DeMarko Posted June 23, 2018 Report Share Posted June 23, 2018 19 hours ago, Guest Worried said: This is not related to anal sex as I have never engaged it. Lately I have been bleeding at the anus when pooping, it has been going on for a while and I can fill a little pain when the poop comes out. Could it be skin issues such as dry anus or eczema (which I have a history of but not around the anus), but it is so distracting to see blood on the tissue when wiping. You should not wait .. quickly consult a doctor is the wiser and the best choice ... it can be due to a lot of reasons, such as, heatiness, inner piles, or if serious may lead to intestine cancer (finger crossed). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted June 23, 2018 Report Share Posted June 23, 2018 1 hour ago, fab said: Y did u allow it to happen? Out of topic! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wring Posted June 23, 2018 Report Share Posted June 23, 2018 If ur blood is fresh red, it could be bleeding near ur anus opening if it is dried dull red, it could be ur colon or stomach Anyway pls seek doc advice we r only good at sowing discord , bitch and whines Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hasmrt Posted June 23, 2018 Report Share Posted June 23, 2018 probably piles. avoid spicy food. better see doctor. i had bfor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fine liao Posted June 23, 2018 Report Share Posted June 23, 2018 Its fresh and the pain is at anus. Funnily it has subsided, no more pain or blood. Probably my poop was too big causing the skin around the anus to tear slightly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dry Posted June 23, 2018 Report Share Posted June 23, 2018 If you anus is too dry, can try eating foods with high mucilage like ladies fingers, flaxseeds, or my favorite huai shang (chinese yam). eat those with lots of fluid help the pooping process by reducing friction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yoyo74 Posted June 23, 2018 Report Share Posted June 23, 2018 I also had bleeding problems after shitting and i never do anal sex. After shitting my skin near the shit exit area easily becomes swollen and bleeding becomes easy. I have to massage the swollen area to let the swollen fade away. But many times the swollen comes back a while and i had to massage again to make the swollen goes away. When its swollen it will becomes watery. As for my diet i eat very healthy and very high fiber intake so i go toilet to clear shit more often. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dareexhibition_sub Posted June 24, 2018 Report Share Posted June 24, 2018 it could be anal fistula too. best is go see a doctor early! upshot 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest johnsonklt Posted July 22, 2018 Report Share Posted July 22, 2018 On 6/22/2018 at 2:16 PM, Guest Worried said: This is not related to anal sex as I have never engaged it. Lately I have been bleeding at the anus when pooping, it has been going on for a while and I can fill a little pain when the poop comes out. Could it be skin issues such as dry anus or eczema (which I have a history of but not around the anus), but it is so distracting to see blood on the tissue when wiping. it may be something to do with ur diet. eat more veggie, fruits and drink more water. once I do had that too & when for operation but of no use because I did not intake those soft diet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 22, 2018 Report Share Posted July 22, 2018 On 6/23/2018 at 2:53 PM, yoyo74 said: I also had bleeding problems after shitting and i never do anal sex. After shitting my skin near the shit exit area easily becomes swollen and bleeding becomes easy. I have to massage the swollen area to let the swollen fade away. But many times the swollen comes back a while and i had to massage again to make the swollen goes away. When its swollen it will becomes watery. As for my diet i eat very healthy and very high fiber intake so i go toilet to clear shit more often. Did you see a doctor? And what is your problem? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jason Posted July 22, 2018 Report Share Posted July 22, 2018 Had this problem before due to piles. Doc suggested cut down on chillies as it has effects on swelling of the veins. Stools need water. Drink plenty of water. Papaya and dragon fruits help Dont force it out. Try stool softer if need be. Available in pharmacies. Of course best to seek professional help earlier the better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted July 25, 2018 Report Share Posted July 25, 2018 When i was in the army, i started to shit with bleed. At times, i need to squat with one leg up and the other on the bowl water tank to let the blood drips in line. Try to face inward rather than facing the normal direction. As it might changed the way