Discussion on Fisting + How Is The Feeling? (compiled)

[Guest hoho]

I almost fainted when watching several clips posted on xtube by a Japanese man named go5katsu. He had himself fisted on many occasions. His ass was penetrated by not only one arm by two !!. He was like a hugh turkey being stuffed for the Thank-giving Day. I wonder if his friend pushed harder, would the arms appeared from his mouth? Now, I know why a gay friend like to scold others "your cb (ass) can stuff in one big coconut ..." I dun believe a human's ass can be soooo "stretchable" until watching these clips. I think I would like to try giving someone the fists in order to be fully convinced.

[reflection]

I almost fainted when watching several clips posted on xtube by a Japanese man named go5katsu. He had himself fisted on many occasions. His ass was penetrated by not only one arm by two !!. He was like a hugh turkey being stuffed for the Thank-giving Day. I wonder if his friend pushed harder, would the arms appeared from his mouth? Now, I know why a gay friend like to scold others "your cb (ass) can stuff in one big coconut ..." I dun believe a human's ass can be soooo "stretchable" until watching these clips. I think I would like to try giving someone the fists in order to be fully convinced.

Please know the consequence of fisting. It can cause

- severe bleeding through tearing or shearing

- incontinence (unable to control or hold bowels)

Reflection

- Please spare a thought for our organs, overdone will be damaged.

[Tight Ass]

I almost fainted when watching several clips posted on xtube by a Japanese man named go5katsu. . His ass was penetrated by not only one arm by two !!.

For goodness sake, there is another type of ass you should enjoy watching and more healing to your soul. :thumb:

Edited February 7, 2009 by Tight Ass

[dickson]

hi guys,just wana know have you guys ever try fisting ?how the feeling?

[iamziz]

I fisted 4 guys before. To me it was more like using my hand to drill but I don't know how someone can moan enjoying it. To each his own. 

[Guest JC6565]

I fisted 4 guys before. To me it was more like using my hand to drill but I don't know how someone can moan enjoying it. To each his own.

Hi can u describe hw u did it. Wat type of lube u used

[Guest JC6565]

Haha jus curious ma

[iamziz]

Gosh... so cruel you did this.

Well, the 1st time I did it without asking. He said 'If you do it again next time cannot fuck me'. I apologised. I got carried away. But the other 3 they asked for it. So, I was not cruel 

 

Aiyoyo, this is horrendous, why bother to know?

 

 

Hi can u describe hw u did it. Wat type of lube u used

 

Nothing special. Put a condom on my hand and I used lube. 

[navyblue]

Well, the 1st time I did it without asking. He said 'If you do it again next time cannot fuck me'. I apologised. I got carried away.

That guy's hole must be very loose and insensitive for your fist to slip in WITHOUT ASKING.

Unless u did it by force or he was in bondage.

For me, having an ave dick up my ass was already a pain in the ass (pun intended), cant imagine a fist!

[Blacque]

Can't imagine the pain of getting a double penetration, anal fisting is absolutely out of the world! 

[Guest]

yikes!

[Guest brian]

Did tried n enjoyed double penetration. Anyone with similar experience ?

[PaterTenebrarum]

Fisting is a sex play that I do not recommend for beginners. If you wanna try it, try to get it done by an experienced dude.

 

Firstly, do not say somebody's sexual preference is "horrenderous". What works for you, might not work for others. Homophobes think gay sex is horrenderous. You get my drift now?

 

Respect other people's sexual preferences. Some ppl like fisting, golden showers, <<Don't Feed The Troll>>, CBT, roman showers, etc. Others don't. To each his own.

 

Imho, every sexual act is fine as long as it is between consenting adults. 1. Sexual acts have to be consensual so rapes are totally out of the question. 2 Sexual acts should be among adults. So paedophilia is not acceptable in my books. But I digress.

 

I never kiss and tell but I can tell you these:

 

1. Before you fist someone, ensure that your fingernails are short and clean for obvious reasons.

2. Do not do drugs before getting fisted. Drugs can numb the pain. And pain is the body telling you that something is wrong.

3. Ensure you have no cuts or nicks on your hand, for obvious reasons.

4. It is advisable that you slip on a SURGICAL GLOVE (a condom? Really?). HIV and Hepatits C can be spread by unprotected fisting.

