Just turned 18, but don’t dare go sauna even tho curious

[Lololol8899]

Turned 18 couple of days ago but don’t dare go kb even tho curious

[ressac]

47 minutes ago, Lololol8899 said:

Turned 18 couple of days ago but don’t dare go kb even tho curious

can be super daunting, like first time gym goer.

 

Hopefully have some friends you can jio and go together on a wkday afternoon where its way quieter.

[abc_sg]

6 minutes ago, ressac said:

can be super daunting, like first time gym goer.

 

Hopefully have some friends you can jio and go together on a wkday afternoon where its way quieter.

Haha, those places for first time I'd rather go alone. Go with friends so paiseh eh 

[mate69]

56 minutes ago, abc_sg said:

Haha, those places for first time I'd rather go alone. Go with friends so paiseh eh 

 

Lol no need to be paiseh

All are there for the same thing and most importantly, go with no expectations

[abc_sg]

8 minutes ago, mate69 said:

 

Lol no need to be paiseh

All are there for the same thing and most importantly, go with no expectations

ya 😆. I meant if go first time then i won't go with my friends.

[FunLoving]

3 hours ago, Lololol8899 said:

Turned 18 couple of days ago but don’t dare go kb even tho curious

 

Curious but don't dare? 😅😅😅

 

Ok, I understand that feeling.. Anyway, just go with an open mind and explore by yourself..

You'll never know what you gonna get.

 

There are plenty of guys everywhere but most of them don't bite.

😅😅😅😅🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[Guest Understand]

3 hours ago, abc_sg said:

Haha, those places for first time I'd rather go alone. Go with friends so paiseh eh 

Go with friends can 壮胆。But you must act more 矜持 in front of friends cos they will observe you and report back to others right? Then they will have things to gossip about you 😆 

[Guest Gossipy]

17 hours ago, Guest Understand said:

Go with friends can 壮胆。But you must act more 矜持 in front of friends cos they will observe you and report back to others right? Then they will have things to gossip about you 😆 

I understand ...you are likely one of those pretentious guys I see in KB who are always gossiping like petty aunties ....what a sad life surrounded by friends who gossip

[singalion]

23 hours ago, Lololol8899 said:

Turned 18 couple of days ago but don’t dare go kb even tho curious

 

Take your time to explore.

 

It is better to have first hand sex experience in a private setting instead of immediately jumping into a gay sauna.

 

 

[Guest Understand]

4 hours ago, Guest Gossipy said:

I understand ...you are likely one of those pretentious guys I see in KB who are always gossiping like petty aunties ....what a sad life surrounded by friends who gossip

There are people like that everywhere. Keybox sometimes has those annoying gossipy groups you mentioned, but it has mostly a nice and respectful crowd.

 

I am not one of those kaypo aunties. Lol.

 

I don't go there to spread gossips about who is top/bottom/versatile/side, easy/hard to get, loud moaner/screamer/muffled virgin mary, skillful/dead fish, or who has bad breathe/poor hygiene/got wash/never wash/clean cock/smelly cock/cheesy cock/douched properly/non-doucher in bed. 😂🤣😹 

[Guest Oop]

On 8/9/2024 at 5:32 PM, Guest 69fun said:

Be careful guys. I was at KB a 1.5mths back. After that, I developed this unexplainable rash around my groin and migrated to my back. There're like tiny red bumps that were incredibly itchy and despite trying a myriad of creams and even antiseptic cream, the rash persisted. It took almost a month for it to subside and now completely gone. Wtf someone from there gave me that.

It was probably mpox. It takes about a month to go away and it does so by it self. 

[Guest Gossip]

19 hours ago, Guest Understand said:

There are people like that everywhere. Keybox sometimes has those annoying gossipy groups you mentioned, but it has mostly a nice and respectful crowd.

 

I am not one of those kaypo aunties. Lol.

 

I don't go there to spread gossips about who is top/bottom/versatile/side, easy/hard to get, loud moaner/screamer/muffled virgin mary, skillful/dead fish, or who has bad breathe/poor hygiene/got wash/never wash/clean cock/smelly cock/cheesy cock/douched properly/non-doucher in bed. 😂🤣😹 

Why cannot, some people are legitimately bad in bed. Like some tops, they like a jack hammer, just go in and drill but no sensing, just subject the poor bottom to pain and no pleasure. Some people the mouth smellier than a asshole, make out with them like eating 臭豆腐. The bacteria count so high, go out and use Listerine ffs.

[Guest Gossip girl]

17 minutes ago, Guest Gossip said:

Why cannot, some people are legitimately bad in bed. Like some tops, they like a jack hammer, just go in and drill but no sensing, just subject the poor bottom to pain and no pleasure. Some people the mouth smellier than a asshole, make out with them like eating 臭豆腐. The bacteria count so high, go out and use Listerine ffs.

 

Then will you go around spreading gossips about cock size/shape/color and asshole color/size/tight or loose/elasticity/hair amount, etc.?

