ZackQ Posted June 21, 2024 Report Share Posted June 21, 2024 What’s your views? Quote Link to comment
phewphew Posted June 21, 2024 Report Share Posted June 21, 2024 Personally I would not do it and advise against it... I think there is a thread on falling for straight guys. This is just that but with more layers to it. It's likely they won't leave their wife/family for you either. (If they would leave, they probably won't be married? and if they are waiting for someone to come around, then what would stop them from leaving you too when 'someone better' comes) If you still like the idea, you probably have to enter the relationship knowing you would be at least "second"? Or at least have a different set of expectations? Or maybe have some expectation or boundary setting at the start? AutisticAdhdGay 1 Quote Link to comment
bigboyclubsg Posted June 21, 2024 Report Share Posted June 21, 2024 it sounds like it might border on inconvenient, especially since such relationships would be clandestine/secretive. Quote Link to comment
Guest DonsonKwa Posted June 21, 2024 Report Share Posted June 21, 2024 9 hours ago, phewphew said: Personally I would not do it and advise against it... I think there is a thread on falling for straight guys. This is just that but with more layers to it. It's likely they won't leave their wife/family for you either. (If they would leave, they probably won't be married? and if they are waiting for someone to come around, then what would stop them from leaving you too when 'someone better' comes) If you still like the idea, you probably have to enter the relationship knowing you would be at least "second"? Or at least have a different set of expectations? Or maybe have some expectation or boundary setting at the start? Fully agreed. not advisable and it is never good to breakup family. Best look for single Quote Link to comment
Ignatius93 Posted June 21, 2024 Report Share Posted June 21, 2024 I have a friend with suddenly 2 personality age 30 1 year younger then me n age 60 plus this my first time seeing people with 2 names in disguise so when I had sex with him I thought he is single but when he disguise another person he is married men so I m confused haha 😂 those who knows I m talking to whom need to shhs...... Quote Link to comment
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted June 22, 2024 Report Share Posted June 22, 2024 (edited) U r a selfish MF loser asshole! He already married n who knows have kids! How selfish r u! Singapore already low birth rate! I hope karma or karmic eat u up till eternity! U knew he is married n u choose to play that card! Then u have to accept any karma or karmic happen to u or your loved ones (family) u ask for it! Don't believe me? Haha just watch n see....u r worst then animal! Edited June 22, 2024 by MasterFitMalaySG4U Quote Link to comment
Malabird Posted June 22, 2024 Report Share Posted June 22, 2024 (edited) It’s a loss-loss connection. the outsider get hurt and the married man will hide after fun is over and promises evaporated. Leading to families breaking up and innocent family members hurt. go for singles ! Edited July 6, 2024 by Malabird Quote Link to comment
ZackQ Posted July 3, 2024 Author Report Share Posted July 3, 2024 Have you guys being approached by married man? Quote Link to comment
Kye Posted July 3, 2024 Report Share Posted July 3, 2024 being a kept boy b4... one have to accept that the other is married... and you are just being used as a second or spare tire for his sexual needs.. there is no true love... Quote Link to comment
Ignatius93 Posted July 5, 2024 Report Share Posted July 5, 2024 On 7/3/2024 at 6:39 PM, Kye said: being a kept boy b4... one have to accept that the other is married... and you are just being used as a second or spare tire for his sexual needs.. there is no true love... Can I be ur true love Quote Link to comment
EastSgDad Posted July 6, 2024 Report Share Posted July 6, 2024 On 6/21/2024 at 1:08 PM, phewphew said: Personally I would not do it and advise against it... I think there is a thread on falling for straight guys. This is just that but with more layers to it. It's likely they won't leave their wife/family for you either. (If they would leave, they probably won't be married? and if they are waiting for someone to come around, then what would stop them from leaving you too when 'someone better' comes) If you still like the idea, you probably have to enter the relationship knowing you would be at least "second"? Or at least have a different set of expectations? Or maybe have some expectation or boundary setting at the start? Totally agree! If you truly want straight (married) men, then it would be FWB/ Buddies. Quote Link to comment
JR45 Posted September 21, 2024 Report Share Posted September 21, 2024 (edited) . Edited September 23, 2024 by JR45 Quote Link to comment
cbm Posted September 21, 2024 Report Share Posted September 21, 2024 It's not a real relationship. You'll always be second. In the beginning, you may tell yourself that you are okay being a kept 'mistress'. You may even feel that you now understand why some people choose to be the third wheel. As time goes by, you get to know each other better, you'll start wanting more. But he cannot (will not) give you more. Then you realise he's been using you to satisfy his own desires only. I would tell you not to do it. But sometimes, people have to experience it first hand for themselves in order to finally realise that it was a bad idea after all. You might be able to have a long running arrangement as FWB/FB with a married guy if you make sure to put aside feelings/emotions. Once feelings/emotions get involved, it becomes very messy. pocoloco and m1ssjadeso 2 Quote Link to comment
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