5. Use lots and lots and lots of lube

Edited January 22, 2014 by PaterTenebrarum

[Guest Guest]

<<Don't Feed The Troll>>??

 

i will do only if its from handsome guys....handsome guys shit must be nicer than ugly guys right?

[watdehell]

when i hear the word "fisting", surely fainted already =)) 

[Guest Guest]

i still remenber tat a night when i was at shogun,is was already 1 plus minight,i went in to the dark room n lay down for a rest,about 10 mins later,i feel tat there a hand touching me,so i let it be,he start to suck me and his hand move to my hole and start to finger me,i finger and 1 finger slowly into my hole,later on his out on some lube to my hole ,n i was thinking tat he is going to fuck me,but no,he start to fist me,he do it very slowly,and 4 finger aleady in my hole,i have never try this before i think it nust be very painful,but no,he fist me very slowly n i never feel it very pain,i can tell u guys,i like the way he fist me very nice,this the first time i try get fist by someone,i cant tell u how the feeling was,but is really really great,i enjoy it very much,hope the next time i go shogun,someone can fist me again.   

[Guest Guest]

i really shocked, still so many people don't even know what is fisting and finger fuck?

really make my day.

[Guest Guest]

Anyone tried Legging ?

[cutejack]

hahahaha.dun know .u explain.hahaha

[Guest FeelinGroovy]

Painful and Disgusting. Period. 

[Guest fistme]

tried it long time ago with my own fist. lol   

[glowingember]

Think the reality of fisting would be too painful. 

But I watched some vids and it's pretty exciting to see the bottom's facial expression the moment the fist popped past the sphincter.

[allyremen]

Anyone tried Legging ?

If you meant what I think, I tried it before when I was in Sydney ... it was pretty weird to stick my feet into someone arsehole. However, the way he led up to it was very very sensual!

[reflog]

seems like a kinky thing to try. i can manage 5 fingers myself, but never the knucles. who is able to teach and help

[dickson]

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Edited August 8, 2023 by dickson

[junxiang]

I think such things u can only experience it yourself.

 

no words can be used correctly and effectively to discribe the real feeling other than first hand experience-the anxiousness, the anticipation, the fear, the shiokness.

 

haha, talk like as if I got first hand experience, no haven't try 

[Guest Guest]

only ang mo have such fetish

[yhtang]

Once, I played with someone who was into fisting.  I did not know him, we were in a sauna and he came on to me.  I did not know he was into fisting when we first met. 

 

He encouraged me to finger him, then asked more more fingers in his hole, and eventually, he wanted me to put my whole hand into his ass.  I think he enjoyed it; the experience was rather strange for me.  I did my best to stimulate him internally, rubbing my fngers over his prostate and all. 

 

He was very clean, and when I withdrew my hand, there were no fecal matter seen. 

 

Would I do it again?  Probably not.  It was interesting but I would rather have my fun in other ways.

[Guest Guest]

Once, I played with someone who was into fisting. I did not know him, we were in a sauna and he came on to me. I did not know he was into fisting when we first met.

He encouraged me to finger him, then asked more more fingers in his hole, and eventually, he wanted me to put my whole hand into his ass. I think he enjoyed it; the experience was rather strange for me. I did my best to stimulate him internally, rubbing my fngers over his prostate and all.

He was very clean, and when I withdrew my hand, there were no fecal matter seen.

Would I do it again? Probably not. It was interesting but I would rather have my fun in other ways.

Do you keep smelling your hand for the next few days?

[upshot]

Okay might be a bit more information then some would like or indulge me. If you are careful and know how to clean your anal cavity well enough as any competent experience btm would, you would not even smell or see anything shitty.

 

For fisting or larger dildo play, it would mean you have to do a more extensive enema to flush way deeper up the anal tract. The advantage of a deep enema cleansing would mean you get to have anal sex for far long hours and no small or sigh of doodoo which is how I prefer it when out on my nude bike ride and want to have some sexual fun. At least for me anyway. I have dabble in fisting twice with the same guy (effeminate with slightly smaller hands). For sure larger hand would not be my game anytime soon and like big anal toy, you have to enjoy the sensation of inserting something larger then your usual penis and way longer and flexible.

