egal Posted August 20, 2023 Report Share Posted August 20, 2023 oh yes, all those insta hot bods etc but i guess if the friend does not mind / care it is no big deal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeC Posted August 20, 2023 Report Share Posted August 20, 2023 (edited) . Edited October 27, 2023 by MikeC T Gunner and ReubenH 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2023 Report Share Posted August 20, 2023 I think part of it has to do with increased self-consciousness. I know people usually associate body image issues exacerbated by the media with women, but it definitely affects men too. Means last time guys don't have self-consciousness? 😅 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2023 Report Share Posted August 20, 2023 Nah I dun think ‘shy’ or ‘conservative’ is the best description. earlier in the thread already suggested by someone that in earlier era, thinking was simpler and guys generally assumed most other guys interested to peep at girls and so no need to be afraid that they are subject to someone’s peeping or worse filming. Just like girls assume guys would peep at them changing, straight guys assume gays would peep ha ha. Too many gays around? So guys have to be extra careful showing their body. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted August 20, 2023 Report Share Posted August 20, 2023 do u change openly, mikec Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
briefsnottrunks Posted August 20, 2023 Report Share Posted August 20, 2023 I think part of it has to do with increased self-consciousness. I know people usually associate body image issues exacerbated by the media with women, but it definitely affects men too. Very valid point! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeC Posted August 20, 2023 Report Share Posted August 20, 2023 (edited) . Edited October 27, 2023 by MikeC AgentFit and bluerunner 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nothingmuch Posted August 20, 2023 Report Share Posted August 20, 2023 Went to Langkawi with few of my friends. We always wanted this ‘bros’ trip after uni before we start work. We shared a small villa. 5 of us. First time seeing each other walking around topless and only in underwear. Good bods. Probably it is a normal thing for str guys. The last day we actually pin one of my friend down. Took off his shorts and underwear and pushed him out of the main door totally naked. He struggled and begged us to let him in. First time seeing him totally naked with a nice dick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 20, 2023 Report Share Posted August 20, 2023 Nah I dun think ‘shy’ or ‘conservative’ is the best description. earlier in the thread already suggested by someone that in earlier era, thinking was simpler and guys generally assumed most other guys interested to peep at girls and so no need to be afraid that they are subject to someone’s peeping or worse filming. Just like girls assume guys would peep at them changing, straight guys assume gays would peep ha ha. True....People in earlier era think simple. But now, straight guys always think gays are peeping at them everywhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted August 26, 2023 Report Share Posted August 26, 2023 usually I do, unless I see someone whip out their mobile to pretend to read their message or just keep staring, then I double quick time put on my shorts 😅 got it ur body is so sexy it wld be a waste not to show it and change openly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funky beaver Posted February 14 Report Share Posted February 14 (edited) I had a crush on this muscular guy from university. Let's call him Z. We are a bunch of friends. One day, there was a plan to go on vacation together and we were asked to arrange roommates ourselves. Surprisingly, Z approached me to be his roommate. Z is straight btw. Fast forward to vacation day, one night we all got very drunk. My face was all Asian flush red, but I am still concious. After the drinking session was over, we went back to our rooms, I pretended to be wobbly and Z held me on the shoulder to walk. After showering and all, in the room, getting ready to bed, Z took off his cloths. He said he sleeps shirtless. I got the chance to see his big round pecs and gets excited in my head. After pretending sleeping for a while, I acted drunk and went over to this bed to give him a hug and lay on his shoulder to sleep. He must have thought I was still drowsy from the drink and just let me sleep while hugging him. Anyway,,,, the event in previous paragraph is just in my imaginative head. Didn't want to make our friendship an awkward one. (I even took a photo of him shirtless, but I am not sure if it is allowed to be shown in this forum) (Edit: after checking the forum guideline, posting the photo is not allowed) Edited February 14 by funky beaver Hulkhunk, JOMen and Cavalier 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted February 14 Report Share Posted February 14 5 hours ago, funky beaver said: I had a crush on this muscular guy from university. Let's call him Z. We are a bunch of friends. One day, there was a plan to go on vacation together and we were asked to arrange roommates ourselves. Surprisingly, Z approached me to be