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I learned the term Straight Acting in my very young days as a 13-year-old boy.


And I got the basics right — live my life as if my hands were literally tied. No broken wrists, no floppy hands, no dainty gesturing. 
 

I always thought of this as my early-days survival mode: Blend in, don’t stand out. 
 

And I think I did well. 
 

But while I could always control my hormones and reign in sexual feelings towards other boys, there was no way I could control emotions towards my friends, especially those who were so close to me they treated me like their own brother. 

 

In upper secondary, I got close to my classmate D and our friendship took us from the classroom to the bedroom.
 

But in a brotherly sort of way. 
 

After school, we would hang out at nearby food courts. Sometimes, we would take a quiet bus ride and head for Orchard Road and roamed the streets in our school uniform.
 

On weekends, we’d go cycling or rollerblading. 
 

Soon, we grew close enough and he began staying overnight in my room on some weekends. 
 

I remember the first night he stayed over. It wasn’t planned. We had simply chatted way too much and he had missed the last bus. 
 

D was comfortable enough to stay over but he slept in his own clothes. 
 

That night, I intentionally placed a bolster between us because I knew that gesture was what any recommended guide or textbook would call for — be the first to say it’s gay to sleep so close to another boy, and you’d have earned yourself trust. 
 

I couldn’t sleep well that night. Not with D just separated from me by my bolster. Not when I could hear D’s light breathing. 
 

I recall seeing his tall, lean frame crouched like a prawn in my bed, his 1990s floppy fringe covering half his face.
 

From that night, D and my friendship grew. 
 

To him, it was because I had trusted him enough to give him shelter that night, an act of brotherly care. 
 

To him, it was because he had seen the Adam outside the classroom. How my primary school trophies lined up on my book shelf spoke about my earlier years, how chosen photo displays of our common friends framed my social life. And how books on my shelves hinted at the future I wanted for myself. 
 

D would never know that to me, our friendship grew because it went beyond the Yellow Line… and I was no longer in the friend zone with D.

 

For months after our first night together, I struggled with a mix of emotions: The joy of D vocalising and demonstrating our newfound closeness and the fear of falling even more deeply for him. 
 

The second time D slept over, he was lying on my bed like it belonged to him. 
 

In a casual — and I’m certain, non-sexual way — D asked me to massage his thighs because the cycling that day had worn him out. 
 

As I reached for his thighs, I felt as if the invisible ropes that bound my hands had magically dissolved. 
 

This was the time when I could be myself, I thought. Can I afford to be free? Do I dare venture further? 
 

I pounded D’s thighs with as much boredom and dread as I could make him feel. 
 

D rolled his eyes and said “no… here. It’s hurting here” and proceeded to guide my wrist to his inner thigh. 
 

Even in my sudden gush of excitement for what I thought could be possible between us, years of having my hands tied led to my natural instinct to kick in. I resisted. 
 

D laughed and said “relax. It’s just here. Don’t be gay.”
 

I reluctantly relented and complained about being made a servant so that our lives and friendship wouldn’t dangerously veer off track.
 

My heart pounded rapidly but years of acting allowed me to stay calm. Bored of this massage even. 
 

That night, there was no bolster between D and me. But I felt the furthest away from him. 


I couldn’t sleep but the thoughts running through my head weren’t of lust and hope. They were of restraint and fear. 
 

I really had the urge to mindlessly turn over and slump one leg over D as if he were my bolster. He wouldn’t have minded, I know. But I would. 
 

The fear of losing D was too much to bear. 
 

Sometimes, when I think back of this intimate episode, I would always wonder how D would have responded if I initiated — or, for all I know, reciprocated — physical touch. 


But I also take pride in self control. 
 

A moment of lust, a lifetime of distance was what I feared most. 
 

Today, D is married with two lovely kids whom I watch growing up.
 

D is now aware that I’m gay and he has seen my partner J. 
 

D was extremely surprised because he never once suspected. 
 

And that’s all he’ll ever know. 

