What is the etiquette for wearing Chasity cage in Sauna?

[SubbieCuckie]

What is the etiquette for wearing Chasity cage? People will get scared or immediately people know you're bottom and bring you to have fun?

[yhtang]

30 minutes ago, SubbieCuckie said:

What is the etiquette for wearing Chasity cage? People will get scared or immediately people know you're bottom and bring you to have fun?

 

I do not know of any special etiquette relating to chastity cage in saunas.  

You are correct, there may be people who would be scared and may avoid you, possibly thinking you are a weirdo.

 

Those who are in the know will understand immediately that you are a bottom, and would most likely use you for their fun.  The only catch for this scenario is whether there are enough men who are in the know at the moment when you visit the sauna, and whether they find you interesting enough to dominate and use you.

 

I say dominate you because they would most likely assume you are a sub.  Truth be told, I cannot quite imagine an aggressive top in a cage in a sauna.   

[SubbieCuckie]

29 minutes ago, yhtang said:

 

I do not know of any special etiquette relating to chastity cage in saunas.  

You are correct, there may be people who would be scared and may avoid you, possibly thinking you are a weirdo.

 

Those who are in the know will understand immediately that you are a bottom, and would most likely use you for their fun.  The only catch for this scenario is whether there are enough men who are in the know at the moment when you visit the sauna, and whether they find you interesting enough to dominate and use you.

 

I say dominate you because they would most likely assume you are a sub.  Truth be told, I cannot quite imagine an aggressive top in a cage in a sauna.   

I have gone before but covered with towel. Only the guy I ended up playing with finds out. But I want to be more of an exhibitonist, fully walk around with cage on a nude theme night. 

[mate69]

28 minutes ago, SubbieCuckie said:

I have gone before but covered with towel. Only the guy I ended up playing with finds out. But I want to be more of an exhibitonist, fully walk around with cage on a nude theme night. 

Do it. What's the worst that can happen

[yhtang]

2 hours ago, SubbieCuckie said:

I have gone before but covered with towel. Only the guy I ended up playing with finds out. But I want to be more of an exhibitonist, fully walk around with cage on a nude theme night. 

 

Please go into a sauna caged and exposed, and let us know the outcome.  I am not sure if "caged" is allowed on a nude them night though - by definition, nude is to be uncovered, and the cock cage is a cover. 

 

As they say, "never try, never know."  And please enlighten us with your report of your experience. 

 

I think if I were there, I would take you and enter you - roughly or gently, according to your preference.  The imagined vision of the encounter rather thrills me.

[SubbieCuckie]

17 minutes ago, yhtang said:

 

Please go into a sauna caged and exposed, and let us know the outcome.  I am not sure if "caged" is allowed on a nude them night though - by definition, nude is to be uncovered, and the cock cage is a cover. 

 

As they say, "never try, never know."  And please enlighten us with your report of your experience. 

 

I think if I were there, I would take you and enter you - roughly or gently, according to your preference.  The imagined vision of the encounter rather thrills me.

TMC allow it. I messaged them and they say no rules against it. I will try there first. My cage is small and pink also. Not black and can cover easily. So I will stand out right away. Hopefully can have some brave souls who will dominate me. Shogun I think no one follow theme la. Do they even have now? So anytime can just go and show but clientele much older so maybe they dunno or scared. Maybe not as welcoming. I will update. Go TMC first and see. 

[bubu zai]

3 hours ago, SubbieCuckie said:

TMC allow it. I messaged them and they say no rules against it. I will try there first. My cage is small and pink also. Not black and can cover easily. So I will stand out right away. Hopefully can have some brave souls who will dominate me. Shogun I think no one follow theme la. Do they even have now? So anytime can just go and show but clientele much older so maybe they dunno or scared. Maybe not as welcoming. I will update. Go TMC first and see. 

I went TMC nude night & normal afternoon (weekday) try HT5 nud pink & cobra black. I juz undress and keep all my cloth at the locker. After juz walk walk up and I even laying at the top rooft sofa area 

[bubu zai]

3 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

Please go into a sauna caged and exposed, and let us know the outcome.  I am not sure if "caged" is allowed on a nude them night though - by definition, nude is to be uncovered, and the cock cage is a cover. 

