Guest A Jealous heart Posted September 1, 2021 Report Share Posted September 1, 2021 I had a Date and I was excited. But my Date has the habbit of looking at other girl passing by, while we were together. When we converse, I saw his eyes staring at someone behind me, when I look around, the stranger is just an average office girl buying her lunch. Then I asked my Date what he think about me, he said I look sweet and handsome. He is a TOP. Do TOP like girls too? I tried to understand, and slept over it for a night and day, but still I am not sure about it anymore. Deep inside, I felt unimportand and a little jealous when his eyes roved at other women, on our first DATE. I didn't tell him, but I am afraid by asking, will restrict his freedom and makes him felt wrong about me being too prying and "sensitive" about small things. So I kept quiet and live with the puzzle unsolved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tristb Posted September 1, 2021 Report Share Posted September 1, 2021 Mmm some people like to see things more like a habit? Like sometimes i do see girls but i dont feel anything towards them. Its just your first date, take more time to understand him and his habits? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Murdock Posted September 1, 2021 Report Share Posted September 1, 2021 Tell him: one more time, you’ll need to walk with a white cane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudakFit Posted September 1, 2021 Report Share Posted September 1, 2021 He is Bi and I love this type of Bi guys...not hypocrite all is real. if he look other girls I will just join and commented what he like abut her this is one way to get to know him a bit better too..just go with the flow... Bi and Top is a bit different. Bi love both gender but most is into guys obviously. But this guy you dating is rare coz he love watching girls...really a good catch..most will look other hot guys etc... For me I had no issue coz we both have common interest if you are real Bi. If you still want this guy, you need to go with the flow and join in. If not he can slip to girls or guys who have same interest etc... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Miaow Miaow Posted September 23, 2024 Report Share Posted September 23, 2024 I met a guy who invited me to dinner and I swear when I got to the restaurant I couldn’t find him. We spoke on the phone my entire way there so, when I got there and THOUGHT I didn’t see him? I was about to get pissed 😡 thinking he was playing games and stood me up. I did see this elderly man staring and smiling at me from the bar as I was pacing the front area looking for my date. He waved, I politely waved back because I’m not rude. I go to call my date and see the elderly man answering his phone as he gets up and he’s walking towards me. All I could think was I KNOW YOU ARE PHUCKING LYING!!! I swore I was being punked because no way was this geriatric patient the same young looking, handsome man I’d been conversing with for 2 months and been FB friends with for over a year and a half? I don’t have a poker face so… I know my expression told a whole story about what I was thinking.. 😳😕😵💫🤦🏾♀️ He went to hug me and I was about to mace him.. He had the audacity to say “why are you looking at me like that?” I asked him who he was because I know damn well you’re not the same man I’ve been communicating with all this time? He said all of his pictures were from a good 20 years ago or more. I just said “apparently”… I couldn’t even look at him the entire time during dinner because I really would have cussed him out had I focused on what I was seeing in front of me. Not that he wasn’t a nice enough guy but, why misrepresent yourself like that? I was so disappointed that he deceived me like that. We talked about it later but other than our social media connection? We had no connection.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted September 23, 2024 Report Share Posted September 23, 2024 i guess u ghosted each other Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted September 23, 2024 Report Share Posted September 23, 2024 26 minutes ago, Guest Miaow Miaow said: I met a guy who invited me to dinner and I swear when I got to the restaurant I couldn’t find him. We spoke on the phone my entire way there so, when I got there and THOUGHT I didn’t see him? I was about to get pissed 😡 thinking he was playing games and stood me up. I did see this elderly man staring and smiling at me from the bar as I was pacing the front area looking for my date. He waved, I politely waved back because I’m not rude. I go to call my date and see the elderly man answering his phone as he gets up and he’s walking towards me. All I could think was I KNOW YOU ARE PHUCKING LYING!!! I swore I was being punked because no way was this geriatric patient the same young looking, handsome man I’d been conversing with for 2 months and been FB friends with for over a year and a half? I don’t have a poker face so… I know my expression told a whole story about what I was thinking.. 😳😕😵💫🤦🏾♀️ He went to hug me and I was about to mace him.. He had the audacity to say “why are you looking at me like that?” I asked him who he was because I know damn well you’re not the same man I’ve been communicating with all this time? He said all of his pictures were from a good 20 years ago or more. I just said “apparently”… I couldn’t even look at him the entire time during dinner because I really would have cussed him out had I focused on what I was seeing in front of me. Not that he wasn’t a nice enough guy but, why misrepresent yourself like that? I was so disappointed that he deceived me like that. We talked about it later but other than our social media connection? We had no connection.. What... what might have thought your guest he would achieve with his... DECEPTION ??? Hopefully you have learned not to trust pictures without a watermark date, ha ha, and instead start your relations with people you see in person. And if this is not possible, it is just... a conversation. That's why I write without shame that I am 81, instead of permutating the numbers into 18. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest HaoXiao Posted September 24, 2024 Report Share Posted September 24, 2024 6 hours ago, Guest Miaow Miaow said: I met a guy who invited me to dinner and I swear when I got to the restaurant I couldn’t find him. We spoke on the phone my entire way there so, when I got there and THOUGHT I didn’t see him? I was about to get pissed 😡 thinking he was playing games and stood me up. I did see this elderly man staring and smiling at me from the bar as I was pacing the front area looking for my date. He waved, I politely waved back because I’m not rude. I go to call my date and see the elderly man answering his phone as he gets up and he’s walking towards me. All I could think was I KNOW YOU ARE PHUCKING LYING!!! I swore I was being punked because no way was this geriatric patient the same young looking, handsome man I’d been conversing with for 2 months and been FB friends with for over a year and a half? I don’t have a poker face so… I know my expression told a whole story about what I was thinking.. 