96miniboy Posted November 5, 2023 Report Share Posted November 5, 2023 Why do you think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
passinthenight Posted November 5, 2023 Report Share Posted November 5, 2023 You left out my favourite 'the time waster' who is just bored and only wants to fill in sometime by being annoying. queerqloset and Ironrod 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted November 5, 2023 Report Share Posted November 5, 2023 U left out: "where r u now?" & "You Host or Got Place?" I simply don't reply that if he keep PM block for life! 😂 I can CHOOSE to tell you where I am and decide if you can come to my hotel/staycay/particular spot/outdoor/indoor (public place/home) 😂 We have the RIGHT n I CHOOSE NOT too! 😂 remember that u r in control! N be careful of catfish n same pics since a decade 🤣 how sad is that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
96miniboy Posted November 5, 2023 Author Report Share Posted November 5, 2023 6 minutes ago, MasterFitMalaySG4U said: U left out: "where r u now?" & "You Host or Got Place?" I simply don't reply that if he keep PM block for life! 😂 I can CHOOSE to tell you where I am and decide if you can come to my hotel/staycay/particular spot/outdoor/indoor (public place/home) 😂 We have the RIGHT n I CHOOSE NOT too! 😂 remember that u r in control! N be careful of catfish n same pics since a decade 🤣 how sad is that! You're absolutely right. I typically request to exchange social media accounts. I believe some people may not use Instagram, but to avoid getting scammed, I won't continue the conversation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
96miniboy Posted November 5, 2023 Author Report Share Posted November 5, 2023 4 hours ago, passinthenight said: You left out my favourite 'the time waster' who is just bored and only wants to fill in sometime by being annoying. That's not too bad I guess. Dating apps are often used as a way to pass the time, and it's important not to take them too seriously to avoid getting too invested in online relationships. Xos 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sky894 Posted November 5, 2023 Report Share Posted November 5, 2023 (edited) Guilty of using such apps as an adult playground to unwind. Annoying only if ask to meet but no show...otherwise, block or ignore are OK...I am bi n just looking 4 a friend or fkboy 4 reg intimacy/fun, chats n kill time...so just forgive n forget if things dun turn out according to expectations...haha... Just a way to open up n find out whether soulmates n special frds exist...otherwise, it's really fine being on my own n spare myself the trouble/effort of making things work long term if u get what I mean. We are all different and it's hard to know what others are thinking or expect them to conform to our rules of social interaction since individual life experience and upbringing differs. Edited November 6, 2023 by Sky894 Grammar MadMan and Fatboy1994 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AvocadoToast Posted November 5, 2023 Report Share Posted November 5, 2023 never had "money boy" thrown at me before. wonder why HAHA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ignatius93 Posted November 5, 2023 Report Share Posted November 5, 2023 Waste time only 😆 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agoenk_pku Posted November 6, 2023 Report Share Posted November 6, 2023 Write on their status NPNC - but their profile pict doesn't show their face. The worst one, not even have any their photo... Ask photo then gone, dragged to the hell by ghosts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dboy84 Posted November 13, 2023 Report Share Posted November 13, 2023 One who doesnt read my profile, then ask questions like what I am looking for, got place / host etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
queerqloset Posted November 13, 2023 Report Share Posted November 13, 2023 What irks me most is when I get asked things which have already been spelt out in my profile. Quote X Queer Qloset Tele Queer Qonnection Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted November 19, 2023 Report Share Posted November 19, 2023 Dating apps not q worth the effort, time for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kratos Posted November 20, 2023 Report Share Posted November 20, 2023 I also find these very annoying - Very old photos especially when they have gain noticeable weight. - Photos that have been touched up till you cannot recognize the person face to face. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
And then Posted November 21, 2023 Report Share Posted November 21, 2023 seek? intro? local? absolutely hate these one word "responses" abc_sg 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted November 21, 2023 Report Share Posted November 21, 2023 22 hours ago, kratos said: I also find these very annoying - Very old photos especially when they have gain noticeable weight. - Photos that have been touched up till you cannot recognize the person face to face. ha ha or some late 30s / 40s etc who have pics from their 20s. Worst is if they even send you pics during the chat from their 20s... I just find such behaviour totally ridiculous. Also annoying are those with totally blur pictures or 100 km away from the camera, in particular with the Album or expired photos you can't even enlarge them to see the person ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted November 21, 2023 Report Share Posted November 21, 2023 the question on being a Money boy. Why is it annoying: Should actually make you proud, but it could also mean that your own photos are too touched up of having such MB poses etc. Then you should check your own photos first instead of blaming other people. Some guys have touched up fancy insta pictures that just look too much sort of MB. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tadnguyen Posted November 22, 2023 Report Share Posted November 22, 2023 A bit different here but kinda tired with the guys who ask if I’m local chn then block me right after if my ans is no. Seriously, stop being racist/xenophobia, we even exchanged pics and honestly race is that matter ??