 

As they say, "never try, never know."  And please enlighten us with your report of your experience. 

 

I think if I were there, I would take you and enter you - roughly or gently, according to your preference.  The imagined vision of the encounter rather thrills me.

No just sauna sometime I go open shower also cage and nude there 

[yhtang]

13 hours ago, bubu zai said:

No just sauna sometime I go open shower also cage and nude there 

 

What is the reaction from those in the open shower when they see you caged?
Do they ask questions?
Do they shy away?
Do you get hook-ups? 

 

One thing about open showers and chastity cage is that the sight may not be suitable for those underaged. Still, that could be an education all by itself.  

[yhtang]

13 hours ago, bubu zai said:

I went TMC nude night & normal afternoon (weekday) try HT5 nud pink & cobra black. I juz undress and keep all my cloth at the locker. After juz walk walk up and I even laying at the top rooft sofa area 

 

@bubu zai , you are keeping poor @SubbieCuckie in tenterhooks. 

What happened when you went to TMC nude night and normal afternoon?  We know TMC has not rules against cock cages, but what was the reception from the other patrons in TMC?

Did they shy away? 
Did anyone use you aggressively? 
Were you dominated by anyone? 
Will you do it again?

 

Please tell all!

[And then]

3 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

What is the reaction from those in the open shower when they see you caged?
Do they ask questions?
Do they shy away?
Do you get hook-ups? 

 

One thing about open showers and chastity cage is that the sight may not be suitable for those underaged. Still, that could be an education all by itself.  

I suspect it will definitely depend on the person who is caged.

A hottie or cutie who is caged will surely attract curiosity and attention.

Conversely.....

[yhtang]

2 hours ago, And then said:

I suspect it will definitely depend on the person who is caged.

A hottie or cutie who is caged will surely attract curiosity and attention.

Conversely.....

 

You have a point there. 

But then again, if the person is not deemed good looking by the audience and do not have the body type that is favoured by the crowd in that sauna, he will not garner much attention, cock cage or no cock cage. 

 

I suppose if the dark room is dark enough, and if some of the patrons there are not picky/are quite desperate (I swear I am not referring to myself) that person may get lucky, cock cage or no cock cage.

[bubu zai]

15 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

What is the reaction from those in the open shower when they see you caged?
Do they ask questions?
Do they shy away?
Do you get hook-ups? 

 

One thing about open showers and chastity cage is that the sight may not be suitable for those underaged. Still, that could be an education all by itself.  

Normal they will standing there staring or some will come touch 
Do they ask questions?

what is that / why the key / you got master 

Do they shy away?

Nope just look or staring 

Do you get hook-ups? 

nope some don like because can’t touch dick 

 

One thing about open showers and chastity cage depends where you go. Normally went at night macritchie still Okie. Sometimes i just sit at the bench in full nude 

[bubu zai]

15 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

@bubu zai , you are keeping poor @SubbieCuckie in tenterhooks. 

What happened when you went to TMC nude night and normal afternoon?  We know TMC has not rules against cock cages, but what was the reception from the other patrons in TMC?

Did they shy away? 
Did anyone use you aggressively? 
Were you dominated by anyone? 
Will you do it again?

 

Please tell all!

What happened when you went to TMC nude night and normal afternoon? 
Just like normal no people will care what you wearing 

Did they shy away? 

Normally just staring you some will come touch your cage 

Did anyone use you aggressively? 
Nope I got wear my tail plug go 

Were you dominated by anyone? 

My master 

Will you do it again?

when go time will go nude again since I also nude at home 

[bubu zai]

12 hours ago, And then said:

I suspect it will definitely depend on the person who is caged.

A hottie or cutie who is caged will surely attract curiosity and attention.

Conversely.....

When you want to cage go sauna normally won’t care what they thinking 

[bubu zai]

9 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

You have a point there. 