😳😕😵💫🤦🏾♀️ He went to hug me and I was about to mace him.. He had the audacity to say “why are you looking at me like that?” I asked him who he was because I know damn well you’re not the same man I’ve been communicating with all this time? He said all of his pictures were from a good 20 years ago or more. I just said “apparently”… I couldn’t even look at him the entire time during dinner because I really would have cussed him out had I focused on what I was seeing in front of me. Not that he wasn’t a nice enough guy but, why misrepresent yourself like that? I was so disappointed that he deceived me like that. We talked about it later but other than our social media connection? We had no connection.. Funny. Can’t help laughing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted September 24, 2024 Report Share Posted September 24, 2024 6 hours ago, Guest Miaow Miaow said: I met a guy who invited me to dinner and I swear when I got to the restaurant I couldn’t find him. We spoke on the phone my entire way there so, when I got there and THOUGHT I didn’t see him? I was about to get pissed 😡 thinking he was playing games and stood me up. I did see this elderly man staring and smiling at me from the bar as I was pacing the front area looking for my date. He waved, I politely waved back because I’m not rude. I go to call my date and see the elderly man answering his phone as he gets up and he’s walking towards me. All I could think was I KNOW YOU ARE PHUCKING LYING!!! I swore I was being punked because no way was this geriatric patient the same young looking, handsome man I’d been conversing with for 2 months and been FB friends with for over a year and a half? I don’t have a poker face so… I know my expression told a whole story about what I was thinking.. 😳😕😵💫🤦🏾♀️ He went to hug me and I was about to mace him.. He had the audacity to say “why are you looking at me like that?” I asked him who he was because I know damn well you’re not the same man I’ve been communicating with all this time? He said all of his pictures were from a good 20 years ago or more. Apparently is a scam, should have call mata. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted September 24, 2024 Report Share Posted September 24, 2024 lots of spam fake stories but still make for lively reading Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted September 24, 2024 Report Share Posted September 24, 2024 1 hour ago, Guest HaoXiao said: Funny. Can’t help laughing. Me too.lolll Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted September 24, 2024 Report Share Posted September 24, 2024 (edited) 14 hours ago, Guest Miaow Miaow said: I met a guy who invited me to dinner and I swear when I got to the restaurant I couldn’t find him. We spoke on the phone my entire way there so, when I got there and THOUGHT I didn’t see him? I was about to get pissed 😡 thinking he was playing games and stood me up. I did see this elderly man staring and smiling at me from the bar as I was pacing the front area looking for my date. He waved, I politely waved back because I’m not rude. I go to call my date and see the elderly man answering his phone as he gets up and he’s walking towards me. All I could think was I KNOW YOU ARE PHUCKING LYING!!! I swore I was being punked because no way was this geriatric patient the same young looking, handsome man I’d been conversing with for 2 months and been FB friends with for over a year and a half? I don’t have a poker face so… I know my expression told a whole story about what I was thinking.. 😳😕😵💫🤦🏾♀️ He went to hug me and I was about to mace him.. He had the audacity to say “why are you looking at me like that?” I asked him who he was because I know damn well you’re not the same man I’ve been communicating with all this time? He said all of his pictures were from a good 20 years ago or more. I just said “apparently”… I couldn’t even look at him the entire time during dinner because I really would have cussed him out had I focused on what I was seeing in front of me. Not that he wasn’t a nice enough guy but, why misrepresent yourself like that? I was so disappointed that he deceived me like that. We talked about it later but other than our social media connection? We had no connection.. Probably the same senior citizens who once was at my door, when I thought some Foodpanda elderly delivery guys was just at the wrong door, while I was waiting for a 27y old date to arrive, but it turned out it was him. I saw him with his fake photos on grindr recently again... Just wonder how these guys can go on cheating others and wasting their time for so many years. What goes on in their mind? Edited September 24, 2024 by singalion typo ha ha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Deceived? Posted September 24, 2024 Report Share Posted September 24, 2024 12 hours ago, Steve5380 said: Hopefully you have learned not to trust pictures without a watermark date, ha ha, Where is your customary, sanctimonious counsel to him that what matters is inner beauty rather than appearance or age? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted September 24, 2024 Report Share Posted September 24, 2024 (edited) What inner beauty can someone hold, who is simply such a bad cheat. You give points for inner beauty to guys who betray others by being dishonest? I wouldn't... => There was no requirement to point out that inner beauty might be a value that may overcome looks and age... I am just very surprised that you still have so much time on hand to post these snarky troll posts on everything what Steve (and some few others like myself) post(s)... Edited September 24, 2024 by singalion Steve5380 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted September 28, 2024 Report Share Posted September 28, 2024 On 9/24/2024 at 2:01 AM, Guest Deceived? said: Where is your customary, sanctimonious counsel to him that what matters is inner beauty rather than appearance or age? You have a serious problem with reading comprehension if you find that my customary posting is full of sanctimonious counsel. My agnosticism has always rejected any sanctimoniousness, instead I describe my experience from a long life, with conclusions based on reason. Like @singalion has also observed, one should hope that you have plenty of appearance or age to make up for lack of inner beauty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naveyafluz Posted September 28, 2024 Report Share Posted September 28, 2024 If you have doubts, probably you can just ask your date. Maybe he just like to see nice things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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