his roommate. Z is straight btw. Fast forward to vacation day, one night we all got very drunk. My face was all Asian flush red, but I am still concious. After the drinking session was over, we went back to our rooms, I pretended to be wobbly and Z held me on the shoulder to walk. After showering and all, in the room, getting ready to bed, Z took off his cloths. He said he sleeps shirtless. I got the chance to see his big round pecs and gets excited in my head. After pretending sleeping for a while, I acted drunk and went over to this bed to give him a hug and lay on his shoulder to sleep. He must have thought I was still drowsy from the drink and just let me sleep while hugging him. Anyway,,,, the event in previous paragraph is just in my imaginative head. Didn't want to make our friendship an awkward one. (I even took a photo of him shirtless, but I am not sure if it is allowed to be shown in this forum) (Edit: after checking the forum guideline, posting the photo is not allowed) Y never eat him? Anyway topic says see friend in nude la. Should have makan him after all he is gonna eaten by the soil. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted February 14 Report Share Posted February 14 so u did not see him sleeping nude? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yhtang Posted February 14 Report Share Posted February 14 6 hours ago, cutejack said: Y never eat him? Anyway topic says see friend in nude la. Should have makan him after all he is gonna eaten by the soil. Agreed, seeing your friend's bare chest is insufficient nudity for the needs of the thread. At the bare minimum, you would need to recount a time when you saw you friend's naked ass, hairy or otherwise. 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastChat Posted February 14 Report Share Posted February 14 On 8/15/2023 at 5:17 PM, Guest guest said: Seeing friends naked during 80s and 90s were normal because all shower facilities at pools, schools and army camp were all open shower then. Shy was never a thing. All stripped naked, talk cock and shower together. There were always a few playful one who like going around smacking others butt during the shower. But local guys now all scare people see. All close door shower, go inside cubicle pee and inside yunomori all cover private part. I remember my Dad used to take me to local pools and we shower together with the other guys. Sometimes I would go with my 4 male cousins and it was normal thing to chit chat and shower together. It was a guy thing to shower openly but nowadays maybe due to mobile phones or cameras, it's all cubicles and all. Nudity is quite common in Japan, Korea and China Like when I was in Beijing or Shanghai for Biz, I will go to the local bath saunas with my clients after dinners and we would chit chat etc while getting body scrubbed. For the local Chinese people there, it's normal. Chit chatting with my clients also cultivate trust and guanxi. But in Singapore I think the people are getting more and more conservative. I would think National Service would make a difference but nowadays the army boys gets cubicles too. So different mindset. I don't know why the sudden shame about nudity in Singapore especially in the age of OnlyFans etc in recent years. When I recently chat with my straight Sg friends about heading to the Sg onsens for chill and relax time, one bro was like hey isn't that a Gay place? See even the straight bros knows these local onsens are full of PLUs. So what if there's gays? Gays are human too right? I told him I'm ok and he was like 'no bro man, I'm not homo'. Leisure and bluerunner 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted February 15 Report Share Posted February 15 (edited) 2 hours ago, EastChat said: I remember my Dad used to take me to local pools and we shower together with the other guys. Sometimes I would go with my 4 male cousins and it was normal thing to chit chat and shower together. It was a guy thing to shower openly but nowadays maybe due to mobile phones or cameras, it's all cubicles and all. Nudity is quite common in Japan, Korea and China Like when I was in Beijing or Shanghai for Biz, I will go to the local bath saunas with my clients after dinners and we would chit chat etc while getting body scrubbed. For the local Chinese people there, it's normal. Chit chatting with my clients also cultivate trust and guanxi. But in Singapore I think the people are getting more and more conservative. I would think National Service would make a difference but nowadays the army boys gets cubicles too. So different mindset. I don't know why the sudden shame about nudity in Singapore especially in the age of OnlyFans etc in recent years. When I recently chat with my straight Sg friends about heading to the Sg onsens for chill and relax time, one bro was like hey isn't that a Gay place? See even the straight bros knows these local onsens are full of PLUs. So what if there's gays? Gays are human too right? I told him I'm ok and he was like 'no bro man, I'm not homo'. Too bad lor. Meaning what? All Japanese n China men are homos? Tell yr str8 frens to lick pussies. But make sure they don't go for men when their cocks dont rise up or when their wives turn into bitches. Edited February 15 by