But then again, if the person is not deemed good looking by the audience and do not have the body type that is favoured by the crowd in that sauna, he will not garner much attention, cock cage or no cock cage. 

 

I suppose if the dark room is dark enough, and if some of the patrons there are not picky/are quite desperate (I swear I am not referring to myself) that person may get lucky, cock cage or no cock cage.

Maybe I don care what they referring coz I juz went there and nude with cage. sometimes i juz starting at locker area if someone walk in sure wil saw me

[Steve5380]

I definitely think that it is not good etiquette to wear a chastity cage in a gay sauna.  Chastity is the last attitude there.  

 

[bubu zai]

6 hours ago, Steve5380 said:

I definitely think that it is not good etiquette to wear a chastity cage in a gay sauna.  Chastity is the last attitude there.  

 

Juz wear what you feel comfortable normally if the guys don like they won’t come near you save all the diva.

[Balestier]

What's the objectives of wearing a cage in a sauna ??

[Balestier]

21 hours ago, And then said:

I suspect it will definitely depend on the person who is caged.

A hottie or cutie who is caged will surely attract curiosity and attention.

Conversely.....

Cutie just go into doggie and wait. Hopefully he will get a top 

[bubu zai]

15 minutes ago, Balestier said:

What's the objectives of wearing a cage in a sauna ??

Exhibition / master request / show btm allow to top / cages no jerk come can go many round 

[SubbieCuckie]

11 hours ago, bubu zai said:

Maybe I don care what they referring coz I juz went there and nude with cage. sometimes i juz starting at locker area if someone walk in sure wil saw me

 

I can speak on my experience at shogun last night. Around 11pm - I would say the locker area and tv room was quite full. About 20 pax. I stripped down to towel, wearing my small pink cage already. Then went to shower quickly. No one was there so couldn't show off my cage. Then walk into dark zone. Took a slow walk around and noticed a couple statues but almost empty. Couple rooms being used - can hear some piak piak and moans. I went to open bed and lie down. Remove towel. Expose my ass and lay face down. I had already applied lube. So then just wait and a few guys come to play. Mostly just wanted to massage me and one guy just wanted to rub his cock on my ass. No problem. He tried to play with my cock then feel cage. At first he surprised I think cos his hands like exploring in the dark then I think he knows. He just dry hump me then he stop and went off. Disappointed nothing happen. Then shortly after another guy come, seems very tall from his shadow. Rub my ass and back then suddenly started rimming. I tilted up my ass and he started to play with cage and balls. Also he surprised a little but after a while really try to tongue fuck me, I feel a finger go in and I moan. He finger fuck me and play with my cage and balls for a while. Wah damn shiok. He want to fuck me but he no condom so I said no. Aiyah. He left. Finally after about 20 mins, another guy come. He immediately stick his hand under my ass to grab my cock - he felt the cage and this guy was very rough. Maybe he dunno what it is. First off, his fingernails long and sharp - poke my cock and balls. Damn pain. I said slowly as I half turn. Can see he short, wear glasses, short hair. He like never stop, keep pulling my cage and scratched me. Have to tell him stop and push him away. He just stand there looking at me in the dark and I pointed to go away. Then he left. Knn ruin the whole evening. After a while, I went out showered and left. I don't think this place was the right one for me. Will try TMC next. 

[yhtang]

16 minutes ago, SubbieCuckie said:

I went to open bed and lie down. Remove towel. Expose my ass and lay face down. I had already applied lube. So then just wait and a few guys come to play. Mostly just wanted to massage me and one guy just wanted to rub his cock on my ass. No problem. He tried to play with my cock then feel cage. At first he surprised I think cos his hands like exploring in the dark then I think he knows. He just dry hump me then he stop and went off.

 

Interestingly, I had a recent encounter in a sauna where one guy was lying down on a mattress in a dimly lit room. 
 

I locked the room, approached him, started touching his upper body and noticed his balls were very dark for a Chinese guy.  Anyway, after playing around with this upper body, it was time to go all the way down.  We were interrupted by a light knocking on the door, which I ignored.  

