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Hello everyone. Today i got a handjob from a "massage parlor". While he was doing this he

sucked and tugged on my nipple with his mouth and teeth. All he did was give me a hand job and suck on my nipple. After that he cleaned my penis with tissues and a hot towel. After I left I got worried I got exposed to hiv from a nipple suck. If you guys can help thanks.

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1 hour ago, fattycatty162 said:

Hello everyone. Today i got a handjob from a "massage parlor". While he was doing this he

sucked and tugged on my nipple with his mouth and teeth. All he did was give me a hand job and suck on my nipple. After that he cleaned my penis with tissues and a hot towel. After I left I got worried I got exposed to hiv from a nipple suck. If you guys can help thanks.

 

In general, 

People can get HIV through:

  • vaginal/frontal and anal sex without a condom
  • sharing drug injecting equipment
  • sharing sex toys
  • mother-to-child transmission during pregnancy
  • coming into contact with contaminated blood.

Most activities pose no risk of getting or passing on HIV.

HIV cannot be passed on by:

  • kissing
  • hugging 
  • shaking hands
  • sharing space with someone
  • sharing a toilet 
  • sharing household items such as cups, plates, cutlery, or bed linen
  • any other general social contact.

For transmission to occur, the HIV in these fluids must get into the bloodstream of an HIV-negative person through a mucous membrane (found in the rectum, vagina, mouth, or tip of the penis), through open cuts or sores, or by direct injection (from a needle or syringe).

 

So, to answer your question, if there was no blood nor semen involved, transmission is unlikely to have taken place.

For more info, check these out:

https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv/about-hiv/how-hiv-transmitted

https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics/overview/about-hiv-and-aids/how-is-hiv-transmitted

 

Stay safe and stay calm.

If unsure go for a medical checkup.

 

Take care, and season's greetings.

Cheers

 


 

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4 hours ago, AgentFit said:

 

In general, 

People can get HIV through:

  • vaginal/frontal and anal sex without a condom
  • sharing drug injecting equipment
  • sharing sex toys
  • mother-to-child transmission during pregnancy
  • coming into contact with contaminated blood.

Most activities pose no risk of getting or passing on HIV.

HIV cannot be passed on by:

  • kissing
  • hugging 
  • shaking hands
  • sharing space with someone
  • sharing a toilet 
  • sharing household items such as cups, plates, cutlery, or bed linen
  • any other general social contact.

For transmission to occur, the HIV in these fluids must get into the bloodstream of an HIV-negative person through a mucous membrane (found in the rectum, vagina, mouth, or tip of the penis), through open cuts or sores, or by direct injection (from a needle or syringe).

 

So, to answer your question, if there was no blood nor semen involved, transmission is unlikely to have taken place.

For more info, check these out:

https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv/about-hiv/how-hiv-transmitted

https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics/overview/about-hiv-and-aids/how-is-hiv-transmitted

 

Stay safe and stay calm.

If unsure go for a medical checkup.

 

Take care, and season's greetings.

Cheers

 


 

hi, how long should i wait before taking medial checkup thanks

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28 minutes ago, fattycatty162 said:

hi, how long should i wait before taking medial checkup thanks

 

 I don't think you need any medical check up.

 

Just relax.

 

There is no way that any HIV infection would incur for a handjob and some nipple play.

 

There is also no need to freak out.

 

https://www.healthhub.sg/a-z/diseases-and-conditions/topics_hiv_aids

 

Instead of stressing yourself , just read it up.

 

 

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4 minutes ago, fattycatty162 said:

hi, how long should i wait before taking medial checkup thanks

 

It seems that a rapid antigen/antibody test done with blood from a finger stick can usually detect HIV 18 to 90 days after exposure. An antigen/antibody lab test using blood from a vein can usually detect HIV 18 to 45 days after exposure. 
For more info i
n terms of time period, check this: https://www.webmd.com/hiv-aids/hiv-window-period

 
This SG article is pretty useful on terms of tests and related resources : https://www.healthhub.sg/programmes/hiv-prevention

If there was no sexual penetration nor cuts in your skin, and there wasn't any semen nor blood involved, stay calm.  HIV spread through saliva is rather unheard of. 

Saliva and HIV:

  • While HIV can be found in saliva, the concentration is extremely low and insufficient to cause infection.
  • Saliva contains enzymes and proteins that inhibit the virus, making transmission through casual contact like kissing, sharing utensils, or drinks highly unlikely.
  • However, if both individuals have open wounds in their mouths or bleeding gums, there is an extremely minimal risk, but this is considered rare.

