If u are having yr birthday, will u guys go sauna and have fun with many guys?

[Cocksucker89]

If u are having yr birthday, will u guys go sauna and have fun with many guys?

[feilyxnixx]

11 minutes ago, Cocksucker89 said:

If u are having yr birthday, will u guys go sauna and have fun with many guys?

 

if that is what will make u happy , yes. just remember to stay safe. 😃 

[desmadonna]

39 minutes ago, Cocksucker89 said:

If u are having yr birthday, will u guys go sauna and have fun with many guys?

why not

[singalion]

On 3/8/2025 at 12:57 AM, desmadonna said:

why not

 

Just wonder whether the Management permits to deliver birthday cakes with burning candles into the dark maze... 🤣

[Steve5380]

If you are a regular sauna visitor, there is not much "special" with doing it.  So would you dedicate a special day like your birthday to do something that is not so special?

[Thatguy642]

While a group sex thing would probably be super nice for my birthday, I wouldn’t go into a sauna to be honest haha. It’s the fact that I don’t know who I’m with usually and whether it’s actually safe. That’s just me though!

[ZHF]

birthday is not necessary right

[yhtang]

1 hour ago, ZHF said:

birthday is not necessary right

 

Hmm, I suppose you are correct, but if you look at it, it was sex that ultimately lead to the birth and hence the birthday. 

Not same gender sex though, I concede. 😁 

[Mickey.Lois]

On 3/8/2025 at 12:18 AM, Cocksucker89 said:

If u are having yr birthday, will u guys go sauna and have fun with many guys?

based on what you ask, then its birthday for me every week!!!

[MobyDick]

Why not.. you get to blow different types of "Candles"

[yhtang]

26 minutes ago, MobyDick said:

Why not.. you get to blow different types of "Candles"

 

The word may be "blow" but the action is "suck" 😁

 

And don't forget to enjoy the "sweets" under the "candle"

[bluerunner]

On 3/11/2025 at 5:28 AM, Thatguy642 said:

While a group sex thing would probably be super nice for my birthday, I wouldn’t go into a sauna to be honest haha. It’s the fact that I don’t know who I’m with usually and whether it’s actually safe. That’s just me though!

I share the same sentiment. 
But then, you can still go to the gay sauna and not doing anything. Just to look see and to ‘relax’? Hehe

[Thatguy642]

1 hour ago, bluerunner said:

I share the same sentiment. 
But then, you can still go to the gay sauna and not doing anything. Just to look see and to ‘relax’? Hehe

Well the one time I was in the sauna it was pretty busy and guys came up immediately and pretty aggressively. A little hard to say no and just be a bystander when people are groping and feeling you up!

[singalion]

On 3/8/2025 at 12:18 AM, Cocksucker89 said:

If u are having yr birthday, will u guys go sauna and have fun with many guys?

 

You are free to do what you want on your birthday.

 

But don't you think a bit of out of sauna social life isn't better for you (also from a psychological viewpoint) ?

 

Celebrate with a bunch of friends...

Invite them, have some laughter and talk...

Share your birthday with people close to you (and not just close to your dick or butt).

 

Sex can also always do on other days.

 

And if there are no friends to celebrate with you, probably it is time to get some...

Don't end up lonely please.

 

 

[bluerunner]

2 hours ago, Thatguy642 said:

Well the one time I was in the sauna it was pretty busy and guys came up immediately and pretty aggressively. A little hard to say no and just be a bystander when people are groping and feeling you up!

Omg! That sounds pretty aggressive’. I don’t dare to go alone. 🫥

[yhtang]

2 hours ago, Thatguy642 said:

Well the one time I was in the sauna it was pretty busy and guys came up immediately and pretty aggressively. A little hard to say no and just be a bystander when people are groping and feeling you up!

 

9 minutes ago, bluerunner said:

Omg! That sounds pretty aggressive’. I don’t dare to go alone. 🫥

 

Omg! That sounds pretty exciting.  That's why I go to saunas!  😁😁 (Sorry, just joking).

Anyway, the sauna scene needs a bit of getting used to.  

But back to the topic, if you don't have any activities that rank higher in priority, and you enjoy going to the sauna, you birthday is as good a day as any to go visit a sauna.  Partake in the activities, initiate the activities, or just enjoy watching the activities - it is your day, and you should enjoy it whichever way you like.

