that means. Getting sick or injured sucks, especially if you have single and living alone. Money is good to have but having enough would be good. Friends...Hmmm they come and go. Don't count on them or you'll be disappointed.

You’re almost bald but cock still hairy. Don’t you think it’s better if they are the other way round? 

[Guest Uncle]

7 hours ago, Guest Picky said:

You’re almost bald but cock still hairy. Don’t you think it’s better if they are the other way round? 

哈哈 I can only wish but its not up to me... Besides I hate hair transplant, wigs, etc. Well, I'm just thankful my pubes are still luscious black and crawling up my abs and sides of my thighs. Life... What to do?

[Guest Uncle]

10 hours ago, SGSpeedoBoy said:

Wait to die 

So what do you do while waiting....