Do you wash you private part, dickhead & trim pubic hair?

[Balestier]

25 minutes ago, iKneadyou said:

Lol? I was brought up to wash my dick and trim pubic hair actually 

Your daddy mummy taught u at 13yo ??

[cutejack]

17 hours ago, Balestier said:

Your daddy mummy taught u at 13yo ??

Ya ,that's the age where parents are aware that their son are growing up n need to be taught on how to keep clean down there. Of course verbally la. Not practically like take out father's or son's cock n demo. Hmm...

[Zinc]

Of course will wash pvt part, dick head for hygienic purpose. Will play with nipples while washing and polishing. 

[Guest Lim]

2 hours ago, cutejack said:

Not practically like take out father's or son's cock n demo. Hmm...

Errrrr.....but my dad did show me how to roll back foreskin and wash it during we were showering together then.

[Balestier]

1 hour ago, Guest Lim said:

Errrrr.....but my dad did show me how to roll back foreskin and wash it during we were showering together then.

When in P6 the nurses will teach us to clean. 

[Guest Lim]

1 hour ago, Balestier said:

When in P6 the nurses will teach us to clean. 

Pr 5. Because I m already growing pubic hair then. My foreskin was quite long just like my dad. So when having a shower with him in the hotel room toilet during a holiday, he told me I need to pull back foreskin and clean it and he demonstrated it to me.

[bluerunner]

2 hours ago, Guest Lim said:

Pr 5. Because I m already growing pubic hair then. My foreskin was quite long just like my dad. So when having a shower with him in the hotel room toilet during a holiday, he told me I need to pull back foreskin and clean it and he demonstrated it to me.

Kudos to your dad and hope you have learned well and practicing it until now.

[yhtang]

3 hours ago, Guest Lim said:

Pr 5. Because I m already growing pubic hair then. My foreskin was quite long just like my dad. So when having a shower with him in the hotel room toilet during a holiday, he told me I need to pull back foreskin and clean it and he demonstrated it to me.

 

I feel it is the duty of fathers to teach their sons personal hygiene. A applaud those father's who do so. 

 

If the father is not embarrassed with sticking his cock into the wife and cumming inside her, creating the child, I don't see why he should be embarrassed to teach his son to roll back the son's foreskin so that the son can learn to clean himself properly. 

[bluerunner]

54 minutes ago, yhtang said:

 

I feel it is the duty of fathers to teach their sons personal hygiene. A applaud those father's who do so. 

 

If the father is not embarrassed with sticking his cock into the wife and cumming inside her, creating the child, I don't see why he should be embarrassed to teach his son to roll back the son's foreskin so that the son can learn to clean himself properly. 

Sex education should start from home. Sad to admin not many fathers do that. I think this is due to our forefathers' and our father's conservative thinking and strict chinese upbringing. We do not talk about sex, private part, death, or ...even LGBTQ+ matters so openly. 

As the society progresses, I hope modern fathers today will be more open minded to discuss such subjects with their sons.

Edited December 22, 2023 by bluerunner
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[Singroc]

6 hours ago, Balestier said:

When in P6 the nurses will teach us to clean. 

Yes I remember that. And all so paiseh…

[yhtang]

1 hour ago, bluerunner said:

Sex education should start from home. Sad to admin not many fathers do that. I think this is due to our forefathers' and our father's conservative thinking and strict chinese upbringing. We do not talk about sex, private part, death, or ...even LGBTQ+ matters so openly. 

As the society progresses, I hope modern fathers today will be more open minded to discuss such subjects with their sons.

 

I agree with you.  Sex education should definitely start from home.  

 

Many Chinese are too conservative and would not talk about sex, private parts etc., but then they want their children to produce for them grandchildren. 

 

Too many parents think that sex education is about fornication only.  Sex education covers a much wider topic, such as relationships, human emotions etc.   
 

