Friends to FWB?

[memyselfandi]

After being single recently, decided to open up myself by joining friends to outing and activities. It was all good as it has been a while. Mahjong, Karaoke, Charity, Bowling, Cycling and to name a few. On the National Day weekend, I hosted a BBQ gathering at my place whereby it was with a few close friends. At the end of the BBQ, this best friend of mine offered help to clean up. Without thinking too much, I just let him to help as all the while he has been a friend who treated me very well. One of the reason will be we both can clicked well. After cleaning up the bbq pit and bringing up the stuff back to my unit, my friend said he want to cool down a bit b4 leaving. So, I just let him to help himself while I finished up the packing and head to shower. While I was having shower, he came in n joined and the rest of the story (u guys she know). I had my room door closed while showering and this is not the 1st time. We had been very good friends for few years and he is the one who treated me very good. On the next morning, we woke up and had breakfast mentioning whatever happened stays during that time. It has been a month now and we both react as usual. At times, I felt like we were kinda like sexting. Anyone here has the same encounter and how you react?

[cbm]

If he's already your best friend, and now doing adult fun together, I think this is not FWB. This is boyfriend already. Now go kiss each other.

[Naveyafluz]

Feel like its a relationship than friendship to me

[doncoin]

You are in a grey zone where you have no certainty about the status or nature of your relationship with him. You both need to have the conversation and decide what it is. If you intend to formalize it into something more, then state your intentions, and see how he respond. You need clarity.

[funky beaver]

You can enjoy this type of relationship for a while, cherish the moment. But do know one day you need to have that conversation to make things clear.

[GachiMuchi]

  

6 hours ago, memyselfandi said:

After being single recently, decided to open up myself by joining friends to outing and activities. It was all good as it has been a while. Mahjong, Karaoke, Charity, Bowling, Cycling and to name a few. On the National Day weekend, I hosted a BBQ gathering at my place whereby it was with a few close friends. At the end of the BBQ, this best friend of mine offered help to clean up. Without thinking too much, I just let him to help as all the while he has been a friend who treated me very well. One of the reason will be we both can clicked well. After cleaning up the bbq pit and bringing up the stuff back to my unit, my friend said he want to cool down a bit b4 leaving. So, I just let him to help himself while I finished up the packing and head to shower. While I was having shower, he came in n joined and the rest of the story (u guys she know). I had my room door closed while showering and this is not the 1st time. We had been very good friends for few years and he is the one who treated me very good. On the next morning, we woke up and had breakfast mentioning whatever happened stays during that time. It has been a month now and we both react as usual. At times, I felt like we were kinda like sexting. Anyone here has the same encounter and how you react?

 

I felt that your good friend had been interested in you for a long time, being nice to you and "Clicked" with you. The reason he did not made his move was because you were attached. Now that you are single, he made his move.  

I felt that you had some liking for him, if not, you would had chased him out of the shower and not had sex with him.

You need to ask yourself, if he is someone you would want to develop a relationship with?

If you guys are sexting, then why not just let things run and who knows, you guys might be a good fit together.

 

What have you got to lose? I mean, then again, if you guys can't get along together, you might lose this friend.

 

 

Edited September 10, 2024 by GachiMuchi

[egal]

u know u want to