radical Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 I went to a place for a swim. As i entered the changing room, there was a person showering openly without closing the door. After i am done swimming, the person is still there showering openly. Is this called cruising? Is this a common sight? Have you all encountered this or more than this? How would you all have reacted? Just focus on what you need to do and leave after you are done? repulsivefudge 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kentazmania Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 haha i have been in your situation before. previously bedok swimming pool was like that they have this open concept shower. yes this is consider some sort of cruising yes this is a common site even in the army there isnt any door in the toilet there is nothing u can do as they prefer to shower in the open. if i not mistaken bedok reservior still has open concept shower if im not wrong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Curious one Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 2 hours ago, Kentazmania said: haha i have been in your situation before. previously bedok swimming pool was like that they have this open concept shower. yes this is consider some sort of cruising yes this is a common site even in the army there isnt any door in the toilet there is nothing u can do as they prefer to shower in the open. if i not mistaken bedok reservior still has open concept shower if im not wrong Open concept is a rare sight now. I see most people in swimming pools prefer to close the doors during shower. Shy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeMarko Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 50 minutes ago, Curious one said: Open concept is a rare sight now. I see most people in swimming pools prefer to close the doors during shower. Shy? either they are really shy or they may get an instant boner if someone is staring at them during shower when door is open Curious one 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 (edited) 8 hours ago, radical said: Is this called cruising? Is this a common sight? Have you all encountered this or more than this? How would you all have reacted? Just focus on what you need to do and leave after you are done? It is less about cruising and more about dealing with someone with some form of OCD. Assuming you took a 1 hour swim, which means he has been soaping himself for over an hour, since he started before you entered the changing area, and was still there after you were done with your swim. There is not much you can do really as it is a mental issue and you can only hope that he seeks help to manage his impulses. 🤪 Edited October 10 by doncoin MikeC, Cube3 and iKneadyou 1 2 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 i suppose if u r interested in that person, u could play and do it like he did Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 That is not cruising haha doesn't mean he open the door showering he is gay or bi haha he can be just a normal guy who prefer that way...no issue but please the eyes to see...haha if he stroke while is showering that is inviting.... One of my hint is if he showering next door or few steps away, to know if he is interested showering again next door or if u daring stroke your HARD cock passing by his cubicle..or take your time change up on the bench hehe I love open shower coz people can see your hot boy foaming n touching that hard nipple n cock haha So don't assume if someone choose to open the door n shower he is straight married n have kids....there is no rulz in that haha Don't compare western gay reality exposure to our sunny island but u can edit that fantasies n make it reality on your own... Even better then u see in p*rn haha repulsivefudge and Curious one 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinkymale Posted October 11 Report Share Posted October 11 The door are open because he need to watch over his belongings on the branch loh. I shower open door for that reason. So don’t assume too much ya. CleanFunNeed, bluerunner and Quietboy 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iKneadyou Posted October 11 Report Share Posted October 11 23 hours ago, radical said: I went to a place for a swim. As i entered the changing room, there was a person showering openly without closing the door. After i am done swimming, the person is still there showering openly. Is this called cruising? Is this a common sight? Have you all encountered this or more than this? How would you all have reacted? Just focus on what you need to do and leave after you are done? Long ago, I met a guy who was clearly on drugs earlier in the day or the evening before. He was brushing his teeth for half hour. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 On 10/10/2024 at 2:56 PM, radical said: I went to a place for a swim. As i entered the changing room, there was a person showering openly without closing the door. After i am done swimming, the person is still there showering openly. Is this called cruising? Is this a common sight? Have you all encountered this or more than this? How would you all have reacted? Just focus on what you need to do and leave after you are done? Probably cannot say it was cruising directly. Most cruisers would look at you or look out whether you watch them and then play with their dick etc... If they stay at themselves not bothering about others, then surely they are not cruising and actually straight guys. There are straight guys who love to show off their toned body. Means be careful on any approach. Singapore ranks at one of the highest private water consumption places. Some guys tend to shower for hours. Not sure whether it is because of the low water prices or due to what reason people here tend to shower much longer than in other parts of the world. I had certain encounters with guys and some were occupied in the shower more than 30 - 45 mins (before and often even after fun). What nobody told them is that extensive showering and soaping (in particular with the not so skin friendly liquid soaps available here) they damage their outer skin layer. Best is, if you are keen in cruising or finding action to look at the guy in the swimming pool shower and see how he reacts. If he turns his front exposing his dick to you, then surely he is a cruiser. Otherwise, enjoy the view but keep to yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FattChoy Posted October 13 Report Share Posted October 13 Exhibitionist baiting ppl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted October 13 Report Share Posted October 13 Making a mountain out of a molehill. mate69, Steve5380 and Dirtyme 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyc Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 Is this even unusual? If you frequent the pool, you know all sort of things happen. No rules saying you only have few mins to shower or must close door. I had seen naked guy shaving, naked guy literally wash clothes on the floor with door open. And the most amusing someone pooping naked with door open at the wc cubicle. Live and let live. Don’t like just move on. They won’t come out and force you to look what. 🤭 Steve5380 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiser6969 Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 On 10/10/2024 at 7:26 PM, Kentazmania said: haha i have been in your situation before. previously bedok swimming pool was like that they have this open concept shower. yes this is consider some sort of cruising yes this is a common site even in the army there isnt any door in the toilet there is nothing u can do as they prefer to shower in the open. if i not mistaken bedok reservior still has open concept shower if im not wrong Hi, which pool in Bedok Reservoir is it? HomeTeam one ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repressednerd Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 Some of them enjoy jerking off and showing it in your direction while you ignore them. They get bored when you respond or look their way so just need to leave them alone. Encountered a bunch of times. mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 so did it happen only once Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetie Pie Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 When I shower and notice you are not my type and loitering around, I will make sure my doors are securely locked and all glory holes are properly patched with toilet papers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 On 10/10/2024 at 2:56 PM, radical said: I went to a place for a swim. As i entered the changing room, there was a person showering openly without closing the door. After i am done swimming, the person is still there showering openly. Is this called cruising? Is this a common sight? Have you all encountered this or more than this? How would you all have reacted? Just focus on what you need to do and leave after you are done? Call the security Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetie Pie Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 12 minutes ago, Balestier said: Call the security When did taking a shower at your own pace become a crime? At least not in Singapore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted December 15 Report Share Posted December 15 On 12/13/2024 at 7:27 PM, repressednerd said: Some of them enjoy jerking off and showing it in your direction while you ignore them. They get bored when you respond or look their way so just need to leave them alone. Encountered a bunch of times. Exactly this. This is quite true in my own experience bluerunner 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
repulsivefudge Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 On 10/10/2024 at 2:56 PM, radical said: I went to a place for a swim. As i entered the changing room, there was a person showering openly without closing the door. After i am done swimming, the person is still there showering openly. Is this called cruising? Is this a common sight? Have you all encountered this or more than this? How would you all have reacted? Just focus on what you need to do and leave after you are done? actually a while ago i got see before. the guy was undressing slowly and he went shower with door open. i just ignore, just use the toilet and leave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FattChoy Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 1) The guy was exhibiting. Exhibitionists love to be watched. If someone wants to exhibit, then I suggest you just stand in front and stare. If he doesn't like it he'll shut the door asap. 2) Most south Chinese including in South East Asian Chinese was brought up by their elders to hate and shame nudity. And we also have ppl here shaming others for nudity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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