 

After doing so will your ass be loose? Well.. I am still told i am tight. You'll be amaze how "rubbery" your anal ring muscle can be. After such play over a period of days your anal sphincter will get back to its normal size again. You progressively enlarge your ass by starting with finger(s) and work your way to larger objects and lots of lube as you slowly learn to relax to allow for wider dilation till you can get the hand in. It takes time and I did not do it the first night out. It took me a few session to take larger items before I tried it. To make a ball fist inside me.. I have not done that as he felt my inner tract was too tight around his hand in it's straighten state. He used glove to ensure it was more slippery then skin for the ass play. To some extend you have to like that little bit of pain and that stretch sensation to enjoy trying this. If you are too nervous and the partner is not good at doing this, i would not want to try that. This guy I did with years ago has done it before so I trust him. He let me fist him but I did not go beyond my hand inside him as I was a a little uncomfortable with getting deeper in him. He could not get me to self cum while he was inside me but he was able to do that just having me rub his prostate region which he verbally gave me direction. Do note, this kind of ass play like larger-then-penis-size toy is not for everyone as it is a totally different dimension of sex play from doing with a man. Both are very shoik in their own way and one will not replace the other by any means. For me anyway.

 

Well I can strike fisting from my bucket list heheh... it was interesting but not something I would like to do regularly and definitely not with someone newbie who has no idea about such stuff and just want to 'try".

[dickson]

Hi,have anyone fisted someone or get fisting by others? Pls... share to us

[iamziz]

Didn't you create a thread early this year with the same topic?

 

http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=47527

[IkuTube]

Didn't you create a thread early this year with the same topic?

 

http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=47527

 

Thanks for highlighting it iamziz.  Haha, it makes Mods' work easier to merge this post with the earlier thread.

[GachiMuchi]

hi guys,just wana know have you guys ever try fisting ?how the feeling?

Once you let a top knows that you can be fisted:

 

1. He would think that, if your ass can accept his fist, his cock would certainly be stirring in your ass.

2. Unless he is into kinks, then he may contact you again, if not, Next bottom.

3. Most top prefers tight asses. If you are not going to keep it tight, then, sorry lor, next bottom.

4. Some things are better not tried unless you found someone whom is as kinky as you or whom are willing to explore.

5. If your top suddenly stop contacting you, refer to 1, 2 & 3.

 

Just my 2 cents.

[hairy springroll]

Really salute to those who dare to fist

Butt hole so poor thing

[Dorkable]

Not sure which can be more painful, double penetration or fisting. Whichever it is, never dared to try and don't plan to destroy my boyhole.

[G_M]

2 hours ago, Ian 3 said:

hi to all,

Btm there any keen to meet up for fisiting session?? U must able to host

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[Guest Jim]

This is interesting. Maybe i could try this but would think more about it. Would it be too painful?

[upshot]

On 10/07/2014 at 9:17 AM, Dorkable said:

Not sure which can be more painful, double penetration or fisting. Whichever it is, never dared to try and don't plan to destroy my boyhole.

Double penetration is more mental then it is really something hard to do. How often have you been fucked by someone with a so called hard cock that you can still with your two fingers pressure down on the  cock shaft and it flatten a little if not quite a lot but you can still get it inside a hole. Now imagine a slippery hole with two of such cocks inside you, you might think you are getting tow cocks inside you but as it gets inside your ass and the tightness of your hole will squeeze down on it thus mashing two cocks into one and a half maybe of circumference. It is not that hard.

 

And when you are using two Asian average cock size, that is nothing to be honest. You really want to try two objects inside you, use two dildo which does NOT flex, bend and soft to pressure pressing. Now that will really stretch you good and proper.

 

And also, being fisted DOES NOT MEAN your hole is totally damaged. You just have a hole that is more readily able to open wider but when you don't fuck and over a few days your hole will tighten. The way people here and so older established guys here SHOULD know better then to propagate that silly old beliefs of wide open loose ass that will leak shit and have a cock stirring in the hole.

 

And have heard people told me that. First I look at him to see if his cock was big and long to begin with or just or smaller then average and they want to complain of loose ass?