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I think i write this somewhere else. I just update no xxx here because the topic is only have you like a straight guy before.....?

 

I cannot remember the correct age but i think around 16. Basically i am trained by my father to be shirtless outdoor anytime within walking distance from home. Unless i need to travel by bus. So if i just go out to buy stuff or visit my friends nearby. I go out shirtless directly from home.

 

One day i am stop by a guy also around my age. Forgotten how old is him. He is also shirtless. We are a the jogging park at between bedok north and bedok reservoir.

 

He try to make friend with me because he noticed i alway shirtless everytime i outdoor. I tell him my father educated me this way. To my suprised his father also educated him this way. So we become friend and i kind of fall in love with him in my heart althought i have a sex partner at that age. Nothing happen between us. I mean sex. Althought he has invited me to his house. He has a girlfriend and then ended.....

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4 minutes ago, Beerguy said:

Yes, like them before. Like only, never fallen in love. Mostly the other way round.

Wow! Your straight friends fell

in love with you? 👍😍

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I believe its every gay man would have liked a straight guy before. That's how they discovered they are gay mah... 

 

Otherwise how you know u gay? But since nowadays alot of guy come out gay. Maybe you can selectively like only gay guys. 

 

But I find it hard cause I just fall for guys. Whether they straight or gay or bi. 

 

Its their personality, their face, their smile etc. 

 

Similarly there are guys who I dislike to the core, and I don't know why. Maybe their face. Their hair? Their body language? Their attitude. 

 

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Never good to like a straight guy. The outcome is always heart ache. Because u r just hankering after something you can never be reciprocated. Always use brain over heart to control yourself from crossing that line.

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I have to confess that I have liked a straight man before, of at least, he appears to be, and acts like a straight man in front of me. 

 

I have not observed or heard him say anything that may hint that he is interested in playing around with men, or is harbouring any thoughts of experimenting in a sexual relationship with a man.

 

Knowing so, I continued to like his company, but I made sure I do not overstep the boundaries.

 

To like a straight man and to act on one's desires are two different things altogether.

 

 

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Oh yes, definitely. But I was quick to dismiss those feelings and move on. Seriously, it is never worth pining for a straight man to somehow derail along the way and turn to you. 

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Yes a few of my own friends. Ya no happily ever after. 

On 6/15/2024 at 3:14 PM, Jellapho said:

Reading all your stories really brought back lots of memories of my crushes, falling in love so pitifully, sigh... well at least got to experienced it, bitter but sweet memories... there were many "once upon a time", but no "happily ever after" ...

 

风没有形状，风骚才有！💋

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On 6/15/2024 at 3:14 PM, Jellapho said:

Reading all your stories really brought back lots of memories of my crushes, falling in love so pitifully, sigh... well at least got to experienced it, bitter but sweet memories... there were many "once upon a time", but no "happily ever after" ...

So you are saying best not to get involved with married men? Lessons learned ... 😭

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On 4/5/2021 at 2:54 AM, BudakFit said:

Yup he been always curious about my dick so I told him why not we go for a jog and hit shower together he is okay with it and he when he saw his big n mouth wah etc touch me and start all the curiousity he had. He is now happily married and thanks me for the experience for his curiousity. We still keep in touch and sometimes ask me go swim with him at his condo. 😜

Keep in touch? Touch which part? 🫣

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Have you liked a straight guy before...?

 

Yes, I did during my studies. At the library I was given one certain small desk and was everyday facing a hot other student. Just the type I liked.

It was quite cruel. The worst was not knowing whether he might be into guys.

 

As we were facing each other, on times he gave me a smile or we did some small talk outside the library.

 

But I sensed he isn't into guys and I did not dare to approach him fearing the usual backlash.

I guess if he had been, he had asked to join for a coffee on the cafeteria or to go for lunch...

 

So, I just enjoyed taking my breaks in looking at him.

 

 

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On 9/2/2024 at 6:59 PM, herodai said:

just got news my crush is getting married. I know this day will come but still ever since I learnt about this since last Thursday, I am still in shock and processing. Hope time will heal. 