[Balestier]

The wives will talk to daughters on menstruation, breast etc ... But we don't see the fathers doing that. So call expecting schools to do that

[Guest Guest]

22 minutes ago, yhtang said:

 

I agree with you.  Sex education should definitely start from home.  

 

Many Chinese are too conservative and would not talk about sex, private parts etc., but then they want their children to produce for them grandchildren. 

 

Too many parents think that sex education is about fornication only.  Sex education covers a much wider topic, such as relationships, human emotions etc.   
 

 

1 hour ago, bluerunner said:

Sex education should start from home. Sad to admin not many fathers do that. I think this is due to our forefathers' and our father's conservative thinking and strict chinese upbringing. We do not talk about sex, private part, death, or ...even LGBTQ+ matters so openly. 

As the society progresses, I hope modern fathers today will be more open minded to discuss such subjects with their sons.

 

Yes, most chinese father during that era were conservative. Probably we don't have the culture of father and son or mother and daughter getting a shower in nude together like those in japan, korea or even china.

[StraightMarriedGuy]

does anyone use VEET before to remove pubic hair ?

[NeitherHereNorThere]

I actually only started washing properly just before getting married.... Because I have long foreskin, used to just forced water into the dick while pinching the foreskin when young for fun. Then when about to get married, started checking up on pre-sex preparation, and then started to wash... 

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, NeitherHereNorThere said:

I actually only started washing properly just before getting married.... Because I have long foreskin, used to just forced water into the dick while pinching the foreskin when young for fun. Then when about to get married, started checking up on pre-sex preparation, and then started to wash... 

If let say nvr get married then how?

[Guest Guest]

54 minutes ago, cutejack said:

If let say nvr get married then how?

 

Lol....u will find thick smegma loh.

[Balestier]

2 hours ago, NeitherHereNorThere said:

I actually only started washing properly just before getting married.... Because I have long foreskin, used to just forced water into the dick while pinching the foreskin when young for fun. Then when about to get married, started checking up on pre-sex preparation, and then started to wash... 

P6 nurse cannot ask yr parents to send u circumised ?

[Balestier]

Just now, Guest Guest said:

 

Lol....u will find thick smegma loh.

Thick n smelly cheese at the kkj

[cutejack]

Actually the moment a boy reached puberty or in the growing state, he should be taught to pull back the skin n clean up down under the skin. I was told by my elder brother. I did n found dried cheese. Was initially felt uncomfortable n painful n slowly ok oredi. Now it's clean n nice fragrance smell. 😉😉😉

[radiusulnar]

Clean and wash yes. Trim no

[Samuel Lim]

I was a late bloomer and puberty hit when I was  17... Well, i learnt from the best how to take care- by watching pornographic video.

[cutejack]

8 hours ago, Samuel Lim said:

I was a late bloomer and puberty hit when I was  17... Well, i learnt from the best how to take care- by watching pornographic video.

Late bloomer but ur body developed well.  BTW, how porn taught u to clean up privates la?

[Samuel Lim]

18 hours ago, cutejack said:

Late bloomer but ur body developed well.  BTW, how porn taught u to clean up privates la?

porn also got mutual shower scene leh.... i guess u  the sort who can't wait to skip to the fuck and cum scene

[Guest GeeZ]

Shave pubic hair.  

[Guest sensitivekkj]

Was taught very early on to clean, partly due to circumstance: I was very prone to episodes of very itchy dick in primary school, likely linked to eczema. Was always scolded by my mom for not washing it properly when I complained.

 

So for those who didnt used to clean under the foreskin: didnt you feel uncomfortable and didnt problems arise like yeast infection and what not?

[fresh7up]

Used to shave smooth everything but don't know why recently find it sexy to have pubic hair on the front/ base of my dick. Otherwise all other areas are shave smooth.

[Guest Smelly cock]

I sucked many cocks recently at the sauna and I find that there are some uncut cocks with some really funky smell.

