Malay Men Discussion + Liking For & Sex with Malay Men (Compiled)

[Guest Malay]

On 2/6/2022 at 11:30 AM, BudakFit said:

Most malays tops are damn discreet some even choosy haha they will find you interesting n hot if you have bigger cock them them...their ego is mostly their cock appearance physique so if I am better then them...they let me do whatever I want with them...

 

They only meet you if you host or there place or late night outdoor...they tend to overthinking mostly bi and married ones...and they are so noob in fetish kinky which I find it damn cute...haha such a good sub master nooby for me to train and play with haha 

 

I like those mix type like me...or those have these cute faces dimples or with these luscious lips...and ...with nice tone skin...such a turn on...

 

My Malay neighbor has now become my playmate when either of us are horny. So easy and convenient, just walk over for a quickie, and come home. He's married buff hairy and well hung and cut. 2 kids some more! So sexy. Fuck me anytime!

[tomcat]

my gym is in a malay populated part of SG, and i am happy to be left alone, but i always get approached by this malay guy, he is older but buff.

 

a bit of an attention seeker, because he wears those cringe loud superhero tights, and compression tops. he is also a bit of a groomer (sexual predator behaviour) because he maintains friendliness to all and is even well known to the ladies. chinese ladies tend to layan him, cos he is handsome, but malay ladies know this tactic many times.

 

but several times, he has followed me into the locker room, and kaypoh around while i prepare to shower. once on a quiet day, he stripped fully then asked me if i have shampoo, (even tho the gym has a dispenser in the showers). afterwards, my partner said, he didn't even go to shower, but put on his gear and went back out to gym some more.

 

several other times, he tried to include me in his post gym workout shots, asked me to pose with him. he does this with many other guys as well, and i do think it is a form of sexual grooming.

 

it's gotten so bad, i even change my timing for gym and it was good for a short while, until he realised i switched too.

 

as i am very standoffish to the point of being unsociable in the gym, one of the staff, who has a similar vibe as me also gave me warning looks, after he checked the abang in. i am very clearly not one of those to go to gym as a social activity, to "bro-bro-bro" around. and i give off this vibe very well, i do not talk to anyone, my earbuds are in, and i usually focus on my own workout.

 

i just wish sometimes these horny malay guys, usually the young dads, will respect the boundaries and leave me alone. not everyone is fair game for you to makan.

 

there is perfectly nothing wrong with his looks - if members here can see him, most will say he is very hot. but he is so creepy, and probably a closeted man, that i cannot condone his actions.

 

please don't support men who go through life as straight, and benefit from the same system that discriminates against us, while at the same time, seeking us out and enjoying us in the shadows. to me, they are the lowest of the low.
 

Edited January 27, 2023 by tomcat

[Guest Makan]

1 minute ago, tomcat said:

my gym is in a malay populated part of SG, and i am happy to be left alone, but i always get approached by this malay guy, he is older but buff.

 

a bit of an attention seeker, because he wears those cringe loud superhero tights, and compression tops. he is also a bit of a groomer (sexual predator behaviour) because he maintains friendliness to all and is even well known to the ladies. chinese ladies tend to layan him, cos he is handsome, but malay ladies know this tactic many times.

 

but several times, he has followed me into the locker room, and kaypoh around while i prepare to shower. once on a quiet day, he stripped fully then asked me if i have shampoo, (even tho the gym has a dispenser in the showers). afterwards, my partner said, he didn't even go to shower, but put on his gear and went back out to gym some more.

 

several other times, he tried to include me in his post gym workout shots, asked me to pose with him. he does this with many other guys as well, and i do think it is a form of sexual grooming.

 

it's gotten so bad, i even change my timing for gym and it was good for a short while, until he realised i switched too.

 

as i am very standoffish to the point of being unsociable in the gym, one of the staff, who has a similar vibe as me also gave me warning looks, after he checked the abang in. i am very clearly not one of those to go to gym as a social activity, to "bro-bro-bro" around. and i give off this vibe very well, i do not talk to anyone, my earbuds are in, and i go with my partner, and we usually focus on each other.

