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  On 4/5/2022 at 3:51 PM, Ggzx08 said:

 

No leh, I haven't. Is douching that painful 😰

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douching is not painful, but probably requires a little of practice.

should be easy to find how by googling. i use an enema bulb as i find that easiest.

 

the other part, you can consider trying a small carrot (wrap condom), just to practice a bit how to relax your ass to allow entry.

trust me, a real cock will be more difficult.

 

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  On 4/5/2022 at 6:03 AM, Ggzx08 said:

Thanks for the reply. Cos I don’t have the “urge”/“temptation” to do these preparation work alone yet don’t mind trying to bottom for the right one 😅

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let him know you are a anal virgin! im sure he will be excited at the tot of deflowering your tight ass, and will make it real unforgettably enjoyably for you!

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The top must not rush alot of foreplay and make the bottom excite if you can excite him to cloud 9. Apply alot of lube and push in gentlely or best make the btm sit on you as he have better control and take his own time and pace. Once he so shiok than you start the momentum and position.

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To be honest i deflower alot of guy from walk of llife from married men to bi curious. So far they enjoyed only that the few minutes or the ordeal after that they take it like a man some even asked me to ramp they hard and i ramp it partly i feel shiok as the btm feel satisfied as they auto cum. Rolepaly guide the btm no need to rush with the help of poppers.

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  On 4/11/2022 at 6:17 AM, Since u r here said:

not sure what does that mean? 
but alot of btms tend to make much groaning noises  (manly voice is fine)
I m very afraid when the voice sounded feminine 

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They endure the pain which they know it change to pleasure

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  On 4/11/2022 at 7:05 AM, Ggzx08 said:

Looks like it’s really important to find the right top for the first time 😰

 

 

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seriously i think you can find a lot willing to do that, you look good in your pic, im sure there are a lot of considerate tops out there to make your 1st anal really good! good luck!

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  On 4/11/2022 at 9:41 AM, Guest btmm said:

 

seriously i think you can find a lot willing to do that, you look good in your pic, im sure there are a lot of considerate tops out there to make your 1st anal really good! good luck!

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You're too kind. Thank you! I'm more curious than "desperate" so I'll bide my time for the "right" one. 😛

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  On 4/6/2022 at 5:58 AM, And then said:

can also buy from watsons, guardian. it is a legit medical device.

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Hi, honestly need help here. Can I really get this from watson or guardian? I have never seen this being sold at the rack. Do I have to ask over the counter for this item? Is there any scientific name for this item? Or do I just tell them " I would like to buy a 'douche' " Feels really awkward to even ask this.. worse than buying condom.. 

Can anyone here who bought before guide on how to purchase at physical store please. No online shop. 

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  On 4/12/2022 at 3:15 PM, Guest douche said:

Hi, honestly need help here. Can I really get this from watson or guardian? I have never seen this being sold at the rack. Do I have to ask over the counter for this item? Is there any scientific name for this item? Or do I just tell them " I would like to buy a 'douche' " Feels really awkward to even ask this.. worse than buying condom.. 

Can anyone here who bought before guide on how to purchase at physical store please. No online shop. 

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Those TCM stores also got sell its blue and green boxes that will say it’s enema 

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  On 4/12/2022 at 3:15 PM, Guest douche said:

Hi, honestly need help here. Can I really get this from watson or guardian? I have never seen this being sold at the rack. Do I have to ask over the counter for this item? Is there any scientific name for this item? Or do I just tell them " I would like to buy a 'douche' " Feels really awkward to even ask this.. worse than buying condom.. 

Can anyone here who bought before guide on how to purchase at physical store please. No online shop. 

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  On 4/12/2022 at 11:41 PM, shenalone said:

Those TCM stores also got sell its blue and green boxes that will say it’s enema 

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I actually wouldn't recommend enema because if you insert it in wrongly you might cause rectal perforation. It also can cause other serious issues like air emboli, colitis and more and trust me this is veryyy bad bad soo if possible do please try to avoid that (also I'm a doctor sooo yeah)

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Not all doctors can be believed or trusted.

 

Air emboli?  Thank you for joke of the day

 

If you are worried about rectal perforation, you may want to avoid anal sex too.  After all, it is certainly possible from anal penetration by a hard object, ie an erect penis.

 

 

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Last time my top teach me how to relax. 

 

He keep telling me to "relax... Relax... Let me enter.." 

 

I said "I am relaxing!" 

 

Then he teach me "OK I teach you... Take a deep breath and fill the air in your stomachs." 

 

When I do that... He slipped in and say "yeah that's it".. 

 

Another time he ask me to "push me out. Yeah push me out like you are farting like that..." 

 

And it slipped in.. 

 

So I learnt that to relax... Is basically to mimic the motion of farting or shitting. 

 

I guess that's why they say just anal douche or will messy 

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To me is all about how the other parties is. He must  do a lot roleplay excite and arouse the btm. When he able to excite and arouse maybe with a help of poppers to relaxwd and also to excite both parties. He must not rush let the btm take in charge by sit on you slowly. If he say painful than you must tell him  to relax and take a deep breath and tell him the pain is for little while and assure to him that he will feel the pleasure. A lot of kissing as well foreplay is like rimming and fingering help to relax nd excite the oyher parties.

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  On 4/14/2022 at 5:53 AM, Ggzx08 said:

Paiseh if it sounds disgusting 😰, is it normal to feel warm and have the feeling of p**ping when sticking something into the a** (with lube)? Awkward feeling, kinda feel will really p**p out. 😳

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take a dump first, also pee first, i mostly experienced some urgency to pee when being fucked, so usually sop is drink less water before sex too

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  On 4/13/2022 at 6:32 AM, Guest Hehe said:

Last time my top teach me how to relax. 

 

He keep telling me to "relax... Relax... Let me enter.." 

 

I said "I am relaxing!" 

 

Then he teach me "OK I teach you... Take a deep breath and fill the air in your stomachs." 

 

When I do that... He slipped in and say "yeah that's it".. 

 

Another time he ask me to "push me out. Yeah push me out like you are farting like that..." 

 

And it slipped in.. 

 

So I learnt that to relax... Is basically to mimic the motion of farting or shitting. 

 

I guess that's why they say just anal douche or will messy 

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Yes, breathing is the key

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