 

[doncoin]

I had such a party when I turned 36. Not at a sauna, but a pool party at a beach house. It's an orgy basically. About 30+ guests. It was fun but the clean up the next day was a nightmare. 

 

 

[bluerunner]

8 hours ago, doncoin said:

I had such a party when I turned 36. Not at a sauna, but a pool party at a beach house. It's an orgy basically. About 30+ guests. It was fun but the clean up the next day was a nightmare. 

 

 

I enjoyed pool parties when I was in US. Some people have big garden where they placed a big bathtub outside in the garden and everyone soaked inside. Cost and good friendship bonding activities. 

[aftereightme]

8 hours ago, doncoin said:

I had such a party when I turned 36. Not at a sauna, but a pool party at a beach house. It's an orgy basically. About 30+ guests. It was fun but the clean up the next day was a nightmare. 

 

 

I was much earlier than you - having orgy fucking with 50+ at Bangkok when reaching 24 age

[Why?]

I didn't understand this topic's important meaning.   Imagine you eat cakes frequently, perhaps a few times a week or month and then on your birthday you bought yourself a cake again, and call it a special treat.  Really?  

[singalion]

1 hour ago, Why? said:

I didn't understand this topic's important meaning.   Imagine you eat cakes frequently, perhaps a few times a week or month and then on your birthday you bought yourself a cake again, and call it a special treat.  Really?  

 

You don't have anyone to buy you a cake on your birthday? Not even your mum?

 

The topic isn't about cakes but spending the birthday in a gay sauna to have fun with guys (as a birthday treat).

 

 

[Why?]

1 hour ago, singalion said:

 

You don't have anyone to buy you a cake on your birthday? Not even your mum?

 

The topic isn't about cakes but spending the birthday in a gay sauna to have fun with guys (as a birthday treat).

 

 

On my birthday, I go about my usual "activity" and I don't see anything particularly noteworthy about what I accomplished.  In fact, I don't remember anything remarkable or memorable on my birthday which I often tend to forget.  Saunas are just another place to kill time, have your regular dose of sex,  much like drinking at Starbucks on a calm afternoon for simple pleasure.  If finding your true mate is your birthday wish, then enjoy whatever or wherever your adventures take you on that "special day" of yours.

[doncoin]

15 hours ago, bluerunner said:

I enjoyed pool parties when I was in US. Some people have big garden where they placed a big bathtub outside in the garden and everyone soaked inside. Cost and good friendship bonding activities. 

 

It is. I enjoy the annual beach house rental my friends and I share for many years. We would plan parties, meals, etc. just chill for the most parts, especially now that we are all much older. Some have partnered up and bring their significant others along and enlarged the group, but it is always a good time. 

[Cocksucker89]

Well, I arrange a young couple to go in kb as we couldn't host. On that day, it was Saturday and the place is fully loaded with many guys. No rooms. Everyone standing outside the rooms, see see look look. Others say "standing there and model". 

[singalion]

On 3/13/2025 at 7:04 PM, Why? said:

On my birthday, I go about my usual "activity" and I don't see anything particularly noteworthy about what I accomplished.  In fact, I don't remember anything remarkable or memorable on my birthday which I often tend to forget.  Saunas are just another place to kill time, have your regular dose of sex,  much like drinking at Starbucks on a calm afternoon for simple pleasure.  If finding your true mate is your birthday wish, then enjoy whatever or wherever your adventures take you on that "special day" of yours.

 

surprised to read Starbuckz, that overrated and very expensive US American coffee chain.

You can send me a PM, I can forward to you much better Coffee places (not talking about hawker coffee shops), but I think there was a thread in the Foodie section on Coffee places in Singapore...

 

Since the Nov 2024 election in a big country in the Western hemisphere I actually tend to avoid buying or consuming anything from that part. Better to indulge into some good

Mexican Tequila instead of some Bourbon...

 

My other recommendation goes to you also: Before entering into the 50s start getting a group of good friends for social (non sexual activities) and do some Birthday treat with them. Nothing is better than getting some gifts and enjoying life (e.g. birthdays) with good friends and going by the sit long, talk much and laugh often motto.

 

[Why?]

On 3/18/2025 at 2:39 PM, singalion said:

You can send me a PM, I can forward to you much better Coffee places.

