Adjusting in public

[Hengheng]

Do you or have you seen guys adjust their crotch in public or  perhaps in front of you?

[horhorfun]

Yes have seen before..i sometimes do also but i make sure no one looking..

[Hengheng]

last week, there is a youth boy knew my presence. and he keeps adjusting his crotch. 

Edited March 30, 2024 by Hengheng

[yhtang]

57 minutes ago, Hengheng said:

last week, there is a youth boy knew my presence. and he keeps adjusting his crotch. 

 

 

If he looked you in the eye while his was adjusting his boy bits, he may be trying to tell you something. 

 

But please verify his age before taking the next step.  😁

[QinWei]

not very gentlemen, but I will adjust without public eyes ONLY or get into a toilet?

[Want to try]

I will put my hand inside to adjust and park it properly casually and quickly.. So unless someone is staring at my crotch, dont think anyone will notice. 

[horhorfun]

2 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

 

If he looked you in the eye while his was adjusting his boy bits, he may be trying to tell you something. 

 

But please verify his age before taking the next step.  😁

Very true..

[Guest 69fun]

4 hours ago, Hengheng said:

Do you or have you seen guys adjust their crotch in public or  perhaps in front of you?

 

Yes I do. I often feel like extending my hands out to help them adjust as well.

[cutejack]

Many times..lately this guy,a family fren of mine who is married with a kid keep adjusting his crotch very often. Feel like telling him but how to. I don't do that in public. I'm very particular in touching my crotch area in public la. I'm shy u know. 

[Guest Guess]

Pubic hair caught between foreskin and dickhead. 🤣😱

[Guest Guest]

https://www.tiktok.com/@heykaki.sg/video/7303492197750541569

 

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[Guest Wow]

8 hours ago, Hengheng said:

last week, there is a youth boy knew my presence. and he keeps adjusting his crotch. 

wow, the fact you started a thread about this because of a ‘youth boy’ is really creepy 

[yhtang]

5 hours ago, Guest Guess said:

Pubic hair caught between foreskin and dickhead. 🤣😱

 

I used to have this problem, and had to make certain adjustments so that my pubic hair is not pulled due to being trapped between my foreskin and my glans penis.

 

I trim my pubic hair now, so that problem is resolved.

[Guest Guess]

5 hours ago, yhtang said:

 

I used to have this problem, and had to make certain adjustments so that my pubic hair is not pulled due to being trapped between my foreskin and my glans penis.

 

I trim my pubic hair now, so that problem is resolved.

👏👍

Rarely see guys with a big bush nowadays.🤣

[GachiMuchi]

18 hours ago, Hengheng said:

last week, there is a youth boy knew my presence. and he keeps adjusting his crotch. 

 

Lick your lips and gives him a wink. I am sure he will stop immediately!

[egal]

i m sure parliament is ruling on this

[Steve5380]

21 hours ago, Hengheng said:

Do you or have you seen guys adjust their crotch in public or  perhaps in front of you?

 

Could it be that there is an epidemy of pubic lice in your neighborhood, and what you see the boy doing is simply scratching?

[Guest Construction site]

It is indian culture to "adjust" their private all the time, even without the need to do so.  Seen it everyday,

[radiusulnar]

On the rare occasions I have to adjust in public I will quickly do it to reduce awkwardness. This is especially since I usually freeball and so if I have to adjust it means the freeballing is getting too obvious. 

[bluerunner]

On 3/30/2024 at 10:39 AM, Hengheng said:

Do you or have you seen guys adjust their crotch in public or  perhaps in front of you?

Yes. Seen many times especially men from a certain country. (Cannot say here to avoid being called racist) 

 

59 minutes ago, radiusulnar said:

On the rare occasions I have to adjust in public I will quickly do it to reduce awkwardness. This is especially since I usually freeball and so if I have to adjust it means the freeballing is getting too obvious. 