from prolong posture of constipation. Smudal oral liquid would be good if not wrong. You can say no to bleeding, act now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyc Posted July 25, 2018 Report Share Posted July 25, 2018 Fresh bleeding in stool is not as worrisome as dark blackish stool which means the blood had dried up. Fresh blood could be tear or piles related. Dark dried up blood would mean more internal issues. Nevertheless we are not professional in this field, early detection at the doctor would stem out any serious issues lurking, plus save you the worries. They are also in a better position to advice on relevant course of actions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garyl Posted January 17, 2019 Report Share Posted January 17, 2019 Personal experience: #1- drink lots of water.. (really a lot) #2 - clear each day.. no matter.. how little or dont.. #3- apply cream or whatever wholesome fluid after each flush.. i use jojobo oil, coconut oil. cream etc.. (I try to apply it internally when I apply hand cream and face cream at night now) #4- I only poop only at home as I usually try to flush it out with water to minimize tear #5- eating about 3 fruits a day helps - apple, pear, orange.. etc 2 weeks ago was the worst, when I did not do all 5 for a few days. then .. i was basically dripping blood.. like child birth.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bottom Posted January 17, 2019 Report Share Posted January 17, 2019 2 minutes ago, Garyl said: Personal experience: #1- drink lots of water.. (really a lot) #2 - clear each day.. no matter.. how little or dont.. #3- apply cream or whatever wholesome fluid after each flush.. i use jojobo oil, coconut oil. cream etc.. (I try to apply it internally when I apply hand cream and face cream at night now) #4- I only poop only at home as I usually try to flush it out with water to minimize tear #5- eating about 3 fruits a day helps - apple, pear, orange.. etc 2 weeks ago was the worst, when I did not do all 5 for a few days. then .. i was basically dripping blood.. like child birth.. how to flush it out with water???..you shoot water up your ass with the nozzle? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garyl Posted January 17, 2019 Report Share Posted January 17, 2019 (edited) ya.. i thought most gays do that.. if you need to bottom. Though I do it even when I dont bottom. Edited January 17, 2019 by Garyl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dr. Layman Posted January 17, 2019 Report Share Posted January 17, 2019 No need to go to a doctor directly. Just watch first if it will go away from alone. I had this issue when I was a bit younger in my late 20s. Went to a doctor, just to check because I did not want hemorrhoids to develop. But it was in fact nothing serious (but first time something got inserted into my anus, when the doctor was checking, ha ha, just on a side note) The following might have some reader discretion, if you sit at your dinner already maybe move to another thread. LOL Ok. First important is to go toilet to shit as soon as you know it is time. I know we are busy and sometimes, don't go directly and keep it up for some time. This can cause "constipation" around the anus and press on the area. if it is hard shit, then it can cause bleeding at the end of the bowel. Second, don't press your shit out, never ever. I know sometimes we are under stress, or late, rushing and I have to get the bus to the mrt, my friends outside waiting to go somewhere or something else. But take your time at the toilet in the morning (or when you go). The pressing is very bad and can cause the bleeding. You should verify whether your tissue paper has blood stains, after you wipe your ass clean. Like for me, I actually wiped too much and with too many papers, hence, the area around the anus started bleeding because I literally scratched the skin away from my (obsessive) tissue paper cleaning. However, some blood in your stool must not mean anything serious. Could be related to something you ate which did not digest properly and "along" the way caused some bleeding while passing through the intestine. Under stress situations constipation can happen more often as well. Read up about what to eat in certain situations. If you had persistent constipation, then it might have caused the bleeding as well. Plus never forget to take sufficiently liquids (water) all day long. In fact, even if most guys here are not so much friends with Indian cuisine, but the peas, dahls (yellow split peas), chickpeas and lentils are very healthy things (I m not Indian, but just to mention here) for your digestion. Therefore, a change of your diet might help too or to change your intake of healthy things to support your digestion. Your case might be different from mine. Therefore, eventually just seek a specialist and let them check. If you are in your late 40s to 60s I would recommend you to go to a doctor anyway because persistent blood in the stool can mean something growing inside your intestines (must not be harmful). