levi Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 (edited) There are lots of prc on Grindr but I think most of them use blued. Haven’t tried meetup with any Edited March 4 by levi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveswimming0714 Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 do update us if/when you have any exp hehe.. always love a good sex story Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 40 minutes ago, levi said: There are lots of prc on Grindr but I think most of them use blued. Haven’t tried meetup with any But plenty of them are scammers... To me it seems there are more nowadays than before. Take a good look at their pictures on the apps. if they look too brilliant, 99% those scammers. I never went so far to get to know their scam, but I already know their scheme of talking to you on the chat. a) They prefer to switch to Mandarin b) their English sounds like Google translate c) They never tell you their true exact location only general like "Bedok" but if you watch them out of sudden they are 189km away. d) they will start asking for your whatsapp etc very early in the chat and repeating the request for the number... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Relationship Posted March 4 Report Share Posted March 4 Correct. Fakes are everywhere now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinkymale Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 16 hours ago, singalion said: But plenty of them are scammers... To me it seems there are more nowadays than before. Take a good look at their pictures on the apps. if they look too brilliant, 99% those scammers. I never went so far to get to know their scam, but I already know their scheme of talking to you on the chat. a) They prefer to switch to Mandarin b) their English sounds like Google translate c) They never tell you their true exact location only general like "Bedok" but if you watch them out of sudden they are 189km away. d) they will start asking for your whatsapp etc very early in the chat and repeating the request for the number... The moment they say to chat on WhatsApp. I block them. Scammers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueduck Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 On 3/4/2025 at 3:03 PM, singalion said: a) They prefer to switch to Mandarin b) their English sounds like Google translate c) They never tell you their true exact location only general like "Bedok" but if you watch them out of sudden they are 189km away. d) they will start asking for your whatsapp etc very early in the chat and repeating the request for the number... Nice tips. I got one, And he said from Malaysia and asked me to download certain app and he said it's investing app then show some of screenshoot what he gain. Quote traveling around Greater Jakarta Traditional Massage Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egal Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 exactly many r ai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 On 3/5/2025 at 8:26 AM, tinkymale said: The moment they say to chat on WhatsApp. I block them. Scammers I am friendlier. You don't know if these guys are forced to do this by these crime gangs from China. The Thai military just entered into Myanmar some weeks ago to rescue 15,000 of these forced labour guys who were duped into doing these jobs. Even a Mainland Chinese pop star or actor was duped into doing a filming job but was kidnapped in Bangkok (!) to work into one of the Myanmar forced labour jail camps. Nowadays, I ask them if they need help or want me to call their embassy for help. My standard response is: "Are you trapped in one of the work jails by those crime gangs in Myanmar, Laos or Cambodia? Do you need me to contact your embassy for help? Where are you? Nationality? Name? Contact?" So far nobody ever responded to it... LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 (edited) Just to add there seem also more guys on the dating apps who try to lure your private pictures and then threaten you to publish them and just extort money from you. I totally ceased sending any nudes just to save the trouble of getting harassed. One guy tried this in Singapore (actually he intended to force me to have fun with him again (LOL). I just told him: "yeah publish the pics, I always wanted to be famous!" These guys seem to operate from Malaysia and/ or Thailand but could be from one of those work jails also. In Europe they caught some gangs, the guys were based in West Africa, look it up. You would wonder where they all had centers of operations... or people helping them to collect the monies... Tip: If it happens to you, just keep your cool. a) They don't have your contacts b) Publishing your nudes is an empty threat because unless they managed to hack into your contacts on your phone or email, who are they going to send the nudes? c) Tell your gay friend about what happened, he will keep you from doing any mistake in sending monies, because these gangsters just buy on the moment when you are under shock. Edited March 6 by singalion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 13 hours ago, blueduck said: Nice tips. I got one, And he said from Malaysia and asked