 

Let's put somethings in their proper perspectives guys. Have a look at the size of your shit coming out.. How many cocks have you including your own is even that big coming in or out of your asshole? If that can come out of you, you think you really are that tight and any cock smaller then that shit you can not really take? If you can, does that make you loose asshole?

 

Yes fisting 'often' means your asshole will not have enough time to return to it's normal contracted opening. Notice I say contracted. Your hole is quite large meaning to can open to quite a diameter naturally. But it is held tightly in place by muscle group contraction that naturally will tighten. Usually it snap back easy if within the limit of your shit size. But if it is expanded wider, it will take a day or more. And to reach fisting stage you have to have  been slowly inserting smaller objects into you for a long wide and build yourself to take larger items. THIS IS NOT AN OVER NIGHT THING YOU CAN DO.

 

And YES, those who have anal sex will have that muscle a little loose then one who does not have anal sex and for those into dildo, it a bit more loosen still and for those who fist, it depend on how often they do it like every few days or a weekly thing then it will be loosen more but that does not mean shit keep coming out of it with no control. Wlll it get even larger for bigger insertion like double fisted or whatever? yest if you are into coke 2 litre bottle insertion..etc. those will get your ass to stretch really wide over time, you still need to first use small object and go larger and larger that night before you can get it to take a coke bottle for example. Your asshole need to slowly work its size up but yes this extreme will properly mean wearing diapers. Those are extreme people into very special taste of kinky fun.

 

And for people who are into fisting and large toys like that.... they are already into some other sexual fun and your cock matters little to them. Don;t have to say you will not fuck someone like that. They also will not want you for your cock. They don't need your pity or your willingness to have sex with them. If we are going to discuss this here. Let's have more factual information then drum up stories or comments that choose to belittle this acts please. Not doing fisting does not make you high class or better person. Stop your prejudices, To each their own and know the consequences for all your action. 

 

Just let me put this out there for balance.

[Guest Lester]

I've been practicing by putting larger objects in my ass cause my dream one day is to get fisted. However, the largest object that i put in my ass with just the right pleasure was a 12x5 eggplant. Larger than that is painful. How can i put in bigger than that?

[Guest]

23 hours ago, Guest Lester said:

I've been practicing by putting larger objects in my ass cause my dream one day is to get fisted. However, the largest object that i put in my ass with just the right pleasure was a 12x5 eggplant. Larger than that is painful. How can i put in bigger than that?

 

Wow. Try carrot too then other smooth long veges. Put some sauce also as lubricant. 

[upshot]

On 14/02/2016 at 1:52 AM, Guest Lester said:

I've been practicing by putting larger objects in my ass cause my dream one day is to get fisted. However, the largest object that i put in my ass with just the right pleasure was a 12x5 eggplant. Larger than that is painful. How can i put in bigger than that?

 

Okay long read but if you really want to know a bit of my story on this, here goes.

 

Brinjal as I call them or eggplant as you did, is an ideal choice. for one thing, it can bend a little better, and because you can buy selected ones which has curve to them and some part can get bigger at the end or less so, it makes for a 'fun' toy heheh.. I have buy a few of them from small diameter to very long ones for a really good penetrations beyond the second sphincter ring 7-8 inches further up your rectum. Can feel it as it enter the second entry inside ( with some practice to get that second sphincter muscle ring use to having something go inside as there is also a almost "right turn" channel as it get into your end portion of the colon.) Well that's for another story.

 

But what I am trying to say is that the brinjal is a great toy being so smooth that you don't need a condom or you need to shave down any rough bits that sticks out... I always try not to use carrot as it is very rough or at least abrasive and one should use a condom on it if not, very hard shoving in and out of your hole will tear or cause the rectum wall to be scrapped. This can cause bleed and tissue scarring over time. Even a cucumber is better then carrot for it's surface texture but because carrot is small and easy for beginners, many use it as cucumber look bigger then even your average size cocks and lets fact it that is why we want dildo and things like brinjal. It gets to places and girth no male can offer you if you are into this or have tried it. So brinjal are more suited then cucumber as it has some bend to it while a cucumber is too rigid....just like battery operated vibrating dildos.... For truly deep penetration sensation, you have to get those silcon flexing dildo that you can buy at length of 18inche or longer. It has to be flexible as it needs to bend at that crucial 90 degree loop at the second sphincter muscle ring area. As you pushing it into you, from your POV after it gets inside about 7-8 inches you feel it turn slightly to your left side and as you push thru, you can almost feel it if you are slim like me, the dildo moving up on your inside that you can see it push outward from your belly. like that Alien creature about to get it way out lol. I am sure we have many who are scare now thinking about it but there really is no pain one you learn how to do it correctly.