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted January 17, 2019 Report Share Posted January 17, 2019 Lotus roots and its soup (once a week), banana (3 /day, eat this a few days per week), dragon fruit, green vege (half a packet per day) help me clear bowels. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2019 Report Share Posted January 17, 2019 On 6/22/2018 at 2:47 PM, Nightingale said: See a doctor to check if it is piles (hemorrhoids). I used to have it and even went for an operation but no use. The problem was actually solved after a polyclinic doctor recommended suppositories (Proctosedyl). I inserted one each night before bed and after 2 nights, it was kept under control. It cost slightly over a dollar each. I guess its probably hereditary, and runs in families, I have known a family of three brothers who went to have the surgery done while each of them was doing National Service, apparently surgery costs was covered by the government, you need to have a fighting fit army personnel, and not half way in battle , the little irritation down there got in the way of carrying out duties. Surgery worked for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garyl Posted January 18, 2019 Report Share Posted January 18, 2019 6 hours ago, Guest guest said: I guess its probably hereditary, and runs in families, I have known a family of three brothers who went to have the surgery done while each of them was doing National Service, apparently surgery costs was covered by the government, you need to have a fighting fit army personnel, and not half way in battle , the little irritation down there got in the way of carrying out duties. Surgery worked for them. Still bleed after Proctosedyl course. So home remedy as not a big distraction... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest manickam Posted January 18, 2019 Report Share Posted January 18, 2019 some Chinese prescribe not eating food that is too heaty, like durians, longans, lychees, black beans , tofu, mangoes, so as not to exacerbate the bleeding and healing of the sore down there, Did you all hear this too , that should avoid heaty foods when having a flare up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hin Posted January 18, 2019 Report Share Posted January 18, 2019 2 hours ago, Guest guest manickam said: some Chinese prescribe not eating food that is too heaty, like durians, longans, lychees, black beans , tofu, mangoes, so as not to exacerbate the bleeding and healing of the sore down there, Did you all hear this too , that should avoid heaty foods when having a flare up? I've never heard of tofu being heaty.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bottom Posted January 18, 2019 Report Share Posted January 18, 2019 17 hours ago, Garyl said: ya.. i thought most gays do that.. if you need to bottom. Though I do it even when I dont bottom. i am a bottom and now i dont have anal sex coz of my piles problem...i hate this hemoroids problem.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2019 Report Share Posted January 28, 2019 On 1/18/2019 at 11:13 AM, Guest bottom said: i am a bottom and now i dont have anal sex coz of my piles problem...i hate this hemoroids problem.... You have had your anal fun all your life, you think down there the skin is made from elephant or hippo leather is it ? What do you expect, overuse leads to collapse and prolapse . Even after surgery, I dont think u will want to use that area for that purpose again. Its going to tear and collapse again. LOL. Its natures way of saying, give me a retirement sendoff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dazzling Posted January 29, 2019 Report Share Posted January 29, 2019 Haha be honest, sure you hv not been playing your axxhole with your fingers ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest First Timer Posted August 12, 2019 Report Share Posted August 12, 2019 How long will it bleed after first time anal sex? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted August 12, 2019 Report Share Posted August 12, 2019 On 1/18/2019 at 11:13 AM, Guest bottom said: i am a bottom and now i dont have anal sex coz of my piles problem...i hate this hemoroids problem.... I had piles for quite a while but was okay after that. I remember a top who made me bleed but suddenly this triggered some mood in him that made him territorial. (Territorial as in he wanted to make sure I was all okay. I accepted all his kind favours except his request to go dating.