cutejack Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastChat Posted February 15 Report Share Posted February 15 3 hours ago, cutejack said: Too bad lor. Meaning what? All Japanese n China men are homos? Tell yr str8 frens to lick pussies. But make sure they don't go for men when their cocks dont rise up or when their wives turn into bitches. yeah noticed a lot of Sg straight men talk like this especially the younger ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted February 15 Report Share Posted February 15 6 minutes ago, EastChat said: yeah noticed a lot of Sg straight men talk like this especially the younger ones. Anybody can say anything. I feel blessed being gay n not troubling others n having a sinful married life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Benny33 Posted February 15 Popular Post Report Share Posted February 15 I went to sauna centre with my sister's father and brother in law in Korea. And we need to fully naked so both in law saw mine and I saw theirs. I suspected t the brother in law was a gay. he was helping me rubbing my back his cock hard on already. I teasing his cock end up he whisper to me wanna fuck me? Without thinking me and him going to toilet and we had a great fun. Till now we still keep in touch each other to go outing. He said only for me to poke his ass hole hehe EastChat, 18yochub, Leisure and 3 others 2 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mansg Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 7 hours ago, Benny33 said: I went to sauna centre with my sister's father and brother in law in Korea. And we need to fully naked so both in law saw mine and I saw theirs. I suspected t the brother in law was a gay. he was helping me rubbing my back his cock hard on already. I teasing his cock end up he whisper to me wanna fuck me? Without thinking me and him going to toilet and we had a great fun. Till now we still keep in touch each other to go outing. He said only for me to poke his ass hole hehe just curious how come he needs to rub yr back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Looking to rent Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 (edited) 6 hours ago, mansg said: just curious how come he needs to rub yr back it's common jimjilbang etiquette though more often the younger generation to scrub their elder backs as a form of respect much like you have to pour for your elders and turn away from elders to drink. friends scrubbing each other not uncommon as well but refrain your thoughts from running wild since the scrubs are forceful for thorough clean unless you are in a gay establishment. Edited February 16 by Looking to rent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mansg Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 (edited) wondering str man willing to scrub just becos of tradition etc pouring drinks is understandable Edited February 16 by mansg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yhtang Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 7 hours ago, Looking to rent said: it's common jimjilbang etiquette though more often the younger generation to scrub their elder backs as a form of respect much like you have to pour for your elders and turn away from elders to drink. friends scrubbing each other not uncommon as well but refrain your thoughts from running wild since the scrubs are forceful for thorough clean unless you are in a gay establishment. I have seen this in one of Taipei's hotsprings. The (I presume) son scrubbed the back of an older man (I presume was the father). They were both naked. I suppose if a father becomes old an infirm, it is not at all odd or weird that the son would/should bathe the father. I would say this is part and parcel of filial piety. sharki and manehiso 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FattChoy Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 (edited) On 2/15/2024 at 6:27 AM, EastChat said: I remember my Dad used to take me to local pools and we shower together with the other guys. Sometimes I would go with my 4 male cousins and it was normal thing to chit chat and shower together. It was a guy thing to shower openly but nowadays maybe due to mobile phones or cameras, it's all cubicles and all. Nudity is quite common in Japan, Korea and China Like when I was in Beijing or Shanghai for Biz, I will go to the local bath saunas with my clients after dinners and we would chit chat etc while getting body scrubbed. For the local Chinese people there, it's normal. Chit chatting with my clients also cultivate trust and guanxi. But in Singapore I think the people are getting more and more conservative. I would think National Service would make a difference but nowadays the army boys gets cubicles too. So different mindset. I don't know why the sudden shame about nudity in Singapore especially in the age of OnlyFans etc in recent years. When I recently chat with my straight Sg friends about heading to the Sg onsens for chill and relax time, one bro was like hey isn't that a Gay place? See even the straight bros knows these local onsens are full of PLUs. So what if there's gays? Gays are human too right? I told him I'm ok and he was like 'no bro man, I'm not homo'. Not only are southeast asians not used to the norms of public baths, even those in southern