 

Is it a hygiene thing? After one or two lick I auto gagged and tell him your cock got smell. Their reply is always "I just washed." 

 

Then why still got smell? They everyday never wash but just wash one time before sex and they think the smell will cease to exists? 

 

 

[jason]

On 1/3/2024 at 1:54 PM, cutejack said:

Actually the moment a boy reached puberty or in the growing state, he should be taught to pull back the skin n clean up down under the skin. I was told by my elder brother. I did n found dried cheese. Was initially felt uncomfortable n painful n slowly ok oredi. Now it's clean n nice fragrance smell. 😉😉😉

During my primary school days we had full body checked up by nurses. They will asked us to pull back our foreskin to check 

[EastSgDad]

I used to clean shave before shower. Lazy, so just trim very short.

 

Wash is a must using shower gel but I wash my dick last after soaping whole bod.

 

Dispense another ml of gel, clean wash dick. Pull back skin and wash thoroughly. Washing and rubbing dickhead is sensational, tends to cause hardon.

 

(BTW there was once I never pulled back to wash, the cheesy stuff called "smegma" was quite a lot, took me a while to totally remove. Nice feeling throughout process... concluding with jerk-off. LOL)

 

Hygienic habit - wash dick daily (plus pulling back foreskin)

Edited October 20 by EastSgDad

[bluerunner]

Washing our private part is a MUST. 
Trimming, or shaving pubic hair is essential. Good personal hygiene is always a plus. 

[QinWei]

I just let water rinse it as my head is ultra sensitive to some soapy content!!! else with bit of soap
and anwy I 'm cut , so no issues , no1 wil say no to my "head" whenever in the sauna 

It is me who said no to them cos Some just keep sucking without rinsing ,I can only accept 1 to1, not 1 sucker to many
 

[bluerunner]

21 hours ago, QinWei said:

I just let water rinse it as my head is ultra sensitive to some soapy content!!! else with bit of soap
and anwy I 'm cut , so no issues , no1 wil say no to my "head" whenever in the sauna 

It is me who said no to them cos Some just keep sucking without rinsing ,I can only accept 1 to1, not 1 sucker to many
 

Cut one is easier to take care. Wise choice for cutting.

[QinWei]

1 hour ago, bluerunner said:

Cut one is easier to take care. Wise choice for cutting.

I didnt have a choice, though I m a Chinese

[cutejack]

On 10/26/2024 at 12:39 PM, QinWei said:

I just let water rinse it as my head is ultra sensitive to some soapy content!!! else with bit of soap
and anwy I 'm cut , so no issues , no1 wil say no to my "head" whenever in the sauna 

It is me who said no to them cos Some just keep sucking without rinsing ,I can only accept 1 to1, not 1 sucker to many
 

Dont be stingy. Be generous n donate to all dear.

[boycott]

Wash with soap daily during showers. Initially feels very sensitive but now used to it. Using some shower gel with gentle scrub to try remove some dead skin from time to time

 

I always dry with toilet paper after flinging pee off every time. Will wash with water if available in toilet, then dry with tissue. Kept foreskin retracted most of the times when wearing undergarments, everything dries up very fast and no smell at all.

 

Done all these for many years.

 

Sometimes I miss the pee and the manly smell, will not do all the above. Miss seeing my own smegma also, haven't seen for more than 15years already. So: no washing, will go peeing with foreskin on, no drying dickhead, and no retracting foreskin in undergarments.

 

At the end of the day, sometimes the smell becomes so sexy. But will take many cycles of washing and drying to clean off the smell after 24hrs. Wouldn't want to put it in my partner's mouth with all that smell.

 

 

IPL works like wonders keeping the hair gone. Used to trim and shave, but ends up with lots of cuts here and there. Sometimes get ingrown hair. Now after IPL, no more hair getting stuck in teeth or on tongues. I think it's just mutual respect for the receiving end. No more hair dropping all over the floor when going commando, which I enjoy doing alot (feels very liberating!) No need hair picking up in the toilet after bathing. Loved it!

