worriedsickpleasehelp Posted October 7, 2024 Report Share Posted October 7, 2024 First timer (on this forum and) in sauna, please be kind! Didn't know what to expect, and I got a BJ from someone without putting on the condom... It lasted for a few minutes, after which I went to shower off. Man came back again and blew me in the shower for a few seconds, kissed me while I JO. After everything, I washed myself off. What are the chances of contracting a STD?? I'm really freaked out. Should I get tested in 3 weeks or something??? What do I do now? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted October 7, 2024 Report Share Posted October 7, 2024 Don't worry, chances of any infection tend to be quite low when it comes to oral sex, especially so since you're the receiver. Did you cum in his mouth? In the meantime, just monitor for any external symptoms that might or might not occur, and if they do, at the earliest time, go and consult a trusted doctor. All the best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worriedsickpleasehelp Posted October 7, 2024 Author Report Share Posted October 7, 2024 (edited) No, I didn't finish in his mouth. But we did have a really friggin sloppy kiss lol It was so dark I couldn't tell if he had sores or whatever Edited October 7, 2024 by worriedsickpleasehelp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axel-rod Posted October 7, 2024 Report Share Posted October 7, 2024 The risk for any serious infection for the receiver of the oral are low. But if you are worried about any infections, you shouldnt be playing in the sauna! There are some risks if you have any form of sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worriedsickpleasehelp Posted October 7, 2024 Author Report Share Posted October 7, 2024 Yeah, was totally stupid and clueless about this.. probably won't go there anymore cos i don't think i can handle the risks lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axel-rod Posted October 7, 2024 Report Share Posted October 7, 2024 No what you cannot handle is your fear of risks! There is considerable risk in anything we do. Anyway its your choice to decide how much risk you want to take. worriedsickpleasehelp and And then 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yhtang Posted October 7, 2024 Report Share Posted October 7, 2024 2 minutes ago, worriedsickpleasehelp said: Yeah, was totally stupid and clueless about this.. probably won't go there anymore cos i don't think i can handle the risks lol I suppose if you look at it from a different angle, there is risk in crossing the road or while driving a car too. I am not underplaying your worries or concerns, but that is an inherent risk of playing with strangers while unprotected - be it in a sauna or whatever environment. If you feel you are unable to handle the risk, then perhaps not having sex with strangers would be the solution. I have been there, I have caught urinary tract infection from a blowjob (luckily not gonorrhea of syphilis or some other STD) and I had been a good boy for a period after that. However, I was a healthy and horny young man then, so in the end, I resumed visiting saunas, but played safe. Back to you, please keep an eye out on your health, and if you feel a burning sensation when you pee, you should definitely go see a doctor and get things sorted out quickly. worriedsickpleasehelp 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naveyafluz Posted October 7, 2024 Report Share Posted October 7, 2024 If you chose to be unprotected, this will be the risk you need to take. I believe the risk is low unless there are open wounds in his mouth and your penis. If you are worried, any symptoms just consult the doctor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aedirn Posted October 7, 2024 Report Share Posted October 7, 2024 (edited) yeah you don't need to be too paranoid yet, just monitor if you get flu o burning sensation or itch. as many have already said, oral receiver risk is low. But it sounded like this is your first time having sex with strangers, or maybe at all?? When one is horny, most can't really think straight (pun intended). Edited October 7, 2024 by aedirn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted October 8, 2024 Report Share Posted October 8, 2024 Aiyah,everything is already written when u r send to the world..not say after u played in sauna, GOD is gonna use blanco n change yr fate to getting std. Not that way. If u fated to get it, u stay n sleep at home also can get it coz it is oredi written la. Just be careful when u play but oral with condom is useless. As well don't do oral just anal with condom even better. But I ever came across some guys smooch n French kiss in the steam room as though they knew each other for decades or like partners. Muuuchmicchh like bird chirping like that in the steam room. Scary sia. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted October 8, 2024 Report Share Posted October 8, 2024 23 minutes ago, cutejack said: Aiyah,everything is already written when u r send to the world..not say after u played in sauna, GOD is gonna use blanco n change yr fate to getting std. Not that way. If u fated to get it, u stay n sleep at home also can get it coz it is oredi written la. Just be careful when u play but oral with condom is useless. As well don't do oral just anal with condom even better. But I ever came across some guys smooch n French kiss in the steam room as though they knew each other for decades or like partners. Muuuchmicchh like bird chirping like that in the steam room. Scary sia. Lol ikr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgbidaddy Posted October 10, 2024 Report Share Posted October 10, 2024 Read up how herpes is spread. These are the risks. And around half of the world has it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted October 10, 2024 Report Share Posted October 10, 2024 On 10/7/2024 at 9:45 PM, worriedsickpleasehelp said: Yeah, was totally stupid and clueless about this.. probably won't go there anymore cos i don't think i can handle the risks lol Alamak, why ban yourself ? You can wear a condom while being sucked. You can also kiss the neck, cheek, nipples or even armpits, which is risk free, instead of the mouth. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worriedsickpleasehelp Posted October 10, 2024 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2024 On 10/7/2024 at 11:14 PM, aedirn said: yeah you don't need to be too paranoid yet, just monitor if you get flu o burning sensation or itch. as many have already said, oral receiver risk is low. But it sounded like this is your first time having sex with strangers, or maybe at all?? When one is horny, most can't really think straight (pun intended). first time with absolute strangers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worriedsickpleasehelp Posted October 10, 2024 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2024 2 hours ago, sgbidaddy said: Read up how herpes is spread. These are the risks. And around half of the world has it... that's the thing im super worried about too.. like, im trying to read up on incubation periods and window periods every where, but i don't exactly know what is the correct timeframe for herpes or the other STDs too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worriedsickpleasehelp Posted October 10, 2024 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2024 2 hours ago, LeanMature said: Alamak, why ban yourself ? You can wear a condom while being sucked. You can also kiss the neck, cheek, nipples or even armpits, which is risk free, instead of the mouth. lol i know, im just super paranoid about all this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worriedsickpleasehelp Posted October 10, 2024 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2024 plus im super worried about the fact that im uncircumcised, and am i at a higher risk of catching an STD the guy gave such sloppy wet kiss, and was a bit too willing to go down on me... at one point he want to bang me without a condom, but i pushed him off i worry that he's the type that wants to go around infecting others ARGH MY PARANOIA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aedirn Posted October 10, 2024 Report Share Posted October 10, 2024 3 hours ago, worriedsickpleasehelp said: lol i know, im just super paranoid about all this how old are you by the way? i think most incubation is a few weeks to 3months. You can choose to go for checkup if you are really paranoid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yhtang Posted October 10, 2024 Report Share Posted October 10, 2024 5 hours ago, worriedsickpleasehelp said: plus im super worried about the fact that im uncircumcised, and am i at a higher risk of catching an STD the guy gave such sloppy wet kiss, and was a bit too willing to go down on me... at one point he want to bang me without a condom, but i pushed him off i worry that he's the type that wants to go around infecting others ARGH MY PARANOIA I do not mean to be rude, but intimacy between two persons does not have to be penetrative. In your present state of paranoia, perhaps the best way around it would be to find someone who understands your fears and worries, and is willing to just cuddle and perhaps engage in mutual masturbation. That could be a possible compromise. After that, maybe you two could proceed to lick and suck each other's nipples, etc., and progress from there. And then 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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