China like Chengdu and Guangdong are more modest compared to their Northern China comrades. For the latter, it's all open challenge and not sexual at all. So of course your Singaporean colleagues are more resistant to those ideas. They behave like Adam after eating a bite of the apple from the Garden of Eden. More conservative and in general, more shameful of nudity. Edited February 17 by FattChoy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted September 21 Report Share Posted September 21 On 5/2/2023 at 11:12 PM, gboy97 said: Haven't spoken to a friend I made from one of my modules in uni a few years back but recently, I stumbled upon his nude vids on gay twitter that he uploaded haha was not expecting to see that did u get hard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 I do agree that Singaporean men are more conservative now compared to 10-15 years ago. The cubes and doors we have in army camp these days could be one of the many reasons. Upbringing and the teachings/preaching a boy received throughout his growing up also play a part. I would think there is nothing wrong getting naked in front of friends in the right situation (that's a very debatable topic). I also find that if one is clean shaven or circumcised or isn't confident with his own body or "does not conform to the norm" (again, what's the norm?!) , will be less likely wanting to be seen in his birthday suit. Stereotyping mentality like "that is so gay", "straight men should look like this", etc is another factor. Paradigm shift and mindset changes are needed and that take time. It's strange for us to accept something more readily if we see it more often or when we know more people are doing it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Copper2b Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 I likto strip all totally in front of guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyc Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 @bluerunner indeed notice ‘us’ being more conservative these days as compared. Not sure if the more info of gays and related activities made this situation more compromised. Saying this cause I too have no issue when the situation arise in front of friends or colleagues. But am sure we had numerous encounter where the ‘homophobic’ individual will expressively say things that will make us more careful when among them. So even if clean shaven is no longer a ‘gay thing’ such sighting among these folks would only cause more commotions and queries. Even the simplest situation like when I tell which pool I go to, some folks immediate reaction would be “Eek isn’t it a lot of gays loitering inside? Be careful don’t drop your soap! etc”. Despite my claims that as long as we don’t project the wrong signal and don’t show interest, we still can happily enjoy our own activities and will be left alone. They will claimed it’s not that kind of situations what they had encountered. So I gather it takes two to tango. Those who felt their entitlement and openly pursue their ‘fun’ without consideration of others. Or others who thinks that ‘all gay’ are ‘sex-starve’. There is much more education and learning for the co-existence. Hopefully in time still for us to see the day. thickpec and bluerunner 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 23 Report Share Posted September 23 On 9/22/2024 at 9:02 AM, bluerunner said: I do agree that Singaporean men are more conservative now compared to 10-15 years ago. The cubes and doors we have in army camp these days could be one of the many reasons. Upbringing and the teachings/preaching a boy received throughout his growing up also play a part. I would think there is nothing wrong getting naked in front of friends in the right situation (that's a very debatable topic). I also find that if one is clean shaven or circumcised or isn't confident with his own body or "does not conform to the norm" (again, what's the norm?!) , will be less likely wanting to be seen in his birthday suit. Stereotyping mentality like "that is so gay", "straight men should look like this", etc is another factor. Paradigm shift and mindset changes are needed and that take time. It's strange for us to accept something more readily if we see it more often or when we know more people are doing it. Wonder why Singaporean men are more conservative now compared to last time. Don't say about the cubes and doors we have in army camp these days, even these days you seldom see guys topless in public area, like workers, playing basketball etc. The only time we still can see once a while topless guys are jogging. If men now have become more conservative to be topless in public, this is why they are even more conservative in showing their naked body infront of others men. Think only men born before the 80s are still ok to show their naked body. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted September 23 Report Share Posted September 23 they r scared of bein stomped Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ohmy Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 21 hours ago, Guest guest said: Wonder why Singaporean men are more conservative now compared to last time. Don't say about the cubes and doors we have in army camp these days, even these days you seldom see guys topless in public area, like workers, playing basketball etc. The only time we still can see once a while topless guys are jogging. If men now have become more conservative to be topless in public, this is why they are even more conservative in showing their naked body infront of others men. Think only men born before the 80s are still ok to show their naked body. Their mothers insist they wear shirts at home, so they have become accustomed to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 3 hours ago, Guest Ohmy said: Their mothers insist they wear shirts at home, so they have become accustomed to it. Could be the reason why the new gen guys seldom show their topless bod. Since they are used to wearing their top at home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest To see or not to see Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 My friend was wasted and he puked all over. I got no choice but to help him wash up and change. While I stripped him off his clothes, there I saw a thick bush and his beautiful gem. I was trying hard not to cross the line, and while cleaning him up, I just paid extra attention to his down there. He remained limp while I was having a hard time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Qoo789qoo789 Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 27 minutes ago, Guest To see or not to see said: My friend was wasted and he puked all over. I got no choice but to help him wash up and change. While I stripped him off his clothes, there I saw a thick bush and his beautiful gem. I was trying hard not to cross the line, and while cleaning him up, I just paid extra attention to his down there. He remained limp while I was having a hard time So u changed his underwear as well? What was his reaction the next day? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guesty Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Slept with a good guy friend and we were wearing same undies on bed… hard on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mansg Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 haha, i tot no undie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArchDragon Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 i love to see my friends naked as oppose to strangers. it's.. more exciting. but no friends want to show me t.t jcboy18, giro789 and Enthuz 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jcboy18 Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 3 minutes ago, ArchDragon said: i love to see my friends naked as oppose to strangers. it's.. more exciting. but no friends want to show me t.t laii i show you mine hehe Red_martian, Enthuz and ArchDragon 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cavalier Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 I go for IPL and do Boyzillian. I think it makes personal grooming easier. I have many friends who are married, so there is little opportunity to ask them out specifically for onsen/totally naked opportunities. Does anyone have suggestions for naked adventures? thickpec and Enthuz 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sphere Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 12 minutes ago, Cavalier said: ..... Does anyone have suggestions for naked adventures? Yunomori Onsen (or equivalent onsen)? It is mandatory to be naked, other than checking out your friends, you could check out other men there too, haha. bluerunner, Enthuz, Cavalier and 1 other 3 1 Quote Happy - is what we should be, always. Notice: I DO NOT use the Chat Function in this Forum - this has always been written in my profile (and I don't read it too). {it is unfortunate that this new Chat Function does not allow users to turn/switch off in mobile phone} Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 14 hours ago, sphere said: Yunomori Onsen (or equivalent onsen)? It is mandatory to be naked, other than checking out your friends, you could check out other men there too, haha. Yeap. That’s what patrons to onsen are doing. See and be seen, as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Samuel81 Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 15 hours ago, Cavalier said: I go for IPL and do Boyzillian. I think it makes personal grooming easier. I have many friends who are married, so there is little opportunity to ask them out specifically for onsen/totally naked opportunities. Does anyone have suggestions for naked adventures? Depends how close you are with them to decide the naked adventures, for me it’s not a issue as seen them naked numerous occasions already and just saw them nude n hard n wet n leaking while typing this message reply now Cavalier 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Want to try Posted September 27 Popular Post Report Share Posted September 27 (edited) I play sports everyday so use the changing room daily. There I see strangers and friends kkj and ass all the time. Some friends especially the Asians are more shy and they struggle to wear their underwear with a towel around their waist while the Ang moh type will stand right in front of you to take off everything and instead of covering their crowd jewel they stand there naked to talk to you about how you suck in your game earlier! Managed to see quite a