Guest How old is too old Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 2 hours ago, singalion said: Does age really matter when it comes to tops? Shouldn't it be skill and stamina? From my observation and what bottoms told me, younger tops mostly lack variation, romance (after) and seem to be more selfish in their act, so it turns to be a more mechanical type of fun. Surely, there are exceptions. Good for all mid-agers, as daddies seems on high demand around SEA... I used to think that age doesn't matter. But to me... Some older guys feels like a daddy to me. But some older guys fall into the grandpa category. I'm afraid I'll break their frail body. It's not just about the color of the hair of the shape of the body. It's just the overall vibe. Then again there are grandpa who are in better shapes than some 30s.. So I guess it's not about the age in the legal sense. But rather the fitness / physcial age. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seekolderguy Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 (edited) 11 hours ago, Guest How old is too old said: I used to think that age doesn't matter. But to me... Some older guys feels like a daddy to me. But some older guys fall into the grandpa category. I'm afraid I'll break their frail body. It's not just about the color of the hair of the shape of the body. It's just the overall vibe. Then again there are grandpa who are in better shapes than some 30s.. So I guess it's not about the age in the legal sense. But rather the fitness / physcial age. from my point of view, thats where being considerate is important to make sure that i dont break them haha on my end, i always ask and make sure they are okay with the current pace/shits and also always start with the very gentle actions then will adjust depend on the situation and what they want/can handle Edited July 7 by seekolderguy Steve5380, max001, youdoyou and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 (edited) On 7/5/2024 at 9:23 PM, HubertBB said: I am 60 years old. White At your age, YOU should be fucking the younger guys. 😄 On 7/6/2024 at 7:27 AM, Guest Guess said: There is a saying " You are only as old as you feel" Excellent! "Old" should be an occasional feeling, not a steady mental state. 22 hours ago, Guest old said: I am slim and look like 60-65 yo, but am actually older. I am a vers, but now it's more difficult to get a stiff hard-on. I go to the sauna every week. My preferences are very strong mature-old tops or younger manly vers guys. With the latter, I play long and, at the end, may let them fuck me. So far, this works well lol. Keep up the good life, and the smart work you do to maintain it. . Edited July 7 by Steve5380 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 10 hours ago, singalion said: I guess the biggest problem for more matured guys is that they try to fish in the youngster pond, which only leads to disappointment. With 60 maybe searching for 20s twinks is unrealistic unless the twink has a fetish for grandpas. When I was 60 I was in the middle of my fishing at TowelClub then Absolute and other ponds. And I was successful. But it takes a good lifestyle to swim successfully in those demanding waters while avoiding the danger of mentally drowning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HubertBB Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 9 hours ago, Guest How old is too old said: I used to think that age doesn't matter. But to me... Some older guys feels like a daddy to me. But some older guys fall into the grandpa category. I'm afraid I'll break their frail body. It's not just about the color of the hair of the shape of the body. It's just the overall vibe. Then again there are grandpa who are in better shapes than some 30s.. So I guess it's not about the age in the legal sense. But rather the fitness / physcial age. I've always been able to take what I younger guy can deliver, never broken me yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cucky555 Posted July 8 Report Share Posted July 8 On 6/5/2022 at 9:09 AM, Guest Fatty said: But do younger guys want to fuck you? But that is not the OP’s question. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guess Posted July 8 Report Share Posted July 8 I am nearing 60. But I still listen to the music I listen to when I was 20 to 40 yo. The music still sounds great. I still like fashionable trendy clothes. So to some I may be "stuck" in a time warp. Still mentally 20 yo. But tell you what. I'm happy with the way I am. Won't have it any other way. I think the saddest and most stupid thing is to listen to people who tell you what is age appropriate. And what you should and shouldn't do for your age/sex/whatever. Because you will be living a life others think you should live. Will you be happy living a lie? Same logic. Straight people tell you gays settle down start family, do what is "right". Are you going to listen? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunLoving Posted July 8 Report Share Posted July 8 6 hours ago, Guest Guess said: I am nearing 60. But I still listen to the music I listen to when I was 20 to 40 yo. The music still sounds great. I still like fashionable trendy clothes. So to some I may be "stuck" in a time warp. Still mentally 20 yo. But tell you what. I'm happy with the way I am. Won't have it any other way. I think the saddest and most stupid thing is to listen to people who tell you what is age appropriate. And what you should and shouldn't do for your age/sex/whatever. Because you will be living a life others think you should live. Will you be happy living a lie? Same logic. Straight people tell you gays settle down start family, do what is "right". Are you going to listen? Yes I know exactly what you meant. I myself do listen 🎧 to my favorite songs and music when I'm was in my 20s - 40s.. Yes, we all get on with our age every year, but we will always be young at heart and age gracefully. 