Do u prefer ur partner to be younger, older, about the same age as u?

[egal]

or does it not matter?

[goldenveins]

My current partner since 2007 is actually the youngest I've had and he's 5 years older than me. Normally I like men who are at least 10 years older than me but for him I made an exception out of true love.

 

99.9% of the time I cannot get along (sexually) with males who are younger than me.

[timber_wolf]

hook ups usually prefer older ...

[egal]

i thought younger ones are usually more in demand, be it hook up or as partner

[Steve5380]

In the continuous spectrum from gay to straight,  those of us who are more towards the middle we like younger partners.  "Strong like a boy and beautiful like a girl".  My partners have been about 20 years younger.

[egal]

so the generation gap was not a problem when it comes to communication etc?

[goldenveins]

1 hour ago, egal said:

so the generation gap was not a problem when it comes to communication etc?

Not in my case - but then again I was already considered quite articulate in my 20's, and could intellectually connect with older men. I remember a Brit in his 50's who fell hard for me because I was, to quote @Steve5380, ""Strong like a boy and beautiful like a girl" in bed for him, yet also able to talk to him about music, life philosophies etc. like a peer and friend closer to his own age.

 

Unfortunately, commitments & lifestyle limitations (not least of all me telling him I, as a tropical creature, could never abide British weather) means we couldn't realistically pursue a 'proper' relationship.

[egal]

it all comes to the chemistry i suppose

 

 

 

[egal]

most probably go for the same age range

[john89]

2 years younger I’m ok 

[horhorfun]

Prefer same age,if 2 years younger or older,also can for me.

[egal]

i wonder if anyone goes for ten years or more age gap, if no money is involved, lol

[mp440028]

When I was younger it was with much older men, but now that I'm older,  prefer someone around the same age. Easier to communicate, similar life experience, and better understand each other's physical limitations.

 

[lightsmith32]

Younger than me for sure. I usually date early 20s if possible.

[EastSgDad]

Younger...

 

He will assume multi roles - soulmate, bf, son.

One "stone" kills many "birds". Lol

[Blogger Adam]

I feel it really all depends on the chemistry of the couple because there’s no magic formula for an ideal age gap

 

I always thought the best age gap is between zero and two because this way, my partner and I would go through life together since we’re at similar stages of our lives 

 

But in my case, it’s not

 

My partner and I are just one year apart — we got together when I was 23, and he, 24

 

But he’s way ahead of me because he skipped NS, being a first-generation Singaporean (J is Indonesian but converted citizenship after university here)

 

So while I was in university he had already started working and was thus living life like he were 30 while I was still a struggling student who had to give tuition just to stay alive 

 

My sex bunny friend Stanley insists that an ideal age gap for a couple is 10 years

 

“This way, we get young, fresh boys while we still can stand, bend and contort and when we’re frail and wrinkly, they will still hang around and change our diapers,” argues Stanley who’s got his love life all sorted out — from cradle to elderly bed, from virile to senile

I’m not so calculative when it comes to couple pairings 

 

After all, we can’t choose the age gap when love happens 

 

And when we do find that special one, it’s up to us to make sure there’s no gap of any sort 

Edited May 8 by Blogger Adam

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

Very good debate....

 

Coz young mostly want to have fun even though they seek relationship they actually don't understand the meaning of "relationship" they still love their freedom. But love their raging hormones awesome to play fuck choke!

 

Same age is depends as they scared to get rejected. But share the same maturity, interest but not as much energy compare to the young ones reason working night study etc....

 

Lastly the older ones, protective, maturity, prefer do stuff at home, not adventurous enough get hot tempered or sensitive easily 

 

So overall, it is all depends on u! 

[Guest DonsonKwa]

I prefer younger & slim becoz I like to worship the person & serve him.

hopping to spend time with him every week.

[Want to try]

On 5/5/2024 at 5:38 PM, egal said:

i wonder if anyone goes for ten years or more age gap, if no money is involved, lol

When i met him he was 37 and i 57. We have been fuck buddy and soulmate for 10 years and we still enjoy hugging each other when we sleep. I am more needy in sex and luckily he likes to suck and swallow and lately give me prostate massage while sucking me off. Only pity is he doesn't like me to get him off or fuck me so i am always left feeling a bit empty in my hole 😤. But cant complain lah... Difficult to find such a nice person who likes to service me sexually. 

[egal]

i suppose if it is just for pure physical fun, younger is better, lol

 

if for communication, chemistry etc, same age range with no huge gap would be better, as the lingo is the same, lol

[EastSgDad]

For me ... younger. Definitely. 

Always want to shower him with care and protection.

Essential criteria: good heart

Edited June 8 by EastSgDad

[Str8curioustwink]

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Edited November 15 by Str8curioustwink

[j.remini]

My first boyfriend was 9 years older than me. I was 19 and he was 28 when we got together. We broke up because I wasn't willing to sacrifice my social life while I was still studying in the polytechnic. I didn't want to spend every weekend and holiday clinging onto him. 

[egal]

so the phase of life is important

[my pleasure with u]

30 an above is gd. Matured daddy or single is cool too same thinking n liking , can talk chat n coffee n so on. Understand each other desires . Haha 

[DonT]

I prefer older as I like to be pampered

[doncoin]

When I was younger, I enjoy being the younger guy in the relationship. Now as I hit mid-life, I have embraced being the daddy. For casual fun, I don't really have age preference, but for someone who I want to be in a more serious relationship with, I think mid to late 30s and above would be more presentable. I did date a few 20+ year old guys but there is definitely a generation gap thing and also different priorities in life. 

 

 

 

 

Edited November 30 by doncoin

[egal]

i suppose younger guys are more fun n energetic

[EastSgDad]

Younger preferred (below 35). Can pamper and explore, experience and enjoy together Dad-Son Relationship 😄

Edited December 7 by EastSgDad

[feilyxnixx]

preferbly older. dated someone +16 my age before. in my early 30s now. someone that i feel confident in bringing out/home. 😃

[GymTan]

Slightly older.  Not more than 5 years