 

Welcome to the gayborhood! 🤣 

 

[Guest Too early]

On 8/13/2024 at 2:51 PM, Lololol8899 said:

Turned 18 couple of days ago but don’t dare go kb even tho curious

Don't go until you are well polished, sufficiently exposed to society's ilks and then you can consider exploring sauna just to feel the vibe before diving in.  Don't want you to get sex diseases at young age and then entire life became zomby.  I know, sounds scary.

[Guest Guest]

Why not just go there and be a watcher for a first timer. Just see see look look and have no expectation. But of cos if really managed to find someone you like to have fun then its a bonus

[Naveyafluz]

There is always first time for everything. Since you are curious, just try to go and explore, but don't put any expectations and most importantl, be safe. I also don't recommend go with friends though, usually end up chatting more than exploring. 

Edited August 15 by Naveyafluz

[HendryTan]

Suggestion for Sauna to help NEW CUSTOMERS.

Organise a newbie Orientation Night on low traffic night. Perhaps once a month.

There can be a ORIENTATION OFFICER who will conduct a tour of the premise and offer safe practices too.

 

 

 

 

[Lololol8899]

1 hour ago, Guest Too early said:

Don't go until you are well polished, sufficiently exposed to society's ilks and then you can consider exploring sauna just to feel the vibe before diving in.  Don't want you to get sex diseases at young age and then entire life became zomby.  I know, sounds scary.

Oh I’m no vgin haha, been in this society since I reached LSA

[Lololol8899]

5 minutes ago, HendryTan said:

Suggestion for Sauna to help NEW CUSTOMERS.

Organise a newbie Orientation Night on low traffic night. Perhaps once a month.

There can be a ORIENTATION OFFICER who will conduct a tour of the premise and offer safe practices too.

 

 

 

 

Alamak that will be kinda awkward HAHAHAH

[singalion]

2 hours ago, HendryTan said:

Suggestion for Sauna to help NEW CUSTOMERS.

Organise a newbie Orientation Night on low traffic night. Perhaps once a month.

There can be a ORIENTATION OFFICER who will conduct a tour of the premise and offer safe practices too.

 

 

I would already apply for the job as Orientation Officer... 🤣

 

But I assume the crowd size would be too low for newbies, compare it with the other themes at saunas...

How many newbies would be there every month.

 

How would the usual patrons feels if there is a sort of tour guide running through the place...

 

I personally understand some shyness in visiting a gay sauna for the 18 to 23y old age group,

but once you gained some experience in gay sex, not sure why people remain shy to visit one.

 

What is the cause: Gay saunas are just a place at which gays frequent to have sex.

I am sure there are plenty of visitors to a gay sauna who never entered the dark places and just look out for a sex partner in the more illuminated areas.

 

That's the same as more or less walking around a shopping mall and having eye contact to another gay and meeting him in a private place.

 

For first timers just walk through those more illuminated parts of the sauna and visit the darker areas in future visits when you got the feeling what the sauna is like.

 

More relevant in my view is that these youngsters have learned to reject approaches and how to give sufficient signal to others what they don't want.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest Tsk]

4 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Why not just go there and be a watcher for a first timer. Just see see look look and have no expectation. But of cos if really managed to find someone you like to have fun then its a bonus

You want to put a child in candy store and expect him not to touch anything even when offered a sweet or two??

[Guest guest today]

those below 21 and first timers better bring your parents along/or guardian 

[Lololol8899]

On 8/15/2024 at 8:11 PM, Guest guest today said:

those below 21 and first timers better bring your parents along/or guardian 

NAURRRRR

[Guest 犯贱冰冰]

On 8/15/2024 at 8:11 PM, Guest guest today said:

those below 21 and first timers better bring your parents along/or guardian 

 

LOL

[Guest Pretentious? Go Lah!!!]

For newbies, best is to visit during quiet hour, on weekday, immediately when the sauna opened.  It will be extremely quiet and the staff will switch on all the lights to take stocks of the place.  Take the non-peak hour ride to explore the place. If the staff asked you why so early (which I doubt they do), just explain to them you are virgin to Sauna and let them filled you with answers you needed.  

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

Good for u, go with someone...dont go alone...no need to tell anyone u r virgin. Explore see....u have the right to say NO to anyone! 

[Guest Seen]

Must be the mama or papa precious boy.  You need to roll out red carpet for them to enter the sauna, and the staff must line up in row to welcome their very "important" customer.  This type of high up attitude behaviour is not uncommon and not very attractive in the gay circule. 

[Guest Why ah]

On 8/23/2024 at 10:00 AM, Guest Pretentious? Go Lah!!! said:

For newbies, best is to visit during quiet hour, on weekday, immediately when the sauna opened.  It will be extremely quiet and the staff will switch on all the lights to take stocks of the place.  Take the non-peak hour ride to explore the place. If the staff asked you why so early (which I doubt they do), just explain to them you are virgin to Sauna and let them filled you with answers you needed.  