 

Same. My crush is also getting married... Such is life 🥲

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yes, we were really close, we used to meet every weekend for drinks. i remember always feeling like my heart was fluttering and flying out of my chest when i saw him walking towards me and i even had an erotic dream where we were both naked wriggling together in bed. i had a vagina in that dream haha

 

he always thought i was straight. one day i got drunk with him and, really stupidly, asked, "can i blow you". he declined, politely, by saying "blow what? blow me away?". though he never answered my calls ever again (back in the day where to sms someone was a novelty, you had to buy it as an add on service) and it was the last time we met as friends. i did bump into him after but he just pretended not to know me.

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4 hours ago, btmslut said:

yes, we were really close, we used to meet every weekend for drinks. i remember always feeling like my heart was fluttering and flying out of my chest when i saw him walking towards me and i even had an erotic dream where we were both naked wriggling together in bed. i had a vagina in that dream haha

 

he always thought i was straight. one day i got drunk with him and, really stupidly, asked, "can i blow you". he declined, politely, by saying "blow what? blow me away?". though he never answered my calls ever again (back in the day where to sms someone was a novelty, you had to buy it as an add on service) and it was the last time we met as friends. i did bump into him after but he just pretended not to know me.

You’re alright. It would be worst if he got the blow job from you, ignored you after that and then, pretended not to know you. 

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9 hours ago, btmslut said:

yes, we were really close, we used to meet every weekend for drinks. i remember always feeling like my heart was fluttering and flying out of my chest when i saw him walking towards me and i even had an erotic dream where we were both naked wriggling together in bed. i had a vagina in that dream haha

 

he always thought i was straight. one day i got drunk with him and, really stupidly, asked, "can i blow you". he declined, politely, by saying "blow what? blow me away?". though he never answered my calls ever again (back in the day where to sms someone was a novelty, you had to buy it as an add on service) and it was the last time we met as friends. i did bump into him after but he just pretended not to know me.

I am sorry but if you like him, instead of saying kiss him or hold his hand, you say can I blow you?  even a gay man would be scared and cut off contact

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On 9/5/2024 at 10:41 PM, herodai said:

I am sorry but if you like him, instead of saying kiss him or hold his hand, you say can I blow you?  even a gay man would be scared and cut off contact

maybe. but i did try that on many gay guy friends who would be happy and get their cocks out. 

 

ironically one of them ghosted me as well after i had pillow talk after and i mentioned i was considering transitioning to female. i guess theres a spectrum of acceptance that once breached it falls into disgust (eg straights: anything non hetero is disgusting. gays: men and men are ok, but becoming female is disgusting, and the spectrum moves on)

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When I was young I had a best friend who's definitely straight, he always had an air of confidence and bragging aura around him. He was also the guy who introduced me to all these straight porn and reading sites and I remember vividly till this day after going through them together, he would walk around the house in his boxers with his boner and he was always very proud of it lol. It was definitely big lmao. It also doesn't help that he was generally good looking. But yeah it was more of a lust kinda like than a feelings kinda like. Also no this is not a fanfic or whatever, it actually happened to me lol.

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3 hours ago, ERFAbangBear said:

When I was young I had a best friend who's definitely straight, he always had an air of confidence and bragging aura around him. He was also the guy who introduced me to all these straight porn and reading sites and I remember vividly till this day after going through them together, he would walk around the house in his boxers with his boner and he was always very proud of it lol. It was definitely big lmao. It also doesn't help that he was generally good looking. But yeah it was more of a lust kinda like than a feelings kinda like. Also no this is not a fanfic or whatever, it actually happened to me lol.

not the fanfic creative writing call out

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Crush on straight guys? Many times. That I've kinda turn myself off and tell me it's merely a crush and nothing more. Funny thing a few years ago had a deep crush on a straight guy, parted ways cause it hurts but I just can't say it cause I thought he is straight... and to discover many years later, he was closeted and decide to come out some years later. And now happily attached to someone. Sigh.

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