 

As I went down to play with his cock, I noticed he had a black cock cage.  I was about to investigate and play around it, when the guy stopped me and informed me his dom is here and they had to leave.  So that was the end of that encounter. 

 

 

[singalion]

3 hours ago, Balestier said:

What's the objectives of wearing a cage in a sauna ??

 

2 hours ago, Guest Incoming said:

Ignorant boomers incoming

 

Actually, the issue is more that Singapore saunas (Malaysian,Thai, etc) do not cater specifically to such fetish behaviours.

 

It is a bit more than just having a swimming trunk or underwear theme at the sauna.

 

The cage infers more than the current themes as it refers to domination.

 

Yes, the wearer might signal something to the sauna visiting guys, but it will need a match.

 

As long as none of the saunas introduce such a theme night/ fetish night, then probably I wouldn't really advise any guy wearing a cage in a sauna.

But nobody would prevent him from doing so.

However, don't complain later when you get ignored by others.

 

The query from Balestier is therefore somehow justified.

Most guys want to play with a dick when they go to a sauna and not be prevented by doing so from a chastity cage.

This cage thing seems also a newer fetish developed the past years only.

 

Unless it is a specific fetish oriented sauna in the US or Europe, usually it is rare to see guys wearing cages in other countries at the saunas and the least in this region here.

 

 

 

[bubu zai]

2 hours ago, Guest Incoming said:

 

Ignorant boomers incoming

 

 

Is. Normal 

[bubu zai]

59 minutes ago, yhtang said:

 

Interestingly, I had a recent encounter in a sauna where one guy was lying down on a mattress in a dimly lit room. 
 

I locked the room, approached him, started touching his upper body and noticed his balls were very dark for a Chinese guy.  Anyway, after playing around with this upper body, it was time to go all the way down.  We were interrupted by a light knocking on the door, which I ignored.  

 

As I went down to play with his cock, I noticed he had a black cock cage.  I was about to investigate and play around it, when the guy stopped me and informed me his dom is here and they had to leave.  So that was the end of that encounter. 

 

 

He not coming with his Dom?

[bubu zai]

7 minutes ago, singalion said:

 

 

Actually, the issue is more that Singapore saunas (Malaysian,Thai, etc) do not cater specifically to such fetish behaviours.

 

It is a bit more than just having a swimming trunk or underwear theme at the sauna.

 

The cage infers more than the current themes as it refers to domination.

 

Yes, the wearer might signal something to the sauna visiting guys, but it will need a match.

 

As long as none of the saunas introduce such a theme night/ fetish night, then probably I wouldn't really advise any guy wearing a cage in a sauna.

But nobody would prevent him from doing so.

However, don't complain later when you get ignored by others.

 

The query from Balestier is therefore somehow justified.

Most guys want to play with a dick when they go to a sauna and not be prevented by doing so from a chastity cage.

This cage thing seems also a newer fetish developed the past years only.

 

Unless it is a specific fetish oriented sauna in the US or Europe, usually it is rare to see guys wearing cages in other countries at the saunas and the least in this region here.

 

 

 

When I caged go I dont reli care about others.  I also don mine people juz ignore me, so I can nude and hang around there 

[yhtang]

4 hours ago, bubu zai said:

He not coming with his Dom?

 

The dom was there.  It was his dom that knocked on the door, interrupting my play with the caged guy.

i had to respect his dom, of course, because the caged guy belongs to the dom.  That's the essence of dom-sub relationship.

 

[yhtang]

4 hours ago, bubu zai said:

When I caged go I dont reli care about others.  I also don mine people juz ignore me, so I can nude and hang around there 

 

@singalion is correct; over here in South East Asia - and dare I say, Asia as a whole, saunas do not cater specifically to roleplay such as dom with caged sub. 

 

In your case, @bubu zai, you are already aware of this, and you accepted that other sauna patrons would stare and probably do nothing.  In view of this, I do not think you would complain if you were to leave the sauna "virgo intacta", so to speak.  I think the sauna patrons would not scream in fright at your caged cock, perhaps you could even enlighten them.  In this case I say, "You do you."  