 

 

Edited October 28 by boycott

[Steve5380]

On 7/25/2021 at 10:44 PM, Ryanmurray94 said:

how you wash your private area? My friends share they using intimate masculine wash to wash it,especially for dickhead. Must we use the special wash?

as I only use normal body wash. Rub my bone to get hard then put down my foreskin and apply body wash to wash my dickhead. Is this the right way?

*side talks: I sometimes will masturbate as get horny by the bubble wash, feel stimulated, so be getting myself enjoy in the bathroom by any position to allow it cum and syokness. I find when apply the body wash it prolong the time to cum, and giving me another level of mastubation feeling.

as I feel my dickhead a bit numb not that sensitivity, I even use finger to rub my dickhead to get feeling like electric shock. But when use bady wash, it automatically giving me that feeling. More sensitivity.

 

 

"Intimate masculine wash"...   is this a kind of soap or...  what we like to do with our boyfriend?  😄   If it is a wash product, it sounds like... bullshit.

 

I wash my private areas ( front and back ) the same way as I wash the rest of the body,  with old-fashioned white "dove" soap.   Since you have the foreskin, you should have good normal sensitivity.   If it feels like electric shock,  you have never been jolted by 240VAC,  ha ha.

 

On 7/25/2021 at 10:44 PM, Ryanmurray94 said:

 

my friend’s brother share that he will put crystal deodorant or body powder at his private area to control smelly. Was it true? 
I didn’t apply that but sometimes will feel that my private area having urine smell.

To me, I tot wearing boxer, loose pant will do. So I don’t wear tight underwear to ensure my dick is breathing 

 

 

Your lungs are not enough, that you need your dick to breathe?   Crystal deodorant...   I didn't know that you use potassium aluminum sulfate in Asia to take away your odors 

[Steve5380]

On 7/31/2021 at 3:20 AM, riverrobles said:

Aside from the tips given by other BWers which I also follow I have extra care tips for my hidden jewels.

 

I tried MANSCAPED products for my balls: LawnMower trimmer, ball deodorant and ball toner.

 

It just took time to be delivered here in Germany, more than a month.

 

I just checked that there is MANSCAPED SG , click the link to check the products https://sg.manscaped.com/

 

 

Extra care for the two jewels?   Do they need to do anything more than provide semen and testosterone?  It would have never occurred to me to use my lawn mower to trim my pubic hair.  This electric mower is so much better than the old gas driven mowers!  But I never needed more power than my fingers plus some vax to pull out unwanted hairs.

[Steve5380]

On 12/22/2023 at 4:44 AM, yhtang said:

 

I feel it is the duty of fathers to teach their sons personal hygiene. A applaud those father's who do so. 

 

If the father is not embarrassed with sticking his cock into the wife and cumming inside her, creating the child, I don't see why he should be embarrassed to teach his son to roll back the son's foreskin so that the son can learn to clean himself properly. 

 

I don't know if my dad felt embarrassed while fucking my mom and making me,  but he passed away when I was a baby...  before teaching me how to roll back my foreskin to clean it off.  So I missed this learning experience,  but this has not been a problem since I could be self-taught.

[cutejack]

On 10/28/2024 at 8:45 PM, boycott said:

Wash with soap daily during showers. Initially feels very sensitive but now used to it. Using some shower gel with gentle scrub to try remove some dead skin from time to time

 

I always dry with toilet paper after flinging pee off every time. Will wash with water if available in toilet, then dry with tissue. Kept foreskin retracted most of the times when wearing undergarments, everything dries up very fast and no smell at all.

 

Done all these for many years.

 

Sometimes I miss the pee and the manly smell, will not do all the above. Miss seeing my own smegma also, haven't seen for more than 15years already. So: no washing, will go peeing with foreskin on, no drying dickhead, and no retracting foreskin in undergarments.

