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11 hours ago, T Gunner said:

And best is no one reject your approach.. with people just want that moment of companionship. But importantly just need to play safe and learn to say no.

 

The only fear is seeing someone you know 😆 it will be that “FML” moment… 

Too bad I don't feel the same way as you do on this part, haha coz some literally just show it bluntly right on your face lol. I was just admiring the body physique, no touching but he keep making the tsk sound. 

 

Quite often I will roll my eyes too coz the good looking ones thinking Im going to grope or rape them whenever I walking pass them. I even put my hand behind my back to show I bare no I'll will lol.

 

Kinda annoying but can't blame them coz some people are really aggressive, I kept being pulled away. 

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11 hours ago, T Gunner said:

Not sure if using the right word… but I feel something magical when you stepped into KB… is like 2 different world comparing to your everyday life… 

 

A mixed of mystery and serenity, where you know everyone share a similar purpose.. a subtle connection between 2 complete strangers.. just by touching the fingertip first and eventually lead to gentle hugging and soft kissing… holding hands as we move to one quieter corner or to private room… and respecting each other preference of connection and boundaries.
 

And best is no one reject your approach.. with people just want that moment of companionship. But importantly just need to play safe and learn to say no.

 

The only fear is seeing someone you know 😆 it will be that “FML” moment… 

I thought only me feeling this lol. Still have butterflies whenever step foot into KB. 😅

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On 11/4/2024 at 8:29 AM, T Gunner said:

Not sure if using the right word… but I feel something magical when you stepped into KB… is like 2 different world comparing to your everyday life… 

 

A mixed of mystery and serenity, where you know everyone share a similar purpose.. a subtle connection between 2 complete strangers.. just by touching the fingertip first and eventually lead to gentle hugging and soft kissing… holding hands as we move to one quieter corner or to private room… and respecting each other preference of connection and boundaries.
 

And best is no one reject your approach.. with people just want that moment of companionship. But importantly just need to play safe and learn to say no.

 

The only fear is seeing someone you know 😆 it will be that “FML” moment… 

 

You feel something magical coming into a gay sauna...   It's so easy for gays in Singapore to visit gay saunas...  But no straight men have access to this kind of experiences.  Yes, they have worehouses and prostitutes but...  nothing like this easy and free exchange of sexuality!

 

More and more,  we gays have the reasons to feel that WE are the blessed ones! :thumb:

 

 

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On 11/5/2024 at 9:41 AM, cocopuff said:

 I was just admiring the body physique, no touching but he keep making the tsk sound.

 

You can always "Tsk" back.  He will stop with the understanding that you are not into him too.   If you still kept admiring his body physique, then you should not complain about his "Tsking", I would too if I was the guy and with eyes rolling into heaven to make a point.

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On 11/4/2024 at 10:29 PM, T Gunner said:

Not sure if using the right word… but I feel something magical when you stepped into KB… is like 2 different world comparing to your everyday life… 

 

A mixed of mystery and serenity, where you know everyone share a similar purpose.. a subtle connection between 2 complete strangers.. just by touching the fingertip first and eventually lead to gentle hugging and soft kissing… holding hands as we move to one quieter corner or to private room… and respecting each other preference of connection and boundaries.
 

And best is no one reject your approach.. with people just want that moment of companionship. But importantly just need to play safe and learn to say no.

 

The only fear is seeing someone you know 😆 it will be that “FML” moment… 

 

Probably it is related to the comfort of just being able to be who you are, namely gay.

In your everyday life, unless you don't mind to be open on your sexual orientation, you are more keeping your true self to yourself and don't act as you would want to.

 

Just a reminder that gay is not just sex.

For your future life you also need some good gay friends and a social life around your homosexual self (other than sex)...

 

 

 

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On 11/7/2024 at 4:36 PM, singalion said:

 

Probably it is related to the comfort of just being able to be who you are, namely gay.

In your everyday life, unless you don't mind to be open on your sexual orientation, you are more keeping your true self to yourself and don't act as you would want to.

 

Just a reminder that gay is not just sex.

For your future life you also need some good gay friends and a social life around your homosexual self (other than sex)...

 

 

 

We have many BW guests and virtual friends here to irritate each other 

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On 11/7/2024 at 2:36 AM, singalion said:

 

For your future life you also need some good gay friends and a social life around your homosexual self (other than sex)...

 

 

For your future life, you hopefully don't limit good friends and social life to just the  gay, gay, gay,.... gay.😄   Believe me,  there can be good life beyond the gay scene :) 

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29 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

For your future life, you hopefully don't limit good friends and social life to just the  gay, gay, gay,.... gay.😄   Believe me,  there can be good life beyond the gay scene :) 

To be sane, we need more straight friends. Gay circles are filled w dramas, jealousy and stabbings.

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10 hours ago, Sweetie Pie said:

 

Very true, but there is something important you miss out.   We need GAY-FRIENDLY straight friends. 

 

Straights who are truly masculine without insecurities are usually gay-friendly.  They have no reasons not to be.

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On 11/5/2024 at 9:35 PM, GachiMuchi said:

 

When the first Singapore sauna opened it's door back in 2000, but it was still surreal to finally see Singapore have it's very own sauna. Thanks to people like Max Lim who started SpartacusAnd the rest it's history.

 

 

I got to know Max Lim well by staying many times at his Queen Resort place.  I even saw him dressed, giving a show.  Too bad that he is gone! :(

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On 11/18/2024 at 10:21 AM, Steve5380 said:

 

For your future life, you hopefully don't limit good friends and social life to just the  gay, gay, gay,.... gay.😄   Believe me,  there can be good life beyond the gay scene :) 

Ya, somehow feel more comfortable hanging out with straight friends, especially with those I've came out with. But sometimes when in straight clubs and at the peak of it, I wish I could just take off my shirt and dance like in a gay club haha.

 

On 11/18/2024 at 10:51 AM, Balestier said:

To be sane, we need more straight friends. Gay circles are filled w dramas, jealousy and stabbings.

Ya, haha. It happens more often than not.

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19 minutes ago, abc_sg said:

Ya, somehow feel more comfortable hanging out with straight friends, especially with those I've came out with. But sometimes when in straight clubs and at the peak of it, I wish I could just take off my shirt and dance like in a gay club haha.

 

Ya, haha. It happens more often than not.

Frankly I don't think they would mind you removing your tops

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59 minutes ago, DonT said:

It is indeed an eye-opener for me when I first visited Shougun and the old Ten Men. 

Though it is fun to explore, but I find the lightings too dark to move around

Actually, not that dark if you are already familiar with the building layout. It is also good to be dark,  if you noticed someone familiar, you can easily take cover without being caught with your pants down.

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