Samuel Lim Posted November 30, 2020 Report Share Posted November 30, 2020 Any one feels uncomfortable when being penetrated by a well-endowed person? Any tips on how to perform better in bed? Quote Hit me up! 😁 📱 Telegram | WeChat | Line: @limdaoyang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bitchplease Posted November 30, 2020 Report Share Posted November 30, 2020 Yes the struggle (or pain) is real. For me it helps to lube up well. Riling me up to get me very horny makes a whole lot of difference cause its a pyschological thing so my fb and I will spend some time foreplaying. A considerate top makes the situation better too. Otherwise maybe the position? Missionary with my legs up and knees bent on my chest is most comfortable for me but to each his own. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fetish72 Posted November 30, 2020 Report Share Posted November 30, 2020 I used to be pure top till I get deflower by the guy and now turn to flextop. To be a good btm is always to prepared yourself and always clean your ass well and always douch before engaging any anal sex sex. As this to prevent any unwanted embarrassing accident from happening. Your top must be the one that be able to tell what type of btm you are and some btm like rough and hardcore type some like it slow and steady. A good foreplay also must took place as to entice the btm into intimacy mood. When the top ready to go in he must push bit by bit and the btm must be relax his body mind take a deep breath and let the top guy lead you. I nice to used poppers to make you more relax. The best position for fresh btm is to sit on your top as you can control and take your own time to sit on the cock bit by bit. This way the btm have better control once you used to it than you slowly ride that cock and fly to cloud9. ktq 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
versatilehairyman Posted November 30, 2020 Report Share Posted November 30, 2020 what helps is to relax. Once anal muscles are relaxed, anal penetration becomes heavenly rather than painful Of course, having sex with a top who knows what they are doing also helps. I have encountered tops who just force their cock in me or use lousy KY substitutes that cause more pain. ktq 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted December 5, 2020 Report Share Posted December 5, 2020 (edited) You chill. He drills. Edited December 5, 2020 by fab Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted December 5, 2020 Report Share Posted December 5, 2020 (edited) Besides the relaxing and cleaning, you may want to consider practising with a dildo or vibrator. Don't be overly ambitious, start with something that you can comfortably accommodate without feeling too much pain or discomfort. You can even bring the toy with you when you are with your well-endowed guy and make it part of your foreplay. Work your way up to the next size, and make sure you use lots of lube. Sometimes it also helps by taking a panadol or aspirin before hand to help with the pain and relaxation. Edited December 5, 2020 by doncoin niell84, mysterious slacker and fab 1 2 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savagegarden Posted December 6, 2020 Report Share Posted December 6, 2020 (edited) First of all, no pain no gain. Accept it as a part of being a bottom. Second is to associate pain with pleasure. If your brain is just going anticipate pain - then you will close shut and it will be even more painful. The best tops slow jerk you while penetrating. Or do it yourself. Or poppers. Or if the top is into it - some preliminary tongue action and some digital penetration helps. If some top just shoves it into you - that's not how it works (that's called rape) and not how all tops do it. Third - positions matter. The safest is riding the cock as you have control on how fast and how deep it goes. And also - where the cock is pointing matters. I never go doggie when its downward curving as it always hits my bladder. LOL Third - clean up. Part of worry is that you'll make a mess. I know some tops don't mind but some do. Personally if I don't clean up - I can't really enjoy it as I'm always worried of creating a mess. Lastly - just let go. That's the only way to enjoy it. Have fun. Edited December 7, 2020 by savagegarden mate69 and chunchun 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted December 6, 2020 Report Share Posted December 6, 2020 On 12/6/2020 at 1:30 PM, savagegarden said: Third - positions matter. The safest is riding the cock as you have control on how fast and how deep it goes. And also - where the cock is pointing matters. I never go doggie when its downward curving as it always hits my bladder. LOL Expand I agree. If you are bottoming for the first time or have not done in a while, it is better that you sit and ride the guy's cock than doing other positions. By lowering yourself down to him, it is easier for you to manage your comfort level, and once you are relaxed and enjoying the ride, you can experiment other positions. Remember sex is for pleasure and should be fun for both of you. Heartless, Dazza and chunchun 3 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Copper2b Posted December 7, 2020 Report Share Posted December 7, 2020 On 12/6/2020 at 6:50 PM, doncoin said: I agree. If you are bottoming for the first time or have not done in a while, it is better that you sit and ride the guy's cock than doing other positions. By lowering yourself down to him, it is easier for you to manage your comfort level, and once you are relaxed and enjoying the ride, you can experiment other positions. Remember sex is for pleasure and should be fun for both of you. Expand Oh this is you fucking him using your ass instead of he fuck you using his cock. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted December 7, 2020 Report Share Posted December 7, 2020 On 12/7/2020 at 7:52 AM, Copper2b said: Oh this is you fucking him using your ass instead of he fuck you using his cock. Expand I supposed you can look at it that way. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iori Posted December 8, 2020 Report Share Posted December 8, 2020 (edited) Good on you for wanting to find out how to be a better bottom. Many have simply beared the pain thinking it's natural to feel so. 1. Pain is not good. Your body is telling you that something is wrong and in this case, it is the feeling of delicate sphincter cells tearing apart. These cells are muscular and can stretch if given the chance to. Explore having longer foreplays and don't skimp on lube. Poppers are not good for anal health in the long run, arbitually relaxing and not giving it the chance to stretch naturally. 2. Anal douches are not always required. Keep a balanced diet, a little higher in fiber to help bind stools together, non spicy diet a day before you intend to have a fun time. Always hydrate adequately. More on this here: https://www.healthline.com/health/sticky-poop You want to evacuate yourself generally at least 1 1/2 hours before anal sex. This allows time for peristalsis (intestinal movement) to clean up the anal passage and you'll find it actually cleaner than using a douche before sex. 3. Talk to your top. There's are curvatures along the intestinal tract and limits as to how far you can take a dick. Not everyone can take a whole arm up the ass. Tell him if a certain position hurts. There is a certain satisfaction to your top finding your sweet spot too. You can also experiment on how your insides curve using toys. It's your body, get to know it. Edited December 8, 2020 by Iori Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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