中年馬 Posted October 8, 2024 Report Share Posted October 8, 2024 (edited) Edited October 27, 2024 by 中年馬 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lohwpr Posted October 8, 2024 Report Share Posted October 8, 2024 Gay But Married With Wife and Daughter: Living A Double Life Knowing that you are gay and yet you choose to marry and have a daughter as a result, do you agree with his decision? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aladdin Posted October 8, 2024 Report Share Posted October 8, 2024 He is a bit confused....he is bi - not gay.....gays are misogynistic! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Steve5380 Posted October 8, 2024 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 8, 2024 I agree with the decision of this man. I understand him, and I did the same as he did. Due to life circumstances I had practically no sex until I became an adult. I recognized my attraction to men at the usual time, but recognizing that this was condemned, I never acted on it. As an adult, I had a few ONS encounters with gays, and I didn't think much bad about them. I also had encounters with women, which I didn't enjoy. Then in my 30s I was befriended and seduced by a beautiful girl, who ultimately became my wife. The reason I went this route is that, the same as the guy in the video, I assumed that with practice I would become sexually attracted to women too. There was a little of this, and so my son was born. I recognize the sexuality that destiny has provided me. But I don't find any EVIL in it. I didn't use it with dishonesty. I lived my married life for 13 years without incidents, and we separated for other reasons than sexuality. i feel that given the circumstances I acted correctly, and I am extremely happy today that I have a son and four grandchildren ( so far... but 4 is enough... ). This is my difference with the gay man in the video, who felt so much guilt for being what he is. thickpec, JOMen, blowmenow and 2 others 3 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetie Pie Posted October 9, 2024 Report Share Posted October 9, 2024 18 hours ago, Steve5380 said: Then in my 30s I was befriended and seduced by a beautiful girl, who ultimately became my wife. I lived my married life for 13 years Did your ex wife remarried and find a genuine straight man? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted October 9, 2024 Report Share Posted October 9, 2024 4 hours ago, Sweetie Pie said: Did your ex wife remarried and find a genuine straight man? Yes, my ex remarried. I don't know how genuine straight her new husband is, they didn't have any children. But he is a good husband. And I had a genuinely gay boyfriend. MikeC, JOMen and penislife 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rocky1234 Posted October 27, 2024 Report Share Posted October 27, 2024 (edited) Im bi and happily married for 35 years. I only discovered my bi side when approaching 50. Live your life the best you can. Thats all we can do Edited October 27, 2024 by Rocky1234 yhtang and penislife 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kopi Gao Posted October 27, 2024 Report Share Posted October 27, 2024 22 minutes ago, Rocky1234 said: Im bi and happily married for 35 years. I only discovered my bi side when approaching 50. Live your life the best you can. Thats all we can do "Discovered"? .... some guy seduced you or some guy you really like came into your life when you were 48 - 49? 🙄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted October 28, 2024 Report Share Posted October 28, 2024 1 hour ago, Rocky1234 said: Im bi and happily married for 35 years. I only discovered my bi side when approaching 50. Live your life the best you can. Thats all we can do To "live a double life" is an ugly bashing expression that makes little sense here. Neither you nor I we live or have lived " a double life ". If we like healthy vegetable dishes and also big barbecues with plenty of red wine with chocolate cake... shouldn't this also be " a double life "? If we take this dumb expression seriously, then there is no soul on earth who does not have a "double" or "triple" or "N-times" life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rocky1234 Posted October 28, 2024 Report Share Posted October 28, 2024 1 hour ago, Kopi Gao said: "Discovered"? .... some guy seduced you or some guy you really like came into your life when you were 48 - 49? 🙄 Have been curious for a lobg time. Bare in mind that I matured during the 80s and being bi was taboo. It all started when I took a pee at a urinal next to a young guy 😆 penislife and max001 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted October 31, 2024 Report Share Posted October 31, 2024 I dont like sound of it, a bit negative. Everyone deserves right to be/ do things he like as long as it is consensual/ legal. Title should be "gay AND married....." Steve5380 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted October 31, 2024 Report Share Posted October 31, 2024 5 hours ago, auscent said: I dont like sound of it, a bit negative. Everyone deserves right to be/ do things he like as long as it is consensual/ legal. Title should be "gay AND married....." Agree. And it should not be " double life ", which has a connotation of falsity, deception, but " life with variety ", which can be positive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetie Pie Posted October 31, 2024 Report Share Posted October 31, 2024 In my gay adventure, I've met a few bisexual men. They aren't particularly exciting individuals to be around. They often give you philosophical advices, telling you not to cheat your partner (if any) and preached mother fucking hood into your ears. After that, we ended up being...dry, not having sex, and even refusing to strip or do anything else that would make you feel pleasurable nor sexy. I give them a big FAIL rating in my book. No offense to the BI, I speak from experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted October 31, 2024 Report Share Posted October 31, 2024 15 minutes ago, Sweetie Pie said: In my gay adventure, I've met a few bisexual men. They aren't particularly exciting individuals to be around. They often give you philosophical advices, telling you not to cheat your partner (if any) and preached mother fucking hood into your ears. After that, we ended up being...dry, not having sex, and even refusing to strip or do anything else that would make you feel pleasurable nor sexy. I give them a big FAIL rating in my book. No offense to the BI, I speak from experience. You should be more choosy in your gay adventures. I have some bisexuality, yet I would never tell you "not to cheat", nor preach "mother-fucking-hood" into your ears. If I find you attractive, I can have sex without saying a word, like I have had hundreds of times. So, please, don't bash bisexuality. It is as normal as anything else! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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