 

i just wish sometimes these horny malay guys, usually the young dads, will respect the boundaries and leave me alone. not everyone is fair game for you to makan.

 

there is perfectly nothing wrong with his looks - if members here can see him, most will say he is very hot. but he is so creepy, and probably a closeted man, that i cannot condone his actions.

 

please don't support men who go through life as straight, and benefit from the same system that discriminates against us, while at the same time, seeking us out and enjoying us in the shadows. to me, they are the lowest of the low.
 

 

Yum. Makan you. 

[singalion]

On 2/6/2022 at 6:30 PM, BudakFit said:

Most malays tops are damn discreet some even choosy haha they will find you interesting n hot if you have bigger cock them them...their ego is mostly their cock appearance physique so if I am better then them...they let me do whatever I want with them...

 

They only meet you if you host or there place or late night outdoor...they tend to overthinking mostly bi and married ones...and they are so noob in fetish kinky which I find it damn cute...haha such a good sub master nooby for me to train and play with haha 

 

I like those mix type like me...or those have these cute faces dimples or with these luscious lips...and ...with nice tone skin...such a turn on...

 

 

Times are changing.

Gay/Bi Malays are not necessarily married nowadays. Many of the younger generations (those below 40) stay single (and probably just go through the pressure to marry from their parents). Plenty are open to their siblings but not the parents.

 

Sure there is still an amount that succumbed to the family pressure to marry a girl, whilst knowing they are gay, but they are getting fewer.

Even in Malaysia, the younger gay Malays just do what they want and live their life instead of troubling them by marrying a girl.

The positive point for Malays is that they have quite some siblings, which means, it isn't that critical if one of the sons doesn't get married.

 

I know in Singapore is this type of gay bottoms quite prevalent who glorify and admire married tops (I actually never understood why because after the fun, the gay will be alone and single while the married guy cuddles his wife to sleep...) but it seems with changing social attitudes the market is getting smaller for this group.

 

I assume Malays tend to be more discreet as most of them live with their families and are not out. It is a sort of self protection. Same also you must see the Malays are a small group, with family ties around the island, everyone knows everyone, so to speak, not really but, nearly. Therefore, before something about their sexual orientation spreads unwanted over the island they prefer to play discreet. Personally I often had the feeling they might be in a relationship also. Being discreet can have different backgrounds, but I guess Malays just don't want to be branded as "gay" due to the stigma in their community. 

 

Talking about cocks would take another chapter. I assume most Malays know where they stand, when it comes to the "batang"...

 

Just some input on that community.

 

 

Edited January 27, 2023 by singalion

[singalion]

1 hour ago, tomcat said:

a bit of an attention seeker, because he wears those cringe loud superhero tights, and compression tops. he is also a bit of a groomer (sexual predator behaviour) because he maintains friendliness to all and is even well known to the ladies. chinese ladies tend to layan him, cos he is handsome, but malay ladies know this tactic many times.

 

but several times, he has followed me into the locker room, and kaypoh around while i prepare to shower. once on a quiet day, he stripped fully then asked me if i have shampoo, (even tho the gym has a dispenser in the showers). afterwards, my partner said, he didn't even go to shower, but put on his gear and went back out to gym some more.

 

several other times, he tried to include me in his post gym workout shots, asked me to pose with him. he does this with many other guys as well, and i do think it is a form of sexual grooming.

 

Don't conclude on a group of people from some single experience.

 

I m sure there are some desperate Chinese or Indians in gyms also who tend to do the same as what you describe above.

 

We can meet for a tea/coffee and I can share a lot of insights from kaypoh, unbehaved Singaporeans (non-Malays), even from white guys... In gyms on times it was difficult for me to take a shower and using a steam room was more of a torture or practice of having the fiercest look possible.

 

Don't boil down your view of ethnic groups from such single experiences please.

 

 

Edited January 27, 2023 by singalion

[tomcat]

20 minutes ago, singalion said:

 

Don't conclude on a group of people from some single experience.

 

Don't boil down your view of ethnic groups from such single experiences please.