I am guilty of doing that too but it’s a rare occasion. I try to go to nearly toilet to do it if necessary. 
However, at the pool, after my swim, I do it quickly frequently. At times, I did it while I was chatting w the lifeguard after my swim. I have totally forgotten that I shouldn’t be doing that! Haha. Oh well….. 

[StockBottom]

I do that sometimes, discreetly after I checked that the coast is clear. Or do it in the toilet.

 

But I have seen many South Asian FWs do that nonchalantly in front of everyone.

[Guest True]

10 minutes ago, StockBottom said:

 

But I have seen many South Asian FWs do that nonchalantly in front of everyone.

Yes, in front of a crowded traffic light too. They are so used to it it became an unconscious lifestyle to them. 

[kingscup92]

3 hours ago, radiusulnar said:

On the rare occasions I have to adjust in public I will quickly do it to reduce awkwardness. This is especially since I usually freeball and so if I have to adjust it means the freeballing is getting too obvious. 

Similarly, when I glanced at myself through the shop glasses and noticed a bulge.

[Guest Bulge hunter]

46 minutes ago, kingscup92 said:

Similarly, when I glanced at myself through the shop glasses and noticed a bulge.

No need to glance through the glasses.  When you are being cruised, you know why. 

[singalion]

On 3/30/2024 at 10:39 AM, Hengheng said:

Do you or have you seen guys adjust their crotch in public or  perhaps in front of you?

 

Wasn't it considered rude in front of women?

 

 

 

On 3/31/2024 at 11:54 AM, StockBottom said:

I do that sometimes, discreetly after I checked that the coast is clear. Or do it in the toilet.

 

But I have seen many South Asian FWs do that nonchalantly in front of everyone.

 

Are you sure only South Asian FW's do that?

 

How did my MOM say once when she was annoyed about that crotch touch in public...

"That part of the body must always be very itchy that some men have to scratch at the area..."

 

 

[Guest Guess]

1 hour ago, singalion said:

 

Wasn't it considered rude in front of women?

 

 

 

 

Are you sure only South Asian FW's do that?

 

How did my MOM say once when she was annoyed about that crotch touch in public...

"That part of the body must always be very itchy that some men have to scratch at the area..."

 

 

There speaks the crusader and staunch advocate for Indians aka South Asians 

[EastSgDad]

On 3/31/2024 at 9:43 AM, radiusulnar said:

On the rare occasions I have to adjust in public I will quickly do it to reduce awkwardness. This is especially since I usually freeball and so if I have to adjust it means the freeballing is getting too obvious. 

Same here, but discreetly. 

Normally, I won't. Don't want to invite unnecessary stares.

[radiusulnar]

its a dilemma isn't it? if you adjust, those that didnt' notice before might have their attention drawn to it. if you don't adjust, then you might draw unwanted attention.

[Steve5380]

We all find it convenient to "adjust" here and there.  What is the big deal?  Should we be ashamed of our gender?

 

Don't women enjoy parading attractive boobs?  They may "adjust" every step they make,  and they don't hide it, ha ha.

[Kay Boy]

Put your hand inside the pant pocket and see whether can reach or not la

[biLanjiao]

private parking lot.. no one will complain for parking wrongly haha 

[bluerunner]

I was on the mrt that day and at Orchard, I boy in his uniform a boarded and set next to me. My guess: Looks like Sec4 or JC student. 
As soon as he sat down, he put his hand into his pants and did a quick adjustment. Wow that’s fast hand. Lol. 

[EastSgDad]

2 minutes ago, bluerunner said:

I was on the mrt that day and at Orchard, I boy in his uniform a boarded and set next to me. My guess: Looks like Sec4 or JC student. 
As soon as he sat down, he put his hand into his pants and did a quick adjustment. Wow that’s fast hand. Lol. 

Usually sitting down is easier to adjust... as there's more room.

Fast and not catching too much attention!

Good job, school boy!