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Andy Posted August 31, 2019 Report Share Posted August 31, 2019 Any one here have hemorrhoids? How do you handle it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest mono Posted September 1, 2019 Report Share Posted September 1, 2019 Hi, sorry to hear that your have hemorrhoids. I used to have the same issue too, but have seen doctor and had minor operation to removed it. BTW mine was internal type and not too serious. After the surgery, I make sure I have enough vege and fruits daily to keep my bowel movement smooth. I try not to take my own sweet time in the toilet when doing big business, always make sure I go in and get it done ASAP. Then after each business, I make sure I wash my anus with water. Then I'll use this Witch Hazel cooling pads to wipe my anus. It provide cooling comfort and witch Hazel help sooth the area. So far 2 years after surgery I feeling OK, no more daily bleeding. No more itchy anus. I also taking a supplement recommended by a frd. This product is call Hem-care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
am9 Posted September 1, 2019 Report Share Posted September 1, 2019 Dun strain too much when you poop. if poop not successful, can just exit toilet And try next time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bottom Posted September 1, 2019 Report Share Posted September 1, 2019 I too suffer from it and realised that I wouldn't be able to bottom anymore as it makes the problem worse...it has seriously affected my sex life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dee170 Posted September 1, 2019 Report Share Posted September 1, 2019 Hi everyone, I'm in need of advice from people who have suffered from hemmorhoids. I'm going to NS soon and I have been suffering for hemmorhoids for 2 years now, and every time I take a bowel movement I bleed quite badly. I'm afraid that if I go for a specialist check up, I may end up getting my enlistment date pushed back. Anyone here dealt with/dealing with hemmorhoids while going through NS? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 1, 2019 Report Share Posted September 1, 2019 4 hours ago, Guest dee170 said: Hi everyone, I'm in need of advice from people who have suffered from hemmorhoids. I'm going to NS soon and I have been suffering for hemmorhoids for 2 years now, and every time I take a bowel movement I bleed quite badly. I'm afraid that if I go for a specialist check up, I may end up getting my enlistment date pushed back. Anyone here dealt with/dealing with hemmorhoids while going through NS? That sounds very serious.. You have engorged internal piles, when stools scraped past your piles bleed, resulted in passing bright red blood? Why haven't you seen a doctor if it's ongoing for 2 years? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Diui Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 Go polyclinic for referral. I went to cgh to do endo and colon scope w pile removal. Total about 1k. My digestive system is totally inflamed as well. The Sian part is the prep period. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyc Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 (edited) 14 hours ago, Guest dee170 said: Hi everyone, I'm in need of advice from people who have suffered from hemmorhoids. I'm going to NS soon and I have been suffering for hemmorhoids for 2 years now, and every time I take a bowel movement I bleed quite badly. I'm afraid that if I go for a specialist check up, I may end up getting my enlistment date pushed back. Anyone here dealt with/dealing with hemmorhoids while going through NS? Just suggesting, you need to do some research to verify my info. rather go into NS than after a while seek medical treatments thru your camp. During my time, most medical treatments are free or heavily subsidised if holding army ID. Not sure if that is still the case now. Edited September 2, 2019 by shyc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enchante Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 Maybe you try daflon first? 2 tablets twice a day. Should start to see it working after a few days. Can get it in pharmacies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barocco80 Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 21 hours ago, Guest dee170 said: Hi everyone, I'm in need of advice from people who have suffered from hemmorhoids. I'm going to NS soon and I have been suffering for hemmorhoids for 2 years now, and every time I take a bowel movement I bleed quite badly. I'm afraid that if I go for a specialist check up, I may end up getting my enlistment date pushed back. Anyone here dealt with/dealing with hemmorhoids while going through NS? If it's that serious, pls get medical help asap or risk losing you anus!!! Do you want to live with waste pass through the stoma into a pouch that collects it?