 

well there are always exceptions to anything and everything, so isn't that argument moot?

 

however for me, not the first time - in NS, during reservist, during family gatherings, after Friday prayers, etc.

 

"klau x cuba, nanti menyesal - cuba ajerr sapa tahu sekali dapat?"

 

i am sure there are many in here who would confirm.  #iykyk 

 

 

 

 

[singalion]

13 minutes ago, tomcat said:

well there are always exceptions to anything and everything, so isn't that argument moot?

 

 

But isn't it that from exceptions you should not generalise.

 

From my experience, there is no difference between Chinese, Malay or Indian Singaporean married men, that are actually gay, seeking to entice other men into gay sex.

 

I can't really single out one ethnic and say, they are different or that the amount of that ethnic group is pushier or more engaged in getting into gay action... or whether it is a common behaviour just of that group (sex predator).

 

The point that is critical that you express this as a feature of one ethnic.

Have my doubts on that, in particular from my personal experience...

 

The "never try never know" is not exclusively Singaporean or Malay also ...

 

 

 

It is not possible for you to know whether or not you enjoy something until you try it for the first time.

 

 

No worries tomcat, you can share your experience, ...

I just try to place a disclaimer, because I personally don't see any difference to such behaviour to other ethnic groups of Singapore and as I stated even experienced pushy, gay sex enticing Ang Mohs indulging into the same behaviour...

 

 

Edited January 27, 2023 by singalion

[tomcat]

sure whatever you say, you are always right. now please kindly leave me alone haha 

[fetish72]

Buff manly married men can be very hot in bed especially when you hit their weak spot they opened up and not shy at all. Married malay you must know how tuned them from shy to raunchy guy. 

 

I ever meet a guy around my area at that time my parent and helper when to my aunt place overnite. When he came to my place he wearing sarong and singlet turned out manly buff guy with wedding ring.

 

As i closed the door we sat at living room with the tv on as we chat i change to asian porn. We kiss passionately as my hand run tru under his sarong he wear thong straight away i had major hard on.

 

I give him nice suck and turn him over and gave him nice rimming he moan and quiver and begging for more. I keep on attack it till i wet my cock with saliva plus i ozzed alot of precum i fuck him doggy on my sofa and continue in my room with thong on. I gave him 2 nice breed and when i horny either i went to his place or inside my suv back sit.

 

 

[Guest Envious]

On 1/27/2022 at 9:18 AM, deepstroke1012 said:

I've always been attracted to Malay men and for some reason, they all seem to gravitate towards me as well. During my younger days, it's almost certain that the guys I hook up were Malay men and a good portion of them happened to be married too. Most of these guys had to get marry due to family and religious obligations. The "abang" types were my favourite - masculine, sensual and gentle, and very clean, which is a bonus. They love to kiss too. I remember hooking up with this older abang who was a police officer but loved to suck my dick and swallow my load. You could never tell by he way he looked - handsome, manly with a sexy moustache. And whenever he was with me, he went all the way...no hang ups.

This would be my fantasies come true!

[Guest Guest]

On 1/29/2023 at 6:15 PM, fetish72 said:

Buff manly married men can be very hot in bed especially when you hit their weak spot they opened up and not shy at all. Married malay you must know how tuned them from shy to raunchy guy. 

 

Agree...

More than 15yrs ago, I met one gymrat abang at the former planet fitness at great world city. After knowing him for a year, he invited me to his place. I still remember it was Saturday, few days after hari raya. Upon arriving at his place, he welcomed me at his door in just a sarong at waist. Of course, this really turned me on. I asked him nobody at home? And he replied me that he had sent his wife and her family to the airport in the morning for relatives visiting in KL. 

After some drinking and chit chatting on sofa, we went into gymming topic and everything started from there. He flexed his bicep and abs for me to feel the hardness. He later pressed my thigh and told me I needed more leg training. He then pulled his sarong up to his thighs and showed me those muscles and veins. I went on to press the muscle on his thigh and again he pulled up his sarong higher to show me his inner thighs. When he was laying back on sofa pulling his sarong higher to show his inner thighs, his balls and cock were actually exposed out. I acted blur at first and he continued to ask if I wanted to see more and everything was history. 