 

But if all you want is to hav something as long as 7-8 inches or less inside you without getting pass that second sphincter, that is fine too and some just like to stretch it out as W-I-D-E as they can manage it. For the person who feel pain and want to get bigger items into you, I am not sure how long you have been doing this but it can take a very long time to get to certain sizes larger then most large brinjal. I have had a brinjal or bitter gourd inside me with a circumference of about 7.5inches. If it is just a swollen part of the brinjal like at the head or back and the rest is just smaller like 4-5 inches it is a bit easier. It is when almost the whole length is that same girth, that will be a thrill ... but it will take some time and it can hurt but for some that is pain of the who idea, that pain does not feel like that kind you get and you quick want it stopped and pull out. That is the worst part of it and not for everyone.

 

The hard part about getting to that size I mentioned or beyond can take years. You don't do this just over night or over a few month. You have to introduce larger and larger objects into you progressively. For example, you can not like just finish your deep cleansing enema and then straight away take your largest dildo like say 5 inches in circumference and begin inserting into you. Your sphincter muscle ring is a naturally contracted muscle part that closes your asshole to keep shit in. To have it relax and open wide takes time and to condition it to open beyond it's natural state is something you have to condition the tissue to stretch and be willing to go bigger. BUT NOTE, as you get to certain sizes, there is no turning back to full strength retention when it is not fucked with something inside. Meaning, those going very large like coke bottle, some wear diaper for life or they have some problem retaining shit if they are trying not to go toilet when they should. Meaning, you can hold normal size and quantity of shit inside you once shit drop from the second sphincter muscle higher up inside you and it fill the normal length of your rectum tube. But once it is full and more shit comes thru to add more shit , the pressure builds up and that is when you feel that urgent-ness to shit. Yes? Well, you might have a bit of trouble if the shit is not too solid. Worst if you have watery shit, holding that back with your weaken sphincter will be a little hard.

 

Okay a lot more information then you need but i think you should know the wide and depth of the subject heheh no pun intended.

 

Now, to get bigger, you really do have to get use to some pain.. it is a dull sorta pain and some bleeding can happen as the tissue is stretched and also some light small blood capillaries are near the surface of your rectum skin wall. Thus I said be very careful with rough objects and even when you fuck hard and dry without lube, you can cause bleeding to happen from broken skin.

 

So okay, you go slow. That is why when I buy brinjal, I don't just buy the large "ending finale size toy for cumming" but I also buy the smaller ones that is like 3 inches in circumference. So you start with your finger(s) till you get to about 2-3 fingers depending on how long your fingers are as sometime those with short fingers you can get enough of it deep to make a difference. Take your time with this. Jerk yourself a little to get into the mood as you feel your asshole get open and feel the finger touching the rectum wall. Then you move to the next larger item which is the first smaller brinjal. Now you go go in and deep. The entire length of your rectum and feel it bottoming out at the inner sphincter ring about 7-8 inches inside, if you bought a long brinjal that is at least 10 inches or more. If you bought a short one that is 7inches  or shorter you might not reach the end of your rectum tube or you like the feeling or shoving the whole brinjal inside you and push it back out. That too can be really a fun sensation when it is not really shit that is pushed out heh. I like getting those shorter length but with deform large head on the end and slimmer on the rest of it. That way I can push in and push it out and feel the sphincter muscle struggle to hold back but at the same time trying to expand with the brinjal going in or out. I think the posters know that wonderful sensation only too well and maybe that is why he wants to go larger.

 

Poster must know going larger and larger is not the reason he needs to go bigger. It is because like DRUG ( heroine) once you get use to it, you want more to reach the same high. The "high' you feel is the stretching and dull sensation which is partly the pain. That part of your body does not have pain sensation like the same way you get a cut.. to some extent.  So as you need to use a larger and larger object to get that same sensation. It is not like with a bigger items, that sensation will be 100 times. No, you are just trying to catch that same feeling you got when you first started inserting bigger items into you. Over time, there is also the power of imagination of being able to put a large object into you that is also the simulation that help you get excited.