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted November 22, 2023 Report Share Posted November 22, 2023 (edited) 4 hours ago, tadnguyen said: A bit different here but kinda tired with the guys who ask if I’m local chn then block me right after if my ans is no. Seriously, stop being racist/xenophobia, we even exchanged pics and honestly race is that matter ??? But being Vietnamese shouldn't be an issue... There are other ethnics that are probably worse off. But this local thing is truly amazing... Edited November 22, 2023 by singalion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted November 22, 2023 Report Share Posted November 22, 2023 My pet peeve is when people ask "what are you looking for?" on Grindr, etc. I do state on my profile that if I am online, I am looking for sex. They obviously did not read my profile and just looked at my photos. Also, I do think the question is redundant. Most people are on the apps primarily for hookups. If I am looking for a buddy for a hobby, I will do it the old-fashioned way and meet via a hobby club. It's like going to a sauna and asking the same question. The patrons are to engage in sexual activity. Maybe there will be the few who are there to wax philosophical about living on the East Coast vs. the West Coast. fitcubsg 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fitcubsg Posted November 23, 2023 Report Share Posted November 23, 2023 My pet peeve is, no pic no response, my pics include my face and body but all I see is a body pic! Its so Singaporean, so stupid, entitled brats. So if even if you have a pic of your bod, I much rather see a face. another one, intro, what language is that? Did you learn English as a first language and the best one yet, everyone is muscular, average, overweight or chunky. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tadnguyen Posted November 23, 2023 Report Share Posted November 23, 2023 9 hours ago, singalion said: But being Vietnamese shouldn't be an issue... There are other ethnics that are probably worse off. But this local thing is truly amazing... I showed them my pics, so they probably know I’m not from some ethnics. Put aside, after knowing that I’m not local chn and block me instantly that’s something amazing, really shows who they are. And guess what, they were asking for fun, not ltr or something, just light fun 🤣. Thanks to them I’m not horny anymore and can focus on other things now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
passinthenight Posted November 23, 2023 Report Share Posted November 23, 2023 6 hours ago, fitcubsg said: My pet peeve is, no pic no response, my pics include my face and body but all I see is a body pic! Its so Singaporean, so stupid, entitled brats. So if even if you have a pic of your bod, I much rather see a face. another one, intro, what language is that? Did you learn English as a first language and the best one yet, everyone is muscular, average, overweight or chunky. Yeah, I find this one odd, especially when you have a full profile including face pics and they have nothing in theirs. Balestier and fitcubsg 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abc_sg Posted November 23, 2023 Report Share Posted November 23, 2023 8 minutes ago, passinthenight said: Yeah, I find this one odd, especially when you have a full profile including face pics and they have nothing in theirs. Haha, yes, and still ask "more pic?". Weird people fitcubsg, Balestier and Des 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted November 23, 2023 Report Share Posted November 23, 2023 19 hours ago, tadnguyen said: A bit different here but kinda tired with the guys who ask if I’m local chn then block me right after if my ans is no. Seriously, stop being racist/xenophobia, we even exchanged pics and honestly race is that matter ??? Vietnamese are mostly Chinese too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted November 23, 2023 Report Share Posted November 23, 2023 Anyway too many scammers online ... FB IG grindr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tadnguyen Posted November 23, 2023 Report Share Posted November 23, 2023 6 hours ago, Balestier said: Vietnamese are mostly Chinese too Ok Vietnamese is Vietnamese and Chinese is Chinese, please do not mix them up, it’s the same as you say Korean, Japanese and Chinese are the same. Be more mindful and not to be racist/ talking stupid things Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted November 24, 2023 Report Share Posted November 24, 2023 9 hours ago, tadnguyen said: Ok Vietnamese is Vietnamese and Chinese is Chinese, please do not mix them up, it’s the same as you say Korean, Japanese and Chinese are the same. Be more mindful and not to be racist/ talking stupid things Oops .. I was referring to small c chn. Sorry if I was not sensitive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nope Posted November 24, 2023 Report Share Posted November 24, 2023 30 minutes ago, Balestier said: Oops .. I was referring to small c chn. Sorry if I was not sensitive. Vietnamese are not small c OR big c Chinese! 🤦 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
96miniboy Posted December 15, 2023 Author Report Share Posted December 15, 2023 On 11/22/2023 at 9:06 PM, tadnguyen said: A bit different here but kinda tired with the guys who ask if I’m local chn then block me right after if my ans is no. Seriously, stop being racist/xenophobia, we even exchanged pics and honestly race is that matter ??? I think Vietnamese boys are quite cute, usually fair-skinned and good-looking. However, sometimes their way of speaking can be a bit awkward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