😁😁🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 kaiser74, max001 and calvt 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seekolderguy Posted July 8 Report Share Posted July 8 6 hours ago, Guest Guess said: I am nearing 60. But I still listen to the music I listen to when I was 20 to 40 yo. The music still sounds great. I still like fashionable trendy clothes. So to some I may be "stuck" in a time warp. Still mentally 20 yo. But tell you what. I'm happy with the way I am. Won't have it any other way. I think the saddest and most stupid thing is to listen to people who tell you what is age appropriate. And what you should and shouldn't do for your age/sex/whatever. Because you will be living a life others think you should live. Will you be happy living a lie? Same logic. Straight people tell you gays settle down start family, do what is "right". Are you going to listen? yeah be ourselves... dont bother with what other people say.... live our own lives but not what other want Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guess Posted July 8 Report Share Posted July 8 4 hours ago, FunLoving said: Yes I know exactly what you meant. I myself do listen 🎧 to my favorite songs and music when I'm was in my 20s - 40s.. Yes, we all get on with our age every year, but we will always be young at heart and age gracefully. 😁😁🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Glad we share the same outlook!😄👏 3 hours ago, seekolderguy said: yeah be ourselves... dont bother with what other people say.... live our own lives but not what other want Yes👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seekolderguy Posted July 8 Report Share Posted July 8 1 hour ago, Guest Guess said: Glad we share the same outlook!😄👏 Yes👍 be proud of who we are - young top, young bottom, old top, old bottom - they have their own market - just the matter of good or bad market haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest old young sianz Posted July 8 Report Share Posted July 8 what happens when young top grow up old... do they seek for young bottom or old bottom ? haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted July 8 Report Share Posted July 8 2 minutes ago, Guest old young sianz said: what happens when young top grow up old... do they seek for young bottom or old bottom ? haha. expand their options and open to more choices Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Oldies Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 17 hours ago, Guest old young sianz said: what happens when young top grow up old... do they seek for young bottom or old bottom ? haha. They become buaya, no fresh meat fish, old prawn like me also can. I don't know to laugh or cry when molested by old buaya. He stare and stare at fresh meat fish then tried molesting them and got pushed away. So I thought he only accidentally squeezed my pantat because corridor so dark I also walked by. Then at the drinks area so bright, he can lagi do the same thing like he recognised me. Make me so malu in front of those fresh meat fish so I pretend again he accidental and never react even. If I make a scene people will know I'm a bottom that he then molesting. Then I walk to the door leading to the dark corridor, he act like gentleman and open the door for me. Walaueeh, like he thinks I want action with him. I then around and not go in. He malu and lanlan went in on his own. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seekolderguy Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 27 minutes ago, Guest Oldies said: They become buaya, no fresh meat fish, old prawn like me also can. I don't know to laugh or cry when molested by old buaya. He stare and stare at fresh meat fish then tried molesting them and got pushed away. So I thought he only accidentally squeezed my pantat because corridor so dark I also walked by. Then at the drinks area so bright, he can lagi do the same thing like he recognised me. Make me so malu in front of those fresh meat fish so I pretend again he accidental and never react even. If I make a scene people will know I'm a bottom that he then molesting. Then I walk to the door leading to the dark corridor, he act like gentleman and open the door for me. Walaueeh, like he thinks I want action with him. I then around and not go in. He malu and lanlan went in on his own. probably you are the well maintained old prawn lo haha if you are then not only the buaya will go after you.... fresh meat fish also will go after you since fish love to eat prawn hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 On 7/8/2024 at 9:42 AM, Guest old young sianz said: what happens when young top grow up old... do they seek for young bottom or old bottom ? haha. When we grow old, we progressively lose the urges for sex. So if sex means anal, the compromises become less important. And if you never went into anal, there is no need to compromise, sex just becomes less frequent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ageism Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 Rather than the birth year, I think we should all go by metabolic age instead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shenalone Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 Would go for an older guy, not just to fuck them, just to chat and hear their experience. Amir0412 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abgbotaq Posted July 17 Report Share Posted July 17 7 hours ago, shenalone said: Would go for an older guy, not just to fuck them, just to chat and hear their experience. 52 forest or pb sauna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalel Posted July 21 Report Share Posted July 21 3 hours ago, kinkienips said: Any hot hunkle up for getting fucked by me? I am 33 and I don’t have a big tool. Can host at my place. Would be nice if you are up for kinky fun at balcony too! You're awarded 1 warning point! The Main Forum is for topics discussion, please post your personal ad in the "Personals" folder. