egal Posted December 14, 2024 Report Share Posted December 14, 2024 if cost n time was no issue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JusteMoi Posted December 14, 2024 Report Share Posted December 14, 2024 There is no ideal … it’s all about chemistry … cost and time should not be the considerations for dating someone - it is not a transaction … it is sad to think that one does not even willing to invest time in a relationship. naked_boi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted December 15, 2024 Author Report Share Posted December 15, 2024 ideal means almost unachievable iKneadyou 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimwithme Posted January 15 Report Share Posted January 15 Hello, what are the usual views on splitting 50/50 if in a rs? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Posted January 15 Report Share Posted January 15 3 hours ago, swimwithme said: Hello, what are the usual views on splitting 50/50 if in a rs? Or rather one pay for this meal and then next meal another one pay ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimwithme Posted January 15 Report Share Posted January 15 1 hour ago, Relationship said: Or rather one pay for this meal and then next meal another one pay ? that would be the usual norm, yea? since both have jobs. personally this is "right way"? some friends found it odd and would rather the guy pay for everything or pay for most of the expenses... your thoughts on this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted January 15 Report Share Posted January 15 (edited) 32 minutes ago, swimwithme said: that would be the usual norm, yea? since both have jobs. personally this is "right way"? some friends found it odd and would rather the guy pay for everything or pay for most of the expenses... your thoughts on this? Definitely not. Always go Dutch. Edited January 15 by Kimochi swimwithme 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 17 hours ago, swimwithme said: that would be the usual norm, yea? since both have jobs. personally this is "right way"? some friends found it odd and would rather the guy pay for everything or pay for most of the expenses... your thoughts on this? Yeah the norm. swimwithme 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 (edited) The purpose of a date is to get to know the other person. I would normally find an activity that will enable me to get to know the other person better. So no movies, shows, that sort of thing. One great date I had many years ago was to take a cooking class with this guy. We both learned to make our own food, and there was a lot of interaction going on and we got to know each other better. The best part was we get to eat the food we made, drank wine, laughed a lot, and got to share dessert (which was provided). This was one of the more fun and memorable dates I had. Unfortunately, we both live in different cities, and still ended up as friends. Edited January 16 by doncoin swimwithme and iKneadyou 2 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iKneadyou Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 On 1/15/2025 at 4:33 PM, Relationship said: Or rather one pay for this meal and then next meal another one pay ? I prefer this. No caculations swimwithme 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iKneadyou Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 8 hours ago, doncoin said: The purpose of a date is to get to know the other person. I would normally find an activity that will enable me to get to know the other person better. So no movies, shows, that sort of thing. One great date I had many years ago was to take a cooking class with this guy. We both learned to make our own food, and there was a lot of interaction going on and we got to know each other better. The best part was we get to eat the food we made, drank wine, laughed a lot, and got to share dessert (which was provided). This was one of the more fun and memorable dates I had. Unfortunately, we both live in different cities, and still ended up as friends. Strictly no movie dates for me cos no interaction. But wow, cooking class. That’s fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TigerYam Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 In my opinion, Cinema is a good place for dating. Sometimes, holding each other hands to watch a movie is so ROMANTIC. Talking too much is no good for dating. Talking is not the right way for interaction. Quote Life is short! Don't wait for the last minute to do what you like to do! Just do it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 15 hours ago, TigerYam said: In my opinion, Cinema is a good place for dating. Sometimes, holding each other hands to watch a movie is so ROMANTIC. Talking too much is no good for dating. Talking is not the right way for interaction. So how do get to know the guy you just met by simply holding hands and watching a movie? Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Movie date will waste 2hours cos minimal interaction. Might as well watch a show tgt at home Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted January 19 Author Report Share Posted January 19 at the movies u can do something else besides watching, lol as for 50/50, i personally fid it too calculative; i wld rather go for i pay forst, u pay next. unless there is a no next time, which is also no big deal to me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 (edited) Watch humsup movie bring jacket / blanket do humsup hand games under jacket / blanket 🤣🤣🤣 Edited January 19 by Kimochi T Gunner 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted January 19 Author Report Share Posted January 19 hand only? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimochi Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 19 minutes ago, egal said: hand only? lol You want other pattern also can. Provided you able to take it when sexposed / kena stomp or karen / lau auntie call Polis ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naked_boi Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 a date would be most ideal if the intention to connect is realised. the means or setting could range from a simple tete-a-tat at a cafe, kopi-shop or a deli to a cinema where the darkened atmosphere creates a cloak of mystery, daring and intimacy. personally, the most ideal could be anywhere so long as both parties feel happy and comfortable with each other and a smooth conversation flows. Enjoy your Sunday and your date. 😊 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TigerYam Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 On 1/18/2025 at 12:28 AM, doncoin said: So how do get to know the guy you just met by simply holding hands and watching a movie? Holding hands in the cinema are very normal. Anyway, nowadays cinema is not so crowded and we have watched a movie show just 2 of us. Why holding hands? Because it is so cold in the cinema, holding hands and sitting closer to make each other warmer. On 1/18/2025 at 11:05 AM, onlylonely said: Movie date will waste 2hours cos minimal interaction. Might as well watch a show tgt at home Do you think that is it so easy for people open their home to watch a show in Singapore? Definitely Not. Singapore people won't invite friends to their house because of privacies and family members. I don't find 2 hours interaction is a wasting time. In these 2 hours, I felt being love and enjoy the movie romantically. Unfortunately you don't have it. LoL. Quote Life is short! Don't wait for the last minute to do what you like to do! Just do it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TigerYam Posted January 19 Report Share Posted January 19 3 hours ago, egal said: at the movies u can do something else besides watching, lol as for 50/50, i personally fid it too calculative; i wld rather go for i pay forst, u pay next. unless there is a no next time, which is also no big deal to me Movie ticket prices are depend the type of movie that you are watching. Usually $9 onward .....the max $14.00 To me, treating people for a movie is very normal, you pay first, I pay next...haha, a bit calculative. Love a person, just pay all. No need to think so much. Relation can last longer including friendship. Dating a person....$50 spending is very normal in our high cost of living in Singapore. Quote Life is short! Don't wait for the last minute to do what you like to do! Just do it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted January 22 Author Report Share Posted January 22 very romantic nice food good company actually is it a cliche too say the location or restaurants food caourt etc does not matter if u like the company Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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