 

I am not a huge fan of coffee. if I prefer chocolate brew or herbal tea.

On 3/18/2025 at 2:39 PM, singalion said:

start getting a group of good friends for social (non sexual activities) and do some Birthday treat with them. Nothing is better than getting some gifts and enjoying life (e.g. birthdays)

 

Gifts, give me nightmares.  I don't know how to buy gift, neither am I fancying other people gifts which almost always ended in my trash bin.  A complete waste of people money.   With regard to "Good Friends",  you can't be sure what is good or bad these days.  Sometimes, it think  being around with friendly people suffice. A simple smile, a causual greetings asian style.  No obligations to adhere to their requests when you don't feel comfortable doing so. 

[iKneadyou]

I continue working on my birthday 🫠

[singalion]

On 3/22/2025 at 8:11 PM, Why? said:

I am not a huge fan of coffee. if I prefer chocolate brew or herbal tea.

Gifts, give me nightmares.  I don't know how to buy gift, neither am I fancying other people gifts which almost always ended in my trash bin.  A complete waste of people money.   With regard to "Good Friends",  you can't be sure what is good or bad these days.  Sometimes, it think  being around with friendly people suffice. A simple smile, a causual greetings asian style.  No obligations to adhere to their requests when you don't feel comfortable doing so. 

 

1) Even if you drink chocolate (which mostly isn't much real chocolate) or herbal tea at Starbuckz it is still overpriced and there are much better coffee outlets around in Singapore.

 

2) Most people here would have understood what I meant with a social life and celebrating birthday with friends

 

3) If you have a psychological issue on gifts, then this is your personal thing. If friends only gift you trash, then ok, I would still honour the initiative to make a gift.

You mean a nice book, travel guide, T-shirt or a gift voucher would end up in your trash bin?

 

4) Oh yes, who are truly good friends you will only know after some time. Mostly, if you are in need of someone, then they are around or make a sacrifice. maybe, when you move and they would be around to help with packing, or those who make an effort to send you off when you go overseas for a longer time, or who are around when you are in despair after a break up, job loss, accident, or something else that happened in your life or when you just need some good third party advice.

 

 

[fetish69]

 As for birthday is something I looked forward to. I have a bunch of 7 close friends unfortunately they are Malaysian, and they all similar mind set as in our preference in guys, fetishes and we all gym rats. In the plus me 5 pure tops as the other 2 flex top seldom get fuck. Every birthday all we book a private villa either in Bali, Phuket, and Koh Samui.

 

I know one of them at the and end up in bed. Soon after he invited me to have orgy and from there, we get closed at times some of them come to Singapore that put up at my place bring them out dinner, party, sauna and have small group fun. During the birthday we all busy with grindr or pick up guys from the bar or grindr or meet the guys that we all had fun before. Birthday boy doesn't have to plan anything as it well planned before we all reached the venue.

 

There will be a great music food drinks and there will be dress code. Top wearing jockstrap with leather arm bands, Flex wearing super low-rise swimming trunk and Btm wearing red thong or G-string. All guess mostly from they we had session with rarely from the bar or grindr. All the guests must be at the villa by 10am to 11am so far no late comer. Once inside all mobile bag and clothes will be kept in one room and we lock that door for safe keeping.

 

Once all with their own designated gear follow by ice breaking drink lounging around lunch than watch movies, we closed all the curtain and watch movies follow re organized the furniture to make space. We get in house chef for nice barbeque food. The catering we get is gay friendly, so both the chef and guest is at peace of mind. After dinner will be end around 10pm we get all the drinks out and mixes out plus all the nuts and chip is served. 

 

Before cutting cake there is a game and there is small show there will be go go dancer after that there dancing as I bring my laptop and plug to the villa sound system which not fantastic but fairly fine for small gatherings of 25 ppl. As night getting wild, I can see my frens and the guy busy fucking by those times undies all over the place. For me i  busy sniffing undies around me while my cock busy being served. Before the event 7 us will have Kimagra that bought from a legal vendor. The event end next day late evening. This birthday celebration will be celebrated each of the 7 of us. Glad till this day we stay strong and decide to get small plot of land In Malaysia for our retired home for 7 of us which under planning now if goes well it finalized the location. Now we window shop the land plot to build our retired home. Our group consist of 3 Malay, 2 Chinese, 1 Chindian and 1 Eurasian.