 

Erm but the point of going sauna is to see the meat there. Not the empty layout. Lol

[Steve5380]

On 8/13/2024 at 1:51 AM, Lololol8899 said:

Turned 18 couple of days ago but don’t dare go kb even tho curious

 

Well, then don't go.  Wait until you are a bit more mature and daring.   What's the hurry?  At 18  you have nearly an eternity before becoming too old, or too ugly, or having male menopause.  If you go too early you run the risk of starting on the wrong foot  (  wrong cock, ass, etc.) and be fooled by the more expert exploiters.  

[egal]

so how was it, 8899

[greg01greg]

On 8/31/2024 at 5:35 AM, Steve5380 said:

 

Well, then don't go.  Wait until you are a bit more mature and daring.   What's the hurry?  At 18  you have nearly an eternity before becoming too old, or too ugly, or having male menopause.  If you go too early you run the risk of starting on the wrong foot  (  wrong cock, ass, etc.) and be fooled by the more expert exploiters.  

Very much agree with this. For starters, stop the theatrics - you’re 18 - you have a long road ahead of you. Instead of sauna - get out there and get to know ppl. Make friends. 
 

[Sweetie Pie]

36 minutes ago, greg01greg said:

Very much agree with this. For starters, stop the theatrics - you’re 18 - you have a long road ahead of you.

A friend of mine started at 40.  Yes, fucking 40!!!!!

 

I asked him why so late.  He said "BUSY WITH WORK", and "SHY".

i asked him then, why now?  He said "RETRENCHED",  plenty of time,  driven by "CURIOUSITY!

 

He asked if I know anything about Sauna.  I told me "NO", "NEVER" "NOT MY CUP OF TEA"..   i know  I actually lied,  because......

I like him.

 

[auscent]

You do what you need to do.

[smallboix]

Go with friends! And stay safe please! 😊

[CleanFunNeed]

Suggest don't go to stay safe and clean. High risk places with even foreigners (from China, India, Bangala etc) Some people went such place and got sex fun by even multiple RANDOM STRANGER person but don't even see or know the players.

 

I also never go such places before. Curb your curiosity. Horny just DIY or find suitable people for simple or light fun.

Edited December 1 by CleanFunNeed

[mate69]

Men will be men hehehe

[murano]

boy ah 

 

suggest you go onsen first - yuno or joya (cheaper but further)

 

have a look

 

soak a bit

 

get comfortable with being naked in the open

 

feel the vibes

 

less daunting + safer

[Johan]

35 minutes ago, murano said:

boy ah 

 

suggest you go onsen first - yuno or joya (cheaper but further)

 

have a look

 

soak a bit

 

get comfortable with being naked in the open

 

feel the vibes

 

less daunting + safer

Good advice! Agree. 

[singalion]

21 hours ago, CleanFunNeed said:

Suggest don't go to stay safe and clean. High risk places with even foreigners (from China, India, Bangala etc) Some people went such place and got sex fun by even multiple RANDOM STRANGER person but don't even see or know the players.

 

I also never go such places before. Curb your curiosity. Horny just DIY or find suitable people for simple or light fun.

 

Why should only foreigners be High risk???

 

The workers from the country you mention need to go testing every year or some twice a year. How about locals?

 

As if Singaporeans don't engage in "high risk fun".

 

This approach of thinking that any risks just come or in particular come from foreigners seems a bit unrealistic and sort of xenophobe.

 

If your intention had been to point to the usual  risks of casual sex with strangers in saunas, then there was no need to mention any foreigners in particular.

 

 

[singalion]

On 8/13/2024 at 2:51 PM, Lololol8899 said:

Turned 18 couple of days ago but don’t dare go kb even tho curious

 

Not sure how much sexual experience you already have, but eventually explore first on a one to one basis to learn the basics of gay sex instead of being pulled into something you maybe didn't want at a sauna.

 

It is better to start lighter and learn how things work first. Sure, after some time you can do a threesome at your home or any other place just to see how it is.

 

Once you are ready and achieved some general knowledge on gay sex, you won't feel any fear in visiting a gay sauna, also probably by then have learned to reject or being aware of what you don't want in fun.

 

Being young most probably you will find any sex partners outside of saunas quite easily.

 

[Steve5380]

On 8/13/2024 at 1:51 AM, Lololol8899 said:

Turned 18 couple of days ago but don’t dare go kb even tho curious

 

At 18, the minimum age to join the gay scene as an adult, you will be attracting practically everyone.  And practically everyone will be older in saunas.  Does this work to your advantage?  This depends.  If you like older gays and you have a character to be very selective,  then perhaps yes.  If you prefer younger gays, you are out of luck.

 

For circumstances in my life I hardly had any gay sex before I was in my late 20s, and I married a woman in my 30s.  I didn't came out to the gay scene until I was nearly 50,  and then...  then I was lucky.  Because I was still attractive and had success with younger gays, which are the ones I like. 

 

Try to be moderate about sex and don't get burned out early.  Then you have a better chance to live a long, happy life.