 

At the end of the day, sometimes the smell becomes so sexy. But will take many cycles of washing and drying to clean off the smell after 24hrs. Wouldn't want to put it in my partner's mouth with all that smell.

 

 

IPL works like wonders keeping the hair gone. Used to trim and shave, but ends up with lots of cuts here and there. Sometimes get ingrown hair. Now after IPL, no more hair getting stuck in teeth or on tongues. I think it's just mutual respect for the receiving end. No more hair dropping all over the floor when going commando, which I enjoy doing alot (feels very liberating!) No need hair picking up in the toilet after bathing. Loved it!

 

 

Love yr cleanliness, dear. Keep that pinky clean ya. Spore govt take the trouble to supply us with clean water. So, we should make good use of it.

[pthc]

On 1/15/2024 at 10:10 PM, jason said:

During my primary school days we had full body checked up by nurses. They will asked us to pull back our foreskin to check 

I remember full body check up (including the private part). But I don't remember the nurse asking us to pull back our foreskin.

[iKneadyou]

On 12/21/2023 at 5:46 PM, Balestier said:

Your daddy mummy taught u at 13yo ??

13? Since 3?4?? To rinse after pee-ing

[Balestier]

1 hour ago, pthc said:

I remember full body check up (including the private part). But I don't remember the nurse asking us to pull back our foreskin.

Got .. check for cheese and tight foreskin 

[bluerunner]

1 hour ago, pthc said:

I remember full body check up (including the private part). But I don't remember the nurse asking us to pull back our foreskin.

I remember there were 2 such checkup at school. Once during primary6, another one was at Sec4 (can’t be sure)? I did not remember the 2nd time well ‘cos 8 think I was absent from school that and heard my classmate telling me. 
Primary one, I can definitely remember. The nurse was an aunty nurse. Rather stern looking one. 

[Balestier]

On 10/20/2024 at 8:22 PM, bluerunner said:

Washing our private part is a MUST. 
Trimming, or shaving pubic hair is essential. Good personal hygiene is always a plus. 

Ya turnoff to smell cheese before you sucked it

[Balestier]

27 minutes ago, iKneadyou said:

13? Since 3?4?? To rinse after pee-ing

Didn't have my parents or bros to teach me. Just pee , put it back in undies, zip and go.

 

Only when I go the pool that I see uncles washing their big shiny kkj head w soap

[pthc]

20 hours ago, bluerunner said:

I remember there were 2 such checkup at school. Once during primary6, another one was at Sec4 (can’t be sure)? I did not remember the 2nd time well ‘cos 8 think I was absent from school that and heard my classmate telling me. 
Primary one, I can definitely remember. The nurse was an aunty nurse. Rather stern looking one. 

Primary 1 - Just body check up, topless in underwear. The nurse didn't even check my willy.

Primary 6 - Just visual check on the penis, no pulling back of foreskin or anything.

Secondary 4 - No check at all. Or maybe I was not in school that day.

[thatsamore]

The nurses are suppose to check if you have Phimosis (tight fold skin), don't think they are checking if there is cheese. When I was that age I had Phimosis, but I don't recall any action or follow up by them. So don't know why they want to check in the first place 😆   

Edited November 2 by thatsamore

[Balestier]

11 minutes ago, thatsamore said:

The nurses are suppose to check if you have Phimosis (tight fold skin), don't think they are checking if there is cheese. When I was that age I had Phimosis, but I don't recall any action or follow up by them. So don't know why they want to check in the first place 😆   

Thought will be a good avenue to get ppl to wash 

[thatsamore]

To be honest, at that young age I was not even aware that the skin can be folded back. Only when I was abit older catching glimpses of penises at the urinals made me realise that the skin can pull back and forth like changing bolster case 🤣. It was quite a new and facinating discovery.