Yes...he is very hot in bed and his wife is really a lucky woman to have that cock. 

[Guest Guest]

I always had the impression that Malay men / abangs / uncles do take good care of their personal hygiene, no body door, cock no smell ... is this generally true? 

[Guest Nick69]

Yea it is true. Many years ago I used to frequent this barber in my neighbourhood. One day as I was there near closing time he locked up to take me as a last customer. After the cut he did the usual neck massage and when done he made a comment that my shoulders were stiff and asked why so stress. He was in his 40s but had a well toned physique. I laughed and joked 'Work issues and thats not the only thi g stiff'. He smiled and asked if I wanted some relief? I know a come on when I hear one. What happened next was dimmed lights and us in a small back room whrre we were naked and I had great massage and enjoyed a fresh smelling body and 69. Unfortunately they relocated. Memories of a firm butt and thick hard rod....

[Guest guest]

5 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

I always had the impression that Malay men / abangs / uncles do take good care of their personal hygiene, no body door, cock no smell ... is this generally true? 

 

It is true.  In fact, I find many chinese guys (esp the bottoms) not too clean.

[Steve5380]

I had many good experiences with Malay boys in my frequent visits to KL.  I find that in general they have the attractive features of Asian men,  and good character.  I have met some that I would like as boyfriends, but...  I was already committed.

[G_M]

On 2/14/2023 at 12:55 PM, navyblue said:

💙 Looking for straight/bi/ closetted gay Abangs for discreet fun, esp those working in blue uniform. 💙

 

This is a discussion not a hookup.

1 warning point for posting ad on the Main forum.

[Guest Skinned]

10 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

I had many good experiences with Malay boys in my frequent visits to KL.  I find that in general they have the attractive features of Asian men,  and good character.  I have met some that I would like as boyfriends, but...  I was already committed.

They have nice todger too, have you tried them?

[Steve5380]

5 minutes ago, Guest Skinned said:

They have nice todger too, have you tried them?

 

I could not have missed any todger.  Most Malays I met in KL's gay saunas:  Otot Otot, Kakiku, MandiManda...  yumm!

[Guest Mr Hee]

58 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

Most Malays I met in KL's gay saunas: 

You run the possibility of spending the rest of your life in prison.  A phedophile and a Muslim nation is not the best combination.....hehehehe

[Steve5380]

1 hour ago, Guest Mr Hee said:

You run the possibility of spending the rest of your life in prison.  A phedophile and a Muslim nation is not the best combination.....hehehehe

 

Hopefully you spend the rest of your life better informed, otherwise you hold your mind prisoner.

 

I don't know too much about Malaysia, but you most probably know even less.  I doubt that gay saunas in KL accept children, so no pedophilic acts should originate there. 

[Guest Derelict]

2 hours ago, Guest Mr Hee said:

You run the possibility of spending the rest of your life in prison.  A phedophile and a Muslim nation is not the best combination.....hehehehe

That old creature will probably be beaten up by locals and rot along the roadside.

[Guest Tragic]

56 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

Hopefully you spend the rest of your life better informed, otherwise you hold your mind prisoner.

 

I don't know too much about Malaysia, but you most probably know even less.  I doubt that gay saunas in KL accept children, so no pedophilic acts should originate there. 

 

How come there can be gay sauna in KL? I remember in KL they will raid establishment and made the people half naked squat on the floor and take picture of them etc. 

 

When is gay sauna legal in kl? Even when it was illegal hidden behind some karaoke club, it's still dangerous to be caught and raided by police. 

 

Its not like in Singapore, the police won't raid gay sauna. Its an unwritten rule. 

 

KL they will raid and punish all those ass fuckers. It's against the law and their religion. People kissing on screen is already criminal and against the law and challenging Muslim, you think gay sauna is legal? 

 

Give me the location and address I will report polis to have it raided. 

[Guest Missing Link]

21 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

I had many good experiences with Malay boys but.......  I was already committed.

