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U can go for any sleazy massages within ur neighborhood.. As long as the chinese female masseurs use their mouths / give u a hj, let u finger them/ suck their tits, U'RE DEFINITELY CHEATING 

 

Just simply put back on ur ring, go back, be a good husband / bf to ur wife / gf

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"Does receiving a massage with a manhood with cumming considered cheating?"

 

Hmm, this is a complex question.  I think more details are required.

 

Receiving a massage - do you have to pay for it, or was the massage free?  Also, was it a masseuse or a masseur providing the massage?  

 

with a manhood - was it deliberate or was it an accidental rubbing?  Who was doing it, the masseur or the masseuse or you?  Did it happen during the massage, before the massage or after the massage?  Was it a hand only job, or was there oral involved?  Was the prostate stimulated during the process?  

 

with cumming - who was cumming?  You, the masseur or the masseuse?  Who made who cum?  Did both parties cum?  Was there cross body cum contact, or did the cum land only on the person cumming? 

 

considered cheating - by whom?  The masseur or the masseuse or you or your partner or by more than one of those parties?  What were the ground rules agreed upon by you and your partner? 

 

I think that if you were given a free massage by a masseuse and, during the massage, the masseuse had an orgasm witnessing you play with your manhood, that would not be considered cheating.

 

 

 

 

My apologies to the OP, I was in a flippant mood and I was joking. 

 

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10 hours ago, doncoin said:

You know what you are getting into by getting a manhood massage from a stranger. So let's not pretend that it is some innocuous spa activity. You can always decline the manhood massage part. Seriously why even bother calling it a manhood massage when it is a hand job, as if it is going to make the experience any different? 

 

I am inclined to agree with this view totally.  Call a spade a spade.
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If you're sleeping and someone jerk you off and it feels good and you cum. 

 

Is it cheating? You didn't stop it cause it feels good but you didn't encourage it or have the intention to "let's cheat behind my bf back" 

 

Plus all the time your eyes is closed you have no idea whose hand is it. Guy or girl. Old or young. No idea. 

 

Just a hand massaging your cock but it feels good. But you didn't instigate it. But you didn't stop it. Because in your mind you're just lying down here but for some reason a hand strokes your cock... 

 

Not cheating la. 

 

If someone accidentally bump into your cock in public bus and it's crowded. And it feels good. And you cum inside your underwear is that cheating? 

 

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19 minutes ago, Guest Lol cheater cock said:

If you're sleeping and someone jerk you off and it feels good and you cum. 

 

Is it cheating? You didn't stop it cause it feels good but you didn't encourage it or have the intention to "let's cheat behind my bf back" 

 

Plus all the time your eyes is closed you have no idea whose hand is it. Guy or girl. Old or young. No idea. 

 

Just a hand massaging your cock but it feels good. But you didn't instigate it. But you didn't stop it. Because in your mind you're just lying down here but for some reason a hand strokes your cock... 

 

Not cheating la. 

 

If someone accidentally bump into your cock in public bus and it's crowded. And it feels good. And you cum inside your underwear is that cheating? 

 

No , that's premature ejaculation.

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since when is jerking considered cheating?

 

Isn't it nothing serious if bf's jerk on their own?

 

But I think the Happy Ending massage by a third party is somehow cheating, whether it is just a hand job or anything more.

 

I personally decline all those hanky panky things. I prefer a professional massage without any sexual excitement.

 

If I want fun, then there are plenty of opportunities,,, why go for something half baken if you can get the full fun with a guy...(and then still being under pressure to pay for tips)...

 

 

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8 hours ago, Guest Lol cheater cock said:

If you're sleeping and someone jerk you off and it feels good and you cum. 

 

Is it cheating? You didn't stop it cause it feels good but you didn't encourage it or have the intention to "let's cheat behind my bf back" 

 

Plus all the time your eyes is closed you have no idea whose hand is it. Guy or girl. Old or young. No idea. 

 

You are right, that is not cheating but it is sexual assault as you have no idea whose hand it is and also, you were touched without consent. 

 

8 hours ago, Guest Lol cheater cock said:

 

Just a hand massaging your cock but it feels good. But you didn't instigate it. But you didn't stop it. Because in your mind you're just lying down here but for some reason a hand strokes your cock... 

 

Not cheating la. 

 

If someone accidentally bump into your cock in public bus and it's crowded. And it feels good. And you cum inside your underwear is that cheating? 

 

 

 

Well when you didn't stop it, you become complicit to cheating itself. It is like having a co-worker who steals money from the company, and he takes you out with him to clubs and dinners, etc. using the stolen money. You became aware of it, but did not report to management or the police, thus, you are complicit to the crime. 

 

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It's not the manhood massage/jerk off that's the cheating part.

 

It's what your understanding with your partner/spouse. Suppose the guy just  suck ur nipples (no cumming, no need to touch dick), if u watch each other jerk off without even touching, ...does ur partner/spouse agree for u to enjoy it or any novel way of stimulation? That's the only yardstick.

 

I'm all for open communication in this day and age. If there is mutual consent and no resulting harm, to me it should be fine.

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Opinions on what constitutes cheating can vary based on individual relationships and boundaries. In many cases, acts that involve intimacy or sexual behavior with someone outside the relationship might be considered cheating. It's essential to have open and honest communication with your partner about what you both consider acceptable within your relationship to ensure mutual understanding and respect.😊

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On 12/21/2023 at 10:41 PM, singalion said:

since when is jerking considered cheating?

 

Isn't it nothing serious if bf's jerk on their own?

 

But I think the Happy Ending massage by a third party is somehow cheating, whether it is just a hand job or anything more.

 

I personally decline all those hanky panky things. I prefer a professional massage without any sexual excitement.

 

If I want fun, then there are plenty of opportunities,,, why go for something half baken if you can get the full fun with a guy...(and then still being under pressure to pay for tips)...

 

 

And these massages are not cheap !!!!!

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1 hour ago, Samuel Lim said:

Opinions on what constitutes cheating can vary based on individual relationships and boundaries. In many cases, acts that involve intimacy or sexual behavior with someone outside the relationship might be considered cheating. It's essential to have open and honest communication with your partner about what you both consider acceptable within your relationship to ensure mutual understanding and respect.😊

 

Yes, what constitutes cheating can vary based on the agreed upon rules of relationships between the parties involved.

In addition, what constitutes sex can also vary.  Just ask Bill Clinton. 😁

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On 12/21/2023 at 1:39 AM, doncoin said:

You know what you are getting into by getting a manhood massage from a stranger. So let's not pretend that it is some innocuous spa activity. You can always decline the manhood massage part. Seriously why even bother calling it a manhood massage when it is a hand job, as if it is going to make the experience any different? 

Well, went to manhood massage from a so called professional, did not cum and did not touch masseur.

Masseur also did not do anything to try to make you cum.

Then this can be considered not cheating probably.

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1 hour ago, 123ZZZ said:

Well, went to manhood massage from a so called professional, did not cum and did not touch masseur.

Masseur also did not do anything to try to make you cum.

Then this can be considered not cheating probably.

 It is probably a treatment. 

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41 minutes ago, Moon said:

 It is probably a treatment. 

 

Recent studies seem to indicate that frequent ejaculations is good because it maintains the health of the prostate.

 

When I receive a massages with manhood massage leading to an ejaculation, I shall deem it not cheating because it is a treatment.  😁

 

Sorry, no disrespect, @Moon, I was just joking.

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