[bubu zai]

39 minutes ago, yhtang said:

 

The dom was there.  It was his dom that knocked on the door, interrupting my play with the caged guy.

i had to respect his dom, of course, because the caged guy belongs to the dom.  That's the essence of dom-sub relationship.

 

The nice dom bring his sub go sauna exhibition 

[Guest Not nude]

18 hours ago, bubu zai said:

When I caged go I dont reli care about others.  I also don mine people juz ignore me, so I can nude and hang around there 

But you are not really in the nude.

[bubu zai]

1 hour ago, Guest Not nude said:

But you are not really in the nude.

Full nude without towel 

normal when I reaxh will keep all cloth to the locker 

[bubu zai]

15 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

@singalion is correct; over here in South East Asia - and dare I say, Asia as a whole, saunas do not cater specifically to roleplay such as dom with caged sub. 

 

In your case, @bubu zai, you are already aware of this, and you accepted that other sauna patrons would stare and probably do nothing.  In view of this, I do not think you would complain if you were to leave the sauna "virgo intacta", so to speak.  I think the sauna patrons would not scream in fright at your caged cock, perhaps you could even enlighten them.  In this case I say, "You do you."  

Yup I aware that when you cage & nude inside will let people staring on you.

My Dom also prefer me cage and nude inside to show I am owned and sometime no just wear cage he also request me wear tail plug 

[singalion]

But then I totally fail to understand what is the purpose to go to a gay sauna when you're caged and owned by someone... 

 

 

[Balestier]

25 minutes ago, singalion said:

But then I totally fail to understand what is the purpose to go to a gay sauna when you're caged and owned by someone... 

 

 

Probably there w Dom to play. 

[fresh7up]

39 minutes ago, singalion said:

But then I totally fail to understand what is the purpose to go to a gay sauna when you're caged and owned by someone... 

 

 

Maybe to show off to the rest in the sauna that they are owned. Look but can't touch.

[Balestier]

16 minutes ago, fresh7up said:

Maybe to show off to the rest in the sauna that they are owned. Look but can't touch.

Can't see in the dark sauna. U will only realise after touching the kkj

[yhtang]

1 hour ago, Balestier said:

Can't see in the dark sauna. U will only realise after touching the kkj

 

Yes, that was my experience.  But no matter, so long they are willing, I will play with them.

[yhtang]

2 hours ago, fresh7up said:

Maybe to show off to the rest in the sauna that they are owned. Look but can't touch.

 

I think that would be the general idea of going to a sauna with a cock cage. 

Different folks, different strokes. 

As I always say, so long all parties are willing and no one is injured.

[singalion]

2 hours ago, fresh7up said:

Maybe to show off to the rest in the sauna that they are owned. Look but can't touch.

 

If that dick is caged, what is there to look???

 

[yhtang]

5 minutes ago, singalion said:

 

If that dick is caged, what is there to look???

 

 

The sight to display is the caged cock. 

 

You are thinking of the cock, but the whole point is to show the caged cock, which shouts, "I am a sub who had complied with my dom's demand to have my penile pleasures curbed in the form of a cock cage."

 

If your pleasure is to see a cock, be it large or small, hard or flaccid, throbbing or weeping, then the caged cock would certainly - and understandably - not have any interest to you. 

 

Nothing wrong with that, it is just a matter of different people with different preference. 

[acidtongue]

I fucked a caged btm at a sauna before. Although I’m mostly just interested in straightforward muscle worship and anal sex, and not particularly into fetishes, caged btms are somehow a huge turn on for me. The cock cage focuses both the top and btm on the deed that matters the most - intense mutual stimulation of their primary sex organs, the top’s penis and the btm’s anal canal. In fact a caged btm is like a blinkered racehorse, undistracted by any other sources of sexual stimulation and totally focused on deriving pleasure from stimulating the depths of his boy cunt. As his top, I am like his jockey, riding his ass as deep and hard as I can to achieve a victorious sexual climax for both of us.