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adrius90 Posted September 2, 2019 Report Share Posted September 2, 2019 Yeah... if the bleeding is bad, pls get it checked before it becomes an abscess or abscess with fistulla that pus accumulates in it and makes it very difficult for you to totally remove it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marslang Posted June 15, 2020 Report Share Posted June 15, 2020 (edited) if have Hemorrhoids can still try anal sex with condom? will it be safe? Edited June 15, 2020 by Marslang Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted June 15, 2020 Report Share Posted June 15, 2020 (edited) On 9/2/2019 at 10:25 PM, Adrius90 said: Yeah... if the bleeding is bad, pls get it checked before it becomes an abscess or abscess with fistulla that pus accumulates in it and makes it very difficult for you to totally remove it *handsup* Still recouping after 3 months now no bike riding...Luckily not fistula.. that is a nightmare kind of surgery than mine. One week in hospital is no fun. Mine was just a week before COVID 19 lockdown begin... You guys do not want me to scare you now.... don't play play with Roids and Piles...any rupture or you do not get it treated and want to aggravate it further... you have no idea what "pain in the ass" means till it hits you. Edited June 15, 2020 by upshot Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted June 15, 2020 Report Share Posted June 15, 2020 2 hours ago, Marslang said: if have Hemorrhoids can still try anal sex with condom? will it be safe? Your top will enjoy as you scream if the hemorrhoid is not just outside but extend inside the entrance of your anus and has a good chance it can also be piles. And a lot of bleeding can come as well. Worst case I know, my friends who fuck on was not only painful but he took his dick out , his dick look like he was fucking a menstruating women. And rupture the swelling can be problematic. When it gets really bad you try to sit on a chair and see how high you jump. If it is early.. go get it treated. Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted June 15, 2020 Report Share Posted June 15, 2020 Is there an established way to fight addiction to anal sex? It seems that bottoming too much can seriously hurt one's quality of life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
practease Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 Any one here have hemorrhoids? How do you handle it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marslang Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 (edited) 14 hours ago, upshot said: Your top will enjoy as you scream if the hemorrhoid is not just outside but extend inside the entrance of your anus and has a good chance it can also be piles. And a lot of bleeding can come as well. Worst case I know, my friends who fuck on was not only painful but he took his dick out , his dick look like he was fucking a menstruating women. And rupture the swelling can be problematic. When it gets really bad you try to sit on a chair and see how high you jump. If it is early.. go get it treated. then siao liao, i occasionally will bleed when shit lor. Sian think cannot try sex liao. So far only tried finger once, no bleed that time. Edited June 16, 2020 by Marslang Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 3 hours ago, Marslang said: then siao liao, i occasionally will bleed when shit lor. Sian think cannot try sex liao. So far only tried finger once, no bleed that time. Bleeding can happen almost each and every time you shit. Mine was bad enough to fill half a cup each time I shit. It will come out with the first push of shit and then it just flow. It will stop after a while as you are still at the toilet bowl or you are squatting. You might have piles as well. You bleed because the shit as it comes out of your anus, it rub and break open the rectum wall where there are small arteries which was healing each day you go shit. So it continue to agitate those wounds reopening them and blood flow out with your shit. You can have days there are no pain and days there is pain if the hemorrhoid are more at the opening of your anus. If you get those pain, it lingers for a long while before it goes away till the next time you agitate it and sitting can be a problem as you sit on the hemorrhoid and pain comes back. That is why you see them sell a blow up round tube for people to sit. As that one with the hole help you to avoid sitting on your swollen hemorrhoid. You want it to go away? it takes way too long if ever. I live with mine for over a year. Bleeding was a constant companion. And seeing blood stain on your underwear is common too. You can still try to have sex. It is possible but you are not going to like it and your partner for sure. See a doctor for a solution to help you heal FASTER and less painful. Hemorrhoid and Pile or even in my recent case is Perianal Abscess. This are not GAY related illness. And brought about by anal sex!!! This can happen to anyone. In my case, I was surprise as Perianal Abscess usually happen to people in early 20s to 