few Asian cocks there, some cut some with long foreskin some big some small. The Ang moh cocks are almost always bigger and thicker. One Ang moh has such a long flaccid Dong that I do wonder if it gets any longer and thicker when erect! Some old guys have very wrinkled cocks and one looks like a shrunken turtle head... So seen many but difficult to get excited when you see them daily... Unless of course you get to touch or hold them and feel them grow 😜 Edited October 16 by Want to try Leisure, thickpec, Cavalier and 2 others 4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 30 minutes ago, Want to try said: I play sports everyday so use the club changing room daily. There I see strangers and friends kkj and ass all the time. Some friends especially the Asians are more shy and they struggle to wear their underwear with a towel around their waist while the Ang moh type will stand right in front of you to take off everything and instead of covering their crowd jewel they stand there naked to talk to you about how you suck in your game earlier! Managed to see quite a few Asian cocks there, some cut some with long foreskin some big some small. The Ang moh cocks are almost always bigger and thicker. One Ang moh has such a long flaccid Dong that I do wonder if it gets any longer and thicker when erect! Some old guys have very wrinkled cocks and one looks like a shrunken turtle head... So seen many but difficult to get excited when you see them daily... Unless of course you get to touch or hold them and feel them grow 😜 See but no touch is a total waste. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eeew Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 3 hours ago, Want to try said: Asians are more shy and they struggle to wear their underwear with a towel around their waist eeeewww, i cannnot accept it unless it is totally not my type, how he wrapped doesnt matter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 On 9/22/2024 at 9:02 AM, bluerunner said: I do agree that Singaporean men are more conservative now compared to 10-15 years ago. The cubes and doors we have in army camp these days could be one of the many reasons. Upbringing and the teachings/preaching a boy received throughout his growing up also play a part. I would think there is nothing wrong getting naked in front of friends in the right situation (that's a very debatable topic). I also find that if one is clean shaven or circumcised or isn't confident with his own body or "does not conform to the norm" (again, what's the norm?!) , will be less likely wanting to be seen in his birthday suit. Stereotyping mentality like "that is so gay", "straight men should look like this", etc is another factor. Paradigm shift and mindset changes are needed and that take time. It's strange for us to accept something more readily if we see it more often or when we know more people are doing it. Wonder why would one be embarrassed of showing off that he is circumcised. I'm cut and never feel embarrassed about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 20 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: Wonder why would one be embarrassed of showing off that he is circumcised. I'm cut and never feel embarrassed about it. In my opinion, man will less be embarrassed to let others see he is circumcised. I would think hairless man will be more likely to feel ‘inferior’ because that’s still not a norm that’s widely accepted. However, there are more men started grooming down there. That itself is encouraging. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 54 minutes ago, bluerunner said: In my opinion, man will less be embarrassed to let others see he is circumcised. I would think hairless man will be more likely to feel ‘inferior’ because that’s still not a norm that’s widely accepted. However, there are more men started grooming down there. That itself is encouraging. You are right. perhaps it's just by chance that my friends and colleagues that I hang out with are mostly pretty nonchalant when showering after outings/activities. I'd say a good number of them do grooming to some extent. I trim my pubes very short. Maybe they have questions in their mind but so far, no comments or judgements passed that made anyone uncomfortable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 so nice seeing nude stranges r better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted September 28 Report Share Posted September 28 23 hours ago, Guest Guest said: You are right. perhaps it's just by chance that my friends and colleagues that I hang out with are mostly pretty nonchalant when showering after outings/activities. I'd say a good number of them do grooming to some extent. I trim my pubes very short. Maybe they have questions in their mind but so far, no comments or judgements passed that made anyone uncomfortable. Most of the time, people will not ask you directly unless: 1. he is very very close to you 2. he is also fellow gay 3. extremely kaypoh friend, the type where I would stay far far away from him. In today’s setting, man who trims and shaves his pubic hair is no big deal. In fact, he should be applauded. Cavalier and Leisure 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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