 

Hope you know what I mean. And to note, you are catching the dragon as a famous drug saying goes. For me I stop short of going too big. The watery shit and not being to hold it is a bit scary.  

 

What I am doing though I am thinking I can open up enough to put a average size hand inside me but I have not done it in a long long long time. I did it with a guy who have small hands. Smaller then my hand a little and it took some work to get it in and he had done it before. Making a fist while inside you is not advisable unless you are some expert and have done it a long time to widen your side. Most people don't or if they do, they already can get a fist all balled up to begin with and then shoved in. But yes, your rectum can get very larger object inside once it pass the harderst part which is the sphincter muscle ring that guard your ass hole at the opening. Anything you feel that is pain and that is holding you back is that sphincter muscle. So you have to condition it along side pushing your pain threshold a bit at a time. At times it is easy especially if you get yourself feeling so high and shiok then you have this urge to push the larger object in. Those mental images and stimulation you are doing with smaller objects will all propel you to rest more and that inturn will have your sphincter more 'cooperative' to open up.  Take deep breath and a slow push to get the object in. Take your time lah. If it bleed, stop for a while like half hour or if it scare you, stop and wash up with a few flush of water and do it another day. Most time it's the blood that scare you but you feel no pain but you see bleed come out alongside your body juice or even on the toy you put it you see blood on it. Trust me it will scare some people but it is okay. I have had that when I do this even now. Minor tearing will always happen but do be careful with what you shove it. I know of people who has a kinky fetish of shoving odd shape objects into the.

 

Sex is a mental game. Some of us are happy with just a guy sucking our cock till we cum. Some guy like to smell a  dirty underwear for that sour smell and get hard and cum...etc. I am not into that but for me I get off a lot harder on my sex toys and veggies. And some I even cook afterward. It's not for everyone but if you like getting fuck all night and will not go soft and you can command to have it anytime you feel like it. No male can ever be that talented at your beck and call. heh. I assure you I know of more bragging by male who say they can fuck me long time and are very big and then 2mins and it is over. Only a few rare guys I encountered can ( too few) but a toy never fail. ever. LOL

 

Just take care and take your time if you are new to this.

 

As for lube, you will be surprise to know I use very little lube the whole time. Your body if you do your enema proeply, after that it is producing it's own watery jelly-like clear thingy which will dry or come out of you with no smell, shit but will dry into a hard glue like that. But each time I insert something into me deep, it start to produce it and make my rectum very slippery and that is when I can get in a nice steady motion of fucking and really get it going in and out... so damn good.  Okay more insight into stuff then you want to know heh.

 

PS. Go to my tumblr to see how I get into my fun if you want to do anal toys. I don;t want to post photos here to scare anyone.

 

 

 

 

 

Edited February 15, 2016 by upshot

[Nicleo]

Hi I am very curious about fisting, any certain group that do fist at Singapore. 

[Mr lemon]

Tried fisting but can't pass my knuckle

[Nicleo]

How do u do that? anyone teaching u ? 

 

[Mr lemon]

Mainly self exploration, look up in the Internet.

start with something small and slowly increase the girth of the object. If you feeling pain then stop. 

[Mr lemon]

Probably You might need to get a larger dildo for training. Not those crazy size

[upshot]

It's actually very hard to self fist given how long your arm is to bend in such a way to make it easier to get your hand inside you. The angle of attack to push your hand in is made hard by the fact of how your hand to wrist is bend to get inside you and if you are not able to take something as big or slightly bigger then your hand's broadest part which are your roll of knuckles then you find it very hard to self fist. Those video you see who self fisting easily only once their hole is "warm up" to take larger items first.. so now that it is properly loosen will it be easier to self fist from that awkward angle. And also some of the I notice have long arms and slender built body thus for them to fist from front or back is easy too.

 

To get your ass condition to be able to stretch wider will take you years so don't think you can do this over night or over a few weekends.

 

[Guest]

I looked the video once, so gross it made me wanna puke.

[Mr lemon]

Since I can't pass my knuckle, I just use a bigger toy or cucumber/eggplant also can achieve pleasure.