96miniboy Posted December 15, 2023 Author Report Share Posted December 15, 2023 On 11/23/2023 at 9:49 AM, fitcubsg said: My pet peeve is, no pic no response, my pics include my face and body but all I see is a body pic! Its so Singaporean, so stupid, entitled brats. So if even if you have a pic of your bod, I much rather see a face. another one, intro, what language is that? Did you learn English as a first language and the best one yet, everyone is muscular, average, overweight or chunky. I've noticed something particularly interesting. In Singapore or other Asian countries, people hesitate to admit that they're looking for casual sex, even when using various social apps like Grindr. Those who post photos often emphasize that they're not seeking sexual connections, while those without photos are bolder. However, in Taiwan, guys confidently share their photos and openly express their true intentions on Grindr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
96miniboy Posted December 15, 2023 Author Report Share Posted December 15, 2023 On 11/21/2023 at 10:30 PM, singalion said: ha ha or some late 30s / 40s etc who have pics from their 20s. Worst is if they even send you pics during the chat from their 20s... I just find such behaviour totally ridiculous. Also annoying are those with totally blur pictures or 100 km away from the camera, in particular with the Album or expired photos you can't even enlarge them to see the person ... So, I appreciate those who are willing to share their social media accounts. In any case, I find it hard to imagine which gay individuals nowadays are not using Instagram... fitcubsg 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
96miniboy Posted December 15, 2023 Author Report Share Posted December 15, 2023 On 11/21/2023 at 5:39 PM, And then said: seek? intro? local? absolutely hate these one word "responses" I find it hard to understand why people always ask if someone is a local. Is a good-looking foreigner less valued than an unattractive local? I can understand having racial preferences, like how many Asians might struggle with acceptance of Black individuals. However, that's limited to appearance. I just don't comprehend why it extends to nationality. Even many foreigners may feel insecure, asking if they're considered locals and if it matters. And then 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwongheng Posted December 15, 2023 Report Share Posted December 15, 2023 (edited) 38 minutes ago, 96miniboy said: I find it hard to understand why people always ask if someone is a local. Is a good-looking foreigner less valued than an unattractive local? I can understand having racial preferences, like how many Asians might struggle with acceptance of Black individuals. However, that's limited to appearance. I just don't comprehend why it extends to nationality. Even many foreigners may feel insecure, asking if they're considered locals and if it matters. I think we conflate racism with sexual interests, although for some these do overlap. It is possible to have friendship with someone not of your interest or different race (btw this is social construction) or ethnicity whom you are not interested in, but it's hard to make someone sexually arouse if that person is not consider attractive to him. I think someone asks nationality when they want to confirm ethnicity of the person, again I am not saying if this is right or not. I think it's the person private sex partner preference, so there is no right or wrong. Personally, I will just ignore folks who are not my sexual preference, this way I cannot be called out for anything and the other person is none the wiser because stating a preference becomes a political correctness hot potato and everyone is out there to morally judge everyone else from their anonymous keyboard Edited December 15, 2023 by kwongheng Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted December 15, 2023 Report Share Posted December 15, 2023 10 hours ago, 96miniboy said: So, I appreciate those who are willing to share their social media accounts. In any case, I find it hard to imagine which gay individuals nowadays are not using Instagram... I think there is still a huge bunch of guys who don't use any other social media. Let us accept everyone how they intend to spend their life, do what they find right. Nobody is a lesser person if he doesn't have instagram ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted December 15, 2023 Report Share Posted December 15, 2023 56 minutes ago, singalion said: Nobody is a lesser person if he doesn't have instagram ... Thank you. I was feeling so miserable for not having an instagram... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
And then Posted December 15, 2023 Report Share Posted December 15, 2023 13 hours ago, 96miniboy said: I find it hard to understand why people always ask if someone is a local. Is a good-looking foreigner less valued than an unattractive local? I can understand having racial preferences, like how many Asians might struggle with acceptance of Black individuals. However, that's limited to appearance. I just don't comprehend why it extends to nationality. Even many foreigners may feel insecure, asking if they're considered locals and if it matters. yup, the local thing is so stupid. OK, i can understand it if they are looking for a LTR, but c'mon, what is the relevance when searching for a fuck. Don't tell me they think that locals are safer/ disease-free or whatever! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2023 Report Share Posted December 16, 2023 16 hours ago, singalion said: I think there is still a huge bunch of guys who don't use any other social media. Let us accept everyone how they intend to spend their life, do what they find right. Nobody is a lesser person if he doesn't have instagram ... Usually the boomers dun haf an ig. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 16, 2023 Report Share Posted December 16, 2023 One thing for sure. Everyone wanted a face pic. Look is still important to many. Even if you just show a big cock pic they still wanted a face pic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 16, 2023 Report Share Posted December 16, 2023 Some message you but after replying to their message, you can never see a return reply from them. I really dunno why! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