If you are already committed, why are you still having good sex "experiences" with other boys.

[Steve5380]

3 hours ago, Guest Missing Link said:

If you are already committed, why are you still having good sex "experiences" with other boys.

 

Sorry... I can't tell.   This is Highly Classified Information  restricted to my bf and I.

 

Why you want to know?  

[Guest Curious]

24 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

Sorry... I can't tell.   This is Highly Classified Information  restricted to my bf and I.

 

Why you want to know?  

So your relationship with your ex bf is not monogamous but maintained an open relationship all along?

[Steve5380]

1 minute ago, Guest Curious said:

So your relationship with your ex bf is not monogamous but maintained an open relationship all along?

 

Your curiosity would be much better used finding out what extramarital affairs the late Queen of England had.  This should be infinitely more relevant.    

[obgdcriv]

On 2/16/2023 at 7:55 PM, Guest Missing Link said:

If you are already committed, why are you still having good sex "experiences" with other boys.

Hahaha 

[Guest Daddy]

On 2/15/2023 at 9:25 PM, Steve5380 said:

I had many good experiences with Malay boys in my frequent visits to KL.  I find that in general they have the attractive features of Asian men,  and good character.  I have met some that I would like as boyfriends, but...  I was already committed.

I have a Malay security officer neighbour living in the next block. When his wife is working, and he was on rest or off (due to security shifts), he would WhatsApp me, and if I was home, we would meet for raunchy animal sex. He's a hungry Malay Rimmer and had a skilfully wet tongue that would dig deep. And he enjoyed suck my edging my hard raging hairy banana. Then fuck me with his Malay married bushy cock, until he's sweating, while playing with his own tits with curly black fur crawling around. I don't give a fuck if readers say this is fake, or whatever. Say what you want. This is not a Bible anyway, who gives a shit 

[cutejack]

42 minutes ago, Guest Daddy said:

I have a Malay security officer neighbour living in the next block. When his wife is working, and he was on rest or off (due to security shifts), he would WhatsApp me, and if I was home, we would meet for raunchy animal sex. He's a hungry Malay Rimmer and had a skilfully wet tongue that would dig deep. And he enjoyed suck my edging my hard raging hairy banana. Then fuck me with his Malay married bushy cock, until he's sweating, while playing with his own tits with curly black fur crawling around. I don't give a fuck if readers say this is fake, or whatever. Say what you want. This is not a Bible anyway, who gives a shit 

Nobody says its fake n this is Bible. U don't trust yr own story I mean your encounter?

[Guest Mature uncle]

On 2/22/2023 at 10:55 PM, cutejack said:

Nobody says its fake n this is Bible. U don't trust yr own story I mean your encounter?

Fake or fact, Malays are simply hot, especially those married abangs who regularly play soccer. Their bodies are golden brown, just like yummy KFC. I can only admire my neighbour from my HDB window, which can see him shower and walk around in nothing but only his sarong, and sausage swinging inside. 

[Guest Guest]

Malay guys are better looking than SG Chinese guys in general?

[Guest Guest]

Malay guys are better looking than SG Chinese guys in general?

[Guest Mature uncle]

6 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Malay guys are better looking than SG Chinese guys in general?

Better looking is really subjective, each to their own. Depends on your taste buds. What do you prefer? And what would you recommend? 

[navyblue]

17 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Malay guys are better looking than SG Chinese guys in general?

 

I am not a Malay, but I kind of agree. 😁

Maybe due to their more prominent facial features, natural brown skin tone colour, more relaxed character, deeper voice and better physique due to frequent soccer playing.

Just my 2 cents.

[Guest Voyáge]

23 hours ago, Guest Mature uncle said:

Fake or fact, Malays are simply hot, especially those married abangs who regularly play soccer. Their bodies are golden brown, just like yummy KFC. I can only admire my neighbour from my HDB window, which can see him shower and walk around in nothing but only his sarong, and sausage swinging inside. 

 

 

 Home wrecker takes on arse wrecker.

[iKneadyou]

I don’t feel good looks are based on ethnic background though. 

[mlymarried]

So many nice story