me to download certain app and he said it's investing app then show some of screenshoot what he gain. Got this from an angmo in adelaide..he forced me to join this apps n invest. I blocked him. Knn...To me prostitutes are better than these scammers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iKneadyou Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 Some are legit. Some are scams. Just dont rush during the conversation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 Whoever ask for Whatsapp without much chatting is scammer. No need to waste time w those. And nowadays there are some who say view each other in cam naked if ok then arrange for sex. Don't be silly and believe. It's to record you for blackmail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Malabird Posted March 6 Popular Post Report Share Posted March 6 (edited) Not all PRC are bad scammers, I had memorable experience with two PRC who were working professionals in Singapore: 1) 炭, ‘Carbon’ was his nickname, an engineer in a semiconductor mnc here, he was a keen athlete, ran 12km thrice weekly, a savvy entrepreneur- he made more money from online sales than his full time engineering job. He is back in Wuhan. I missed his French kissing and deep throat skill. 2) ‘Braddell’ (where he stayed while in Singapore) was a bioscience researcher in NUS, he was great in drawing out your sperms reserve, a hot kisser and a wild bottom with irresistible technique of tightening his anus sphincter muscle during my pounding on him. I gave him a nickname ‘pink dolphin’ for he is a good swimmer and a species has sex for pleasure. he is now an associate professor in University of California Berkeley. I missed their hot bodies, the out of the box mindsets and intelligent conversation. They were very good in seductive foreplays. I also came across a Taiwanese male medical assistant (from the blued apps), he was working in SGH Heart Centre, he was 1.86m height and fit with a sexy waist, he was a gymnastics athlete in his secondary school. He used to rent a HDB unit in Bukit Merah with his elder sister when both worked in medical cares in Singapore. We had fun and we were ‘in love’ for a few months (only). He started asking for money after first date, claiming that he needed to buy medical reading materials for his upgrading. Each request was $100 to $150 and above. I only found out that he was doing that to several others and I know one of the willing ‘victims’. So, are all Taiwanese gays bad sheep ? Absolutely Not. I had a two years relationship during my overseas assignment in Taipei with a nice, tall, charming and hot chap. His surname is Gao, I gave him a nickname 高燙帥- (literally translated as Tall, Scorching Hot and Handsome). His smooth thighs and bubbly body locked my heart. Agreeing that there are more scammers in apps nowadays. Just be vigilant and don’t read a book from its cover. Some apps are flooded with more unscrupulous people. Cyberspace is a dangerous place. Edited March 9 by Malabird Kopi Gao, randomuse, hotfun and 3 others 3 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethan_Oleh Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 (edited) Alot of scammers now..you will never know as they are very professional..if not careful you may fall into their trap. Better be safe than sorry.. Recently some of my friends got scammed at dating apps..so please be careful as its not worth it. Edited March 6 by Ethan_Oleh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rice60640 Posted March 7 Report Share Posted March 7 If you only use your little head without using your big head to filter then trouble awaits. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum1outhere_03 Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 On 3/7/2025 at 7:27 AM, Malabird said: Not all PRC are bad scammers, I had memorable experience with two PRC who were working professionals in Singapore: 1) 炭, ‘Carbon’ was his nickname, an engineer in a semiconductor mnc here, he was a keen athlete, ran 12km thrice weekly, a savvy entrepreneur- he made more money from online sales than his full time engineering job. He is back in Wuhan. I missed his French kissing and deep throat skill. 2) ‘Braddell’ (where he stayed while in Singapore) was a bioscience researcher in NUS, he was great in drawing out your sperms reserve, a hot kisser and a wild bottom with irresistible technique of tightening his anus sphincter muscle. he is now in University of California Berkeley as an associate professor. I missed their hot bodies, the out of the boxes thinking and intellectual conversation. They were very good in seductive foreplays. I encountered a Taiwanese male medical assistant working in Heart Centre of SGH, he used to rent a HDB unit in Bukit Merah with his sister when both worked in Singapore. We had fun and he started to ask for money after first date, claiming that he needed to buy medical reading materials for his upgrading. Each request was $100 to $150 and above. I only found out that he was doing that to several others and I know one of the willing ‘victims’. So, are all Taiwanese gays bad sheep ? absolutely Not. I had a two years relationship during my overseas assignment in Taipei with a nice, tall, charming and hot chap. Agreeing that there are more scammers in apps nowadays. Just be vigilant and don’t read a book from its cover. Some apps are flooded with more unscrupulous people. Cyberspace is a dangerous place. The 2 Chinese guys sounds hot! Don't mind if I ask... How did you guys make the first convo?, and how did they start? Quote Will you be my valentine's? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