 Your mindset should be you are MOST unlikely to have contracted HIV and this test is only for confirmation to have complete peace of mind, rather than having the test to prove that you are at risk. 

 

Cheers, and may this season of peace prevail for you.

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8 hours ago, fattycatty162 said:

Hello everyone. Today i got a handjob from a "massage parlor". While he was doing this he

sucked and tugged on my nipple with his mouth and teeth. All he did was give me a hand job and suck on my nipple. After that he cleaned my penis with tissues and a hot towel. After I left I got worried I got exposed to hiv from a nipple suck. If you guys can help thanks.

 

Cheers, and happy holidays!   The fact that you freaked out full of worry about having contracted a STD,  is A GOOD SIGN.   Keep up this concern, that experience will make it more realistic,  and never lose it!   So many young guys, through inexperience and ignorance, expose themselves to so many dangers!!

 

While sex is so important throughout life, much, much more important is HEALTH.   If your discipline allows it,  limit your practice of sex and eventual exposure to infections as much as possible.  Life is long, and you can enjoy sex at 50 as much as at 20 if you care for your body and stay fit and healthy.  If we are turned on by beauty, as we age the guys appearing in the scene become younger and more attractive, ha ha.  Instead of letting loose on the allure of sex and rushing after it,  apply your energies to something more positive, like a good education and career, and instead of being used up as a sex object by others,  become richer and wiser,  and no less attractive with age. :thumb:

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Given your freak out, you should avoid all skin-to-skin contact for the foreseeable future. Basically, you should not have sex with another person ever for your own mental well-being and peace of mind. Every partner is a potential risk of exposure. As @Steve5380 said "So many young guys, through inexperience and ignorance, expose themselves to so many dangers!!"

 

Prioritize your mental well-being and do not ever have any physical/ skin-to-skin contact with another person. You will sleep better at night. 

Love. 

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11 hours ago, fattycatty162 said:

Hello everyone. Today i got a handjob from a "massage parlor". While he was doing this he

sucked and tugged on my nipple with his mouth and teeth. All he did was give me a hand job and suck on my nipple. After that he cleaned my penis with tissues and a hot towel. After I left I got worried I got exposed to hiv from a nipple suck. If you guys can help thanks.

 

Unless you are an idiot, HIV info can be gotten with Google search. 

Don't need to be so drama. 

Don't need to over react.

You won't die.

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23 hours ago, fattycatty162 said:

Hello everyone. Today i got a handjob from a "massage parlor". While he was doing this he

sucked and tugged on my nipple with his mouth and teeth. All he did was give me a hand job and suck on my nipple. After that he cleaned my penis with tissues and a hot towel. After I left I got worried I got exposed to hiv from a nipple suck. If you guys can help thanks.

with technology so prevalent these days, general info/data/knowledge are so accessible... yet you still can make a post like this!!! stupidity knows no end!  

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1. Most of the guys here have pointed to medical / government resources. I won't repeat their recommendation here.

2. If you still feel the need to "talk" with a human, can consider Action for Aids (AFA) Anonymous Testing. They have Counsellors who you can speak to face to face and get a hiv test. Book an appointment with them at https://afa.org.sg/what-we-do/hiv-sti-testing-and-linkage-to-care/anonymous-testing-service-ats/

 

From AFA website : https://afa.org.sg/what-we-do/hiv-sti-testing-and-linkage-to-care/anonymous-testing-service-ats/

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Window Period

The window period is the time between actual infection and the point when a test will reliably give an accurate result. Testing before the end of the window period may give you false negative results.

 

Test Window Period
HIV (4th Gen) Rapid Test

14 – 90 days

(2 weeks – 3 months)

HIV (3rd Gen) Rapid Test

21 – 90 days

(3 weeks – 3 months)

HIV Self-Testing Kit

45 – 90 days

(1.5 3 months)

 

You are therefore able to do your HIV test at our clinic after 14 days (2 weeks) after exposure, then confirm your status once more at the 90-day (3 months) mark. If you are unsure, our onsite counsellors will advise you on the most appropriate tests for you.

 

AfA only uses HSA-approved tests with a very high degree of accuracy. Nonetheless, all tests come with a small chance of false results, and our services are not meant to substitute for medical advice. If in doubt, clients should consult their doctor for formal medical advice.

 

3. Can also consider medical clinics to talk to a LGBT friendly medical doctor.

https://www.pulse-clinic.com.sg/

 

 

 

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