 

There is of course also the exhibitionist side of things. The caged btm I fucked was a lil shy with showing his cage to the sauna patrons. But if I were to do it again, I’d want him to go fully nude and caged from the locker area in full view of everyone. As the dominant top, I will lead by example and go fully nude, except for my cock and ball rings. Body pre oiled, pumped and vascular. Cock rock hard and veiny, with an angry purple mushroom head already dripping with precum and the entire shaft glistening from a quick suck by the btm. 
 

Pumped and hard, with my caged btm mare in the tow, I will walk to the counter to get the condoms I need and lead him to the room, where my cock can finally penetrate his boycunt after all the song and dance in the public, and both of us work our bodies to fulfil each other’s deepest sexual needs. 

 

[Balestier]

10 minutes ago, singalion said:

 

If that dick is caged, what is there to look???

 

The cock cage with growing kkj inside. See but cannot touch, cannot suck. Worse .. it's hard

[bubu zai]

5 hours ago, singalion said:

But then I totally fail to understand what is the purpose to go to a gay sauna when you're caged and owned by someone... 

 

 

Exhibition or by request 

[bubu zai]

4 hours ago, fresh7up said:

Maybe to show off to the rest in the sauna that they are owned. Look but can't touch.

Still can touch 

[bubu zai]

2 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

The sight to display is the caged cock. 

 

You are thinking of the cock, but the whole point is to show the caged cock, which shouts, "I am a sub who had complied with my dom's demand to have my penile pleasures curbed in the form of a cock cage."

 

If your pleasure is to see a cock, be it large or small, hard or flaccid, throbbing or weeping, then the caged cock would certainly - and understandably - not have any interest to you. 

 

Nothing wrong with that, it is just a matter of different people with different preference. 

When I caged I able to play longer when no cage became the top will keep suck or jerk.

When after I cum my load mean if going to shower and home 

[singalion]

4 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

The sight to display is the caged cock. 

 

You are thinking of the cock, but the whole point is to show the caged cock, which shouts, "I am a sub who had complied with my dom's demand to have my penile pleasures curbed in the form of a cock cage."

 

If your pleasure is to see a cock, be it large or small, hard or flaccid, throbbing or weeping, then the caged cock would certainly - and understandably - not have any interest to you. 

 

Nothing wrong with that, it is just a matter of different people with different preference. 

 

I know. 

 

Everyone as he prefers. But must understand not everyone into such fetish display. 

 

 

 

Edited February 4, 2024 by singalion

[bubu zai]

41 minutes ago, Guest Endless said:

you clearly don’t get it and it’s not your thing and that’s fine. But then why keep commenting to make the exact same point over and over again?
 

So he can comment and let you notice he there 

[doncoin]

I think the etiquette should be don't flaunt your chastity cage in a sauna. The whole concept of being chaste is to remain untouched and pure. As such, if you are wearing a chastity cage, you shouldn't be in a sauna, but at home, or preferably, locked up in a tower somewhere, alone. If there is no one to touch you inappropriately, you wouldn't have to deal with any sexual desires and hence remain chaste and pure as intended. Isn't that the whole point of being caged?  

 

Seriously think about that.  

 

A caged cock is like a caged animal in a zoo. You don't go too close to it. You observe it, and leave it alone. 

[fresh7up]

3 hours ago, doncoin said:

I think the etiquette should be don't flaunt your chastity cage in a sauna. The whole concept of being chaste is to remain untouched and pure. As such, if you are wearing a chastity cage, you shouldn't be in a sauna, but at home, or preferably, locked up in a tower somewhere, alone. If there is no one to touch you inappropriately, you wouldn't have to deal with any sexual desires and hence remain chaste and pure as intended. Isn't that the whole point of being caged?  

 

Seriously think about that.  

 

A caged cock is like a caged animal in a zoo. You don't go too close to it. You observe it, and leave it alone. 

If we were to view the chastity cage as a BDSM toy, we can take it as the cage is being placed by the dom top on the sub btm. The dom top holds the key and in rebel the sub btm go and visit the sauna to get fuck behind his dom top's back without him knowing.