What would you do if your regular buddy suddenly kept giving excuses whenever plan to meet ? Initially he would always want to meet, then recently he's been avoiding . Text also no reply even though the message been read ..

[friendlyfire13]

Is getting annoying as this goes by. I felt like wanting to just confront him. On my side, I don't really care if he's meeting someone else but what really matters is he doesn't have to lie. Should I just crash his party or not?

[Clboi]

Find a new buddy? 

[cbm]

I am okay when my buddy reads my messages but doesn't reply or takes awhile to reply. That's the inherent nature of this type of arrangement. It comes and goes. There should be no expectation about commitment. If this one doesn't respond anymore, move on and find another one.

 

If you are getting upset with your buddy not responding to your messages, it seems that you are emotionally involved. Oh dear. Please check your feelings. I am not sure what you mean by crashing his party, but maybe it may be better to move on quietly instead. Because you might be the one end up feeling crushed after crashing his party.

[jushiing]

3 hours ago, cbm said:

I am okay when my buddy reads my messages but doesn't reply or takes awhile to reply. That's the inherent nature of this type of arrangement. It comes and goes. There should be no expectation about commitment. If this one doesn't respond anymore, move on and find another one.

 

If you are getting upset with your buddy not responding to your messages, it seems that you are emotionally involved. Oh dear. Please check your feelings. I am not sure what you mean by crashing his party, but maybe it may be better to move on quietly instead. Because you might be the one end up feeling crushed after crashing his party.

 

Agreed, if you guys have a FWB kind of relationship or it's just casual regular NSA hookups, you seem too emotionally involved. If I were the other person I'd start distancing myself if I feel this kinda vibes from the other party.

[friendlyfire13]

Yeah..  guess i have to just silently remove myself in more complicated situations .thanks for the feedback 

 

 

[egal]

ghosting lite

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

For me Block him for life! His lost....i have others better standby. If bump or cross path fucking ignore..if he dare to approach fucking says hi he get it in public let the world see haha 

 

Dont depend on someone when comes to your wellness being....u yourself can do it on your own....fitness is about freedom to get sweaty! go wild with it like me

 

Remember, people come and go he is one loser or no balls or red flag or toxic buddy...

 

I just feel u deserved explanation if don't like to meet just say so..don't let someone hanging...

 

Nevertheless, remember 2 way street unless it is MUTUAL is different story. 

[Saggiboy]

Just let it be.

It's not like U both made any agreements.

The world and your life would be much better if U can just move on and not harbor any negative thots or intent.

[Clboi]

7 hours ago, Saggiboy said:

Just let it be.

It's not like U both made any agreements.

The world and your life would be much better if U can just move on and not harbor any negative thots or intent.

Nice bod

[Tim Lee]

Just move on .  No big deal . 

[quickflightout]

Time to move on... but, do you need a new regular buddy? 🤭

[wanton_mee]

you got ever do the same to others? 😁

[cckbtm]

I think op prolly needs a “closure” that’s why he’s asking