40s But then again, I have diabetes which might have caused it and I am in good shape and health now due to KATO diet (best diet to do, wish I found out about it earlier) and my blood sugar is quite well maintained. But yes it did. I had surgery which if you google it. They slice a slit open about 1 cm away from your asshole to drain the pus. The cut is about 3cm and 3cm deep. They do not sew it up after that and let the wound heal on its own. Talk about pain throughout for about a month and it is still NOT all closed up. And it is cleaning it daily and I am STILL doing it after 2 months plus. So my cycling is out. My sex is out. And lucky I can now wear my tight sexy briefs again with the gauge I tape to collect pus is gone. Good thing it happen during the COVID19 if not I would be out of work sitting on a chair at the office all day after a 2 week MC. This had nothing to do with my anal toy fun but it happens as it can happen to anyone so. Stop worrying about malu or shame to see a doctor on this. It is not like they can tell from looking at your asshole and see you are gay or sighs you are gay because they found it easy to poke into your anus and you did not feel much pain. heheeh.. Unless you like to fuck coke bottles of those 1.5L size hehehe. EVEN if they can tell as some doctors are gay too. They are professional and not say anything about it and just treat your wound. I have taken 18" long dildo and have thick 2" diameter toys for over 3 decades. You think if I am not worry why would you if you only take regular cocks heheheheh The sooner you get it fixed the less scarring you get on your rectum wall and this might prevent you from it coming back again. YES this can come back again. And again. Watch your diet. And practice safe sex not just about AIDS or VD. Make sure you clean your toys, and good clean rectum with enema is good practices too. Clean your toys and store away. Not wipe with a cloth or tissue and throw under your bed mattress and use it again the next time you get horny. I can go on but I think you get the picture. Google is your friend.......to you and your ass too. Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marslang Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 16 minutes ago, upshot said: Bleeding can happen almost each and every time you shit. Mine was bad enough to fill half a cup each time I shit. It will come out with the first push of shit and then it just flow. It will stop after a while as you are still at the toilet bowl or you are squatting. You might have piles as well. You bleed because the shit as it comes out of your anus, it rub and break open the rectum wall where there are small arteries which was healing each day you go shit. So it continue to agitate those wounds reopening them and blood flow out with your shit. You can have days there are no pain and days there is pain if the hemorrhoid are more at the opening of your anus. If you get those pain, it lingers for a long while before it goes away till the next time you agitate it and sitting can be a problem as you sit on the hemorrhoid and pain comes back. That is why you see them sell a blow up round tube for people to sit. As that one with the hole help you to avoid sitting on your swollen hemorrhoid. You want it to go away? it takes way too long if ever. I live with mine for over a year. Bleeding was a constant companion. And seeing blood stain on your underwear is common too. You can still try to have sex. It is possible but you are not going to like it and your partner for sure. See a doctor for a solution to help you heal FASTER and less painful. Hemorrhoid and Pile or even in my recent case is Perianal Abscess. This are not GAY related illness. And brought about by anal sex!!! This can happen to anyone. In my case, I was surprise as Perianal Abscess usually happen to people in early 20s to 40s But then again, I have diabetes which might have caused it and I am in good shape and health now due to KATO diet (best diet to do, wish I found out about it earlier) and my blood sugar is quite well maintained. But yes it did. I had surgery which if you google it. They slice a slit open about 1 cm away from your asshole to drain the pus. The cut is about 3cm and 3cm deep. They do not sew it up after that and let the wound heal on its own. Talk about pain throughout for about a month and it is still NOT all closed up. And it is cleaning it daily and I am STILL doing it after 2 months plus. So my cycling is out. My sex is out. And lucky I can now wear my tight sexy briefs again with the gauge I tape to collect pus is gone. Good thing it happen during the COVID19 if not I would be out of work sitting on a chair at the office all day after a 2 week MC. This had nothing to do with my anal toy fun but it happens as it can happen to anyone so. Stop worrying about malu or shame to see a doctor on this. It is not like