levi Posted March 8 Author Report Share Posted March 8 On 3/7/2025 at 7:27 AM, Malabird said: Not all PRC are bad scammers, I had memorable experience with two PRC who were working professionals in Singapore: 1) 炭, ‘Carbon’ was his nickname, an engineer in a semiconductor mnc here, he was a keen athlete, ran 12km thrice weekly, a savvy entrepreneur- he made more money from online sales than his full time engineering job. He is back in Wuhan. I missed his French kissing and deep throat skill. 2) ‘Braddell’ (where he stayed while in Singapore) was a bioscience researcher in NUS, he was great in drawing out your sperms reserve, a hot kisser and a wild bottom with irresistible technique of tightening his anus sphincter muscle. he is now in University of California Berkeley as an associate professor. I missed their hot bodies, the out of the boxes thinking and intellectual conversation. They were very good in seductive foreplays. I encountered a Taiwanese male medical assistant working in Heart Centre of SGH, he used to rent a HDB unit in Bukit Merah with his sister when both worked in Singapore. We had fun and he started to ask for money after first date, claiming that he needed to buy medical reading materials for his upgrading. Each request was $100 to $150 and above. I only found out that he was doing that to several others and I know one of the willing ‘victims’. So, are all Taiwanese gays bad sheep ? absolutely Not. I had a two years relationship during my overseas assignment in Taipei with a nice, tall, charming and hot chap. Agreeing that there are more scammers in apps nowadays. Just be vigilant and don’t read a book from its cover. Some apps are flooded with more unscrupulous people. Cyberspace is a dangerous place. You are the only one actually answering the question lol🥲🥲 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 On 3/7/2025 at 7:27 AM, Malabird said: Not all PRC are bad scammers, I had memorable experience with two PRC who were working professionals in Singapore: 2) ‘Braddell’ (where he stayed while in Singapore) was a bioscience researcher in NUS, he was great in drawing out your sperms reserve, a hot kisser and a wild bottom with irresistible technique of tightening his anus sphincter muscle. he is now in as an associate professor. Better not to mention the University where the guy works... Just a recommendation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Malabird Posted March 8 Popular Post Report Share Posted March 8 (edited) On 3/8/2025 at 8:09 AM, sum1outhere_03 said: The 2 Chinese guys sounds hot! Don't mind if I ask... How did you guys make the first convo?, and how did they start? The two young PRC hotties were not from apps. I got to know ‘Carbon’ 炭 in a technology symposium, I was one of the guest speakers. During the tea refreshment after my speaking slot, he approached me with his charming smiles and field question on my talking points, after a short chat he asked for my contacts. Subsequently we met twice for afternoon tea on weekday, we went to cafe near to the national orchid garden (in botanical garden), we chatted in the cozy Mt Faber peak cafe next to the cable car tower, our conversation began with nanotechnology, firmware programming, marathon run to topics like what slumber pillow we use… 😚 we moved the chat venue to his apartment in Caribbean condo, more topics to chat about…we proceed to an intensive laboratory session- we examined each other’s firm hardwares unclothed… As for the bioscientist ‘Pink Dolphin’, we met in the NUSS guild house pool in a quiet sunny Monday when there were few members/visitors, I soaked in the cool water under the hot sun, relaxing. I tried out butterfly strokes in the pool, he watched from across the pool, smiled then swam over, self intro and show me the right movements of butterfly style, I was appreciative and a little embarrassed. From there we became acquaints, I invited him to my place on the winter solstice day to dine, treating him with my simple cooking, had a good chat after meal, began with my curiosity about his research topic, he was a patient teacher, he dived into a topic of ‘born sexuality (and gayness)’ - he said it is due to complex interplay of genetic, hormonal and likely environmental factors… that occur before birth, etc; then suddenly he asked me would I feel differently about him if he is a gay, to be honest; that was an unexpected but exciting disclosure … what happened next was a logical development. Alright, it’s getting off topics; I can’t turn back the clock. It’s time to turn in, hopefully I may revisit the encounters in a rare wet dream. 😘 Edited March 10 by Malabird sum1outhere_03, randomuse, cutejack and 2 others 2 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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