[TamPenis]

You should lend a helping hand 😝

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

I myself do that coz want to make it upwards haha n did see people like adjust or touch haha wished we can help each other by gliding it together haha 

[mp440028]

10 hours ago, MasterFitMalaySG4U said:

I myself do that coz want to make it upwards haha n did see people like adjust or touch haha wished we can help each other by gliding it together haha 

 

Same here..... I like mine upwards. Adjustments are necessary at times in public. Doesn't help when I am a regular freeballer.

[radiusulnar]

I thought most people park downwards. Glad I am not alone in parking upwards.

[NeitherHereNorThere]

I guess most will either park upwards or downwards in alignment with the zip. Anyone park sideways? 😅 Just wondering if it's sideways, how to adjust?

[EastSgDad]

13 minutes ago, NeitherHereNorThere said:

I guess most will either park upwards or downwards in alignment with the zip. Anyone park sideways? 😅 Just wondering if it's sideways, how to adjust?

Hmm...

Must use a Mathematical protractor to measure the correct degree when adjusting sideways.

Hahaha

[singalion]

What I dislike here is that if you unfortunately have your pants zip open, not even a man will approach you or give signs... to close the zip.

 

Why is that in Singapore like that?

[EastSgDad]

1 hour ago, singalion said:

What I dislike here is that if you unfortunately have your pants zip open, not even a man will approach you or give signs... to close the zip.

 

Why is that in Singapore like that?

If I notice a guy with open fly, I will definitely inform him.

[Guest Redhead]

1 hour ago, singalion said:

What I dislike here is that if you unfortunately have your pants zip open, not even a man will approach you or give signs... to close the zip

I think because most guys are scared to be seen as gay... Why were you looking at another man's crotch?

[singalion]

6 minutes ago, Guest Redhead said:

I think because most guys are scared to be seen as gay... Why were you looking at another man's crotch?

 

Not sure you understood my case. haha

[bluerunner]

9 hours ago, radiusulnar said:

I thought most people park downwards. Glad I am not alone in parking upwards.

I park up too. 

[GachiMuchi]

4 hours ago, singalion said:

What I dislike here is that if you unfortunately have your pants zip open, not even a man will approach you or give signs... to close the zip.

 

Why is that in Singapore like that?

 

Yours is not significant enough or exposed enough for people to notice that they will have to remind you.

Imagine some stranger comes up to you and tell you, your lanjiao is sticking out or your fly is open. 

You might look at him and wonder why he stares at your lanjiao or fly. Sounds weird right?

Better mind one's own business.

 

[Guest Looking after ea other LJ]

1 hour ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

Yours is not significant enough or exposed enough for people to notice that they will have to remind you.

Imagine some stranger comes up to you and tell you, your lanjiao is sticking out or your fly is open. 

You might look at him and wonder why he stares at your lanjiao or fly. Sounds weird right?

Better mind one's own business.

 

I will usually approached strangers to remind them to zip up their "lan jiao" jeans in public.  All of them were very appreciative. We need to look out for each other especially the good looking ones.  You need to act fast before other people did.   Having said that, one must be certain that it was unzipped, in the first place, because some pants or jeans has "malfunction" zip that look almost like it was exposed but didn't and if you approached strangers like that, he will hand you over to the police. 

[mate69]

Whisper in his ear: "Hey bro, just so you know, your zip is undone"

and give him a sly friendly smile thereafter, and maybe a wink 

[mp440028]

17 hours ago, EastSgDad said:

If I notice a guy with open fly, I will definitely inform him.

 I would too. Uncomfortable as it may be to some, it just seems like the right thing to do. 

[EastSgDad]

1 hour ago, mp440028 said:

 I would too. Uncomfortable as it may be to some, it just seems like the right thing to do. 

Indeed, we guys need to look out for one another (though Strangers). 

I will help alert him, just like how I want others to alert me.

Such gesture is ultimately for the common good of the general public 

[doncoin]

Generally I have no issues with guys adjusting themselves in public. It happens. What amuses me is after adjusting, I have seen guys sniffing their own fingers as if expecting a some floral scent, or Chanel No. 5. The worst are the guys who scratch their butt then sniff their fingers. 

Edited July 31, 2024 by doncoin