96miniboy Posted December 17, 2023 Author Report Share Posted December 17, 2023 On 12/15/2023 at 6:54 PM, kwongheng said: I think we conflate racism with sexual interests, although for some these do overlap. It is possible to have friendship with someone not of your interest or different race (btw this is social construction) or ethnicity whom you are not interested in, but it's hard to make someone sexually arouse if that person is not consider attractive to him. I think someone asks nationality when they want to confirm ethnicity of the person, again I am not saying if this is right or not. I think it's the person private sex partner preference, so there is no right or wrong. Personally, I will just ignore folks who are not my sexual preference, this way I cannot be called out for anything and the other person is none the wiser because stating a preference becomes a political correctness hot potato and everyone is out there to morally judge everyone else from their anonymous keyboard This is a very stupid behavior. For example, when I traveled to Thailand before, I often saw some Koreans in nightclubs, most of them were handsome, but there were also some with average looks, or even quite unattractive. However, regardless of your appearance, as long as you're a Korean speaking Korean, there are always many people following you. My Korean friend said that no one in Korea would like him at all, but as soon as he goes abroad, he becomes very popular. Honestly, he's really not good-looking, and his physique is quite bad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwongheng Posted December 17, 2023 Report Share Posted December 17, 2023 1 hour ago, 96miniboy said: This is a very stupid behavior. For example, when I traveled to Thailand before, I often saw some Koreans in nightclubs, most of them were handsome, but there were also some with average looks, or even quite unattractive. However, regardless of your appearance, as long as you're a Korean speaking Korean, there are always many people following you. My Korean friend said that no one in Korea would like him at all, but as soon as he goes abroad, he becomes very popular. Honestly, he's really not good-looking, and his physique is quite bad. I do agree with that, but has to do with the marketing of Koreans, Japanese, etc. The perception is jacked up regarding those nationalities. Unfortunately this is how the world runs even if it stupid or we don't like it. We can only downplay it ourselves Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted December 17, 2023 Report Share Posted December 17, 2023 1. Catfishers. 2. Ppl using old photos. 3. Asking for photos when they don't put up their photos. 4. Ppl who don't turned up for appointment Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2023 Report Share Posted December 17, 2023 Profile stated 1.85m tall but turn up about 1.68m tall. What worst was photo heavily edited until nia ma also cannot recognise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 Out of 20 you probably get 1 genuine 1. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 On 12/17/2023 at 8:28 AM, 96miniboy said: This is a very stupid behavior. For example, when I traveled to Thailand before, I often saw some Koreans in nightclubs, most of them were handsome, but there were also some with average looks, or even quite unattractive. However, regardless of your appearance, as long as you're a Korean speaking Korean, there are always many people following you. My Korean friend said that no one in Korea would like him at all, but as soon as he goes abroad, he becomes very popular. Honestly, he's really not good-looking, and his physique is quite bad. If you fancy Koreans... The hype started with this Korean Boy band stuff... And in Thailand... some Thai boys will just follow the money trail. Koreans are easy targets, the drink a lot, maybe they give plenty of tips... probably the next morning when the Thai boy left, they realise that they wasted their money... ha ha And being cute... every nation has a bunch of hot guys and a much bigger bunch of sour plums.... Better spend your time to check if you yourself have some sex appeal to others.... and if not, work on it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 On 12/16/2023 at 2:10 PM, Guest guest said: Usually the boomers dun haf an ig. If you often click on the insta link on app profiles, either the link is broken or it is set private. So? wasted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ChubasaurusHex Posted December 18, 2023 Report Share Posted December 18, 2023 The other day I got someone said want to be friends and then the next minute ask if he can work for me (simple house work etc) Asked him thought he wanted to be friends why want me to pay him to work around my house? He said he got no work and just wanted to earn some cash to tide things over. Told him no thx but he persisted some till I blocked him. Another is those on apps suddenly changing the language from english to mandarin. Pet peeve for me since majority that do that are either MB or scammers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 20, 2023 Report Share Posted December 20, 2023 Receiving messages as early as 7am for hook up. Knn....these people early morning so horny...no need to work meh ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horhorfun Posted December 20, 2023 Report Share Posted December 20, 2023 Ma 19 minutes ago, Guest guest said: Receiving messages as early as 7am for hook up. Knn....these people early morning so horny...no need to work meh ? Maybe releasing their horniness before work,you know Singapore is very stressful country right haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horhorfun Posted December 20, 2023 Report Share Posted December 20, 2023 The annoying people are those when you give them your photo,they straightaway block you and those who never reply after saying hi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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