wayneteo Posted November 7, 2021 Report Share Posted November 7, 2021 Some of you have been attached for many years. Has any of you missed that "First Love" feeling again? - Those moments when you will keep your phone close to you hoping the other party replies you once you have texted? - You do not mind chatting with him for some time. - You are excited to hear his voice and yearn to hear more from him. - You want to engage some notti talks with him? Purely teasing.. Please share your thoughts and experiences. This falling in love once again feeling may not necessary refer to the feelings for your current partner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BudakFit Posted November 7, 2021 Report Share Posted November 7, 2021 Hmmm...based on my past experiences...cloud 9 feelings is when you are happily attached. Anything is possible. One thing is that you need to intiate plan and excute it. And also do give space for him too. Tips: meet after work. Surprise him for something he haven't eat for a while or things he wanna own..etc..plan hiking...sports hobbies activities...I am the type more to meet up moments then talk. Talk chat is cheap. Pointless. More to friendship. If you attached or partnered meet up is way to go. ZackyBoi and SAKnight93 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blogger Adam Posted November 9, 2021 Report Share Posted November 9, 2021 On 11/7/2021 at 9:00 PM, wayneteo said: Some of you have been attached for many years. Has any of you missed that "First Love" feeling again? - Those moments when you will keep your phone close to you hoping the other party replies you once you have texted? - You do not mind chatting with him for some time. - You are excited to hear his voice and yearn to hear more from him. - You want to engage some notti talks with him? Purely teasing.. Please share your thoughts and experiences. This falling in love once again feeling may not necessary refer to the feelings for your current partner. I think it’s possible to still fall in love with your partner all over again, every once in a while In some cases, it takes effort — for instance, making it a point to mark occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, festivals, and family events together. These are opportunities that facilitate quality time with each other (even if we are not alone) I often recreate happy moments too. Like, in one of our anniversaries, I took my partner back in time, to our very first date: We ate in the same restaurant, went back to the same cafe for offer and cake, and took the same romantic stroll after dinner. It was meaningful because we were reminded of how we felt about each other and on that day, we talked about our relationship and future with different perspectives. What I also find helpful would be to always appreciate my partner for whom he is. The fact that after all these years, he still cares about me and makes time to see me is a mundane but simple joy I want to continue counting for a long, long time. But every couple handle love differently and rekindle romances in their own way. Key is, we have to make an effort. SAKnight93, Steve5380 and Underwearless 2 1 Quote http://adamandtheboys2.blogspot.sg/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted November 9, 2021 Report Share Posted November 9, 2021 I find that my initial feelings, like "falling in love once again" are not the strongest ones. My feelings for my bf of 21 years started small but built up with time. Never was I more in love with him when Alas! destiny took him away from me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cowie Posted November 9, 2021 Report Share Posted November 9, 2021 I have not had a relationship or date anyone for more than 10 years... I think 12 years to be exact. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Underwearless Posted November 16, 2021 Report Share Posted November 16, 2021 I have been attached for the past 20 years. We had a ‘holy’ start to your relationship - that is, we met each other in church. It was love at first sight on my part while he was rather neutral to me at first. We hang out together with a group of common friends very regularly and soon the feeling grew. That intense feeling of romance and ‘first love’ is something that we work very hard to maintain - and yes, you need to made effort to maintain it. Small gestures like kissing good night & good bye, getting a drink for each other, a simple hug and an out of the blue joke - these are things that we tend to take for granted in our daily life. However, we do make a conscious efforts to appreciate each other and meet each other’s needs. We take cognisant of that fact that we will always meet someone better out there, someone more charming, more charismatic and we may absolutely lust after. But we always remind ourselves that it is ‘him’ who walked through my up and down, accepts my shortcomings and loves me for who I am… So yes, it is possible to maintain that ‘First Love’ feeling.. and that intense feeling where you are willing to give up everything and just love that person… Wahahah… just my 2 cents worth…. SAKnight93, calvt, Librium and 1 other 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wayneteo Posted November 18, 2021 Author Report Share Posted November 18, 2021 Hi Underwearless and all, To have 20 yrs of ltr and still maintain that "First Love" is really really amazing. Besides making the effort, it takes 2 hands to clap too. I am so encouraged by some of your posts. So keep posting and help more people maintain longer and stronger First Love encounter... Blogger Adam 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calvt Posted April 6, 2023 Report Share Posted April 6, 2023 On 11/16/2021 at 9:33 PM, Underwearless said: I have been attached for the past 20 years. We had a ‘holy’ start to your relationship - that is, we met each other in church. It was love at first sight on my part while he was rather neutral to me at first. We hang out together with a group of common friends very regularly and soon the feeling grew. That intense feeling of romance and ‘first love’ is something that we work very hard to maintain - and yes, you need to made effort to maintain it. Small gestures like kissing good night & good bye, getting a drink for each other, a simple hug and an out of the blue joke - these are things that we tend to take for granted in our daily life. However, we do make a conscious efforts to appreciate each other and meet each other’s needs. We take cognisant of that fact that we will always meet someone better out there, someone more charming, more charismatic and we may absolutely lust after. But we always remind ourselves that it is ‘him’ who walked through my up and down, accepts my shortcomings and loves me for who I am… So yes, it is possible to maintain that ‘First Love’ feeling.. and that intense feeling where you are willing to give up everything and just love that person… Wahahah… just my 2 cents worth…. Wished I met someone like you in church too. Such a beautiful story! Treasure him! 🙏 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted November 3, 2024 Report Share Posted November 3, 2024 so sweet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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