they can tell from looking at your asshole and see you are gay or sighs you are gay because they found it easy to poke into your anus and you did not feel much pain. heheeh.. Unless you like to fuck coke bottles of those 1.5L size hehehe. EVEN if they can tell as some doctors are gay too. They are professional and not say anything about it and just treat your wound. I have taken 18" long dildo and have thick 2" diameter toys for over 3 decades. You think if I am not worry why would you if you only take regular cocks heheheheh The sooner you get it fixed the less scarring you get on your rectum wall and this might prevent you from it coming back again. YES this can come back again. And again. Watch your diet. And practice safe sex not just about AIDS or VD. Make sure you clean your toys, and good clean rectum with enema is good practices too. Clean your toys and store away. Not wipe with a cloth or tissue and throw under your bed mattress and use it again the next time you get horny. I can go on but I think you get the picture. Google is your friend.......to you and your ass too. I did see my doctor 2 years back, he didnt even see my ass lor. Just hear from my description and give me 1 medicine and 1 cream tube. He told mine should be stage 2 as I told him i dun feel anything drop out from my anus when after toilet visit. So then i apply the cream and stop liao. Now the bleeding is like come and go one and most of the time no pain unless I wipe my anus to hard then the external anus wall will feel pain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 3 minutes ago, Marslang said: I did see my doctor 2 years back, he didnt even see my ass lor. Just hear from my description and give me 1 medicine and 1 cream tube. He told mine should be stage 2 as I told him i dun feel anything drop out from my anus when after toilet visit. So then i apply the cream and stop liao. Now the bleeding is like come and go one and most of the time no pain unless I wipe my anus to hard then the external anus wall will feel pain. Might be mild case of piles. Also your shit might be too hard. The bigger the turd and harder it is coming out where it really stretches your asshole wide.. that can scrap the rectum wall and cause an old thinner scarred wall to break a few arteries. You CAN STILL have sex. Sometime the first few times you get a dildo in and fuck it abit, you see blood stain on the dildo but it will stop in a few minutes and then it like goes away. I know, I do at that time and a year after that where I still like you get some bleeding.. but not as much as before. Before I was like in a horror movie if I look at the toilet bowl each time I finish shitting. BUT here is where using condom is important. Because your bleed, any top who has AIDS or VD will pass to you even more easily with RAW SEX. So caution there. Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marslang Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 9 minutes ago, upshot said: Might be mild case of piles. Also your shit might be too hard. The bigger the turd and harder it is coming out where it really stretches your asshole wide.. that can scrap the rectum wall and cause an old thinner scarred wall to break a few arteries. You CAN STILL have sex. Sometime the first few times you get a dildo in and fuck it abit, you see blood stain on the dildo but it will stop in a few minutes and then it like goes away. I know, I do at that time and a year after that where I still like you get some bleeding.. but not as much as before. Before I was like in a horror movie if I look at the toilet bowl each time I finish shitting. BUT here is where using condom is important. Because your bleed, any top who has AIDS or VD will pass to you even more easily with RAW SEX. So caution there. same some time the whole toliet bowl is in bright red but it dun happen often. Swee, then i can find someone to test liao hehe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted June 16, 2020 Report Share Posted June 16, 2020 (edited) 9 minutes ago, Marslang said: same some time the whole toliet bowl is in bright red but it dun happen often. Swee, then i can find someone to test liao hehe. LOL..... * Full disclosure.. .I am not an expert. I am speaking from experience I went thru. So I give you the details.. good and bad but it is everyone's duty to go google or seek professional help if problem persist. I lay all the information on the table and you have to take it as a means to go find out more for yourself As I said many many times here... our bodies might have all the usual parts and organs BUT they are work in slightly different ways. Some heal fasater and some slower, some of us get stimulated in a certain way but another might not....etc Edited June 16, 2020 by upshot Marslang 1 Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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