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 My experience in onsen. I am in my 40s. I was cruised by a guy around 30s but when young fresh meat started coming in, he changed his target and started following them. The moral of the story, if there are fresh good choices of course you go for the good fresh 1. The truth of getting fxxk by younger guys are only a very small percentage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 was it fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinkymale Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Older guy seems to have a strong demand in gym nowadays. But must not be too stocky kind. I guess the younger guys feel safer to play with us than with the young ones? Any comments from the young to validate this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derren Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 (edited) 1 hour ago, tinkymale said: Older guy seems to have a strong demand in gym nowadays. But must not be too stocky kind. I guess the younger guys feel safer to play with us than with the young ones? Any comments from the young to validate this? Incentive for us senior guys to workout. What kind of uncles are in demand ? Where can you meet the young tops? Edited October 29 by Derren Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinkymale Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 12 hours ago, Derren said: Incentive for us senior guys to workout. What kind of uncles are in demand ? Where can you meet the young tops? Uncle that is serious in gymming and not just lurking in the shower Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyan Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 On 10/29/2024 at 8:26 AM, tinkymale said: Older guy seems to have a strong demand in gym nowadays. But must not be too stocky kind. I guess the younger guys feel safer to play with us than with the young ones? Any comments from the young to validate this? Older guy means a few year older right??I feel that most young one will prefer their own age or maybe abit older. But not uncle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyan Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 On 7/23/2024 at 11:39 AM, Guest guest said: My experience in onsen. I am in my 40s. I was cruised by a guy around 30s but when young fresh meat started coming in, he changed his target and started following them. The moral of the story, if there are fresh good choices of course you go for the good fresh 1. The truth of getting fxxk by younger guys are only a very small percentage. Agreed totally ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derren Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 1 hour ago, tyan said: Older guy means a few year older right??I feel that most young one will prefer their own age or maybe abit older. But not uncle. My own personal definition is age gap of at least 10 years. hahah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 44 minutes ago, Derren said: My own personal definition is age gap of at least 10 years. hahah Just sex ... As long I find body and kkj attractive. Who cares of the frequency, chemistry etc doubleyewsg 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleyewsg Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Tbh it's about the vibes. If you're silver haired but my kinda vibe I'm still DTF. I feel like there's a certain attraction for older dudes that you can't get with younger guys. 🤷🏻♂️ Mister M, T Gunner, matric and 1 other 2 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted October 31 Report Share Posted October 31 8 hours ago, doubleyewsg said: Tbh it's about the vibes. If you're silver haired but my kinda vibe I'm still DTF. I feel like there's a certain attraction for older dudes that you can't get with younger guys. 🤷🏻♂️ Ya .. I don't need a deadfish waiting to be served. So boring Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted November 4 Report Share Posted November 4 Isn't it the opposite nowadays: Being fucked by older guys? There is a serious Daddy hype out there. 20s to 30 y old guys longing for more mature guys playing on top of them. Recently, I experience also a surge of younger visitors to Singapore (Latin/ Caucasian/ ME) explicitly searching the daddy top. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post thatsamore Posted November 4 Popular Post Report Share Posted November 4 (edited) I think if you are a Daddy top that is fit, decently good looking and better still if you are hung - there is always opportunities to hook up with a younger guys. Maybe due to the lack a father figure when they are young, some young gay men gravitate to be with older men. Older men often don't just F*** and leave immediately, they may still cuddle and chat after sex and some younger guys appreciate that connection. People always say size does not matter, but it does because gay men love big dicks and sometimes they don't mind if the guy is abit older 😆 If you are a Daddy bottom, opportunities to hook up with younger tops might be tough. Worst still if you are not in good shape. Maybe if you are good with oral some younger tops will let you service them. I find many mature bottoms like hanging out at the dark areas of the saunas to do this. Some will however just lay on open beds & offer themselves to anyone who would top them. I think they enjoy some thrill in doing so. But of course if you are a Rich Sugar Daddy Bottom you can always find young tops to f*** you. Just have to pay for it Edited November 4 by thatsamore mate69, shenalone, hotfun and 2 others 2 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Copper2b Posted November 6 Report Share Posted November 6 So damn shiok to get fk by young guys, they are strong and powerful in banging. Terence550 and hotfun 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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